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genderqueerdykes · 3 months
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here's to trans men with anger issues. here's to trans men who are loud or raise their voices without realizing, neurodivergent or otherwise. here's to trans men who get irritable or frustrated or impatient easily due to trauma, neurodivergence, mental illness, pain, or other disabilities, here's to trans men who can't take care of themselves, here's to trans men who can't stuff down their emotions, here's to trans men with violent intrusive thoughts, here's to trans men who snap without meaning to, here's to paranoid and psychotic trans men who become scared or hostile toward others without causing violence due to delusions and hallucinations, here's to trans men who struggle with homicidal ideation
here's to trans men who are bitter and angry and don't want to get better, here's to trans men who have tried to recover from trauma and have failed, here's to trans men who can't access proper mental health care because they aren't taken seriously, here's to trans men with mental health care trauma, here's to trans men who cope poorly with anger and hit inanimate objects and do "scary" things that don't actually hurt other people physically or emotionally.
here's to trans men with complicated mental health issues who need help but get insulted and called mean, rude, scary, shitty, assholes, dicks, jackasses and abusers. here's to trans men being human, too, and struggling with things just like anyone else. that doesn't make us evil, we are heavily traumatized by cisheteronormative society. here's to trans men who don't hurt other people but get told they do because people won't let men struggle with their emotions. i love you. you're loved. keep your chin up.
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youturningintodust · 3 months
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READ BUTCH IS A NOUN
free (pdf)!
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If you're butch, femme, or love someone who is, read this book. SO slept on.
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massobituaries · 2 months
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God I love being butch
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equinoxians · 2 months
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🌈 lesbian pride kandi bracelet with lollipop charm!✨
item is now available in our shop, Equinoxian @ ko-fi.com! purchasing this item supports a disabled intersex trans lesbian who is homeless & struggling with housing! i am currently living in a hotel and need to be able to afford more nights in order to stay safe while i wait for government housing to be approved!
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jasontoddssuper · 9 months
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Diversity win!Hot girl is also a pretty boy!
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st-dionysus · 1 year
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Gang, I am looking for a photograph I know exists, but I can not find. It is a historic black and white photo of a group of butches/transmen with a sign that say's "Who says there are no boys in Chaigao" (I believe, in reference to the draft)
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androgynealienfemme · 11 months
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"I know what butch is. Butches are not beginner FTMs, except that sometimes they are, but it's not a continuum except when it is. Butch is not a trans identity unless the butch in question says it is, in which case it is, unless the tranny in question says it isn't, in which case it's not. There is no such thing as butch flight, no matter what the femmes or elders say, unless saying that invalidates the opinions of femmes in a sexist fashion or the opinions of elders in an ageist fashion. Or if they're right. But they are not, because butch and transgender are the same thing with different names, except that butch is not a trans identity, unless it is; see above."
-"I KNOW WHAT BUTCH IS", Butch is a Noun, Essays by S. Bear Bergman (2006)
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queermasculine · 4 months
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Shinjuku Boys is a 1995 documentary about the lives of Kazuki, Tatsu, and Gaish, three self-identified onabe, an expansive term that can encompass both butch lesbians and trans men. "The suave trio speak frankly to the camera about sex, queerness, trans identity, and masculinity," says The Queer Review. Shinjuku Boys is available to rent on Vimeo.
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fagpunkqueer · 11 months
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i love you bears i love you butches i love you trans men i love you transmascs i love you drag kings i love you masc queers of all persuasions the world is so much better and brighter for the existence of queer masculinity
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intersexfairy · 1 year
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you can be masculine and feminine at the same time. being masculine doesn't make you any less feminine. being feminine doesn't make you any less masculine. there is no inherent morality to any masculinity or femininity you express. you create the meaning behind it by expressing yourself - your joy, your queerness, your health. you are not a reflection of other people's harmful ideas about gender. that's their burden to carry, not yours.
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genderqueerdykes · 6 months
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i love the sheer variety i see when i meet trans men, trans boys, transmasc butches, ftms and the transmasculine community. no two transmasculine people you meet are the same. you'll meet tough boys, soft men, guys who love makeup, people who dress like they're from a specific period in the past, proud butches, dudes who dress like freaks, dapper gentlemen, lesboys and lesbian men, goofy boydykes, silly bros and your best friend. the transmasculine community is rich in diversity and every person you meet has a lot to teach you about what masculinity and manhood mean
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theoxdarthy · 3 months
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My perfect angel boy
@pixieprincessana on ig
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youturningintodust · 1 year
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i always wonder when i see those posts, about positivity and acceptance towards us as transmasculine lesbians/women, where the writer of them draws the line. like how do they react to different steps of medical transition. especially if they seem to “conflict” with the stated identity i.e. seeking T, upper or even lower surgery (something i have seen growing amounts of nonbinary and/or lesbian-identifying people seeking in forums related to traditionally FTM SRS) — all while still knowing oneself as a lesbian, and/or not considering oneself 100% male.
what is too much? is it only when we have the body parts that you enjoy touching or fantasizing about, that we are acceptable to you? do we become unacceptably trans and/or “male”, as a group, when our dysphoria is treated successfully by things that can’t or don’t personally attract you as an individual?
at this point multiple generations of lesbian and bi women have had the opportunity to decide how they will react to partly-but-not-fully transition-seeking AFAB partners. i guess i’m cynical but i have a hard time expecting anything other than for humans to be humans, at this point — that is, “if it suits me then i’ll call it morally good and find ways to include you as part of the in-group Us. if it doesn’t suit me then you’re morally unclean and mentally unwell and you are part of the out-group Them.”
meh. idk. I Want To Believe™.
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massobituaries · 5 months
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Once again, I am pleading that those queers stop acting like butches are inherently predatory and hypersexual.
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raging-guanche · 10 months
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for all my mascs out there;
YOU ARE NOT PREDATORY FOR LIKING FEMS AND/OR WOMEN.
YOU ARE NOT UGLY OR DANGEROUS.
YOU ARE LOVED, IMPORTANT AND QUEER ENOUGH
YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY WITH YOUR MASCULINITY.
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incognitopolls · 2 months
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