It's so wild to me that as a community we're still so hostile to multigender and genderfluid people existing in gay and lesbian spaces.
You...are aware that people who are both men and women are allowed to be gay, right? And lesbian? Their other genders doesn't cancel their connection to womanhood, or manhood, or whatever else they id with. They are allowed to be gay despite their fem-alignment, and they are allowed to be lesbian despite their masc-alignment.
It comes from these weird online spaces that the standard to be gay or lesbian is to be a "non-woman" or a "non-man," which is inherently transmultiphobic and...extremely ahistorical. And completely misunderstands nonbinary identity. So if you're both then you just don't belong anywhere I suppose.
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Stone femmes I love you, there is nothing wrong with having a sexual boundary ♡
Stone butches I love you, there is nothing wrong with having a sexual boundary ♡
The way you have sex is beautiful, the way you love is beautiful, you should never feel pressured to engage in a sexual relationship outside of those boundaries.
No one else's pleasure is worth breaking your boundary
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tying her up by her wrists so she can only look up at me with those desperate pleading eyes and beg me to touch her, but can't do anything about how pathetically wet she is until i decide she deserves it. teasing her by circling her clit a few times and then moving up to play with her tits until she's writhing under me and can't form sentences but can only whimper for more, laughing at how fucking easy she is.
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Goodbye and thanks for all the love 。o○♡
So here we are. After five fantastic weeks, it's time to say goodbye to Nomoto, Kasuga, Yako and Nagumo. I miss them already, even though I don't think any of them will truly leave me for a good, long while.
This show is just beautiful. It may seem unassuming, quiet and more leisurely than a lot of other shows but it's worth the watch. I can only recommend it - I said it before, but do yourself this favor. I think everyone can find something healing and comforting in this story of gentle, caring people being kind to each other. In the messages it shares with you with a tenderness and reassurance that made me soft.
Watch the show for how it tells you that not following the expected path society and family have for you may come with struggles but it's still worth it, that you need to go after your happiness and that there will be people here for you through it. That it's never too late to do those things that will make you happy.
For the way it gently takes your hand and tells you that yes, there are challenges, and hard times, and difficult emotions, and pain, but that there is kindness and there is love, too - and that will help. For how it reminds you that you have to be a little selfish to sustain love, be it platonic or romantic, accepting help and voicing your need and reaching out to hang out. And yet, that you are not a burden. That the people who love you want to spend time with you, to do things you will love, to cook for you and share a meal.
Watch it for so many more reason, because I honestly think everyone will find something in there that resonate with them and their experience, that may even help them feel seen.
On a more personal note, as someone who lives far away from their family and doesn't have a lot of people around them IRL (let alone other queer people), it felt so healing to see Nomoto and Kasuga, who are about my age, have those realizations a little later in life, and find those connections anyway. To follow Nomoto discovering herself and to see her be assured that there is not right or wrong way to be who she is and that she knows what label fits her. To see Kasuga slowly opening herself to new experiences. To watch them fall in love and make new friends and build their life and their family the way that makes them happy and fulfilled. All of this brought me such comfort and gave me so much hope that things will be ok.
So goodbye ladies, but hopefully not farewell. I hope we get to see more of you, of your little family and your friends, of that new start we are ending this part of the story on. Thank you @furritsubs for making this available to those of us who don't speak Japanese (and for all the little cultural and culinary notes along the way, they truly enhanced the experience!~♡).
And to the show itself and everyone who made it... Thank you for those stories, thank you for the kindness with which everyone is treated, thank you for the warmth, the gentleness, the ever present love.
And most of all, thank you for the hope.
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That closest of soft loving intimate sex. That kind where you constantly press into eachother, wrap around one another. Forming as much skin-to-skin contact as humanly possible because something deep to your core needs to connect with them.
Where the only words that come out of either of your mouths are affirmations of how much you adore one another. Between each deep ecstacy-inducing motion, relasing the most blissful sounds. When you aren't talking or vocalizing, you can't help but kiss them all over because something within you hungers, it knows you need to connect with them.
Finding yourself so grounded in your body in a way you can't usually access. Every sensation in your body a lightshow of pleasure to your nervous system. Where your fingers explore their body like a blind master scultpor explores new clay. You take in every tiny touch because your body aches, it yearns, it needs to connect with them.
Where the climax of either party won't even matter. You both could end the night without a single crescendo, and yet you are both still left with the biggest smile. Beaming at eachother, letting out small bouts of laughter, sometimes even joyous tears. Because intimacy like this bares a part of your soul to them, and theirs to you, urging to fulfill that need to connect with them.
You need to connect with them.
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