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iamnotamartian1877 · 1 day

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You arent being victimized, you are obnoxious crybaby narcissists.

First we couldnt say le n-1993-r word under threat of violence, then banning from servers etc. then the parents of tards were upset and we couldn't say le R word, then we couldnt say f49 cause the gays demanded we couldnt and then being a straight white male was THE EPITOME OF EVIL. You don't get to cry until you oust all these narcissists take your "community" aka CULT for a ride and weaponizing it against literally everybody even your own families. I've seen you morons doxx and betray your own parents because they aren't hip and cool with the new gender trender BS A lot of you are young and a bunch of activists are manipulating you to aim your teen angst at your own loved ones, separating you from those who care for you, your family. Meanwhile I can't say THE FUCKING GAMER WORD IN A FUCKING GAME, you annoying talentless boring CUNTS

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badaziraphaletakes · 20 hours

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What the actual factual fuck did I just read

I don't know what we could possibly say about a take that isn't even trying to be in good faith. Most of the takes we talk about here have unconscious bias in them or lack of general understanding, this is just a vicious attack with no basis in any kind of reality or clear motivation. It's like reading an incel's take on dating. They're not even trying to pretend to be fans of the show anymore. Literally just a nasty troll at this point.

But anyway, let's go. Let's assume something can be said about this. *sighs*

Usually I'd dive into canon here and analyse and nitpick how wrong this is, how poor at best and ill-intentioned at worst of an interpretation it is, and how the text is not telling us ANY of what OP claims, not by a long shot.

But at this point I think it's best to just think for a moment WHY, oh why do you treat these two characters SO DIFFERENTLY when they do the same things that are narratively supposed to PARALLEL EACH OTHER. Not in a one is good/one is evil manner, but in a THEY'RE THE SAME manner.

I could dive into the ableism and misogyny of projecting every single mean person you've ever encountered in your life into the autistic-coded effeminate character, of interpreting every single thing he does as harmful and narcissistic (even when he's SELFLESS), and when his partner does the same thing they're praise-worthy (even when those things are questionable like having a collection of SOULS).

But truly, at this point some ppl are just being cruel, and they don't even try to pretend that they aren't anymore. They're not hiding behind several paragraphs of fake analysis anymore.

They're enjoying the bullying.

And before haters come at us: yes, I KNOW he's fictional but several people in the community identify with him bc of his autistic traits, his trauma and his femininity, so these attacks FEEL personal. And this kind of prejudiced behaviour has consequences irl, as we've said here a thousand times.

#this has got to be engagement bait at this point istg this is not possible #badaziraphaletakes #bullying #cw ableism misogyny anti-autistic bias the whole lot

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butch-reidentified · 2 months

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nobody has ever been forced to stay in a menstrual hut because they had a cramp and got moody. because that's not a period. die.

#mine #menstrual huts #female oppression #menstruation #menstrual period #trans period #you are literally evil and narcissistic for this #you truly have no idea what women to through #mtf period

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iconsumethesoulsofthedamned · 4 months

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Just found out about the 'Gideon Graves wears women's underwear cannonicly' thing and also found out about the reasoning behind him doing that,

and can I just say that while this character has epic loser swag and while this loser is wearing women's underwear would usually be a huge epic win and green flag for me this was not in fact either.

What is wrong with him he literally has the most disgusting vibes what in the world.

#scott pilgrim vs the world #gideon graves #gordon goose #spvtw #scott pilgram takes off #scott pilgram vs the world #gideon gordon graves #hes literally the worst #what do you MEAN he wore Ramonas underwear bc it made him feel like he owned her what the actual FUCK #I HATE HIM EW #WHAT THE HELL BRO #I can excuse being an evil narcissistic nerdy loser man but I draw the line at cryogenically freezing your exes and then the underwear thin #its giving jail time #its giving death sentence #its giving I would not let him near my female friends

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subconsciousmysteries · 9 months

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it pains me to announce that if you got fucked over by someone with a mental illness and now you project that mental illness onto everyone mildly strange who you come into contact with

you too are MENTALLY ILL and you need to stop scapegoating others for your problems because you are the fucking problem.

#this is directed at everyone who thought i was their BPD mother cuz im expressive #and everyone who accuses random people they dont even know who havent even done anything bad #of having NPD or BPD vibes #YOU ARE THE MENTALLY ILL ONE IF YOU TREAT PEOPLE THIS WAY #youre the paranoid narcissist bpd haver etc. because this is literally what cluster Bs do by definition #they project the emotional pain and trauma of their past onto everyone around them #thats their entire cluster b disorder and what it does #i hate the discourse around cluster bs esp. npd and aspd which dehumanizes them in this weird way #where theyre turned into like these legendary deities of evil who are no longer human bc of their disorder #no... they are weak humans who are letting their demons run them. its literally that simple.#we're all traumatized but some ppl use it as an excuse to succumb to their demons whilst others act with respect #acting like cluster b are irredeemable or cant be cured or have some ailment that is beyond the plebian understanding #is actually a way to keep them avoiding accountability.#and force people around them into a “oh theyre just like that and they cant change and we have to accept them” mentality #if you have a cluster b disorder youre not specially traumatized and incomprehensible to the normies at all #youre just weak #and a bad person #and you need to get a grip #lol reason 2352852398 i hate psychiatry #it gives people with these disorders a label to identify with and this entraps them further in their fixation #like enneagram when used as a dumb personality quiz does

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dcviline · 2 months

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the fandom discourse has circled back to “Cersei does love her children and is a great & unselfish mother actually” and honestly I might meta about it again at some point bc it irks me how much people insist on whitewashing her character. You can’t say you appreciate Cersei as a character and then erase her bad traits 😭

I will say show Cersei and book Cersei are two completely separate characters in terms of motivations / actions / etc but before I scream let me just drop this snippet and run

#abuse tw #᯽ ooc. ⊱ ── ❝ 𝘖𝘩 𝘯𝘰 𝘪𝘵'𝘴 𝘔𝘢𝘳𝘪. ❞#the physical abuse ain’t enough for yall?????#what about her attempts to isolate her children from others to their own detriment all for the sake of having control over them???#what about the fact that no reading something from her POV is not an unbiased look at her motivations #and the things Cersei tells herself about ‘doing everything for her children’ are just how she justified her own bullshit to herself #because it doesn’t matter what she tells herself in her mind her actions are NOT for their benefit #they are for the sake of her own control #yeah she loves her children but not in the *right* way #because she does not understand the right way to love them. love to her IS control.#there have been literal psychologists doing essays on this character and how she exhibits symptoms of narcissistic abuse #but yeah let’s ignore that all to make her easier to digest huh #I’m saying this as someone who fucking loves Cersei as a character #once again im pointing at the sign that says sometimes a villain is just a villain even if they have understandable motivations #that’s the point of complexity you don’t have to forcefully redeem them all in some way I am ripping my hair #also let me make it clear that having a personality disorder or symptoms of one =\= being evil #it’s her actions that make her the villain not her mental state bc she is actively harming others for her own benefit #does this make sense? I hope it makes sense I’m fucking tired and hungry lmao #I will make another actual meta at some point but brain too small right now

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sing-me-under · 1 year

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I think the thing that bothers me most about how criticism perceives the fandom is that a lot of them treat c!Tommy as like a y/n of an abuse victim rather than his own character. Like, yes it’s valid that you are upset by his decision and that you would rather he have done something else but like… that’s not what what c!Tommy was. c!Tommy’s choice was his closure as best suited to him because trauma isn’t universal and people aren’t a monolith.

This is a mild follow-up to a post I made earlier about c!Tommy’s story being a coming of age and overcoming a child’s black and white world view. It’s buried in the many many other posts I’ve made, but the key point I’m elaborating on here is that c!Tommy’s entire character arc was completed when he chose to understand Dream as a person.

Tommy has always been extremely self-aware, defending himself rather than accepting pain. Tommy was aware he didn’t deserve the blame placed upon him, and he was aware that he didn’t deserve to be hurt. He knew that the justification others claimed was flimsy at best, especially when he was treated worse for things others did too. He was fully aware of this and fought back.

However, just because he knew he didn’t deserve it didn’t mean he understood it. If the things he did “deserved” to “punish” him worse than others, then surely there was a reason for why it had to be him. Without any other possible explanations, Tommy determined that the reason behind his suffering was because Dream was obsessed with his very existence. It wasn’t his fault. It was because Dream was evil.

To c!Tommy, c!Dream had always been a force of absolute evil, an inescapable monster who hurt needlessly. To anyone, being hurt for things beyond your understanding is inevitably scary. The belief that no matter what he did, Dream would hurt Tommy because it was Tommy, nothing more, nothing less. Tommy only ever wanted to feel safe and happy, and he would do fucking anything to escape the inevitable pain. The prison wasn’t the safety barrier he could rely on anymore, and death especially wasn’t an option for escape as long as Dream (and Punz) still had the knowledge of the revive book. The fear that at any moment for any reason, The Unfathomable Evil would hurt him only worsened Tommy’s mental state and paranoia until he was barely husk of a person.

The abstract is scary. c!Dream perfectly embodies the existential fear of the unknown. This was how everyone perceived Dream, not just Tommy.

Tommy, endlessly afraid but so compassionate and kind, chose to free the server of the Pure Evil at the cost of himself. Even though he knew he didn’t deserve it, he still believed his very existence was the crime itself.

When Tommy chose to understand Dream at the very end, it wasn’t understanding out of the sake of compassion. It was his compassion that allowed him to understand for the sake of his freedom. He finally understood why Dream had chosen him to hurt, to abuse, to torture. c!Dream is a terrible person, but he was a terrible person with the very human understanding for why he chose Tommy. Tommy was just the wrong person at the wrong time.

In my previous posts, I emphasize that Sapnap was the one to aid Tommy in killing Dream that very first time all those years ago. No one was happy under Dream’s iron grip, but it just so happened that Tommy was the first one to win against Dream. It didn’t have to be Tommy. It could have been anyone else, but it just happened to be Tommy who received Dream’s ire first.

And that was freeing. It was clarity, a weight lifted off of Tommy’s shoulders. He knew he didn’t deserve it, but now he understood that he wasn’t being hurt simply because he existed. This was no longer some abstract unknown that would hurt him just for the sake of his very existence. It was a real, tangible reason with a real human motive. It was a problem Tommy finally had control over had he just understood sooner.

That’s not to say Dream wouldn’t have still been an manipulative piece of shit, but at the very least Tommy wouldn’t be paranoid and confused and scared out of his mind, obsessed that Dream was obsessed with him. But they could have come to an understanding sooner, before Dream truly became the Evil Villaiin everyone made him out to be, before everyone turned against him, before there was no turning back.

#dream smp #also Wilbur won against Dream too #except unlike Tommy #Wilbur actually played into Dream’s manipulations eventually #whereas Tommy always kept fighting #tommy is also a flawed character #his insidtence of fight dream no matter what only exacerbated dream’s control issues #dream is not in the right but you still shouldn't poke a sleeping bear #literally look at any therapist advice on how to deal with extreme narcissists #the general advice is just play along because otherwise the narcissist couldbecome extremely volatile when their world is threatened #Tommy had always been compassionate but he was also forced to fight villains #and that meant that compassion was useless on villains #because they're pure evil without any empathy or human understanding #so Tommy never even tried to listen #i suffer from paranoia and sever dissociation btw #in order to get through my everyday and shake off the inconsolable FEAR of excusing #existing #I had to come to a lot of terms with the nature of humanity and my place within it #basically I had to force myself to think optimistically and immediately assume the best in people #had to do shit that scared the fuck out of me #but eventually I was proven that people are not usually horrible #I'm still fearful and paranoid frequently #but it's easier to brush off with actual experience of human goodness #obviously Tommy is very much not in the same situation as me #but I had already planned for how to deal with justified paranoia #in order to avoid a total mental shut down

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forcedjuggalofication · 6 months

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#vent/rant in tags #some people are JUST ABUSIVE.#i’m not gonna lie - it hurts so fucking bad to have done so much work all by myself - untreated - unmedicated - no resources -#just guesswork - just to have it not fucking matter because people discard me the SECOND they learn about my #TRAUMA BASED fucking disorder.#it’s not my fault. i was a CHILD. i was a CHILD who should have been cared for - not neglected - isolated - and abused.#i’m sorry that maybe some people take that and repeat the cycle - but everything about that told me that i HAVE to be BETTER -#i CANNOT repeat those same fucking behaviours that wounded me so deeply and ruined my fucking life #IT IS NOT MY FAULT.#and you know fucking what? my biggest abuser had NPD - and i rejected my diagnosis for YEARS. because of terms like narc abuse.#and because people demonized him on the basis of being a narcissist instead of on the basis of being an abuser.#rejecting my diagnosis only hurt me more - and hurt the people around me more.#i am so tired. i’m just a person. i am just a human being. i try so hard - i don’t even want recognition or praise for trying -#i’m just tired of being thrown away - i’m tired of being treated like my abuser just because of my diagnosis #he quite literally tried to murder me - believe me if you want - i don’t care - i was a child and he tried to murder me and i still think #that there is no excuse to demonize NPD just because he has it.#fuck all the way off - go die - i don’t care #none of my friends would ever know i have NPD because i’m not a fucking stereotype - i’m not an evil monster - i don’t want to hurt anyone-#the way i’ve been hurt - i NEED to be the best - i NEED to be as good as possible #stop demonizing my disorder - please - i am begging #screaming into the void #NPD #narc abuse #narcissistic abuse

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alostlittleriverlotus · 2 years

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random person I won't even talk to: *spews ableist bs about a disorder I have*

Me: Woah, good to know. Hey! MA did you know this about me? Apparently I'm evil and prey on you, you better watch out! /lh

it's even said directly towards anyone. It's often just about the disorder in general.

I just saw someone say people with BPD prey on others and are manipulative.

That's uh really good to know. I should let my friends know I'm scary and evil. /sarc

im honestly just tired of ableism to the point that if it's about a disorder I have, I just make it light hearted and poke fun cause honestly y'all are embarrassing yourselves. Also the amount of ableists that throw around PDs as "abusive" or "evil" and yet show the exact traits that those people list off (particularly for NPD) where "it's all about them" is really funny. Like I'm not saying they have the disorder, but the traits they try to claim as evil are traits they're showing by making such a big show about them. It's really funny to me to watch.

Anyway, gonna keep fighting this fucking shitty stigma cause we all fucking deserve better. And as always:

😌 demonizing a disorder because your abuser may or may not have had it is incredibly NOT valid and you're just harming the mentally ill and are harming other victims of abuse. You are doing more harm to victims of abuse all in the name of defending your own abuse just because your abuser MAY OR MAY NOT have had a certain disorder. Please try to learn or just, ya know, shut up. 😌😇 Thank you. 🥰

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gloriousmonsters · 2 years

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sorrowland is kind of a funny book bc on one hand it’s very obviously a power fantasy about mutating into a cool monster and killing bad guys but the author is like. self aware about it just enough that we keep on hitting the pause button to be like ‘hey guys so... i know we just popped a woman’s head off like a cork and defended against a hail of bullets with cool bone wings so we can then absolutely slaughter some soldiers..... but Violence Is Bad. Addiction To Power Is Bad. I mean yes we’re still killing these people and not trying to like communicate with them at all but it’s ok we put a little sign up saying Don’t Do This Cool Thing, It’s Not That Fulfilling Actually, so it’s fine right? right. ok back to the protagonist murdering the shit out of people with magic fungi powers’

#it would be better if it was just the power fantasy imo except that #rivers solomon is soooooo bad at writing action scenes + dramatic shit happening scenes #they're great at like conversations and small scenes and time passing but shit like #full on fights w the government and mass ressurections happen in this book #and they are NOT exciting in the slightest #also it's nooot as bad as Pet (Pet my beloathed)#but despite gesturing at nuance it still comes off as pretty 'there are Good people and Bad people and #the only way to deal with Bad people is killing them' sometimes #also w/the main active villain i must admit i was side eying how it felt like the author was baaaaarely restraining themself #from outright calling her a narcissist or sociopath #'there's something WRONG with her she's super COLD and EGOTISTICAL #and a MANIPULATOR and did we mention SELF-CENTERED and EGOTISTICAL and WEIRD'#and the mc was constantly assuming that she was doing stuff for solely Evil reasons with no indication it's not the 100% truth #like! she was bad! a little nuance wouldn't have impacted that!#not to mention the 'torture/confinement makes you Evil and Crazy and Broken and the only narrative path is death'#with Queen.... ugh i had high hopes for this book but the pieces i don't like really pile up against the parts i did #OH SPEAKING OF THE AWKWARD RELATIONSHIP W VIOLENCE - the fact that Queen literally murders a bunch of soldiers (for ??? reasons)#and the mc is like 'oh my god that's horrible! i would never do that it's horrifying and disturbing there's something wrong with her!'#5 minutes later........... the protag kills a bunch of soldiers..... in basically the same way.....

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cuntvonkrolock · 2 years

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begging neurotypicals to understand that i'm not trying to manipulate you by crying loudly, i literally just cry like that and i can't change it.

#the phrase crocodile tears incurs rage in me bc of this shit #it's shitty to call me manipulative now as a 16yo for crying #but it was worse when i was younger bc why would a literal 6yo be crying to manipulate someone???#maam your child isn't secretly an 'evil scary narcissist™️' or whatever they are just a child being a child #sidenote but i hate ppl who armchair diagnose other ppl with npd based on 'vibes' or w/e #people with personality disorders & people with autism are in fact just normal people not evil masterminds trying to hurt you #ableism tw #actuallyautistic

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prophetmuhammad · 6 days

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This is an actual nightmare this is very very bad

#he is so sick in so many ways it makes me feel ill #i hate the yes men around him so much hes sick he's literally unwell!!! stop letting the unhinged man do EVIL THINGS!!!#i doubt he'll stop getting worse now he has no reason to do better im afraid #people have proven he can go full nazi and think he's god and compare himself to cosby and diddy and shit and no one caaare #they're like YEAH but he believe in himself which is sooo powerful😮 no hes a NARCISSIST that is not inspirational you moron

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subconsciousmysteries · 2 months

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Men are absolutely losing it because women are seeing through their bullshit and I'm here to watch their collective narcissistic meltdown

#I understand anti feminists because feminism is a CIA funded plant that dug its own grave in regards to the trans stuff #I understand anti fems until they start saying we need to feel compassion for incels lol #I can tell these anti feminist women have never got stuck with a narcissist / borderline personality man before #The only way you can deal with a Cluster B is shut them down like the animal they are.#No sympathy no compassion... Their entire pathology is about exploiting your compassion to get you to enable their evil.#They are demonically possessed individuals #Even if you don't believe in that stuff... If you've dealt with one before and processed it... you know there's no fixing them #You can't love incels out of hating women #They have a deep-seated womb envy that transcends feminism or anything to do with the modern times #Coddling them literally makes it worse #See if the population understood enneagram things would be much easier lol #4s (incels) need to get they ass whooped by some harsh eugenic 1-ness #You cannot love them out of being hateful #And 2s (gender conforming women) need to grow some self awareness and understand that they keep themselves trapped in the “feminine role”#It's not muh social conditioning muh patriarchy keeping women sympathizing with gross men #It is our own 2-ish hubris #I need to write a book about gender dynamics inspired by enneagram 2 cuz this understanding is so so lacking in our culture #When you try to “fix” a broken man you are trying to impose your will on him and establish power over him.#It's absolutely not about you being a poor little innocent victim of patriarchy even though that's what you become when it backfires on you #Speaking as a 2-ish woman who has learned the hard way you can't fix broken hateful men

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kindnessoverperfection · 9 months

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Please, if you can, take a moment to read and share this because I feel like I'm screaming underwater.

NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) stigma is rampant right now, and seems to be getting progressively worse. Everyone is using it as a buzzword in the worst ways possible, spreading misinformation and hatred against a real disorder.

I could go on a long time about how this happened, why it's factually incorrect (and what the disorder actually IS), why it's harmful, and the changes I'd like to see. But to keep this concise, I'll simply link to a few posts under the cut for further reading.

The point of this post is a plea. Please help stop the spread of stigma. Even in mental health communities, even around others with personality disorders, in neurodivergent "safe" spaces, other communities I thought people would be supportive in (e.g. trans support groups, progressive spaces in general), it keeps coming up. So I'm willing to bet that a lot of people on this site need to see this.

Because it's so hard to exist in this world.

My disorder already makes me feel as if I'm worthless and unlovable, like there's something inherently wrong and damaged about me. And it's so much harder to fight that and heal when my daily life consists of:

Laughing and spending time with my friends, doing my utmost best to connect and stay present and focused on them, trying to let my guards down and be real and believe I'm lovable- when suddenly they throw out the word "narcissist" to describe horrible people or someone they hate, or the conversation turns to how evil "people with narcissistic personality disorder" are. (Seriously, you don't know which of your friends might have NPD and feels like shit when you say those things & now knows that you'd hate them if you knew.)

Trying to look up "mental health positivity for people with npd", "mental health positivity cluster bs", only to find a) none of that, and b) more of the same old vile shit that makes me feel terrible about myself.

Having a hard time (which is constant at this point) and trying to look up resources for myself, only to again, find the same stigma. And no resources.

Not having any clue how to help myself, because even the mental health field is spitting so much vitriol at people with DISORDERS (who they're supposed to be helping!) that there's no solid research or therapy programs for people like me.

Losing close friends when they find out, despite us having had a good relationship before, and them KNOWING me and knowing that I'm not like the trending image of pwNPD. Because now they only see me through the lens of stigma and misinformation.

Hearing the same stigma come up literally wherever I go. Clubs. Meetings. Any online space. At the bus stop. At the mall. At a restaurant. At work. Buzzword of the year that everyone loooves loudly throwing around with their friends or over the phone. Feels awesome for me, makes my day so much better/s

I could go on for a long time, but I'm scared no one will read/rb this if it gets too much longer.

So please. Stop using the word "narcissist" as a synonym for "abusive".

Stop bringing up people you hate who you believe to have NPD because of a stigmatizing article full of misinformation whenever someone with actual NPD opens their mouth. (Imagine if people did that with any other disorder! "Hey, I'm autistic." "Oh... my old roommate screamed at me whenever I made noise around him, and didn't understand my needs, which seems like sensory overload and difficulty with social cues. He was definitely autistic. But as long as you're self-aware and always restraining your innate desire to be an abusive asshole, you're okay I guess, maybe." ...See how offensive and ignorant that is?)

Stop preventing healthcare for people with a disorder just because it's trendy to use us as a scapegoat.

If you got this far, thank you for reading, and please share this if you can. Further reading is under the cut.

NPD Criteria, re-written by someone who actually has NPD

Stigma in the DSM

Common perception of the DSM criteria vs how someone may actually experience them (Keep in mind that this is the way I personally experience these symptoms, and that presentation can vary a lot between individuals)

"Idk, the stigma is right though, because I've known a lot of people with NPD who are jerks, so I'm going to continue to support the blockage of treatment for this condition."

(All of these were written by me, because I didn't want to link to other folks' posts without permission, but if you want to add your own links in reblogs or replies please feel free <3)

#actuallynpd #signal boost #actuallyautistic #mental health awareness #narcissistic personality disorder #people also need to realize that mental health professionals aren't immune from bias #(it really shouldn't come as a shock that the mental health field has a longstanding pattern of misunderstanding and mistreating ppl who ar #mentally ill or otherwise ND)#the first therapist i brought up NPD to like. literally pulled out the DSM bc she could barely remember the criteria. then said that there'#no way I have it because I have low self-esteem lmaoooooo #anyway throwback to being at work and chatting with a co-worker. and the conversation turning to mental health. and him saying that #he tries to stay informed and be aware and supportive of mental health conditions & that he doesn't want to be ignorant or spread harmful #misinformation. and then i mentioned that i do a lot of research into mental health stuff and i listed a bunch of things. which included #several personality disorders. one of which was NPD.#and after listening to my whole ass list he zeroed in on the NPD and immediately started talking about how narcissists are abusive and #he knew someone who had NPD and how the person who had it had an addiction and died from the addiction in a horrible way and he #was glad he did #fun times #or when i decided to be vulnerable and talk abt my self-criticism/self-hatred bc i knew my friends also struggled w that and i wanted to #support them by sharing my own coping methods. and they both(separately!) started picking and prodding at my npd through the lens of stigma #bc i'd recently opened up to them abt having it. they recognized self-hatred as a symptom and still jumped on me for it. despite me #trying to share hurt vulnerable parts of myself to help them and connect with them.#again..... fun times

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pucksandpower · 1 year

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charles_leclerc were you screaming my name as well?

yourusername of course, i’ve had lots of practice

f1wagupdates did they just?

gridgossip uh huh

f1wagupdates and imply that they …

gridgossip slept with each other? sure looks like it 🍿

scuderiaferrari monaco always loves charles but they love him even more after winning his first home race 🍾

f1wagupdates she's an icon, she is a legend, and she is the moment

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charles_leclerc the true prize came after the podium

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f1wagupdates charles “mr. steal your girl” leclerc

yourusername i was not anyone’s girl for him to steal in the first place. the only thing he stole was my heart

feralferrari first charles gets the girl, next he gets the championship 🤞

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yourusername all along there was some invisible string tying you to me

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danielricciardo max just threw his phone at the wall

danielricciardo to be clear, i am a y/n stan first and max’s friend second

honeybadgered valid 💯

f1wagupdates they look so good together

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charles_leclerc i promise to buy you flowers and hold your hand. give you all my hours when i have the chance. take you to every party because i know how much you love to dance. do all the things he should have done when he was your man

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yourusername the start of the year might not have been smooth sailing but i am so grateful for every obstacle i faced because they led me to you and i can’t imagine waking up next to anyone else every morning

charles_leclerc maybe we should send a certain red bull driver a thank you basket for indirectly getting us together

yourusername you’re evil and i love it

charles_leclerc what can i say? you’re rubbing off on me

y/nfanclub i’ve never seen y/n this happy before so thank you for making her smile again 🥹

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yourusername your eyes look like coming home

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charles_leclerc home is no longer just a place, it’s wherever you are

yourusername i am the luckiest girl in the world to have found my soulmate in you

lonelyleclerc bathing with a toaster, sleeping on the highway, throwing myself head first into an active volcano

zendaya look at you literally glowing. i’m so happy for you both 💕

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