#accountability partners

[lonestar-badash]

Some things really ARE like riding a bike… clicked in on the first try 💁🏼‍♀️. IYKYK.

@romantic-n-naughtysoul , peep the little figure on the shelf… we ride together ☺️.

#l-ba #p2 #coming in hot #accountability partners #we did it! #and we didn’t die!

[marzipanandminutiae]

thoughts on "tradwives" as a 19th-century social historian

It's great until it's not.

It's great until he develops an addiction and starts spending all the money on it.

It's great until you realize he's abusive and hid it long enough to get you totally in his power (happened to my great-great-aunt Irene).

It's great until he gets injured and can't work anymore.

It's great until he dies and your options are "learn a marketable skill fast" or "marry the first eligible man you can find."

It's great until he wants child #7 and your body just can't take another pregnancy, but you can't leave or risk desertion because he's your meal ticket.

It's great until he tries to make you run a brothel as a get-rich-quick scheme and deserts you when you refuse, leaving your sisters to desperately fundraise so your house doesn't get foreclosed on (happened to my great-great-aunt Mamie).

It's great until you want to leave but you can't. It's great until you want to do something else with your life but you can't. It's great. Until. It's. Not.

I won't lie to you and say nobody was ever happy that way. Plenty of women have been, and part of feminism is acknowledging that women have the right to choose that sort of life if they want to.

But flinging yourself into it wholeheartedly with no sort of safety net whatsoever, especially in a period where it's EXTREMELY easy for him to leave you- as it should be; no-fault divorce saves lives -is naive at best and dangerous at worst.

Have your own means of support. Keep your own bank account; we fought hard enough to be allowed them. Gods willing, you never need that safety net, but too many women have suffered because they needed it and it wasn't there.

#history #women's history #pregnancy mention #my mother (born 1953) drilled this into me from an early age: have a safety net. have a skill and keep it up to date. have your own money #NEVER join bank accounts. keep a hold on your assets. #well and good to be a stay-at-home wife and mother- I know other lesbians who want that even! #but if your partner is your sole financial support...you're courting danger IMO

[davidpasqualone]

Sharon Grossman | Taking Risks, Embracing Uncertainty, & Avoiding Burnout through Work Life Balance | E88

This week, you're not only going to hear about what is burnout, how to recover from burnout, how to avoid burnout, but you're going to hear Sharon's remarkable story of how she was born in Israel came to America, went back to Israel, came back to America, went to college, got a, master's got a PhD. Then, she put all this together with her life experiences so she can help people like you and me get well. So this truly is a remarkable episode where you're going to be entertained with Sharon’s story. You're also going to get life nuggets throughout the episode. And then at the end, we not only transition to the practical, how to, you know, listen, do, repeat for life kind of stuff. But on top of it, Sharon offers our listeners a very generous free offer. To help you avoid and heal from burnout. So get ready for this amazing remarkable episode of the podcast. The Dr. Sharon Grossman story.

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#academics #accountability partners #Bar mitzvah #Coaching #Emotional Intelligence #entrepreneurship #Fear #finding your American Identity #high holidays #immigrants #Imposter Syndrome #Israel #Israelis #Jewish #leading with values #legal immigration #materialism #Maxwell Ivey #Orthodox Jew #patterns #perfections #professional coach #retinitis pigmentosa #self awareness #stress burnout continuum #structure #the blind blogger #triggers

[dailyjevil]

Day 54 of posting Jevil every day

#..hey wait a second #return of the Pomni on the Jevil account!! #this technically isn’t super Jevil but I planned on doing a second partner drawing tomorrow to go with this #dailyjevil #deltarune #deltarune jevil #jevil #jevil deltarune #tadc #the amazing digital circus #pomni #pomni tadc #tadc pomni #digital circus

[tatyova]

kissing him on the lips kissing him kissing him kissing him

#preston garvey #mtgpip #magic the gathering #fallout 4 #please be at least a usable card #wilf made me so sad because he doesn't really fit in any of my decks #the dream is urw preston that can be my soldier typal deck #then I have the extra slot for wilf anyways on account of not having partners

[unironicallycringe]

so my partner keeps getting spam bot messages on facebook, and they decided to entertain themself by responding in long noir detective monologues. i decided it needed an audio drama version.

i have no idea how to tag this. i'm dumping it into the tumblr ocean and it will swim with the currents, godspeed

#noir detective #shitpost #audio shitpost #spam bots #noir spam bot #i made this myself because i like making audio things secretly #the entire monologue was just off the cuff nonsense by my partner and i read it word for word lmao #original audio #though i put the credits for the royalty free song in the metadata comments #it's Once Upon A Road by Bladverk Band #shout out to epidemic sound which i still have an account with until the 24th so pls dont claim this i paid you for it i prommy

[alwaysbewoke]

a LOT of ladies failing this test. A LOT!!!

#dating strategy #accountability test #relationship compatibility #past relationship inquiries #screening potential partners #toxic traits #self-centered behavior #red flags #dating criteria #partner evaluation #relationship values

[makorragal-312]

Okay.

So this might be an unpopular opinion (or maybe not), but as a bi woman, I would be fucking PISSED if Buck and Eddie ended up kissing or hooking up during the bachelor party.

#911 #911 abc #911 on abc #911 show #911 season 7 #911 s7 #911 speculation #evan buckley #eddie díaz #buddie #911 buck #911 eddie #911 buddie #buck x eddie #haven't we reached the point in society where the bi cheating trope is an awful trope #like why do they have to cheat on their partners #why can't they just dump them first #and I am so glad other people have said this too #and especially given buck's past with abby #and him telling Eddie that he needed to dump ana if she was giving him anxiety #it would be a complete disservice for him to cheat #especially with an actual healthy partner for once #and I know that he kissed Lucy while he was with taylor #but this could have so much more ramifications #just let buck and Tommy have an amicable break-up and stay friends #and have anything buddie related happen AFTER the wedding #im glad that they''re taking into account how important buck's storyline #and how they don't want to add anything negative to it in terms of buck and possibly buddie #okay unpopular opinion over #oliver stark

[kedicatt-cotl]

Kallamar’s ears (Part 3)

Part 1

Part 2

#kallamar deliberately decided not to sign all of that #i did not put his partners in this but kallamar says phrases inspired by each of them #narinder doesnt deserve the hate #he cares more than he could have #though he does not hold himself very accountable for what happened to his siblings #he acknowledges it and does what he can to help but his ego is too big to feel very sorry #cotl #cult of the baabaa kids #cotl au #cotl kallamar #cotl narinder #cotl lamb #cult of the lamb #cult of the lamb kallamar #cult of the lamb narinder #if they find narinder's notes narinder would try to come up with something #at least he was but not anymore i guess since kallamar's fine

[crazymecjc]

✨ justice ✨

persona 5 (spoiler!) shitpost below the cut!!

#persona #persona 5 #persona 4 #persona 3 #oof my art i guess #goro akechi #nanako dojima #ken amada #yes justice arcana slayyyy #in the first image akira is just off screen #oh speaking of which #akira kurusu #in my brain katsuya p2 is the manager of justice I just know nothing abt him so he is not in this drawing as of yet #this idea has been plaguing me for WEEKS and is by far the stupidest thing I’ve ever drawn #cars au included (affectionate) #I have another Cursed drawing in my brain that I may unleash upon the world soon but we’ll see #anyways take this it took me much longer than it should have by all accounts #it’s so fuckin late goodnight y’all #would like to note that this came about bc me and my partner are dead certain that every single persona character #is either a hot topic girlie or a justice girlie #and we have them all mapped out ahskjskskalsla #goro shops at justice purely bc the store is named justice

[aprilraeee]

The nicer you treat a girl outside💞🌤, the wilder she will be inside the bedroom 🛏😈.

#black women #blackwomen #melanin #spicy accountant #black girl tumblr #ebony babe #ebony #ebony women #spicy content #ebony goddess #adult model #beautiful model #fashion model #beauty #beautiful #picnic #date night #partner

[menuliso]

i feel like i inadvertently created a monster.

two days ago, my little sister was watching mha. she said “way too many people ship deku and bakugou” and then said that izuocha was cuter.

i sat there, and i waited. i knew that by the end of season 6, she’d be at least somewhat convinced. all i had to do was wait.

24hours later, lo and behold, she was in the middle of the war arc, she turned to me and said, “actually, i get why people ship them (bkdk)”

i gave her a proud smile, and said she got the vision. this was quicker than i expected, but i wasnt going to take it for granted.

we watched the episodes together. i watched in real time as she slowly began to really, really grow fond for them. really fond.

disaster struck when she watched katsuki push izuku out of the way of shigarakis attack.

she screamed. fully yelled. she started jumping around the room, she collapsed to the floor, she started doing ROLLY POLLIES. my parents were about dial emergency services to admit her to an emergency room.

i wondered, was this what i looked like when i freaked out over bkdk?

okay, so my sister was some sort of insane bkdk shipper, now, just like me. that was alright, i could deal with this.

but then, i realised just how delusional she was.

today, she breezed through the dark hero arc. then, she watched katsuki’s apology, and let. me. tell. you. she was FREAKING OUT.

SHE WAS SCREAMING ABOUT THE BACKGROUND BEING PINK. SHE SHRIEEKKEEDDD WHEN KATSUKI CAUGHT IZUKU. SHE WAS HYPERVENTILATING. HEART STOPPING.

WAS THIS WHAT I LOOKED LIKE WHEN CHAPTER 403 RELEASED?

“HE CAUGHT HIM, HE CAUGHT HIM.” she screamed.

“THEY BETTER KISS NEXT SEASON.” she yelled in my face. i crossed my fingers and agreed.

just then, time stopped, and i realised that i somehow created a beast. somehow, i had transferred my bkdkism to her via osmosis, causing her to be just as delusional as i.

are the bkdk genes that strong? i didnt even TRY to convince her, but she became some sort of super shipper in the span of a day. im not complaining, because now i have someone of an equal calibre of insane to scream with, but i couldnt help but wonder HOW this happened. i was forming a bkdk action plan in my head two days ago, but now there was no need for such a thing.

as i was typing this post, she screamed “FOCK PEOPLE WHO SHIP URARAKA AND DEKU” and proceeded to throw a pen at me at light speed, causing a concussion.

ah, siblings.

#bkdk #bakudeku #dkbk #dekubaku #bnha #mha #my hero academia #boku no hero academia #ktdk #katsudeku #decchan #im worried shes gonna be more insane than me #shes making fanart of them #cant wait to introduce her to the manga. teehee. #everyone needs a bkdk partner in crime in their lives #maybe i should ask her to co-own this account

[adelaidedrubman]

— A REEL CATCH

i was tagged by darlings @nightbloodbix @g0dspeeed @inafieldofdaisies @gwynbleidd to fill out this fun romance chart! sending tags out to @florbelles @belorage @lordundying @henbased @corvosattano @socially-awkward-skeleton @nowandthane @josephslittledeputy @hctknives @memaidraws @quickhacked @poetikat @thefathersbride @wrathfulrook @thedeadthree @galaxycunt @fourlittleseedlings @nonfunctioning-queer @voidika @captastra @confidentandgood @deputyash @blissfulalchemist @shellibisshe @cassietrn @simplegenius042 @clicheantagonist @strafethesesinners @direwombat @pathologictwo @shallow-gravy @jackiesarch @stacispratt @strangefable @v0idbuggy @professorpineapple @orionlancasterr @firstaidspray @ladyoriza + like/unlike to opt in/out of tag games here!

#suspend disbelief about how/by who this got filled out i just needed there to be some accountability for honest answers on ideal partner #‘‘my ideal partner would obviously be a bit aloof but have a kind heart and be laid back and chill just like me.’’ she LOVES to tell lies #oc: deputy jestiny ellen

[hermesmyplatonicbeloved]

Sometimes I just want to take every single percabeth shipper (and Rick Riordan) and stick them in a course that teaches them how to define and identify abusive relationships, and what a healthy relationship looks like.

And the final exam is writing a 1 page essay on why Percy/Annabeth is unhealthy/toxic/abusive.

The world would be a better place for it. I just know it. The level of potential domestic abuse cases would decrease (assume that these percabeth shippers are in actual relationships and not impressionable little teenagers).

I think about 6% of percabeth shippers know what a healthy relationship is based on a past poll and that's an irl problem. It's not just about fiction. It's not just a book. Its about what Rick Riordan is leading people to think is acceptable behavior.

#anti percabeth #percy jackson #pjo #hoo #heroes of olympus #percy jackson and the olympians #rick riordan #annabeth chase #I think about 6% of percabeth shippers know what a healthy relationship is based on a past poll #the rest need to learn #genuinely concerned for how these people are going to treat their partners #or let their partners treat them #you know that its not okay to play mind games and constantly keep your partner anxious and on their toes and hit/judo flip them #right???? #anyways. I follow a bunch of blogs that talk about irl abuse. might start reblogging those to this fandom account. just to educate people

[multifandom-garbage-compactor]

Is someone going to draw/animate Crowley and Aziraphale to recreate the couch talk from ofmd s2? Where it goes like:

“I’m sorry my horrible naked eyes disgust you.”

“I love your eyes.”

#this is becoming a begging account #good omens #ineffable husbands #ineffable partners #crowley #aziraphale #crowley x aziraphale #aziraphale x crowley #aziracrow #ofmd #ofmd s2