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binxelf · 2 years

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things you can do despite your sense of guilt

- go for a walk even if you think you don’t deserve it

- have a snack even if you think you don’t deserve it

- take a break from studying even if you think you don’t deserve it

- reach out to someone even if you think you don’t deserve it

- demand, have needs and wants even if you think you don’t deserve it

- make it through the day even if you think you don’t deserve it

- feel mentally exhausted albeit seeming physically fine

- feel the sense of abandonment despite the company of those around you

- go to bed early despite not having done much according to your mental routine

- let out a deep breath even if you think you weren’t holding one back

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muttsterion · 1 month

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Just a personal SP HC of mine. I'd like to think any kid or kids that become actual close friends with Karen are automatically under the protection of her guardian angel. Karen's happiness is important to Kenny so I'd like to think he'd try to protect anything or anyone that makes her happy. So just imagines this young, little kid making friends with Karen and having no idea they now have a caring immortal angel looking out for them.

#South Park #SP Headcanons #Kenny McCormick #Karen McCormick #have a random rather wholesome SP HC XD #ha imagines too if that kid has problems of their own and Mysterion giving them comfort and advice like he does with Karen yep

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hauntaku2 · 3 months

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Anyone feeling stressed out? Get off of social media and watch some Strawberry Shortcake 2003. Relax and unwind without any distractions. Take a break and have your favourite comfort food. Remember to stay hydrated! Self-care is important!

#thoughts #self care #wholesome #Strawberry Shortcake #advice

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raph-a-roni · 2 months

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Raphie,

What do you do when you feel fine when you’re around people but the moment you’re alone, you’re really sad because of the intrusive thoughts because you’ve been trying really hard to work on yourself but it’s never seemed to work over the years that you’ve been alive and you know that you’re going to be like this forever and there’s nothing you can do about it, no matter how hard you try to NOT be impulsive and energetic for people because you’re afraid of pushing people away and being to much for people because I’m too energetic?

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Asking for someone (totally not me)

OK, Skully, hear Raph out:

What is the point of living if ya can't be your true self?

Your impulsivity & your pulsating energy is nothing ya should get rid of (of course this excludes negative impulsivity; ya know, if it has bad consequences for ya).

Your feelings are understandable tho cuz society wants everyone to be the same.

If people don't wanna be with ya, then that's a them problem! Cuz, ya know, being yourself isn't a crime. (unless ya hurt someone & ya love to do evil stuff, then MAYBE it IS a crime)

Of course, not everyone will like you. That's a hard truth. But that's ok, cuz...

... why should one bother with people who aren't on the same wavelength?

Doesn't make sense to me.

But it's not easy to get into this mindset, so yeah. It takes a lot of work.

An' my last point: intrusive thoughts are not the truth.

They mock ya & they feel so freakin' overwhelming & they can sound so very convincin', but they aren't true.

#be yourself #you're awesome #raph a roni blog #raph answers #turtle net #skullivan #advice #mental wellbeing #mental health #wholesome

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eemcintyre · 3 months

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Whatever the hell this genre of posts is

currently obsessed

#happiness #positivity #positive thoughts #reminders #good advice #wholesome memes #wholesome #cottagecore

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rrelationshipadvice · 3 months

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Apologies if this isn't the right place for this, but does anyone have any advice on how to make friends? I'm a 19yr old college student, and I'm pretty sure I have autism, I think I have some social anxiety and depression as well. However, nothing officially diagnosed.

Anyways, we're just over five months into classes. I spend most evenings in my room playing video games (nothing to really do here + no license + no one to hang out with), and my mental health is kind of starting to take a downturn. Everyone already has their established kind of friend groups, so I feel anxious just trying to insert myself. I had a friend, but they were just back to finish some last few classes and are gone now. It's so bad I have trouble leaving my room when my roommates are around (I heard them talking about me behind my back at least once).

Apologies for the tangent. Anyways, anyone got any advice as to how a 19-yr-old wreck of a college student can make friends after everybody already "picked" their friends so to say?

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#advice #relationship advice #friend advice #wholesome

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mayhasopinions · 1 year

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the gay and lesbian duo of all time

#lowkey getting brainrot from them tho #matmity/amtholomule /p solos #aint never seen two silly best friends #the badass lesbian and the loser boy #i want them to be the bestest friends tbh it's such a random duo and i love them #amity blight #mattholomule #matt tholomule #the owl house #toh #this is all platonic btw!!!!#toh season 3 #toh for the future #toh spoilers #all i want is for amity to give matt some relationship advice regarding gus #like pep talking matt to ask gus to grom or smth idk #it would be wholesome as fuck

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i-am-married · 4 months

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Source

#good advice #wholesome

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rachel-sylvan-author · 1 month

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Wholesome Women and Girlhood Friendships ❤️ “The Switch” by Beth O’Leary “Little Women” by Louisa May Alcott “Anne of Green Gables” by L. M. Montgomery “Vera Wong’s Unsolicited Advice for Murderers” by Jesse Q. Sutanto “The Bandit Queens” Parini Shroff “Kaikeyi” by Vaishnavi Patel “Pride and Prejudice” by Jane Austen “Bookshops & Bonedust” by Travis Baldree “A Wizard’s Guide to Defensive Baking” by T. Kingfisher “Nettle & Bone” by T. Kingfisher

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rat-nest-radio · 6 months

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It’s been a while since we’ve had a heart to heart, dear listener.

How have you been?

Good, I hope.

Dear listener, change is a part of life. Change helps us learn, and helps us grow as people. It’s important. But sometimes, a lot of times, change hurts.

Sometimes people outgrow us, or we outgrow them. It’s not a bad thing, it never is, dear listener. We meet people and some stay, but some go. It’s sad, but we’ve just got to remember the time you spent with those people.

And eventually you’ll start going days without thinking about them. And maybe someday you’ll forget. But in a way, they stay with us. We are a beautiful mish mash of everyone we meet, and everyone we love. We pick up their phrases, their accents, their little quirks like the way they cover their mouth when they laugh, or how they look down when they smile.

People are beautiful, dear listener. And those around you may not be with you forever, but that’s okay. We live in the moment with the people we love.

Take care dear listeners, I love you, goodnight.

This is Rat-Head, signing off.

#radio #blog #wholesome #advice #heart to heart #talk #rat nest radio

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binxelf · 2 years

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Handle yourself with the care and love that you yearn, you do not deserve to be beat up over an event that took a gruesome toll on you, putting up with that time was hard, dealing with the absence of so many figures was hard, having the constant fear of having nobody to reach out to was hard. And you have every right to accept that, it was completely alright to accept that you wanted to be held and loved even in a time where a version of you believed that you couldn’t. Say yes to being embraced

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luna-lovegreat · 6 months

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….. I wanna be kind more. Like I think back recently and I haven’t made as many attempts as I would like to be deliberately kind to people. Yall better watch out now it’s my goal to make at least five people on here smile in the next week.

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roetrolls · 7 months

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Veylin, don't panic. Let Styx and Thanat know, and maybe see if your therapist can do sessions online for a while.

"Actually... I am not particularly concerned about that. It was certainly jarring, and I suppose it is a bit uncomfortable to think that Harlan has been watching us closely enough to know where I go and when, but...

I did not fear him before, and I do not fear him now. What horrifies me about Harlan is not what he could do to me. It is the fact that he does these things so gleefully, that he takes such joy in the suffering of others.

However..."

> Veylin casts a glance over her shoulder, where Zurven holds Benjin's hands in an effort to keep him from pulling out his hair or gnawing his thumbs to the bone.

"I do not think this message was for me."

#the way this is like. genuine advice #kinda wholesome #veylin ic #an ask tag (happy chase?)

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readysteady-go · 2 years

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I know we’re in hell because there’s no way for Anya, Saiki, and mob to ever interact with each other and have it be cannon.

#mob psycho 100 #kusuo saiki #anya forger #spy x family #yor gives advice to teruhashi and trains mob the possibilities are endless and so so wholesome #loid and reigen is a duo that makes so much sense. the comedy the hijinks #saiki would love mob so much

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rrelationshipadvice · 2 months

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how do I text my crush without seeming like a weirdo?? Maybe I shouldn't be asking the most rizzless website about this but oh well, I'm giving you cutie patooties a chance 🤷‍♀️

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#advice #relationship advice #dating advice #wholesome #You really shouldn't be asking Tumblr on how to not seem weird/silly

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olisephaa · 1 month

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Honestly, being a nice chatter in League is so funny. I got autofilled into jungle against an enemy team with mastery points in the millions. Died due to invades twice times in the first minute and a half. Wrote "I just wanna play my skin T_T" and overall joked about my complete inability to do ANYTHING that game.

the enemy viego felt so bad for me he promised not to kill me anymore, and at the very end he just stood in front of our open nexus, giving me advice on how jungle works, what to pay attention to etc, wishing me luck and to enjoy the skin. I was truly so pitiful they didn't end the game to give the sad wet little support main in jungle advice. It was absolutely hysterical.

#I'm not joking I did less than 800 damage. Not 800k. 800. That entire game. I ended 0/10/1 #Genuinely the worst game I ever had. I had a lot better games in jungle before (all two of them lmao) but this one was just impossible #I was in slight hysterics by minute 10 bc I really just. Couldn't do shit. My jungle was cleared by viego #One lane losing two struggling #I go anywhere and get picked off. Having the viego write 'hey kayn I'm starting to feel bad' was so funny #His advice was super useful actually. Even my friends said 'oh shit I didn't even know that' abt jungle camp Cs stuff #It was really sweet #In the meantime the rest of our teams realized a bunch speak German so they talked about Döner prices lmao #Super wholesome game despite. The everything #Also I always write gl hf :D beforehqnd and that makes people sooo much more approachable #Some people are dicks but that never stops me #Most of the time they get clowned on by their own team real quick for being an asshole for no reason #My friends are continually baffled by my chipper attitude towards league chat lmao. I just report the actual bigots immediately #Anyway. I think ill stick to support and midlane images still #Hwei my beloved. Seraphine my beloved #league of legends #Personal

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