#Coming out?

[somepoetwannabe]

Ask a system!

Alright, we've been silenced as a system for wayy too long and so, you know what? I'm pushing us out of it. Because we deserve to be ourselves. Send one of these emojis in our asks and we'll answer! -Asher 🍄 - how did you get your system name?

👾 - funniest out of context system quote?

🎉 - favorite system holiday?

🌙 - do you have subsystems?

☕ - what is switching like for you?

💫 - are there any hobbies you all have?

💾 - what's your headcount?

👻 - do your alters/headmates have different voices or speech patterns?

🎨 - does anyone in your system like art?

🥀 - how easily does the system split?

🦖 - is your system fictive-heavy? factive-heavy? neutral?

🎵 - what songs remind you of your alters/headmates?

❓ - how much amnesia do you experience?

🎮 - what do your alters/headmates do in their free time?

🪐 - what is headspace like for you?

🍐 - are there any non-human alters/headmates?

🪫 - what do you all do to recharge?

🌧️ - how does the system cope with stress?

🔦 - how did you discover your system?

🌟 - do any alters help out with school/work?

🌊 - who are your frequent fronters?

🎁 - have you ever bought your alters/headmates things?

☘️ - what are your introjects/fictives usually sourced from?

💬 - free space!! tell me about something!

#plurality #coming out? #anyway #no more hiding #system stuff #hell yeah #ask

[ishouldsleepbut]

so i just found out about this thing called gender apathy. the term was coined in 2015 and it's when you don't care what gender people perceive you as. you're indifferent to gender and how it applies to you. and yeah, that's pretty much me :)

#veero rambles #gender stuff #coming out? #gender apathy #gender apathetic #i feel like it just fits me the best #because i never really cared what people referred to me as #she/her? #sure that's what i was raised as so i'm used to it #they/them? #fuck yeah it relates to my overcall apathy on gender #he/him? #yeah i love mismatching gendered terms and pronouns and presentations #neopronouns? #yes please i barely ever hear them #i just want to be everything at once #i'm a boy and a girl and both and neither all at the same time #and i don't care which one you choose to refer to me as #<3

[onmyownside1]

Watching Nimona

I haven’t come out to my dad yet

I’m terrified

I don’t know how he’ll react once he realizes it’s an openly queer movie

Update: he switched it off, but not because gay, because no one else was watching it. Maybe I’ll suggest it later? Christ help me.

#Gay #nimona #queer #lgbt #coming out? #testing the waters

[daisydays-26]

I feel compelled to make this post for whatever reason so here it goes. This is a really personal post (i mention homophobia and anxiety) so if you don’t want to come to my blog for that content feel inclined to ignore this.

So, I’m really young. I’m 19 (at the time of writing this) and until very recently I thought I was straight. Yes, until April of this year I was in the closet to even MYSELF, which there’s no problem with, of course. Everyone discovered themselves at their own time.

I, however, have grown up in a very Christian household in the south section of the good ole USA. You can imagine how most gay people are treated behind closed doors. That’s not to say people are getting rampantly abused or outcast where I’m from, but I did have to grow up with lots of homophobia and transphobia as of recently being spit out from my parents (mostly my mom).

That’s scary. I used to always feel bad when it was said but now when it’s me they talk about without knowing… It’s different. Additionally, being Christian doesn’t help. I love God, always will. I consider myself a Christian despite being queer and I always will. I always thought the LGBTQ community should be welcome in the church. Why would God turn away his own children from his word? He wouldn’t.

Nevertheless I’m scared for my future. Nervous is closer to how I feel. I worry about losing my parents and such. Religious guilt. There was a time very recently where I overly worried about my relationship, about being a “sinner,” and a disappointment. All these feelings got jumbled up and it lead to a lot of anxiety. I overthought everything thinking about the future and what could happen. I was crying in class it was so bad.

In fact, my August kind of sucked bc I was adjusting to moving into my apartment, dealing with a bunch of issues for the new semester, and grappling my new found gayness in one month. It double sucked bc I was originally excited about all of these changes. Oh well.

Having calmed down, I feel way better! I’m sure I’m not the only person dealing with overwhelming anxiety, the social issues that come with being gay, being gay in more conservative situations, or hey even all three! So I just want to share some advice I’ve been thinking about.

Literally, don’t worry about it.

And I don’t mean don’t think about it. These anxieties could very well be for a reason. However, the more I thought about my worries the worse I felt. I was trying to fix a situation that didn’t exists, and my mind kept shutting me down every time. It’s not fair to me. And it’s not fair to you either.

So I forced myself to be in the moment. I can enjoy the wonderful love I’ve found in my queer relationship and with my queer friends. I can enjoy God’s love I find in that too. I can worry about the future when it gets to me.

Life is meant to be lived. It’s not perfect. And sometimes it’s messy. But you have to let it be messy when it’s ACTUALLY messy. You can’t re-vacuum a floor that you just vacuumed bc it COULD get dirty in the future.

I think the best way to say what I’m trying to say, is to think of anxiety as a fire. If you give the fire more oxygen by watching it and thinking about it, it’s gonna grow and get out of control. But if you let the fire just be a fire, and you don’t hold anything to it, it’s eventually going to dwindle out. There’s plenty of factors that randomly spike out anxiety, it’s ensuring you don’t feed into it and let it consume you that’s important.

Idk if this was helpful at all I mostly just wanted to share what I’ve been dealing with. I’m kind of a whole new person now and I feel like she’s worth sharing. I hope this helped someone, especially if you feel like you’re in a very similar situation. Trust me, you’re never alone.

#personal #rant #text #sorry guys you can ignore this if you want #advice #coming out? #idk

[abisbookshelf]

the relief on his little face, ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!

i’m crying 😭😭

#stranger things 4 #will byers #jonathan and will #the relief #gay #coming out? #stranger things cast #jonathan is a good brother #i love them <3 #byers brothers #noah schnapp #actors #stranger things #be gay make byler canon #byler #crushing hard on mike rn #im screaaaaming #help me

[gaymosquito]

so fun fact

i was on ft with my best friend earlier when i randomly looked up and said “i’m a lesbian” then cried into a chip bag for a few minutes before laughing hysterically

anyway how’s your summer going so far?

#help #therapy? #summer vibes #summer #gay #coming out? #lesbian or bisexual? 🤨 #this is why i was adopted #i don’t know why my friends put up with me anymore

[themaurice]

A’right people of tumblr I am here to inform you that I may have just broken two personal records.

1. Realized I’m bisexual and in love and got rejected within 48 hours.

2. Have not slept since Saturday and have accomplished in that time period one assignment, closing night performance, a spectacularly strange Jenga tower, an identity crisis and heartbreak.

I am now eating some excellent blueberry yogurt and oversharing on Tumblr. Life is brilliant and also fucks. That is all.

#tumblr community #oversharing #oversharing anonymously lol #uni life #student life #theatre kid #bisexual #coming out? #lmao who even knows #blueberry yogurt #because that's important #unrequited love #teenage angst #angst #humour

[zephy010]

...

im not taking a break dont worry!

im just...thinking[should i come out...-my brain]

ok...here goes nothing!

ok so basically, im a lesbian, i've always been genderfluid, but now use she/they pronouns!

gif of my boi, Minho, being cute^^

[glad i got that off my chest now...]

Tags-@airilover @yell-on-spikemuth @liv-the-trainer

#coming out? #lesbian pride #genderfluid #maze runner Minho #tmr minho #-Florian

[repressedromantic]

So…

I’m asexual

There’s still allot to figure out and this process has been as exhausting as it has been rewarding, but baby steps right? Saying it out loud, or in this case, typing it and just having it here on social media may seem like nothing but feels like everything. So there it is. Baby steps.

🖤🤍💜

#asexual #ace #coming out? #kind of #idk what this is #but here we fucking are

[rainnotliam]

DKDJDJDJ EXPLANATION RQ: MY TEACHERS ASKED WHAT TO CALL US AND I SAID MY NAME IS “RAIN” SINCE I GO BY THAT BUT IRL I GO BY ANOTHER NAME WELL ONE OF THE TEACHERS SENT ME A LETTER WITH MY GO TO NAME AND MY MOM AND BROTHER FOUND OUT I AM SO SCARED RN HELP

@spiritmdraws

MOTHER PLS COME HELP ME DJDNSKSJD I HAVE TO EXPLAIN BUT I DONT WANNA COME OUT AS AN ENBY YET

#coming out? #oh dear #what have i done

[queerpunkking]

Might come out to my dad when i see him this weekend (i´ll probably back out but still) Maybe not sleeping for about 36 hours made throw all caution through the window and be brave or whatever, who knows?

#coming out? #lgtb+ #queer #lowkey scared cause i love my dad so much but i dont know hoow he´ll react #i think he should have seen it coming but like #idk

[alexpangender]

{people on Tumblr i have something important to say. Im thinking of changing my name to Alex, i dont really need to explain but i want to. First off- i dont like my name anymore and the way it sounds. Second- i recently came out As genderfluid. (even if i did say in my bio that im non-binary, but i wasnt sure until i think 2 days ago? Im not quite sure but yeah) My pronouns are still they/them. Thank you for taking your time to read this and i Hope you day will be fantastic.}

#coming out? #genderfluid

[tacticalcheetodust]

guys ... i think I'm gay....?

#gay #trans #coming out? #idk

[thatrandomblogsays]

I’m so happy for them

[Image Description: Castiel from Supernatural is saying I love you, underneath is an image of Dean Winchester with the caption: “After four months of striking the WGA has a reached a tentative agreement & finalizing the contract. If all goes well writers will get to return to work with better pay and protections. They did it. Go unions”]

(Source)

#wga solidarity #wga strong #after months of watching union busting and anti union tactics #wga is coming out strong #hopefully sag is next! #writers strike #support unions #wga strike #sag strike #supernatural meme #destiel #destiel meme #workers rights #fuck the amptp #destiel news #mine #we’ve hit the note amount where people start fighting in the notes #stop fighting kids #but also the strike was absolutely necessary #withholding labor is how unions negotiate for better rights #the CEOs are multimillionaires who refused to pay proper wages #they needed to receive heavy losses so they’d actually come to the table listen to union demands

[cozylittleartblog]

cant tell you how bad it feels to constantly tell other artists to come to tumblr, because its the last good website that isn't fucked up by spoonfeeding algorithms and AI bullshit and isn't based around meaningless likes

just to watch that all fall apart in the last year or so and especially the last two weeks

there's nowhere good to go anymore for artists.

edit - a lot of people are saying the tags are important so actually, you'll look at my tags.

#please dont delete your accounts because of the AI crap. your art deserves more than being lost like that #if you have a good PC please glaze or nightshade it. if you dont or it doesnt work with your style (like mine) please start watermarking #use a plain-ish font. make it your username. if people can't google what your watermark says and find ur account its not a good watermark #it needs to be central in the image - NOT on the canvas edges - and put it in multiple places if you are compelled #please dont stop posting your art because of this shit. we just have to hope regulations will come slamming down on these shitheads#in the next year or two and you want to have accounts to come back to. the world Needs real art #if we all leave that just makes more room for these scam artists to fill in with their soulless recycled garbage #improvise adapt overcome. it sucks but it is what it is for the moment. safeguard yourself as best you can without making #years of art from thousands of artists lost media. the digital world and art is too temporary to hastily click a Delete button out of spite

#not art #but important #please dont delete your accounts because of the AI crap. your art deserves more than being lost like that #if you have a good PC please glaze or nightshade it. if you dont or it doesnt work with your style (like mine) please start watermarking #use a plain-ish font. make it your username. if people can't google what your watermark says and find ur account its not a good watermark #it needs to be central in the image - NOT on the canvas edges - and put it in multiple places if you are compelled #please dont stop posting your art because of this shit. we just have to hope regulations will come slamming down on these shitheads #in the next year or two and you want to have accounts to come back to. the world Needs real art #if we all leave that just makes more room for these scam artists to fill in with their soulless recycled garbage #improvise adapt overcome. it sucks but it is what it is for the moment. safeguard yourself as best you can without making #years of art from thousands of artists lost media. the digital world and art is too temporary to hastily click a Delete button out of spite

[stuckinapril]

Incredibly alarming that talks of “peace” in Gaza seem to extend no further than a ceasefire. How do you think they’re gonna start off where they left off themselves? Their houses are destroyed, so many have lost mothers and fathers and brothers and children, they still have no clean water and no food. Any area Israel withdraws out of is an area it already knows has been rendered inhospitable. There was even a direct quote by some IOF soldier gleefully stating how he “wasn’t sure Palestinians could go back to their homes.” So what happens when the US “succeeds at negotiating a ceasefire”? Who will be responsible for helping the Palestinians rebuild all that they’ve lost?

#Just so incredibly heartbreaking #Watching the footage that has come out of Khan Younis is a different kind of pain #It’s a whole city razed to the ground and people are #Trying to salvage what they could but their homes don’t even exist anymore