#ableism cw. caps cw

[fictionkinfessions]

Theres this god damn quiz results screenshot that constantly floats around as a meme for a 'which character are you quiz' of my kin, Razor, and it makes me so mad.

"Youre probably 5 idk how you got here bc you cant even read"

Fuck you quiz maker and FUCK anyone in the fandom who constantly rags on my struggles with education or infantalizes me for them.

I know in my main tl this wasnt even an issue bc au wee but I do still have a more canon complacent timeline and GOD.

I WAS NEARLY AN ADULT. DO YOU KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO LEARN TO READ AND WRITE AND SPEAK AT 18-20?? Sure learning a new language is one thing, but learning to do it aT ALL is a whole other.

For fucks sake Im not STUPID Im not a BABY. Im doing something NONE of you could even fucking DREAM of.

And god dont get me started on the double standard between me and Collei! She can ALSO canotically barely read but because she can speak full sentences clearly SHES not stupid but I AM? Even when I state. In canon. That I speak the way I do because talking is EXHAUSTING. Implying I COULD speak full complete sentences if I wanted and CHOOSE NOT TO TO CONSERVE SOCIAL ENERGY???

I hate that I even have to bring her up bc she was my best friend and I dont want her to feel bad so plz any Colleis reading this is NOT your fault. We're struggling together.

Just. Fuck man. Im already not that popular and while nobody out there really HATES me, most people see me as this little stupid baby who cant do anything at all ever and will always be stupid and will never ever read or speak correctly and AUGH.

I wish I could shove my main timeline in everyones face and go "LOOK AT WHAT I COULD HAVE BEEN IF VARKA WASNT A PIECE OF SHIT. I WAS THE SMARTEST KID IN MONDSTADT. THE AKADEMIYA BEGGED ME TO JOIN THEM. CANON HAD TO FUCKING NERF ME BECAUSE ID BE TOO POWERFUL BEING RAISED BY LISA."

Im STILL smart in canon, I canotically picked up rudamentary speech from just listening to Varka talk during the years he visited. I learned to fight without even understanding most of what Varka was telling me. I SPEAK WOLF. FLUENTLY. I picked up vision techniques from Lisa in barely a year of her training me! I may not know a lot in canon, but Im learning VERY quickly and I WISH PEOPLE WOULD SEE THAT.

~Razor🕯♟️ (GenshinImpact)

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#fictionkinfessions #fictionkin #razorkin #genshinimpactkin #fandom issue #ableism cw. caps cw #ableist language cw #classism cw #mod party cat

[im-not-here-im-dead]

OLDER RELATIVES STOP TOUCHING ME AND CALLING ME PET NAMES CHALLENGE. IT’S NOT CUTE AND IT’S NOT FUCKING FUNNY. WOULD YOU DO THAT IF YOU KNEW I WAS A LEGAL ADULT? IF I WAS VISIBLY AGING? IF MY AUTISM DIDN’T MAKE ME ‘CHILDISH’? WHY DO YOU THINK IT’S OKAY TO JUST GO UP TO YOUR KID RELATIVES AND TOUCH THEM WITHOUT THEIR PERMISSION? YOU DON’T DO THAT TO FELLOW ADULTS, SO WHY AM I AN EXCEPTION? STOP IT. AND WHILE YOU’RE AT IT, STOP ASSUMING THAT WE’RE AUTOMATICALLY BUDDIES JUST BECAUSE WE’RE RELATIVES. WE’VE MET TWICE WHEN I WAS LITTLE. I DON’T FUCKING KNOW YOU. AND EVEN IF I DID, THAT WOULD’NT GIVE YOU A PASS TO CALL ME ‘SWEETIE’ AND FUCKING STROKE MY HAIR WHEN I HAVE NOT TOLD YOU THAT IT WAS OKAY TO DO SO. I AM NOT YOUR FUCKING PET. STARS I HATE ADULTS SO DAMN MUCH SOMETIMES. I HATE HOW PRESUMPTUOUS THEY ARE. I HATE HOW COMFORTABLE THEY ARE WITH ENCROACHING ON MY PERSONAL SPACE. I HATE THAT THEY STILL DON’T CONSIDER ME THEIR EQUAL.

why am i still not. worthy of respect? why is respect the exception? and not the rule? why do i need to ask you to stop? can’t you just ask for my permission? how will you act if i say no?

#my relatives aren’t exceptionally terrible #but they don’t have to be #i still feel unsafe. and violated. #and. defeated. #the way adults treat young people is deplorable. #i say young people instead of children because even as a legal adult. i don’t count as a full adult. #don’t get me wrong. i get treated far better now than i used to. #but i’m still not a whole person in their eyes. #if i was. they would act like it. #not utdr #consent #adultism #ageism #ableism #tw infantilization #all caps warning #bold text #swearing cw #vent

[disabled-is-not-a-dirty-word]

I made a little uquiz for fun!

#actually disabled #disability #ableism #wheelchair user #wheelchair #uquiz #uquizzes #uquiz link #caps cw

[manyunhappygreenies]

I agree with the tier list but I'm curious why idw and 2007 are on the bottom half and not like 2012 splinter? Or even rise they were both pretty bad fathers

I'll answer rise and 2012 first because 2007 and idw fuel me with so much anger.

DISCLAIMER: I love Rise Splinter and 12 Splinter but they are not without flaws!!!!!

Trigger warnings will be in tags please adhere to them!

[Rise Splinter Start]

I put rise splinter in "you're okay" tier because Hamato Yoshi (will be calling rise splinter "Lou" from now on for context) did his very best and tried to make the very best out of a terrible situation.

He had lost his mother at a very young age and dealt with an emotionally neglectful grandfather who had only cared about a Hamato's duty to their clan up to his late teens into adulthood. [This undermines Karai's sacrifice in the first place. As she had sacrificed herself out of love for the world around her and the love of her father. Not because of a sense of duty.]

Lou moves to America in order to separate himself from his trauma, never addressing it but rather repressing it. In hopes he can move on and start a new life, which he fully intended when he proposed to Big Mama. [Though it's never spoken directly or stated directly in the show, it's implied Splinter was ready to even have a family with her because he loved her so much]

This is quickly torn to shreds when Big Mama reveals she's a Yokai crime boss [essentially] and human traffic [yes. HUMAN TRAFFICS] Lou to New York to become a champion in her Battle Nexus. While in the beginning of the show it's depreciated as Lou Jitsu loved being a Nexus champion we quickly learned in "Many Unhappy Returns" he in fact did not relish being a champion and was clearly traumatized by Big Mama's actions.

> Enter Baron Draxum

Lou is human trafficked once again and this time is experimented on, his DNA used to create turtle super soldiers that will be trained and raised to murder humans. [This show is super fucked up now that I think about it.]

And after completely destroying Draxum's lab, being freshly mutated into a rat man. Stripped of his humanity, he now has 4 turtle sons dropped into his lap.

TLDR: Rise Splinter did the very best he could in a terrible situation and struggled to overcome his own generational trauma. His actions are explained, not excused. He needs therapy, his sons needs therapy. He needs to make up for his neglectful behavior [which we do see towards the end of season 1 and into season 2] and understand his children are in no way shape or form obligated to forgive him.

[End of Rise Splinter]

[Start of 2012 Splinter]

My reasoning for putting 2012 Splinter in "Seek therapy before having kids" tier is because Hamato Yoshi [will just be calling him Yoshi for context] has been a parent before, while brief and tragically separated from his child for many years, on top of losing his wife.

Yoshi did as I would feel did the best he could but could have definitely done better. He's freshly traumatized, well into his 30s, maybe early 40s [?] And moves to America from Japan. [Clearly he needs therapy]

Yoshi clearly was not expecting to be a parent again, so soon after losing his only daughter. [perceived]

He loves his children, though he more often than not struggles to actually connect with them and see them as his sons rather than just clan members. I would consider this emotionally neglectful [?]

I personally always headcanoned this as a trauma response. A subconscious way to protect himself from the hurt of losing another child. And it's clear that Yoshi's trauma over losing miwa has manifested for his sons as well, as we see in the episode "Panic in the Sewers" one of the first episodes we actually see Yoshi PUT HIS HANDS ON HIS SON outside of training. And it's very clear that he was in fact hurting Raph. [Intentional or not. He still hurt his son.]

He loves his sons very much. But please. Get therapy.

[End of 2012 Splinter.]

Cracks Knuckles

[Start IDW Splinter.]

FUCK THIS STUPID ASS RAT I HATE HIM SO FUCKING MUCH. ESPECIALLY ESPECIALLY AFTER THE EVENTS OF CITY FALL.

YOUR SON IS CLEARLY TRAUMATIZED BY NOT JUST OROKU SAKI BUT YOU, HE IS AFRAID OF YOU ANGRY AT YOU AND DESPITE YOU KNOWING THIS YOU STILL CHOOSE TO INVADE HIS SPACE, PRIVACY AND COMFORT ZONE. FUCK YOU!

That being said the entire Trauma and storyline with IDW Leo being brainwashed was handled poorly and clearly written from a stigmatized view. I'm not surprised that his recovery was handled just as poorly.

[End of IDW Splinter]

[Start of 2007 Splinter]

Fuck you. You literally look like the cheetah from Cheetos you nasty, emotionally and physically neglectful fuck!!!

The only time you EVER paid attention to your sons was when Leo came home. 2 YEARS AFTER YOU SENT HIM TO CENTRAL AMERICA.

You did NOT care about Raphael's feelings about Leo's departure or return, nor the abandonment issues he had developed and the resentment that he had for you and his older brother.

You did NOT care that Donnie had to pick up the slack and pay bills so YOUR CRUSTY CHEETO LOOKING ASS COULD WATCH THE NEWS AND YELL "BOYS" WHEN LEO CAME HOME AND THEY CONVENIENTLY WENT OUT TO FIGHT CRIME

I DON'T THINK YOU EVEN ACKNOWLEDGED MIKEY UNTIL THE END OF THE MOVIE AFTER LEO WAS SAVED

TLDR: FUCK 2007 SPLINTER.

#cw / perceived child death #cw / spouse death #cw / implied human trafficking #cw / child abuse #cw / child neglect #cw / cursing #cw / caps #cw / parental death #tmnt #tmnt 2012 #tmnt 2007 #tmnt idw #rottmnt #greenie talks #anonymous #thanks for the ask! #if theres anything else i should tah please let me know! #cw / ableism

[slugass]

a youtube ad for the first omen, a horror movie, that begins with flashing lights and screaming. UNSKIPPABLE. FLASHING. LIGHTS. AND SCREAMING.

ad blockers violate youtube’s terms of service.

but ADS WITH UNSKIPPABLE FLASHING LIGHTS THAT COULD HARM OR KILL SOMEONE is perfectly fucking ok.

i am so fucking tired of this shit. why the fuck to trailer makers keep adding in flashing lights. why does youtube keep allowing ads with flashing strobe lights that can’t be skipped or have any goddamn warning.

YOUTUBE. PHOTOSENSITIVE EPILEPSY IS A THING. ACKNOWLEDGE IT. STOP FUCKING ALLOWING THESE UNSKIPPABLE FLASHING LIGHTS.

nobody wants to be suddenly met with flashing lights and screaming.

#ableism #epilepsy #not epileptic myself #horror #fuck youtube #swearing #swearing cw #swearing tw #advertising #youtube do something #youtube doesn’t give a shit about epileptics #all caps #vent #rant

[crown-jay]

Because I just had to tell someone that wanting to make a hot pocket isn't an intrusive thought and I'm fucking pissed:

DON'T CALL IMPULSIVE THOUGHTS "INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS"

[PT: Don't call impulsive thoughts "intrusive thoughts" /End PT]

Intrusive thoughts are an incredibly distressing and hard experience to deal with. I have had absolutely terrible intrusive thoughts, even about people I think very dearly of. It is not a joke.

Things that are not intrusive thoughts:

Wanting a hot pocket

Wanting to dye your hair

Pinging everyone in a Discord server

I should eat all of this food

I should spill this glass of water

I should throw this paper at this person

I should snap this pencil in half

I should play video games instead of studying

Things that are intrusive thoughts:

I want to run over that old lady with my car

I should throw myself or someone else off this building

I should stab myself or someone else with this knife I'm using

I wish that kid on their bike would get run over by that car

Pedophilic thoughts

Racist thoughts

Ableist thoughts

Sexist thoughts

Other things that I haven't mentioned that are just as horrible to deal with

And none of the intrusive thoughts I just listed make the people who experience them a bad person. Because they are involuntary, unwanted thoughts. If I could stop having my intrusive thoughts I would and the drop of a hat. But I can't and neither can anyone else who experiences them. Thought crimes aren't a thing. Intrusive thoughts don't make you a bad person, I promise.

Do we understand now? Have I spelt it out enough? If you call your impulsive thoughts intrusive thoughts, quit it. I'm fucking serious and could not be more clear. I've said it once and I'll say it again; Ableists. Fuck. Off.

#mental health #mental illness #actually mentally ill #intrusive thoughts #intrusive thinking #actually disabled #disabled #disability #mentally ill #caps cw #tw pedophila mention #tw sex mention #tw ableism #tw violence #was unsure how to tag this one criticism appreciated #not putting in ocd tags because im not apart of that community #and i dont want to intrude

[gods-favorite-autistic]

I GOT CURIOUS ABOUT SOMETHING SO I GOOGLED THIS

AND GOOGLED GAVE ME THIS-

ALKEDJAJSJJ WHY-

@b33sal0s3r anonymously sending this to your parents actually/j

#tw all caps #cw all caps #autism #tw ableism #how does this exist #maddy says dumb stuff and no one listens #maddy threatens bee. again #nobody cares maddy

[dyspunktional-revan]

You know what makes adultism so insidious is the fact that I literally won't grow up. I will die before 18 or soon after due to many conditions I have. I'm not going to just "wait it out" because ILL BE DEAD lmao.

.

#adultism #umbrella tag: age #ableism #dismissal of disabled people #death cw #caps cw #askbox #anon

[cleanestkitty]

cw angry vent post, caps, angry swearing, ableism

“youre so lazy, you need to exercise more”

SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP PLEASE SHUT UP I HAVE LIKITS AND IM ALLOWED TO HAVE THEM FUCK OFF IM LITERALLY GONNA START SCREAMING AND CRYING SHUT UP. EVERYTIME I MOVE IT HURTS, EVERYTHING HURTS. ALL THE TIME. YOU NEVER TAKE ME SERIOUSLY. JOKING ABOUT HOW I FEEL WONT FIX ME. STOP IT PLEASE.

#cw/tw: #vent post #angry swearing #angry caps #ableism #| #spoonie #disabled #actually disabled #chronic fatigue #deteriorating health #chronic pain #sensory issues #autism stuff #disability stuff

[watercolormogai]

since v've seen an increasing amount of ableists following ve v have to state this once again : BEING ANTI-PARA AND NOT SUPPORTING PEOPLE WITH PARAPHILIC DISORDERS IS ABLEISM AND ROOTED IN HATING PEOPLE FOR THOUGHTS AND ATTRACTIONS THEY CANNOT CONTROL , AKA JUST ABLEISM AND HOMOPHOBIA . IF YOU HATE ON ANY PARAPHILIC DISORDERS (YES , EVEN THE "GROSS" OR "HARMFUL" ONES) , YOU ARE AN ABLEIST PIECE OF SHIT WHO CAN UNKINDLY FUCK OFF BECAUSE V DO NOT WELCOME ABLEISTS HERE . HATING ON ANY DISORDER IS ABLEISM , EVEN IF YOU CONSIDER THAT DISORDER "GROSS" OR "BAD" . IF YOU HATE ON SOMEONE'S UNCONTROLLABLE INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS AND URGES , YOU ARE ABLEIST . IT DOESN'T MATTER IF THAT PERSON HAS THOUGHTS ABOUT THE MOST DISGUSTING THING YOU COULD EVER IMAGINE , IF YOU HATE ON SOMEONE'S INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS AND UNCONTROLLABLE ATTRACTIONS DESPITE THEM NEVER ACTING ON THEM , V WISH YOU A VERY DELETE YOUR ACCOUNT AND FUCK OFF . / srs

#not coining #important #if you are ableist GET OUT !! HATING ON DISABLED PEOPLE IS NOT WELCOME HERE !!!!! #caps cw #ableism cw

[fictionkinfessions]

EVERYBODY IS SO MEAN TO YURA!!!!!!!!!! HES NOT A BAD PERSON HES JUST MENTALLY ILL!!!!!!!! HE DID CARE ABT ME IK HE DID HE WASNT JUST USING ME!!!!!!!!! HES NOT GOING TO DIE AT THE END OF THE STORY HES NOT HES NOT HES NOT IDC IDC IDC [sobbing]

- sanya kazarina pafl [#🥀☔️🥀]

x

#fictionkinfessions #fictionkin #🥀☔️🥀 #paflkin #sanyakazarinakin #caps cw #fandom issue #ableism cw #death cw #mod party cat

[windy-wonko]

sighs. anxiety isnt even destigmatized either, saying this from personal experience as someone with a debilitating anxiety disorder. its only acceptable to a certain level- that is, every day things like test anxiety, anxiety interviewing for a job, anxiety heading on a plane. as long as youre "normal" about it, it's perfectly acceptable.

what ISNT acceptable is panicking over getting a shot or your finger pricked as an adult. what isn't acceptable is crying unable to kill a spider in your house. what isn't acceptable is driving anxiety as an adult, panicking over having to do so much as switch lanes. what isn't acceptable is saying no to things that are harmless to say no to but everyone makes a big deal out of anyways because youre a pussy that should face their fears.

all of those are examples of things i have to deal with regularly, and get made fun of for. a nurse, who literally KNEW i had an anxiety disorder, made fun of me to my face for panicking over getting my finger pricked. like its not something im proud of, especially when i know for a fact it wont be that bad. but its something i cant control well unless medicated and teasing people for panic attacks is very much a regular, normalized thing

#ganon rambles #rant #bullying doesnt stop past highschool when youre disabled and thats that #mental health #cw ableism #idk i guess its grouped in with depression as the 'not so bad and people actually care about it' disorders #but like with depression its only to a certain level! #people with debilitating depression are seen as burdens to society rather than people with 'normal' depression #who are just treated as 'this is the norm so its fine and youre not a worthless human being for it' #i mean obviously i see why people group them as destigmatized cuz they're generally more accepted in society #but we have to remember that every mental illness even those considered 'acceptable' have a cap #where they can only be so severe until youre seen as lesser than other humans

[bread-tab]

after 24 hours, some time for reflection, a smidgen of sleep, a work shift, and receiving a space-themed bandaid i have decided that

a) it was absolutely reasonable for my therapist to call me out on my chronic lateness and general disorganization, i was getting too comfortable in a socially unacceptable behavior and needed a kick in the pants to help me change; it would also have been reasonable for her to fire me over that

AND

b) it is also absolutely reasonable for me to be pissed off at her for basically calling me a manipulative malingering manchild (except with no cool alliteration or pizazz whatsoever), dismissing the concept of executive dysfunction, and blaming me for still having anxiety in the process

AND OH HEY LOOK I'M STILL DOING MY DIALECTICS, ASSHOLE, HOW'S THAT FOR "NOT DOING ANYTHING TO GET BETTER"

#yeah we are going to have WORDS #someone may get fired and idk if it's going to be her or me #which would be a shame because i like her #but holy fucking shit man #trying to give her the benefit of the doubt and the best explanation i can think of is she's trying a last-ditch 'tough love' approach #for like motivational purposes #but she just flushed a significant percentage of my respect for her into the sewer #and triggered one of the worst intrusive thoughts episodes of my life #so i'm not feeling too fucking charitable right now #sorry for not picking up on your goddamn HINTS ma'am i guess you thought the autism diagnosis was decorative? #i know i'm being a *little* dramatic here #and more than a little biased #but golly gee i just had a major emotional breakdown FOR SOME REASON #and that's making rational thinking kind of DIFFICULT #venting #rant #personal #ableism cw #caps cw #salty breadtab #breadtab life #reblogs off

[slugass]

how to call out anti-autistic ableism:

USE A FUCKING BRAINLET, THE VISUAL VERSION OF CALLING SOMEONE THE FUCKING R-SLUR, SPECIFICALLY DESIGNED TO MOCK DISABILITY, BOTH PHYSICAL AND MENTAL, TO REPRESENT THE BIGOT, BECAUSE IT COULD NEVER BE NON-(MENTALLY) DISABLED PEOPLE DOING THE BIGOTRY MOST OF THE TIME, RIGHT???

I’M SURE THAT WON’T MAKE YOU LOOK HYPOCRITICAL AND ABLEIST AT ALL.

#sarcasm #satire #genuinely i hate those brainlet memes so fucking much oh my fucking god. so much condescending ableist bullshit #vent #ableism #hypocrisy #r/aspiememes #anyone can be bigoted. disabled or not. #anyone of any intelligence can be bigoted. #bad views and opinions are not caused by being ”[r-slur]”. #lateral ableism #swearing #swearing cw #swearing tw #all caps #r-slur mention #bold text #italics #insert that one meme with garfield “you are not immune to propaganda” yup this applies #actually autistic #actuallyautistic #autism #intellectual disability #face difference #lookism #do not harrass anyone who does this #just please let them know that this is not how to call things/ideas/people out

[serious-cutie]

love that i received a letter about vitally important information that was in large print despite me not having dyslexia/vision problems/any other disability that would require it and despite the fact that the expense could have been spent on someone who actually needed it /s

#ableism #cw caps #(in tags) #honestly it's like they think all disabled people are a monolith #like no i don't need large print just because i'm autistic are you fucking stupid /srs #honestly it makes me so angry because that could have been spent on someone who actually needed it #but NO it goes to me #someone who has NEVER had trouble reading regular print before /srs #like wtf #again not all disabled people are the same #stop treating us like we are

[arocoded]

While I'm complaining about astro Tumblr again, it is REALLY inaccessible, astro notes posts are always made to be as "aesthetic" as possible with small text, fonts, and undescribed media. Please start prioritizing accessibility over aesthetics

#.txt #important #astrology #tagging this so it shows up in the tag hopefully #cw: #ableism discussion #caps