#the gender-fluid vibe(？)

[inkskinned]

so one of the things that's so horrifying about birth control is that you have to, like, navigate this incredibly personal choice about your body and yet also face the epitome of misogyny. like, someone in the comments will say it wasn't that bad for me, and you'll be utterly silenced. like, everyone treats birth control like something that's super dirty. like, you have no fucking information or control over this thing because certain powerful people find it icky.

first it was the oral contraceptives. you went on those young, mostly for reasons unrelated to birth control - even your dermatologist suggested them to control your acne. the list of side effects was longer than your arm, and you just stared at it, horrified.

it made you so mentally ill, but you just heard that this was adulthood. that, yes, there are of course side effects, what did you expect. one day you looked up yasmin makes me depressed because surely this was far too intense, and you discovered that over 12,000 lawsuits had been successfully filed against the brand. it remains commonly prescribed on the open market. you switched brands a few times before oral contraceptives stopped being in any way effective. your doctor just, like, shrugged and said you could try a different brand again.

and the thing is that you're a feminist. you know from your own experience that birth control can be lifesaving, and that even when used for birth control - it is necessary healthcare. you have seen it save so many people from such bad situations, yourself included. it is critical that any person has access to birth control, and you would never suggest that we just get rid of all of it.

you were a little skeeved out by the implant (heard too many bad stories about it) and figured - okay, iud. it was some of the worst pain you've ever fucking experienced, and you did it with a small number of tylenol in your system (3), like you were getting your bikini line waxed instead of something practically sewn into your body.

and what's wild is that because sometimes it isn't a painful insertion process, it is vanishingly rare to find a doctor that will actually numb the area. while your doctor was talking to you about which brand to choose, you were thinking about the other ways you've been injured in your life. you thought about how you had a suspicious mole frozen off - something so small and easy - and how they'd numbed a huge area. you thought about when you broke your wrist and didn't actually notice, because you'd thought it was a sprain.

your understanding of pain is that how the human body responds to injury doesn't always relate to the actual pain tolerance of the person - it's more about how lucky that person is physically. maybe they broke it in a perfect way. maybe they happened to get hurt in a place without a lot of nerve endings. some people can handle a broken femur but crumble under a sore tooth. there's no true way to predict how "much" something actually hurts.

in no other situation would it be appropriate for doctors to ignore pain. just because someone can break their wrist and not feel it doesn't mean no one should receive pain meds for a broken wrist. it just means that particular person was lucky about it. it should not define treatment.

in the comments of videos about IUDs, literally thousands of people report agony. blinding, nauseating, soul-crushing agony. they say things like i had 2 kids and this was the worst thing i ever experienced or i literally have a tattoo on my ribs and it felt like a tickle. this thing almost killed me or would rather run into traffic than ever feel that again.

so it's either true that every single person who reports severe pain is exaggerating. or it's true that it's far more likely you will experience pain, rather than "just a pinch." and yet - there's nothing fucking been done about it. it kind of feels like a shrug is layered on top of everything - since technically it's elective, isn't it kind of your fault for agreeing to select it? stop being fearmongering. stop being defensive.

you fucking needed yours. you are almost weirdly protective of it. yours was so important for your physical and mental health. it helped you off hormonal birth control and even started helping some of your symptoms. it still fucking hurt for no fucking reason.

once while recovering from surgery, they offered you like 15 days of vicodin. you only took 2 of them. you've been offered oxy for tonsillitis. you turned down opioids while recovering from your wisdom tooth extraction. everything else has the option. you fucking drove yourself home after it, shocked and quietly weeping, feeling like something very bad had just happened. the nurse that held your hand during the experience looked down at you, tears in her eyes, and said - i know. this is cruelty in action.

and it's fucked up because the conversation is never just "hey, so the way we are doing this is fucking barbaric and doctors should be required to offer serious pain meds" - it's usually something around the lines of "well, it didn't kill you, did it?"

you just found out that removing that little bitch will hurt just as bad. a little pinch like how oral contraceptives have "some" serious symptoms. like your life and pain are expendable or not really important. like maybe we are all hysterical about it?

hysteria comes from the latin word for uterus, which is great!

you stand here at a crossroads. like - this thing is so important. did they really have to make it so fucking dangerous. and why is it that if you make a complaint, you're told - i didn't even want you to have this in the first place. we're told be careful what you wish for. we're told that it's our fault for wanting something so illict; we could simply choose not to need medication. that maybe if we don't like the scraps, we should get ready to starve.

we have been saying for so long - "i'm not asking you to remove the option, i'm asking you to reconsider the risk." this entire time we hear: well, this is what you wanted, isn't it?

#where's the word woman in this u might wonder if u suck #good news i am nonbinary and have a uterus so that is something that can happen #im also gender fluid tho which means im immune to certain psychic damage bc if u call me a woman i'll be like <3 okay <3 #writeblr #the tightrope of ''ppl need access to this'' #and like also #''what the fuck is going on over there'' is like. so difficult as an activist #i was <3 punctured <3 during mine #and almost bled out on the table :) they didn't have anyone standing by bc it's ''just a little insertion'' #so i started crashing and i vaguely remember apologizing for the fuss as i heard my heart rate monitor start going <3 tachycardic <3 #she wasn't even a bad doctor tbh #ps btw the reason i even HAD a heart monitor is that i have a genuine heart condition and they knew GOING IN that there was a chance #i'd crash on the table #like my heart just likes to do fun little tricks and <3 stop working <3 (i do not want to discuss the specifics ty i am okay im ontop of it #and they were like 'oh u will be fine' and then she did do a puncture thru my uterus . pop! #and im sitting there dizzy and feeling my heartrate start to drop bc it feels almost. beautiful. like. the whole ground just #woosh! out from under you. and shit is like grey's anatomy. i'm looking up at her grey eyes #she's old she wears this nice shawl she's like got Cool Lesbian vibes and people are sprinting into the room #from other parts of the clinic unrelated to me. while the monitor is like a little aria singing #and shes like hey youre okay stay awake stay with me something went wrong we have to keep trying #and i remember thinking - i was trying to think of nice things. i have so many beautiful places that now overlap #with this terrible memory #i became dimly aware that there was too much on her wrists and hands. like #that was too many liters #and then when they had finished all this. i packed up and drove myself home #i have had (bad thing) happen to me. and the same feeling happened after #that numb almost lamblike bleating. you cry without noise. like. ur body is so shocked and ur mind so empty #you just stare at the road and everything everything is happening behind glass and static and you are standing so far away from it #while you hold ur hands at 10 and 2. and something in ur brain is SCREAMING at you - IT WAS BAD AND IT SHOULDNT HAVE HAPPENED #and ur just watching the alarms in your body going off and youre thinking. a little pinch! ha. i think i just lost something important.

[dreamlandcreations]

Imagine that your power is that you are able to mimic other powers...

Imagine that your power is that you are able to mimic other powers and you accidentally copy Jordan's, resulting in changing your gender and being stuck like that...

#jordan li x reader #fem!reader #I mean originally #jordan li #gen v #gen v imagine #jordan li imagine #my stuff #my fics #or not #I was going with non-binary/gender fluid/gender-nonconforming vibe for the reader in the idea #ramblings #in the tags #don't mind me #daydreaming fics #sharing crumbles

[stormcrow13]

So I think these cards are a pretty good illustration of why I joke about my gender being Simic.

(I'm gender fluid if you couldn't tell)

#simic #mtg #gender #magic the gathering #gender fluid #gender fluid vibes #thing i said

[saym0-0]

hi hello heres jonny in a pirate hat peace and love

#jonny d'ville #pirate au #except they're already pirates #so different kind of pirate au #the mechanisms #the mechs #idk why she has bangs it just fits The Vibe #she seems the type to give herself ramdom haircuts no mirror no hair scissors only the ones she stole from the kitchen drawer and a dream #jonny in my brain is some type of bigender/gender fluid something but i cant stop she/hering her #just know that every time i draw jonny she could be using any pronouns but is currently she/her #my art

[stevyguts]

Did pepperman only wore what he wore during his visit with Pizz as a disguise or does he always like to dress up pretty?

In this au, pepperman likes to dress however they seem fit :]

#pizza tower #pepperman #the vigilante #pizza tower au #domestic route au #green m&m pre sneakers vibes #pepperman only came out as gender fluid a year before the start of domestic route #pepperman uses he/they

[moeblob]

Fiiiiiiiine. Alear can have purple freckles AS A TREAT.

#fe engage #alear #anyway really random trivia about how i see alear is #unlike the previous diff gender protag picks where i see them as distinct personalities #alear is 100% gender fluid to me ? #i dont so far see either one as canon nor preferred ??? or different? #alear is alear and honestly i think thats a great vibe to be #like i know a lot of people who latch onto one version of alear but i cant seem to do that and i love that for both of them #alear is cool guys idk have purple freckles #i dont know how to really word it right hence me shoving it in the tags so not everyone has to see it... but #i love me this gender fluid protag

[phoenixcatch7]

Persephone captain marvel au. Hear me out.

Associated with duality, reincarnation, resurrection, childhood innocence (and it getting ripped away by adults), and her 'counterpart' Kore, which is her in her returning aspect of spring, youthfulness, new life... Come on. Is that not the closest thing to Billy you've ever seen in ancient Greece? Where he gets his powers?

It all starts with Teth Adam, and his devastation at the death of his son. He finds the old paths, breaks them open, and storms down into the underworld to demand him back. His is not a new story.

But where Persephone might ordinarily be inclined to ease her husband's scorn, give the troubled mourner a chance, she is speaking to the champion of magic, the world's mightiest mortal. The chance of success is too high. The challenge would not be enough. The death was too high profile and would risk too many attempting to follow in his footsteps. The man is too unstable, too powerful, too close to the heart of magic for it to be safe - for any of him - to grant his wish and risk his false hope.

They deny him.

Enraged, implacable, Teth Adam lashes out. The battle is long and drawn out, neither side tiring even as both weaken, but Persephone, in either form, is not one of war, and she is felled as her curses shatter, her furies tossed aside like dolls. The sound of Hades' scream as Adam's surprise leaves him open flattens the rubble of their throne room.

The wounded champion escapes, hounded by cerberus and skeletons instead of his son's shade, as her husband crashes to his knees beside her. She has not a mortal soul, and thus will be going where even Death cannot reach.

But Adam killed the goddess of reincarnation, and Billy has odd dreams. He's pretty sure he needs to ease up on the stress. He's restless in winter and distracted in summer, he can sleep outside in howling storms as long as he's tucked snug in the boughs of a tree, he's had the luck of never tasting a rotten fruit. Sometimes it feels like there's ghosts in his hideouts and the kids at school try and bribe him to curse their enemies.

When he chosen to be Captain Marvel the wizard chokes on his own speech when the smoke clears. They stare at each other.

"Well," says Persephone, "that was unexpected. Hullo."

"Hello," the wizard replies, "I was under the impression..."

"I don't think the laws of interference quite apply until I'm immortal again," he says.

The wizard's relief is palpable. It's understandable, he looks ready to keel over from old age. "Can I ask...?" he gestures at the new body. It takes a second to understand.

"Oh, I'm a boy now. For a while."

And that's that.

Until green lantern is killed in battle.

#Billy as Kore - spring youth maiden flowers #And the captain as persephone - death curses ghosts reincarnation. ✨royalty✨ #I especially like that it works with whatever interpretation of cap/Billy you have! #Aspects of the same person. Billy having a limited recollection of his past life and minimal powers compared to cap's fully grown self #Also the idea of big burly sunshine strength cap being in truth the Soul of a young innocent maiden kidnapped from her family would #Infuriate in universe alpha males. Brings me life. #Billy/Kore: innocent cinnamon roll too good for this world too pure #Cap/persephone: gaslight gatekeep girlboss #Cap would keep his death powers under wraps and NEVER curse. Unless it's Adam or darksied or something. Then a simple 'gtfo' works #Not that he ever keeps it simple. Everyone on comms has their ears SCALDED. They're all in shock. Cap stops just short of another 10 plague #Cap (looking at gls body): aw my husband's gonna be so mad at me *rolls up sleeves* #Gender queer Billy vibes ftw #I'd say bigender or gender fluid. Bigender needs more rep. #Wonder woman is shooketh but glad. Her uncle has Not been a happy bunny. #Idk just isn't it cool??? #shazam #billy batson #captain marvel #dc captain marvel #dc comics #justice league #wizard shazam #rock of eternity #greek myth au #Kinda #persephone #Kore #black adam #<< man boutta get a whooping from his precious victim who got the ultimate power up

[fregget-frou]

Here’s 5 of my listener OCs!

These guys are fruity so here are their names!

Sweetheart: Sarri (she/he/they)

Freelancer: Benny (he/they/she)

Lovely: Forrest (they/xe/he)

Baabe: Lyecus (they/them)

Angel: Aklaq(they/them)

#none of my listeners are cis #we got 2 nonbinaries #an agender and genderqueer #and a gender-fluid #also Ben’s going through a gender crisis rn #he’s struggling ok their giving off a bit of trans fem vibe rn #redacted asmr #freggzocs #freggzartz #redacted asmr freelancer #redacted audio fanart #redacted audio #redacted asmr fanfic #redacted asmr fanart #redacted asmr lovely #redacted asmr sweetheart #redacted asmr listener #redacted asmr au #redacted asmr angel #redacted asmr art #redacted asmr babe #redacted asmr david #hehehee please love then #they’re all so pretty #also I may have a slight favoritism towards angel #gendered listener #fem sweetheart #masc freelancer

[gremlin-pattie]

#based on how i have felt at different points #it’s fluid for me #‘can i take this if i’m cis?’ yes of course. this is about vibes #gender #queer #nonbinary #genderqueer #gender nonconforming #lgbtq+ #trans #transgender #poll #polls

[grabmyboner]

turns out my roommates cat that we’ve been calling a girl for the past 7 months is actually a boy with very very small male genitalia. even the vet was surprised at how small her testicles are

#we’ve decided she is gender fluid and can use whatever pronouns she wants #we’ll call her different pronouns based on the vibes she’s giving that day #like for example; the day they ripped a piece of ham out of my hand as I was making a sandwich > ‘they/them’ #when she clawed at my hand for touching her paws with no consent > ‘she/her’ #when he pushes his brother off the cat tower in a lion king reenactment > ‘he/him’ #times when it stares into my literal soul > ‘it’ #cats of tumblr #cat #cats #gender fluid #transgender #lgbtq

[punskina]

this character literally came to me in a dream and i really wanted to draw them

#Puns Art #Puns OC #not sure what her name should be yet..... #i know he/she/they're gender fluid tho #i know it that visually the character is really similar to Kent #lol.... #i guess drawing/making characters like that is my just my thing??? #i have a type???????? #but more in like 'this is just very /gender/ to me and i really like it #kinda a vibe i am striving for personally too tbh

[muffledexplosion162]

they have the same vibe and you can’t change my mind

#digital art #artwork #drawing #tadc zooble #moony #ena moony #they have the same vibes #tadc #the amazing digital circus zooble #i’m dying #jesus fucking christ #moony ena #Both gender fluid #and don’t #give a fuck #about anything #i made this #when I was sick af

[0venatrix]

The autism getting shook from being called “he” because I’m not used to it, but then I go “No that’s better, it’s just change feels weird.”

#As I type this out my gender dose teh wiggity wack and it’s a little less fine #particularly when your just vibing and kinda just disassociating and so you forgot gender exists #It feels like a when I got nick named River and people started calling me that #It felt so weird but now if you say river in a convo I’m like “yer g’day.” #gender stuff #pronouns #genderfluid #gender identity #mogai gender #gender fluid

[siriuslygay1981]

"Whose your Sirius-"

It is the little person I found on tik Tok who comes up on my page randomly with wild rants. They are so pretty and silly and she screams Sirius to me. Also autistic Sirius. Like this is him.

#they dont care that people only respect their prns bc theyre hot #thats sirius coded #this person gives sirius vibes fr #the prns depend i for one love gender fluid sirius #but also cis sirius who dresses fem #absolutely #or trans ftm sirius whose fem #yes #actually theres this one fic that represents how i see sirius #idr its name #sirius black #sirius o black #sirius orion black #harry potter marauders #the marauders era #marauders era #the marauders #i still like ben barnes as sirius #or that one guy whose in a show and theyre dating that remus fc #also david thewlis will forever be remus #but i also like andrew garfield #i mostly see remus and sirius the way some artists draw them #its a wild mix of irl actors and drawings ive seen

[zebrashork]

HEY FRIENDS WHO AREN'T CISGENDER I HAVE VERY IMPORTANT THINGS TO SAY

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND PERFECT AND NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS, YOU CAN IDENTIFY HOW YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE, YOU DON'T OWE EXPLANATIONS TO ANYONE

DRESS THE WAY YOU WANT, EXPRESS THE WAY YOU WANT, YOU DON'T OWE ANYONE ANYTHING

NOW PLEASE REMEMBER TO DRINK WATER, TAKE YOUR MEDS, AND JUST TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF IN GENERAL

I LOVE Y'ALL

#transgender #trans rights #transisbeautiful #nonbinary #agender #gender identity #gender fluid #i am sending good vibes in y'all's direction #you cannot stop it #this is your daily reminder

[in-tua-deep]

Do people really see genderbends as black and white or am I seeing some bad takes today rip

I genderbend characters all the time oop I’m constantly taking characters and saying “you have non-binary energy” and running with that new headcanon

#me staring at all my fav characters: u are now enby #also half the reason I realized I was non-binary was being amused by genderbends and saying ‘man they’re freaking out over nothing’ #like my confusion around why they cared so much about changing back or whatever #idk I’ve seen them done well and I’ve seen them done badly #different strokes for different folks and all that #the same water that softens the potato hardens the egg #sometimes u vibe with content and sometimes u don’t #if you don’t that okay it just means that content isn’t for you #me shoving all my enby and gender-fluid headcanons into my purse: I have to go right now