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metsfan7 · 3 months

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I agree

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maledistributionsystem · 1 month

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C'mon now, sit down. Talk to me, what is you so scared for?

Fuck you mean "of what"? Im asking you why you so damn scared of transitioning. Who is you scared of?

Yknow what, fuck them. Fuck that noise and fuck them for tryna put that shit on you. Ain't nothin wrong with you, some men are born butterflies and others are born caterpillars. There isnt some grand betrayal caterpillars commit against caterpillarkind when they transform, theys just doin whats natural, so why cant you?

Nah, nah man you focused on the wrong shit here, who the fuck cares if you're ugly? Moths don't hide in the night cause they're "ugly", they just sleep all damn day. Sure, maybe you somehow aint cute in a few years, but you'd be happy, wouldnt you? You'd see the man you are in the mirror, you'd see a mans hands when you're just randomly doing shit, you'd smell and sweat like a man, you'll sound like a man, you'll look like a man, which is exactly what you want.

You listenin to all the wrong people bro, transitioning to be a man wont make you no angry roid monster or magically turn you into a sexist. You'll be beautiful and secure. Look at you now, hunched over and wearing clothes 2 sizes too big 'cause you dont want no one to notice you. What if you liked your clothes? What if you was proud of your body? Dont you wanna look down one day and finally see a cock?

I know you still scared, that's alright, I dont think caterpillars really know what they're doing when they decide to go sleep in a little pod for a few weeks either. That's what i'm here for, you dont got nothin to be scared of, you just gotta trust me, okay?

Cool, now get up and c'mon, I'll do you a favor and give you your first shot. Don't you give me that, it dont even hurt lmao, c'mon.

#force masc #forced masculinization #autoandrophilia #autoandrophile #black masculinity #black ftm #MDS Originals #i had to do this to myself. which hurts #you know?#I hope some freshly broken egg out there sees this and understands that there is endless beauty in manhood #I hope he knows he aint alone.#every emotion has already been felt a thousand times over. take solace in the fact that you aint unique

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uncanny-tranny · 2 months

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Passing as a trans man is a nuanced and complex topic, but one thing I have been noticing as somebody who is a cis-passing (white) trans man is the way I'm treated when there is conflict.

I've noticed that in conflict, people are almost meek around me, willing for me to try working with them up until a woman is involved. When a woman (or, really, anybody who the other party assumes is one) is part of the conflict, they direct all their anger and rage to them. It's fucking insane the way a woman is treated when there is conflict, even if it isn't her fucking fault. These people are fundamental cowards for seeing my manhood as the only reason they can't be openly hostile to me, but it reveals a lot about how a misogynist thinks on an almost primal level.

I'm watching the women and people around me I care about being torn apart by people, and that's unacceptable. I can't sit around to watch it, and I don't want to do that. I need other people to perhaps read this and remember to not stand by if there is something that you can tangibly do to help, even if it's to lend a listening ear or let the person vent.

#feminism #misogyny #misogyny tw #before writing this i was worried about my blood pressure because i'm fucking angry #i hate the way cowards will look at me and see a man and be scared of me until they see a woman they feel strong enough to abuse #and i have faced my own experiences with misogyny and abuse now that i have transitioned and am recognized as male...#...like i had NEVER been catcalled until i medically transitioned. and now that i'm much more male i have been catcalled MULTIPLE times...#...which is why this topic is nuanced and complex and i hate this idea that we can bulldoze it down flat to 'make it make sense'#i want to always believe in people but i'm not a fool. i am not willing to stand around and just pretend like this shit doesn't happen #i WATCH this shit happen. i WITNESS it and HEAR it and i try to find some way to help the woman and/or person in question #and i know there's this aspect of white privilege in this where my white manhood is seen as a lesser threat #i can absolutely imaging a Black or otherwise MoC trans person not being given this level of grace from the get-go #i'm angry right now and i hope that my words are making sense. i want to address as much as possible but i'm sure you understand

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sissyprestina · 6 months

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Well check that off my list bucket list I was outside cleaning my patio and my young f****** neighbor came by said him and his wife was fighting and do a point and if he could he would give me one don't open a point and then you told me to come in my bedroom thought you wanted to mess with me so I'll go in there he told me to take my pants off we went in the closet without giving me a chance he stuck loving into the black meat in me in two trys he didn't give me a chance to calm down from the shot actual would fit if he went ahead and did what he did true sport 45 minutes ago right here in Tulsa Oklahoma USA

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foxandbambi · 4 months

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#give up your manhood #whiteboi feminization #humiliated sissy #sissi slave #beta faggot #forced feminized #bnwo propaganda #sissy for bbc #humili sissi #black men white bois #self post #personal #Me #mental health #gay men #myself #mine #gay

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m3l4nch0ly-h1ll · 6 months

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I've finally gathered the words to talk about my personal experience being a trans guy. I want to find other trans guys who can relate and have someone that will help them understand things better. I value sharing and relating experiences. Understanding others' experiences has helped me as a trans guy to put my experience and feelings into these words.

For starters, I've experienced gender dysphoria since I was 5-6. But due to my lack of thought regarding gender and my own identity, I didn't have any understanding on my gender dysphoria. There was a growing off feeling throughout my life that pushed me to realization at 12. Cisnormativie society made it easy to suppress who I am and make me partially go with what they want me to be.

Due to being in a cisnormative and suppressive society, it made it difficult for me to think for myself. So I just went by what people saw me as- a weird cishet girl with an obsession with cis men. The fat manly-looking bum. I was a target of mocking, and people would insult me for not being feminine and thin. People would call me a man- I only found this offensive because it was a jab at my lack of femininity. It was ill-intented to shame me, for people to express their disgust with me. I was only thankful for being ugly because that meant men wouldn't like me, and I wouldn't be expressing the femininity and showing off the very womanly features that make me so uncomfortable and out of place.

I didn't know who or what I wanted to be in life. Androgyny was my best bet and safe haven, since my maleness was suppressed but I didn't enjoy being a girl. Throughout my life I'd try expressing femininity and feeling good about it but it always turned bad for me- it made me so dysphoric, I felt like a clown expressing femininity. It got far more off-putting as I went on with life, yet I tried to suppress the feeling despite how embarrassed and uncomfortable I was. I never wanted to be a mother, but I wanted to be a parent. Cisnormativity suppressed part of my gender dysphoria, but not all of it since I ended up using androgyny to escape some of this gender dysphoria. I was far too suppressed to identify my maleness yet. To the point of feeling like I was chained to the role of a girl, and I couldn't see a clear and passionate future for myself.

I didn't see girls as competition for me. I couldn't link well with their girlhood and competition, so I didn't value it. I didn't feel pressured too hard by societal expectations of women, and I always brushed it off. And so boys were my competition. I felt uncomfortable doing certain things that were perceived as feminine/girly, but my excuse for it at the time was that people see me as a girl anyway, so I can let it slide, even though it makes me feel so weird.

I viewed feminine beauty and womanhood as something unlinked to me, it's something I admire from afar. My admiration for women isn't one of influence and idolism, but one of appreciation for their unique ways of expressing themselves as women. In ways I never could, because I could never find my place within femininity or womanhood.

I always hated being seen as attractive by boys. It always felt so repulsive and off-putting to me. I desired to be attractive, but not in a feminine or womanly way. I didn't want to appeal to men. That is where my envy for cis men comes in. Ever since I was 5, I've had this fascination with cis men. Their manhood and manliness, their ways of expressing androgyny, and them attracting women. It stirred up my dysphoria, which got me hooked to them.

Growing up with female puberty, I couldn't connect with it. I found periods and hair-growing interesting, but I couldn't connect with the femininity and womanhood involved in female puberty. It was just there. I never had appreciation for my growing chest, so there were only three options to pick from:

sexualize it

ignore it

hate it

Ignoring my chest is something I did well at- usually. It helped with somewhat alleviating my dysphoria, since I was distracted by other things. They never felt like another part of me, just something to either objectify or be repulsed by. I didn't understand why girls enjoyed comparing chest size and having bigger boobs than each other. I could never truly enjoy it, and I always looked at flat-chested girls with secret envy.

I started puberty at 8. I started learning about periods at 9 since I knew I'd get mine at 10. I was never excited to get my period, I was only curious- my body was always just an experiment to experience for knowledge, it isn't a connection to who I am and appreciate being. And therefore, my period never made me feel happy and prideful, and it didn't make me feel like I was becoming a woman. That felt like such an off term to use for how I felt and still feel.

When I was in 5th grade, females and males in my class were put in separate rooms to learn about puberty. The whole time during a video of female puberty, I felt my dysphoria stirring with bonding about female puberty and the differences and similarities me and other classmates had. I suppressed my hate for it. I wanted so badly to see what was going on in the other room, to see boys bonding and relating over puberty, to see their reactions and all. The male body fascinated me anyway, and I always enjoyed it. I couldn't bring myself to be really sexually attracted to male bodies as I was fascinated by them and curious. Even if it seemed like it was a sexual attraction to others, it wasn't.

And added onto this, my attraction towards cis men is usually envy towards them and their unique expressions of manhood and masculinity that I couldn't get to express. But my true self was suppressed so it was passed off as me having feelings for them.

I at some point had started to wonder if I was a lesbian but I realized how wrong the label felt for me, so I didn't go with it. As I'm nearing 16, it's been 3-4 years since I've realized, so it's still somewhat unfamiliar to me to now know why I feel the way I do. I've been dysphoric for 10 years and I've only known of terms to use to understand my feelings for 3/4 of those years- my life is still the same in this regard but the difference is that I have terms to use to describe my feelings and experiences, and others who can relate.

I worry about my past, present, and future. I have somewhat of envy for people that knew their gender since 3-5, so it's no news for them. I spent most of my childhood feeling like I was destined to be a girl and suppress that off feeling growing inside of me. I'm glad to have been given a second chance to think and feel for myself and finally understand myself and my experiences.

My past self is withered next to a blooming new me. The boy in him didn't get to grow and reveal itself, so he was deprived of life, and died for it. But I was given the chance to find him and finally be him. My younger self would've drowned searching for him, he was too young to dive deep. And I'm thankful to finally understand myself.

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cosmic-hoebo · 2 years

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Lamont Diggs | Rap Sh!t 1.03 “Something for The Hood”

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padawan-historian · 10 months

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As we move deeper into this second wave of Jim + Jane Crow politics, we must turn our eyes and minds to the people within our communities: especially our men-folk.

In this "live podcast" program, we are discussing Black men and boys and how patriarchy not only displaces them from their ancestral bodies (i.e. history, memories, cultures, queerness, etc.) but also how they are stripped of their feelings, often at the hands of their parents (moms included), teachers, mentors, and peers. The characters and "content polluters" dancing across their blue screens reinforce these ideas and identities rooted in a dispossessed masculinity that leaves many men, women, and non-men emotionally illiterate.

Beyond providing recipes of self-love or ugly feminist models of policing the bodies and behaviors of men, we are stepping into the space as antiracist community members and decolonizers who want to rediscover and explore what we can all be if we only moved beyond the fog and fumes of white supremacy and patriarchy.

Come share space with us tomorrow at 6:00 PM (EST). Register and your seat here.

#blue is a black boy #in the moonlight black boys look blue #black lives matter #ecosystem of white supremacy #masculinity + manhood #black masculinity #gender topics #afrofeminism #padawan historian

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globalriseofblackpeople · 10 months

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Black fathers

#black fathers #black boy joy #black boys #black men #fatherhood #black manhood #manhood #proud dad #black power #black unity #black love #black masculinity

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metsfan7 · 3 months

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I promise

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maledistributionsystem · 3 months

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part of what makes me so passionate about this blog is that the version of black masculinity that most cishet black men portray is NOT the only version of black masculinity allowed to exist.

My father is an empathetic and emotional man. when i cried in front of him he didn't think anything of it. He freely talks about his own emotions. We're both weird recluse nerds. He made a career out of weird computer shit just like im doing right now. He shamelessly loves plushies and little figurines. We both have barely-mitigated rage that blossoms at the drop of a hat. I love my dad. He didn't raise me yet somehow i am a beautiful mirror of him.

I didn't grow up with him in my life though. Instead all black male figures in my life growing up were either assholes or didn't do shit for me. I hated watching how my god brothers' father treated them. I hated how they were berated for cursing. I hated how they so easily shunned me when we got old enough for us playing football to become "inappropriate". I hated how they reinforced their distance from emotionalism through calling harmless and natrual behaviors gay.

When i think about being a man, i think about my father. I think about nerdy cisbi/cisgay black men who try very hard to keep to themselves and keep their heads down. I think about a gay boy i knew in highschool who loved dancing and was still a pretty masculine guy. I think about how unfair it is that my white counterparts get so many examples and options for manhood while black boys get one culturally accepted version of it.

Admittedly, i don't always love being the soft little freak i am. But thats okay, it doesn't have to feel good all the time. It doesn't have to be perfect. I only need to keep my drive for who i am. And that's enough.

All this shit to say: I hope all the black men following me know they're allowed to redefine masculinity without inherently being comfortable with femininity. Yall are allowed to be masculine in all the different ways and nuances that white men get. We aint just allowed to exist, we have a fucking right to.

#bear barks #ive been thinking of saying something like this for a few days now. I have a lot of thoughts on the idea of #masculinity thats constantly reinforced in the black community as the only valid version #when i saw a black queen on RPDR say that being a black man and a gay man just dont exist i fucking felt that #being queer and black and a man feels so fucking isolating. it really fucking does.#but i dont want it to stay that way. it doesnt have to. blackness and queerness and manhood do not need to be mutually exclusive

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our-lesboy-experience · 1 month

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also want to state that this blog is 100% for and recognizes lesbois as well. I feel as if it's a majorly forgotten about term and it deserves to be talked about more

#to elaborate lesboi is exclusively for black lesbians #who consider themselves “bois” or are transitioning to masculinity/manhood whatever that means to them #lesboi #lesboy #lesbian

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uncanny-tranny · 1 year

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Cis people not needing gender affirmation... Meanwhile cis men are constantly dealing with belittlement of not being masculine enough, and cis minorities (not the right word but can't think of it) are dealing with the fact that being a minority makes people see your gender as "lesser" or "different"...

Oh, absolutely. Cis people are under much scrutiny to adhere to their gender, and it's compounded if they are disabled, not white, not heterosexual, and a ton more. A lot factors into how you are perceived and treated.

A huge part of cis queer theory has been making commentary about how being non-heterosexual felt as though they were sacrificing womanhood or manhood. I think we as trans people have a ton of common ground with marginalized cis people.

Cis people can absolutely know they are men and women whether or not they are treated as such, but still want to be seen for who they are. It is, at best, frustrating when you aren't being treated as who you are. Cis people also deserve to be affirmed in their genders, and there's no shame in it whatsoever

#ask #anon #there's a reason why - for example - i hear from cis Black men and women how being Black affects their manhood/womanhood #and those are such important conversations actually. i really hope more cis people facilitate them and produce discussion #because while i won't be able to contribute to them from a cis perspective i still greatly want to learn and empathize #i watched a video by fd signifier about Black manhood and i really connected with how he felt for example #(it helped that one of the interviewees was a trans man. i really related with the way that person felt too)#anyway like... we (trans people) have a ton to gain from allying with cis people #and not just that we get something out of it. it's about finding common ground...#...seeing each other as PEOPLE. treating each other as people. making life better for each other

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txampboxer · 6 months

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