#and the fomo

[a-kind-of-merry-war]

when I say "I'm going to block my access to every social media site for my mental health", what I actually mean is "I'm going to block every social media site apart from tumblr", because twitter and instagram are designed to give you brainrot while tumblr is just a little junkyard full of rats going sniffsniffsniffsniffsniff and showing each other exciting pieces of garbage (affectionate)

#twitter and instagram are a one-stop shop for fomo #not even fomo like...... #imposter syndrome BUT MORE #they really fuck me up

[laddertek]

desperation at the postal service

#the neighbourhood's main portal linked up to a player branch down at the chunkloaders. as accidentally found by false #etho pressed the panic button lmao #hermitcraft #hermitcraft s10 #hermitcraft season 10 #tangotek #tango tek #ethoslab #etho #tangtho #he...he needs him... #hermitchat #extra context...false stream 28m30 is when she lands in the mail system. and then 2h54m30: #etho to false ''yeah we just encountered a major problem and uh...trying to figure out how to fix it'' #then tango stream 0h8m (twitch timestamp): #(after exiting etho group) ''etho needs me? I already talked to etho yeah. we found a problem in the chunkloader system down there. it's #not gonna be...a critical problem but it's...definitely an annoyance'' #also poor impy with post office fomo 🥲 (impy stream 2h53)

[choccy-milky]

happy new year!!🥳🎉

#first christmas with the mistletoe and now new years with the new years kiss......seb sure loves the holidays LMFAO #hogwarts legacy #sebastian sallow #sebastian sallow x mc #sebastian sallow x oc #i wasnt planning on drawing anything for new years but i kept seeing posts all over my tl so i got fomo LMAO #something quick for last minute #choccyart

[xxnghtclls]

Sukuna in 249

#i know I said Im on break #yet here we are #losing to the fomo #bye #nighty art #jjk249 #jjk spoilers #sukuna #true form sukuna #jjk #jujutsu kaisen #sukuna smut #jjk smut #jujutsu kaisen smut #true form sukuna smut #sukuna fanart

[countingfailuresnotstars]

every time that I think about the fact that for "normal people" normal level pain is zero pain I'm shocked, how is that even possible

#back like in march my friend made me realise that people dont get up every morning and they are as tired as they haven't slept #i haven't been the same ever since #im in a literal costant of body pain and brain fog #and i have a high fomo #so i try to keep up with everyone else #until i literally crush #lmao #also ive started to get migraines again so im truly having an amazing time #shut up cec #chronic pain #chronic illness #chronic fatigue

[zilodak]

Happy "every other month" to those who live in countries where they cannot celebrate pride and those who live in extremely controlling environments and never had access to LGBT communities or resources in fear of being harmed, disowned, left homeless, or killed.

I hope one day everything will turn out alright for us.

#luna's bullshit #to say i'm getting fomo would be an understatement every june i just get unreasonably angry against the opressors

[peonypyxels]

idk what if we kissed or something

#are they into each other or is it fomo we just don’t know #ts4 #s4 #sparks #sparks legacy #s4 legacy #s4 edit #sims 4 #gen 5 #gen 6

[evankinard]

When he talks, he is seeking

Words to get, off his chest

Horizontally speaking, he's at his very best

#fucking gay people #911 spoilers #evan buckley #weewoo brainrot #eddie diaz #buddie #911 abc #911 edits #this is scheduled btw hello from 4am im probably gonna sleep till 2 hopefully nothing world shattering has happened i already have fomo

[chuuyafucks]

The way skk can basically talk withojut talking makes the whole mersault thing so hilarious because even though fyodor was trying to play off as he was controlling chuuya (???) U know he felt like they were third wheeling him. Hes like heh your shallow bond meanwhile they're laughing together at an inside joke from 5 years ago without even speaking or reacting

#Dazai basicaly was smiling the entire time even though he was 'in immense pain' #like ok.......... #And u know fyodor was getting fomo #THEY WERE SPEAKING IN CODE THEOUGH THE SPEECHES #skk #soukoku #dazai osamu #nakahara chuuya #bsd #bungou stray dogs

[obv10usly]

If you are seeing dan this weekend, please be extra nice to him. remember he’s just this little poorly catboy being left to entertain the world alone 🥺

#we’re all doomed #daniel howell #amazingphil #phil lester #dan and phil #dnp #phan #I’m hit with the biggest dose of fomo #but I hope y’all have such a great time!

[peachdoxie]

Kinda bums me out that discord is like the major place for Internet socializing these days, because I don't do well on discord, especially larger servers, so I feel left out a lot.

#bro they are so overwhelming with all the different channels and also the severe fomo #anecdotes by peachdoxie

[tyresdeg]

logan sargeant | saturday | china 2024

#whatever I get the nico comparisons now f u guys #logan sargeant #f1 #chinese gp 2024 #xpb/alamy #* #have decided i will be waking up for the race #and then a small nap and then up again for wec #lmao #i’m going to get fomo otherwise #i’m breaking so many rules and i’m going to continue with that #i’m going to take a night shower With my jewelry on 💙

[lindseymcdonaldseyelashes]

Leverage 3x2 - "The Reunion Job"

#christian kane #leverage #eliot spencer #the reunion job #awww eliot has bad fomo

[csuitebitches]

On Getting Rid of Your Inferiority Complex

You can take advice from everyone and every book you read, but no one can protect you proactively, unless you choose to protect yourself. Only you can do that for yourself. Your parents, friends, partner can support you emotionally but you need to stop relying so much on external validation.

When you’re making a choice that you know is going to be detrimental to your health, whether its physical, mental or emotional - such as going back to your ex, not taking the next steps for your career/ education - you need to think more about your (near) future self and make sure that she’s also comfortable. You need to think long term.

As we grow up, we often encounter situations that we’ve been in before to some degree, there’s somewhat a pattern to them. It’s time to start recognising them early and leave when you see the red flags waving.

By breaking your own word that you’ve made to yourself you’re making the inferiority complex worse. Because you’re showing to your subconscious mind that you don’t matter at all. Others do.

It could be something “small” such as going out clubbing with your friends because you couldn’t say no - and having an important presentation due the next day. It could be something “big” such as breaking off a difficult relationship, and still going back to them.

When we suffer from an inferiority complex, we idolise people around us and think they’re better than us in every way. We choose to see the best in them- just the way we choose to see the worst in ourselves.

At some point, we have had enough and decide to start improving ourselves. How do we do this? By improving ourselves in areas that you feel left out in.

Such as, seeing an influencer live your dream life. Now you’ll do everything you can to live like her because you think that once you achieve that, everything will be great. You try to improve in areas that have no direct relation to your inferiority complex.

You’ll try work on these things - while that can be in a way good because it’s alright to have a dream life and motivation for it, that doesn’t fix the inferiority issue.

Because the inferiority issue solely comes from lack of confidence and trust in yourself. Even if you get your ideal life like that influencer, that confidence won’t last long and you’ll find something else to panic about - you’ll compare yourself to your peers, or the anxiety of jobs after or the next shiny thing you want.

To actually combat inferiority issues you HAVE to build a connection with yourself. True confidence will only come when you connect with yourself with things that aren’t material things.

You need to cultivate a growth mindset and genuinely believe that you WILL get better with time, you WILL get smarter with time, you will improve your talent over time. You have to detach yourself from outcomes, whether positive or negative and just take it as life.

And this doesn’t happen overnight. It takes consistent effort to not feel fomo anymore or feel shitty.

You have to stop hesitating putting yourself first, putting your emotional needs first, standing up for yourself and saying a big fuck you to things that deserve it.

Not everything that you have today will be permanent in your life and that’s something you have to come to terms with.

But if your worth is fully dependent on other people, then you really need to sit down with yourself and start actually working on the relationship that matters the most - the one with yourself.

You’re intimidated by these influencers or the people who you want to be like, not because they wear designer bags, have cool outfits, vacations, boyfriends, girlfriends - but because they often have a very strong sense of identity.

They express what they like and don’t like. They don’t change themselves depending on the person in front of them. If there’s something they want, they go and get it. They pursue what makes them happy.

When do you plan on doing that for yourself?

So how do you do it?

You need to build a strong sense of self identity.

How? By dating yourself. Ask yourself questions that you would ask someone on a first date. What are your answers? These answers will not remain the same over time and they shouldn’t either. Here are some as a guide:

1. What do you like in general?

2. What do you dislike in general?

3. List all the things you like about yourself

4. List all the things you can improve about yourself

5. Where would you ideally want to be in 2 years?

6. What sort of a life do you wish you had right now?

Next step is continue dating yourself. Aim for one new experience a week. It doesn’t have to be major. It could be something simple such as a cooking a meal you’ve never made, solving crossword puzzles, trying to grow herbs, colouring books. With new experiences, you learn something about yourself, which allows you further build a connection with yourself. Literally date yourself.

Take care of yourself the way you would care for a partner. How do you want to be cared for? What makes you feel loved and appreciated? Show yourself the same things too.

#c suite #powerful woman #ceo aesthetic #personal growth #that girl #productivity #strong women #getting your life together #feminine energy #balance #inferiority complex #fomo #insecure #insecurity #confidence #confident #secure #how to become confident

[pixiemage]

Holy crap I completely forgot I attempted to download the entire Unus Annus channel right before it got deleted. I just found an old hard drive in my desk I forgot I even had, and like - dude. I have no idea how many videos are on here but it HAS to be in the triple digits, including thumbnails. This is friggin' insane.

#unus annus #markiplier #crankgameplays #also I realize that goes against the entire purpose of the channel #I know that #I don't really remember trying to download these in the first place so I can't tell you where the motivation came from #I only saw like two videos back then because a lot of them dealt with some existential topics and I can't handle that kind of thing usually #so maybe I had fomo regret at the time - who can say? #I don't intend to share them on YouTube or anything like that because I know Mark and Ethan didn't want that #I just think it's bonkers that I have a partial archive of something that no longer exists on the internet #this is the coolest thing I ever forgot I did #ADHD is a trip man

[starry-bi-sky]

okay so i was thinking of a joke earlier about how in DPDC Amity Park's slogan "a great place to live" is not only city propaganda but also the city lording it over the rest of America for being normal. But then I remembered that, despite how many DCU Cities with heroes in it there are, the amount of cities in America without heroes still far outnumber the amount of cities in America WITH heroes.

So I did a little digging so the joke would still land. Something most heroes have in common is that they operate in major cities. What makes a major city? I found that the general consensus is that the population is roughly over or around a million. THEN I looked up the populations of cities in the DCU that I thought of off the top of my head. So Gotham, Metropolis, Starling City, Central City, Jump City. All of them ranked up to millions in population (most of them were in the tens of millions).

Amity Park's wikipedia describes it as being similar to specifically Philadelphia, Chicago, and San Francisco.

Philadelphia's Population: 1.576 million as of 2021 Chicago's Population: 2.697 million as of 2021 San Francisco: 815,201 as of 2021

Whiiich means that Amity Park if we take that from canon, is probably a major city. There are approximately 19,000 cities in America with probably less than a hundred that are major cities. Adding the DCU major cities wouldn't skew the data too much.

Which MEANS that I can make the joke that Amity Park's "great place to live" is not only just typical city propaganda, but also its Amity Park lording it over the other major cities for being one of the only major cities that doesn't have problems bad enough to warrant a superhero or a vigilante. Cue stage left the Fentons and Phantom :)

Amity Parkers were probably SO proud that they didn't need a superhero. They didn't have to worry about things like 'world ending threats' and 'super-powered individuals' and 'staggering property damage'. And then enter Fentons.

It also could be used as an excuse for why nobody took notice to Amity Park getting ghosts if folks like me aren't huge fans of the notion of a media blackout via Tucker, Technus, or the US Government. Or if you want to keep Amity Park as its urban city self. Amity Park's news on ghosts gets drowned out in a week because there's news on more popular, well-known cities going on every other day. The shit going on in Amity Park is every other major city's regular Tuesday and it gets filtered as such.

#dp x dc #dp x dc crossover #dpxdc #dpdc #plus amity suddenly going 'we have ghosts' could be seen as a case of city-wide FOMO finally hitting so nobody believes them #and thats if the belief of ghosts not being real is as strong as it is in dp canon #the media blackout could also be /city-induced/ too #where amity parkers are so proud of being 'normal' and 'not having superheros' that many of them try and deny the existence of Phantom #and the mayor and news sources themselves just. stubbornly refuse to let news of ghosts get out to the other cities #do you know how much shit they'll get?? they'll be a laughingstock! #gothamites would never leave them alone. neither would central city or the metropolitans or starling city or-- #the other big cities will make fun of them :( #my new favorite hc that stemmed from this is that every major city in the dcu is rivaling with each other #there's a lot you can experiment with this idea imo lmao #this whole post sums up my writing and thinking process pr well tbh #this stemmed because im making a childhood friends au short story doc and wanted to avoid the typical tropes about how AP went undetected #from the rest of the US. bc. im not a fan of the media blackout idea via tucker/technus/gov and i wanted to keep AP an urban city #so i had to come up with something else #hence me looking into DCU cities and how many there are and realizing that there is a decent amount of other cities other than the main #popular ones and being DELIGHTED because then i could use that as an excuse for why amity went overlooked. bc there are many cities with #heroes in it. so its not surprising if another city gets a hero TOO. plus the news also focusing on more popular heroes and cities so again #the news of amity getting a hero gets drowned out by whatever new thing the JL or someone from the JL did that week