#wlw rant

[fawnedolly]

ranting abt my ex bc idk how to feel abt her!! UM SCARY!! KINDA DEEP!!?! beware. 😇😇

I hate to want to be a home wrecker but knowing she spends the night at her house and has a healthy relationship with someone that isn’t me genuinely hurts my heart so bad to the point where feel like im having a heart attack. I hate this feeling and the knowing. Knowing that someone else knows her the way I once did and most likely even more than I did. Knowing that she is laughing with her the way we used to. Knowing that she’s the one she goes to now when something exciting happens and when something is bothering her makes me feel so sad. Knowing that im the reason things ended makes me feel so guilty for feeling this way. Then I think about why I had to leave and how hurt I was during the relationship and that sends me down a deeper spiral. I know even if we ever did somehow come together again (not sure if thats what im hoping for or i just miss the familiarity?)(ALSO SHE LITERALLY HAS A GF), id always have that insecurity stuck with me and it would make me feel like I couldn’t be the best I could be and that maybe I wouldn’t even really want to be in a relationship with her again.

I hate that im hear writing all of this and desperately wondering what could’ve been if we had not been afraid to show each other the love we had for each other.

I hate that im stuck here thinking this way while she’s happy with someone else.

I hate that I can’t talk to anyone else romantically without thinking of what we had together and slowly becoming distant and I look like such an asshole that doesn’t care but I do. And im trying to not think of her I really am but there is something wrong with me bc I can’t.

I hate that she thinks that I moved on so quickly after when in reality I didn’t want it.

But!! The thing that i hate the most is the fact that I can’t tell her everything.

AND THAT SHE HAS A GF. Idk I hate knowing that she loves someone else. I would say it’s like that quite “I hope you get everything you’ve ever wanted, and I hope that I never hear a thing about it. ” but I do want to hear about it because I still care for her. But the very last thing I’d hope to hear was that she found love, and so quickly. But ig it’s just me making the bed!!

Also fearing starting another relationship because I hate feeling this way.

#this is kinda embarrassing but no one here knows me personally sooo #pls dont make fun of me i am vulnerable #OMG IM SO SORRY FOR THIS I SOUND INSANE #deerie rants ʚɞ #deerie’s daydreams ྀིྀི #wlw #lesbian #she was mine first… #wlw rant

[ghostie-lovesflowers]

Fuck love ew I hate that shit makes me sick I don’t think I was ever in love I was probably just nauseous

#book blog #book addict #book lover #book quotes #book recommendations #ah young love #my love #love shit #love sucks #wlw rant #wlw #gay rant #lgbtq #sick of love #I hate love #i cried #this is a cry for help #heart shattered #made me sad #don’t fall in love #love is an illusion #love is nausea #love makes me sick #love makes you worse #ew love #did I ever actually love? or do I have a heart condition

[underdarkwaters]

We had the best sex of my life last night, it was so intimate and loving and rough and filthy and I think I came two dozen times and I could not be more in love with her if I tried

It’s so hard to not be with her for more time, all I want is time near her

#life is hard but it’s so worth every bit of hard for moments like that #personal #wlw rant

[unsaltedtoast]

i love you femmes.

i love you plus size femmes who feel like their body pushes them out of feminine spaces.

i love you femmes with weird genders.

i love you black femmes.

i love you femmes of colour.

i love you femmes who don't shave.

i love you femmes who like indulging in masculinity.

i love you femmes that experience discomfort around their breasts and vaginas.

i love you asexual femmes.

i love you autistic femmes.

i love you femmes who constantly have to defend your identity (we are right beside you <3)

i love you single femmes who feel as if their femme identity is only valid as being 'queer enough' when with a butch.

i love you femmes who have 'masculine' personalities.

i love you alternative femmes.

i love you all femmes.

#femme positivity #femme #butch thoughts #bee rants #wlw #lesbian #femme4butch #butch4femme

[zeroxs-stuff]

Thinking about casual dominance!abby. Maybe it would start with simple things like always opening doors for you, or maybe she would tie your shoelaces for you, and then it just escalates from there. But— my LORD this woman could not handle one day without doing everything and anything for you, so of course it escalates into something more.

To elaborate— not the controlling, toxic type of casual dominance but more like the authoritative dominance that she knows you prefer and are okay with; like the type of dominance that shows she really cares about you.

Thinking about a scenario where she tells you when to go to sleep. You could be begging, even pleading with all your life just for her to let you have an extra fifteen minutes, only to be met with her stern but light-hearted refusals. “princess.. i told you no. you need sleep for tomorrow’s mission, ‘kay?” She says as she tucks you in, you still frustrated but ultimately just having no choice but to go to sleep.

Thinking of another scenario where she NEVER lets you top. Like EVER. I think she would be way too confident in herself that if ever you did try to top, that she would just shrug it off and laugh. “Pfft—you’re cute. Now, lay down for me, hm? Let me make you feel good.” She says right after you just attempted to top her.

To conclude the rant, abby would be VERY adamant on casual dominance.

#abby anderson #abby anderson x reader #tlou #rant post #wlw #wlw blog #i love women #tlou fic

[hillhoes]

it genuinely makes me so sad that no wlw show will live up to mlm tv “standards” and i feel like most of us have accepted that? like i think ppl are so fucking biased and love mlm shows like heartstopper cause they’re “so cute” but criticize the fuck out of wlw shows like first kill because it’s “cheesy”. like obviously the effects could be better but that’s all ppl focus on instead of the actual plot. THIS SHOW IS CUTE AND GAY AND ALL WE WANT IS REPRESENTATION and it’s super frustrating that no one gives wlw shows a chance at all. i just want this gay little vampire show to get renewed but i’m literally expecting it not to be cause that’s what always fucking happens.

#and heartstopper gets 3+ seasons #obviously i love heartstopper i’m just annoyed #ranting lol sorry #i’m still gonna get everyone i know to stream tf out of first kill #first kill #wlw

[cowgyaru]

ain’t even tryna hide it😭😭 lesbians save me….

#jjk #jujutsu kaisen #jujustu kaisen #cowgyaru #jjk fanart #gojo satoru #nobamaki #nobamai #nobara #wlw #jujustu maki #maki zenin #kugisaki nobara #mai zenin #jjk fandom #my post #cowgyaru rants

[her-stars]

being a hopeless romantic when society is fixated on hookup culture, “situationships” and emotional unavailability makes me feel like I'm in the bottom pits of hell. i yearn for pure romance. waiting for the fairytale I have always dreamed of to come true. but also thinking I won't be loved the way I love is a curse.

#lesbian #wlw blog #lgbtq #wlw #queer #girlswholikegirls #sapphic yearning #wlw textpost #wlw post #pansexual #sapphic #bisexual #hopeless romantic #rant post

[glitterock]

tbh i get kinda annoyed at the “femmes need to stop treating masc/butch lesbians like men, they’re still women, treat them as women!” thing because like first of all i think there’s a difference between calling yourself a masc lesbian and a butch lesbian. Butch is a historical term that has to do with community and yes, somewhat rigid roles. Masc literally just means masculine presenting and isn’t a term that directly correlates with the lesbian community or should have roles attached to it. I don’t think masc and butch can be used interchangeably.

Second, I don’t even know what treating someone like a “man” even means. I’ve never been in a relationship with a man so I don’t even fully understand what that dynamic would be like let alone how I would treat one. So no, I don’t think I treat butches like men.

But if i’m being honest, I don’t ever really think i’m treating them like “women” either. I treat them like butches. Most butches i’ve been with are transmaculine, non-binary, or old school butch women who would honestly feel uncomfortable if they were treated like a “woman” or would not enjoy me using feminine words (pretty, beautiful, princess etc.) to describe them. So I call them handsome, let them carry my things for me because they genuinely enjoy it, let them act tough in front of me and let them express their masculinity in a way that affirms their butchness. Now this doesn’t mean that me treating them like a butch means that i treat them like a “man”. As a femme, I always want to be a safe space for any butch I’m seeing to be soft. not “feminine” or “womanly”, but soft. Softness shouldn’t be inherently gendered. I want them to feel like they can relax with me, cry with me, let me hold them in a way they may not usually be held in. This is what butch/femme is all about. There are roles yes, but I never think of how I treat butches as how i’d hypothetically treat a man.

I can understand how someone who only considers themself “masc” and not butch, someone who has no knowledge of butch/femme roles and maybe is only masc in the way they dress, could see this as gendered treatment. I can see how the use of roles can be seen as gendered by some, but that’s just not how I see it in the slightest. I don’t treat my lovers like men, I just treat them like butches.

#idk rant i guess #lesbian #femme lesbian #wlw

[ghostie-lovesflowers]

I admire her all the time she has the cutest smile omg and she has those bunny teeth and it makes her smile so much cuter omgmgmgmgisagada anyways she probably thinks I’m creepy or I hate her because I just stare at her intensely

#top #sapphic #wlw pride #gay rant #wlw rant #wlw post #ah young love

[coquteu]

just leaving this here...

#kya rants 🕯 #abby anderson #abby anderson tlou2 #tlou2 #tlou #the last of us #abby anderson smut #abby anderson x reader #abby tlou2 #abby tlou #abby x reader #abby the last of us #abigail anderson #lesbian #wlw

[zeroxs-stuff]

Thinking about an argument scenario with abby, where you’re so fucking mad at her—but she just keeps trying to get you to fuck with her.

Of course—not an actual argument that would require a civilized or serious conversation, but more like a playful argument that you just happened to be way too invested in. (ex: an argument over what dip is better for chips, comparing you and hers favorite shows, etc. not actual serious stuff!) You could be furious out of your own mind—annoyed, aggravated, in the mood to throw a literal table at her, and all she would do is baby you.

You had been arguing about this for the past half hour, and she still had the audacity to sit here and smirk at you while she manspreaded on the couch. You were pacing around the room, rolling your eyes and trying to explain to her the problem at hand. “abby fucking anderson—just, god.” you said with the deepest sigh you’ve ever taken to put emphasis on how frustrated you really were. “Y’know what? We’ll just order doordash. God—you can’t fuckin’ take this seriously.”

Abby pouted with a laugh that sounded way too amused than it should’ve, which only made you even closer to actually throwing a table at her or something. She chuckles provokingly, “Aww, is my baby upset? does she just need a good fuck to keep her back in her place?” She said in such a way that bothered you way too much than it should have. You rolled your eyes and practically yelped, “abby—my fucking god.”

She looked at you teasingly with a cheeky smile on her face, “Yes pretty girl?”

You sighed, “Just—just be quiet. For gods sake.”

-

Next thing you know, you’re crumbling before her eyes as you bounced up and down on her 7 inch strap, the tip of it reaching the rim of your cervix.

She keeps her hands on your waist, being sure to give you enough support you need to ride her properly—but being sure to still also give you a little bit of a hard time.

She said with a sly smile, “Fuck…This is all my baby needed? Was some good cock? Hm?” She paused to thrust up into you, causing you to whimper. “Some good dick to make her shut up? Realize her place, Yeah?”

You nodded weakly, depending on her for practically giving your limbs all the stability it needed—looking at her with fucked out eyes. “M-mhhmm…”

She made sure to make you say it—to say you lost with your own mouth. “Won’t talk back to me anymore, won’t you baby?”

You nodded obediently like you did the past hundred times shes made you cum, “mmm—mmhmmm….w-wont…t-talk…” you paused to catch your breath, “..b-back..”

She pulled you close to her with a satisfied smile, “Atta girl.”

She knew she could dumb you down, no matter what.

#abby anderson #abby anderson x reader #tlou #tlou fic #wlw ns/fw #wlw post #wlw blog #rant post #lesbian nsft #the last of us #personal rant #i love women

[thecasualqueer]

I think need to ban myself from tiktok, bc today I legit saw an entire comments section of people claiming that masc/femme relationships are "heteronormative" and idk about any other butches (or mascs or studs) but last time I checked I wasn't a fucking dude.

#they couldn't even say the word butch either #little lesbian rant #lesbian #sapphic #butch #wlw #nblw #ridiculous online lesbian discourse

[loycos]

-Teenagers on twitter are legit fighting to the death over whether a fictional character is lesbian or bi

-Each side claims the other is "x-phobic" for disagreeing with their headcanon

-The character isnt confirmed as either

What happened to 'live and let live'? I honestly cant understand why people care so much about what other people think about a person that doesnt exist.

What bothered me the most was the twisted way each side claims that thinking differently is harmful somehow. No its not? Its great that we have many interpretations of the media we consume. Its great that many people of different identities can see themselves in one character. What is this jealousy over fictional characters? Theyre not yours, they belong to someone else, and you dont get to go around and police what people are "allowed" to see in them. Grow up.

And i get that. I get that feeling of seeing yourself in a fictional character that you headcanon as, say, a lesbian, and you come across a drawing of said character kissing a man. You feel a little grossed out. Betrayed. But that feeling is not universal truth. Someone else finds comfort in that character just like you, but in a different way than you. part of being an adult is understanding that you can't make a tantrum over every little thing that inconveniences you, and that includes this. This isn't erasure, this isnt harmful. Its simply... sharing.

Im not saying you have to like other headcanons, just accept that they're there. That theyre not a threat to you, your thoughts, your interpretations, or even canon itself. Learn to share the space, make fandom just a little less hostile.

#every time there is a wlw character this shit starts #so i wrote this lil rant yesterday and saved it in my draft unsure if i want to Get Into It tm #but browsing through the twitter tag today- it got worse #so much worse #so im posting it #yes the characters are cait and vi from arcane #2 characters i hc as lesbians #yet i cant help but feel disgusted seeing this mob of angry fans legit mocking and harassing ppl who disagree with them

[femmefighter]

Incoming rant - please scroll past to avoid this downer if you want.

I'm so disappointed in all of the events/fanart/servers/works etc that treat the Ahsoka series like the WolfWren or the SabEzra show. I got so heavily into Star Wars because of one character: Ahsoka. I was so freaking excited when they announced her live action series, and even more excited when, on viewing the trailer, saw that it was going to centre around multiple strong female characters! Seriously, I would jabber on to even non-Star Wars friends about how excited I was about the push of female characters in this show. And awesome female characters at that!!

I go looking for fan-created merch, be it artwork or clothing etc, and I am left so freaking wanting because everything is WolfWren. I am so starved for content that is of the main character of the show, I am at a complete loss at how the fandom has turned its back on such an incredible character for favour of a non-canon, self-proclaimed-toxic-yuri ship.

I know, I know, ship and let ship. I'm totally down with that. I love fandom art and fanfiction in general. I love me some gorgeous WolfWren art (not a SabEzra shipper, but that's a separate rant that we don't need to air, but I love their sibling relationship!). I might even love a bit of WolfWren fanfiction (very occasionally). And I have found one small, safe space on a server where I can safely indulge in my tiny little Sokabine tugboat of a ship (on Bo-Katan-centric server of all places, WTF? But damn I am so grateful for that space and those moderators). I know my ship is niche, (I don't know how, but anyway) I know I'm not going to find anyone who is as die-hard over my ship as I am. I expected that.

What I didn't expect was to find myself so lacking in Ahsoka-the-character content in fandom spaces supposedly dedicated to the Ahsoka show. Everyone loves a good ship, but the lack of other ships that could be celebrated from the show (NightDaughter, Herasoka, MonHera, ShinSoka, Morgbine, whatever!) I find is reflective of a lack of interest in the character traits of the individuals. To me, it seems like fans are more interested in an aesthetic than they are on histories, values and idiosyncrasies of the characters themselves.

Anyway, if you've got to the end of this rant, thank you for reading. Again, I don't mean to hate on such ships. I was actually just as excited as everyone else at how the actors validated WolfWren as a ship to enjoy, considering it was femslash fanfiction that made me feel less alone when I was a closeted teen nearly two decades ago. I'm just frustrated at the lack of space in the fandom for content that is different.

#ahsoka series #fandom rant #soz for the downer #star wars wlw #fan art #fanfiction #fandom #ahsoka tano #star wars #sabine wren #shin hati #ezra bridger

[cherryluvss]

Need someone to pull a “What’s up, why the long face? Come sit on daddy's/mommy's face and tell me all about it baby?”, when I come back from work.

I worked hard today :(

#You'll get to watch me struggle to get words out while I try to rant #wlw nsft #nsft wlw #lesbian nsft #nsft lesbian #sapphic nsft #nsft sapphic #wlw mommy #mommy k!nk #sapphic ns/fw #wlw ns/fw #lesbian ns/fw #lesbian #wlw #sapphic #wlw bd/sm #sapphic bd/sm #lesbian bd/sm #cherryluvss talks #MEN AND MINORS DNI #@/cafekitsune for divider