so one of the things I was vaguely aware of before reproducing was that people hold a lot of anxiety around the gender of babies and 'wrongly' gendering babies (i.e. failing to guess correctly based on their clothes and appearance what their genital configuration is) and having now had a baby: wow, yes, they really do.
I take an extremely laissez-faire approach to baby clothes because like, they are constantly being thrown up on and grown out of and so on, what matters is that they are clean and easy to put on and I am not spending $$$$$ on them. as long as the colour/design is not directly offensive, it's fine. what this means is that people are quite frequently 'misgendering' the baby and then falling over themselves to apologise about it.
and, like, I haven't even had a chance to dress him in anything pink yet; this is based on rules I didn't expect like 'anything with flowers or sparkly bits on it is for girls only'. equally, I do not care when this happens because it's an irrelevancy, but THEY care to make sure I am not offended. so I have started telling them "look, he's only [x] months old; his gender is baby."
and you know what? you'd be surprised how many otherwise average heterosexual people process this and go "huh, yeah, I guess it is." there is a tiny amount of hope for the future after all.
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I think it's absolutely adorable how Movie Mike and Vanny's relationship is like this
But Mike's still comfortable sleeping on her shoulder and in the palm of her hand.
I think that's sweet.
They’ve gotten to know each other better, so he feels safe to sleep around her
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I’ve changed my mind my favourite D&D monster is the coldlight walker look at this fucking guy
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Revolutionary Girl Utena
Episode 01 / Episode 39
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wearing the pretty new collar that mommy gave me cause I'm a good girl who does what I'm told~
thanks @antifatemptress <3
check reblogs for pics~
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POPROCKSWAPAU!!
Poppy’s and Branch’s designs plus the keytar again !!!
poppy preformance outfit and keytar
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MEAN GIRLS SET - Cady & Regina
And here are the Mean Girls Set! Big thanks to my dear friend Cleiton Honorio who suggest me this idea ^^ I hope you all enjoy this set <3
Please read my TOU before download.
New mesh
Base game compatible
24 EA colours
Hat compatible
All LODs
Custom Thumbnail
HQ and non-HQ versions
Download Gretchen and Karen hairs here
DOWNLOAD (Patreon Free)
CREDITS
Gradients by Simandy
Set idea by @honoriocleiton
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Steddie's daughter packing a couple of her barbies into Eddie's luggage one time just before he was set to go on a short tour because she didn't want him to feel lonely while away from home
and so Eddie sends Steve pictures like this captioned "we gettin craaaaaaaazy in the bus tonight!"
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