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10underoot2 · 7 hours

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I'm here in my agony to say that discussion between Haein and Hyunwoo after he moved his stuff into the nursery will kill me with how painful it is.

They're both in so much pain it's visible there but they're unable to talk to each other about it.

'How could you move your stuff without telling me?' She's so hurt. Her tone is accusatory. She's hurt that she just emptied her unborn child's nursery and her husband decides to move away from her as well.

'You never told me you were emptying this room either.' He's pained that they've lost a much awaited child and she didn't bother consulting him before removing everything. He didn't get his closure. He's angry and upset and so hurt but he doesn't know that he needs to get through a very strongly wrought shield around her heart to have her acknowledge his pain.

'What are you getting at? Are you blaming me for the miscarriage?'

I never imagined Haein would think Hyunwoo would want to blame her. I want to cry that in her grief she failed to have enough faith in him and his love. She's hurt by his decision to move out so she takes it out on him. She's a classical study of saying something to completely annihilate the other when you're the one who's hurt.

Also, (this pained me more than anything) notice the extreme softness and absence of anger in his voice as he responds to her.

'What are you saying? I never thought that way.'

His anger and pain seeps back in when he confesses to her, 'I'm just as sad as you -'

'Don't lie. I know you want to say that it's my fault!' I wanted to yell at her to stop. I'm so sad that she let her past trauma catch up. Is that all she's thought about since she got the news of the miscarriage? That Hyunwoo would blame her? Her fears, her pain, her assumptions they all won. And they played a part in driving them apart.

'Forget it. I can't talk any sense into you.'

I think this is the most realistic line I've heard in a Kdrama. Because people do tend to in their anger and pain just give up. Hyunwoo couldn't deal with her accusing him of something he never did, he couldn't deal with her inability to listen and acknowledge his pain as well. So he walked away - it was just simpler, easier to do.

It's also reminding me of how he told her that if they lived in a closed space they would have been forced to confront each other. They were bound to hear the other cry and console the other then. When I think about the absolutely painful, lonely, cold two years that followed this, it makes me so sad.

I didn't know a minute long scene could send me in a spiral of sadness. As sad as a miscarriage is I've had immense clarity that it never implied that they could never have children. Not to dismiss their pain it's all very valid, but if they worked towards getting closure sooner they could have been so much stronger and probably could have had a child sooner. It makes me sad how the pain rendered them incapable to mend and work towards their relationship.

#it's a minute long but it's been an hour and I'm still in pain #i never expected this confrontation to have happend #god help these two smoll cute beans #they've been through so much #ans they've come so far #queen of tears #baek hyun woo #hong hae in #kim ji won #kim soo hyun #baekhong #baby 1031 #you were so loved

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bebyebeeh · 7 months

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RIP the Black brothers, they would've loved Over The Garden Wall

#they deserve happines #you wont catch me drawing black brothers angst #angst isnt allowed in this household #they've been through so much #im giving them the childhood they deserved #sirius black #regulus black #black brothers #the marauders #marauders era #marauders #harry potter

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elejah-wonderland · 8 months

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elejah_au

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He loved her. More than he’d thought it possible to love someone. And it wasn’t a new love born of mere lust and attraction, the sort of infatuated love that skated over the polished surface and was afraid to look too closely at what might lie beneath. No, this was love that had started before he understood what it was. A love that had faced every difficult thing and had endured.

_kelly bowen

#elejah #elena gilbert #elijah mikaelson #alternative universe #tvd au #tvd imagines #elena and elijah #fanfiction #always&forever #it's about always and forever #quote #elijah confessing his love #they've been through so much #he nearly lost her

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dandylion240 · 6 months

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You Are the Reason by Calum Scott

And if I could turn back the clock I'd make sure the light defeated the dark I'd spend every hour, of every day Keeping you safe

And I'd climb every mountain And swim every ocean Just to be with you And fix what I've broken Oh, 'cause I need you to see That you are the reason

#evan o'neil #jayden reagan #ts4 #playlist #jayden has the smolder down #love them #will always be a favorite #they've been through so much

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ohkate · 6 months

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Cole and Byron - Tale as old as time...

#they've been through so much #ian and mickey #ian gallagher #mickey milkovich #ian x mickey #gallavich #these poor bastards #the real love story on this show #shameless

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eating-radioactive-pebbles · 1 year

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#their therapist's therapist ends up needing a therapy too #praying for their mental health rn #they've been through so much #lmk #lmk mk #lmk swk #lmk s4 #lego monkie kid #monkie kid #monkie kid s4 #lmk sun wukong #lmk qi xiaotian

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maspers · 7 months

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Mickey Mouse, who has been canonically married to Minnie offscreen since 1933: "Please, please let me make passionate love to my wife, it's been nearly a century, it doesn't have to be onscreen, I just need her to know that I love her!" Disney Executives: "Absolutely not. You could end up having a child, and that would ruin you and Minnie's eternally youthful image." Mickey: "And would that be so bad? Next Generation plots have been popular for decades! You let Goofy have Max!" Executives: "Actually we've decided to retcon Max as being a result of Mitosis." Mickey: "OH SCREW YOU!"

#disney #mickey mouse #minnie mouse #yeah so im fully on board #with the idea that Mickey and Minnie hate disney as much as everyone else does #they've been through so much #let them have a break for once #idk how to tag this

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mariondanslorage · 10 months

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#rabbit #bunny #best friends #analog photography #b&w #black and white #Cyrielle #Clémentine #Merlin #I love those women #they've been through so much

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womanofwords · 8 months

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The Cowboy's Nap

Dedicated to @feathergil because they need this. They tried to do the right thing and they did not deserve the aftermath of that. I read something on their blog about cowboys and I wrote this based on that. I used he/they pronouns for @feathergil's character because I wasn't sure what their pronouns were but read that they were transmasc.

Gil the cowboy bear was supposed to be getting some rest.

Emphasis on supposed to be.

Instead, he was digging his fingers into the tummy of the little thief who had tried to make off with his hat and his horse. "Honestly, how did you even survive this long being this ticklish?" they asked them, as they squirmed and squealed in his arms.

"I'm sorry!" the thief wailed, laughing hysterically as the fingers on one of Gil's hands dug into the pooch of their lower tummy. The other hand was digging into their ribcage.

"This is just adorable. I should do this to everyone that tries to steal from me," Gil teased. The hands suddenly jumped up and scribbled at their armpits, and the thief melted into their own laughter.

"AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!" the thief laughed. "PLEHEHEHEHEHEASE LET ME GOHOHOHOHOHO! I'LL NEHEHEHEHEHEVER STEAL AGAHAHAHAHAHAIN!"

"I've heard that one before," the bear mused, letting his nails slowly trace the ribcage of the unfortunate thief. "I think you got too many ribs, here. Maybe you stole these, too. Hold still, doll."

The desert was filled with laughter and begging for hours.

Gil probably wouldn't get to have that nap that he wanted.

But he didn't mind about that too much.

#creative writing #my writing #tribute fic #because i can #and because they deserve it #writing inspiration #they've been through so much #writers on tumblr #writeblr #writers #writing #writerscommunity #tickle fic #tickles #ticklish #cowboy #others ocs #technically

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kiwichaeng · 1 year

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Manifest writers let a couple be happy challenge

#manifest netflix #YOU KILL GRACE YOU BREAK UP SAANVI AND ALEX YOU KILL ZEKE YOU KILL VIOLET #leave my babies Olive and TJ ALONE IF ANYTHING HAPPENS TO THEM #they've been through so much #neither olive nor i can handle anymore loss #manifest spoilers #evie's random shit

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choppedupnotkilled · 6 months

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The first time that Seymour and Audrey literally slept together in their tract house, they slept for like three days out of exhaustion.

#proship #proshipper safe #lsoh #little shop of horrors #seymour lsoh #audrey lsoh #seymour x audrey #lsoh headcanon #they've been through so much #personal post

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1lovepeace · 2 years

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My Two Favorite Ethari Lines In "Ghost":

"Take My Hand"

It's only three words, but the emotions are so soft, pure and sincere when Ethari speaks. After having an overwhelming and emotional rollercoaster ride while being socially deprived for the last few days, this moment with Rayla meant everything to him. Because he couldn't bear to let her leave without seeing her again. He wanted to be there for her. He wanted to have his daughter in his life again. Sharing this heartfelt connection and beautiful interaction gave him the emotional comfort, stability, support and reassurance that he needed, even if it's just for one moment.

"There You Are"

This line always makes me tear up. He was filled with such pure fondness. You can hear the overwhelming relief, joy and happiness in Ethari's voice and in his smile when he sees Rayla. Sharing a heartwarming embrace that he's been missing for so long. It gave him hope and a purpose again.