#sex indifferent ace

[ace-culture-is]

Sex-neutral and dirty-minded ace culture is making sex jokes purely because you find them funny.

#asexuality #asexual #ace culture #ace culture is #actually ace #anonymous #sex indifferent #dirty minded ace #sex indifferent ace #sex jokes

[stupidandgay]

for all sex ambivalent/sex indifferent ace people

japi ace pride

(I couldn't decide which version I liked more so have both)

#asexual #asexuality #sex ambivalent ace #sex neutral ace #ace pride #pride #pride month #feel free to use them #sex indifferent #sex indifferent ace

[oroniusn]

“you know I expect to be a grandmother! You had better settle down and-”

PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB

#aroace #aromance #aro #aromantic #aromanticism #aromantic spectrum #aromantic asexual #aspec #asexual #ace spec #ace #asexuel #acespec #sex repulsed #sex indifferent #romance repulsed

[asphyxiatedredherring]

Hey, just so you know, it's ok for your feelings to fluctuate. It's ok to be sex or romance repulsed one day and not the next. It's ok to be indifferent one day and favorable the next. It's ok it you think you're sex repulsed and then realize maybe you're sex adverse. It's ok to be romance indifferent one moment and adverse the next. It's ok. Your experiences are valid.

#aspec #arospec #acespec #aromantic #asexual #ace #aro #aroace #sex repulsed #sex adverse #sex indifferent #sex favorable #romance repulsed #romance indifferent #romance favorable #romance adverse #aro positivity #ace positivity #lgbtq #pride #queerness

[aceoffangirls]

I just want to talk for a moment how little people understand about Asexuality and for that matter Aromanticism out side of the aspec community.

I was looking at the books in Kmart today and saw one to do with LGBTQ+ and wanted to see if they included Asexuality and what they said about only to see this.

Now I don’t know if I’m having a Karen moment but the way they define Asexuality was basically someone who “do not feel like having sex with others” instead of someone who experiences little to no sexual attraction. Asexuality is about the attraction aspect, not the action.

Asexuality is such a broad and expansive orientation not only for the micro labels including demi, flux/fluid, grey, litho, abro, ficto etc, but also the spectrum within that from being sex positive/favourable to neutral /indifferent to negative/repulsed. Adding on to this is the romantic orientation whether it be hetero, homo, Aro, Aro spec, bi, pan etc and the different types of attraction including alterous and queer platonic.

The idea that ace people are simply people who don’t desire sex is completely misunderstanding and misinterpreting what it means to be asexual and can lead discourse within the ace community especially to those who are sex favourable. You see this a lot in media with few of the asexual characters not being interested in sex and that is what makes them asexual instead of the lack of sexual attraction.

Sorry for my rant and Karen moment, just kinda got annoyed.

#asexual #aromantic #aroace #lgbtqia #ace #asexuality #aromantic spectrum #acespec #demisexual #aspec #lgbtq+ #lgbtq community #greysexual #lithosexual #cupiosexual #fictosexual #abrosexual #sex favorable #sex repulsed #sex indifferent #asexual spectrum #asexual awareness #ace awareness #understanding asexually #sex repulsed ace #sex favorable ace #sex indifferent ace

[aromanticduck]

#asexual #aromantic #ace #aro #aroace #aromantic asexual #sex repulsed #romance repulsed #sex indifferent #romance indifferent #sex favourable #romance favourable #ace things #aro things #polls #organic home grown content

[isabellascarlett1]

Happy Ace Week to:

- BIPOC Aces

- Neurodivergent Aces

- Sex repulsed Aces

- Sex favorable Aces

- Sex indifferent Aces

- Lesbian Aces

- Gay Aces

- AlloAces

- AroAces

- Aces who have sex

- Aces in Queerplatonic relationships

- Non-monogamous Aces

- Hypersexual Aces

- Mspec Aces

- Trans Aces

- Non-binary Aces

- All Aces 💗💗

#LGBTQIA #LGBTQI #LGBTQ #LGBT #Queer #Ace #Asexual #Asexuality #Asexual Spectrum #AceSpec #Aces #Asexuals #Aspec #Ace Week #Asexual Week #AroAce #Sex Repulsed #Sex Favorable #Sex Indifferent #Queer Liberation #Asexual Liberation #Ace Liberation #AroAces #AroAceSpec

[gray-ace-space]

happy pride month to acespecs; to the gray aces, demisexuals, aegosexuals, acefluxes, and others; to acespecs with queer attractions, to straight acespecs, and to aroacespecs; to trans and genderqueer acespecs; to acespecs who enjoy sex, acespecs who don't, and ones who are on the fence; to acespecs of color; to disabled and neurodivergent acespecs - especially to those whose neurodivergency or trauma is a factor in their asexuality; to kinky acespecs; to the acespecs who are secure in their identity and to the acespecs still figuring it out - you're all wonderful and important to the ace and larger queer community! let's celebrate you! 💜🌈♠✨

#pride month #og post #positivity #ace #acespec #gray ace #demi ace #aego #aceflux #queer #alloace #aroace #trans #nonbinary #genderqueer #sex favorable #sex repulsed #sex indifferent #sex ambivalent #poc #disability #neurodivergent #trauma #questioning #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtq+ #mogai #asexual #gray asexual

[aroaceconfessions]

One thing about asexuality, specifically aces who don't have or aren't particularly interested in sex, is how they're rejected by both puritan/sex negative culture and mainstream sex positive culture simultaneously.

Like with puritans it's basically "Don't have sex" "Okay, bet" "No, not like that"

And with sex positive* it's "Everyone should have as much sex as they want" "Cool, we want zero" "No, not like that"

Not wanting sex is like the secret third option neither group is willing to accept into their world view. Because at the end of the day neither group is really about sex itself. It's about shame, either the enforcement of or the liberation from. It's interesting to see how both groups have a failure to reconcile those who don't participate in or interact with that shame.

(*Obviously not all sex-positive allos are like this but the percentage who care way too much about whether or not other people are having sex is still extremely high)

Submitted May 11, 2023

#asexual #ace #aspec #acespec #sex averse #sex indifferent #allonormativity

[shinekittenace]

friendly but emphatic reminder that labels are flexible and asexuality is a spectrum

#ace #acespec #queer #gray ace #grey ace #sex favorable ace #sex favorable #sex indifferent #sex averse #sex repulsed #sex ambivalent #demisexual

[debthedemi]

#asexuality #aspec positivity #gray asexual #gray ace #aspecs of color #black aces #asexual #aces of color #ace flux #aspec #demisexuality #all aspecs are valid #demisexual pride #sex positive #sex repulsed #sex neutral #sex favorable #sex indifferent #black asexuals

[oroniusn]

Both wanting to have a close relationship with someone and knowing you won’t be able to give *enough* in said relationship to keep your partner satisfied

#aroace #sex repulsed #sex indifferent #aromantic spectrum #aromantic #aro #aromantic asexual #asexual #ace spec #ace #vent post #im going insane

[sebcosmothetransguy]

the asexual experience of finding sex and talking about sex gross, but at the same time not understanding why people are so squeamish about the subject and so hesitant to talk about it cuz it’s just sex for fucks sake, nothing special.

#seb/cosmo posts #asexual #ace #asexual experience #the asexual experience #sex repulsed #sex indifferent #acespec #asexual community #ace community

[impunkster-syndrome]

So many people just refuse to understand how the ace community does foster sex negativity and I hate it. Sex positivity includes choosing to not have sex. It doesn't include calling sex gross or lame. It doesn't include people screaming "Think of the sex repulsed aces!" when they see kink clothing out in public or at pride.

There are people who have not separated their sex repulsion from sex negativity because being sex negative is something you have to consciously unlearn. That is a really big problem. Lots of young aces don't know they are being sex negative, or cannot be in a safe place to unlearn it.

But ignoring this massive problem harms the rest of us. Aces that are hypersexual, kinksters, those with fetishes, enjoy sex, are indifferent or ambivalent, sexual assault and rape survivors/victims, and more. We are so often thrown under the bus in favor of sex repulsed aces with little to no visibility or representation for us.

You don't want sex not because you're ace, but because it is personally not something that appeals to you. And that is fine. Please stop steamrolling us who are not as heard as you.

Do not tag as "sex mention" or "rape mention." Do not trigger tag a part of my existence (rape survivor) or how I can be intimate with a partner of my choice (sex). In this situation it will come across as insulting. Before anyone tries to say I'm not ace because I pointed out an important community issue and you don't like it: Demisexual abrosexual here. Was sex averse and now sex ambivalent. I'm that kinky hypersexual survivor ace that's tired of this shit.

#queer #asexual #asexuality #ace #sex repulsed #sex favorable #sex ambivalent #sex indifferent

[merely-a-caricature]

The Sex Stances

Hello, y’all! I know it been a few months since I’ve really posted anything substantial, but I’m back! School and other extracurriculars just made it tough to balance posting information content while juggling that and still trying to pursue my hobbies. With that introduction out of the way, I’m going be talking about the sex stances today!

Sex stance refers to your own, personal opinions and feelings towards sex. This is not to be confused with one’s political stance which I have discussed in a post of mine about the difference between sex-favorable and sex-positive. This can include one’s feelings about, sex, certain sexual activities, and simply sex as a concept. While these stances are used primarily by those on the asexual spectrum, they are not limited to them and can be used regardless of sexuality. The romantic equivalent is romance stances which follow the same pattern.

There are many common sex stances, the first of which I’ll be covering is sex-favorable.

Now, I have talked about sex-favorability before in the post I linked above. I will still outline it here, but you can check out that other post if you really want to dig into to the difference between sex-favorable and sex-positive.

Sex-favorable is a term that describes someone who is favorable to the concept of sexual interaction or enjoys sex. People who are sex favorable may enjoy sexual content, enjoy sex or other sexual acts or seek out sexual relationships, whether that be they like the intimacy sex provides in a romantic relationship or they like the sensation.

Sex-indifferent describes someone who doesn’t have strong feelings towards sex or the concept of sexual interaction. Individuals who are sex-indifferent feel neither favorable or repulsed by sex or the idea of it but may engage in sexual activities for their partner, reproductive reasons, economic reasons, and many more reasons.

Sex-repulsed is a stance that describes someone who is repulsed by the act of sex or the concept of sexual interaction. Sexual activity may be uncomfortable, uninteresting, or generally undesirable to those who are sex-repulsed. However, this is not the same as lacking a sexual drive or libido or being asexual.

Sex-averse is similar to sex-repulsed, although it is not without its differences. Sex-averse individuals may be uncomfortable or disinterested with the idea of personally engaging in sexual activities, but they feel differently about sex when it does not involve themselves. For instance, someone who is sex-averse may be okay with sexual jokes, consuming sexual media, and the discussion of sexual topics.

I am sex-ambivalent and have made a post about the sex-ambivalent stance. That post goes into more detail than I will here. In that post I also contrast sex-ambivalent with sex-oscillating, another stance I will discuss later in this post. I will be providing more of a general overview in this post.

Sex-ambivalent is a stance that describes someone who has complicated or mixed feelings towards the concept of sex or sexual interaction. Someone who is sex-ambivalent may not fit neatly into the other categories discussed above (favorable, indifferent, repulsed, averse) for many reasons. An individual feelings towards sexual interaction may change depending on the situation, depending on the specific sexual acts, or because their feelings are confusing or unidentifiable. There are many more reason why someone may identify as sex-ambivalent. Again you can check out my other post for a more in-depth explanation.

Sex-oscillating describes someone who’s stance towards sex changes over time. Individual may find their feelings towards sex change frequently or infrequently. From my understanding, the key component that distinguishes sex-oscillating from sex-ambivalent is the fact that time is the variable involved.

Lastly, we have sex-drained which describes individuals who feel repulsed by the idea of sex because of trauma or exhaustion. Those who feel drained for reasons outside of trauma may identify with sex-repulsed.

We finally made it to the end! I plan on making a post going over the political positions on sex pretty soon, so be in the lookout for that! I hope you learned something today!

Sources:

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#asexual #asexuality #asexual spectrum #asexuality spectrum #ace spec #ace spectrum #sex favorable #sex indifferent #sex repulsed #sex ambivalent #sex oscillating #sex averse #sex drained #lgbtq #grsm #acespec #asexual post #queer

[gray-ace-space]

hello again, this is poll 3/3!

as always, VOTE ONLY IF YOU FOLLOW THIS BLOG.

if you feel you don't have enough experience to be sure, just make your best guess based on what feels ok to you in your brain.

#og post #poll #ace #acespec #gray ace #sex repulsed #sex averse #sex indifferent #sex neutral #sex favorable #sex ambivalent