#shut out

[nobeerreviews]

You can shut out the world. But you always have to stop, and the world is always waiting when you do.

-- George Jones

(Brussels, Belgium)

#world #stop #shut out #george jones #travel photography #brussels #belgium #bruxelles #quote

[howifeltabouthim]

. . . she began to crave his touch. But he was no longer interested in intimacy. For he had withdrawn into himself, much farther than before, and she couldn't reach him.

Anna Biller, from Bluebeard's Castle

#touch starved #lack of intimacy #withdrawn #closed off #shut out #unreachable #out of reach #sad #relationship problems #quotes #lit #words #excerpts #quote #literature #anna biller #bluebeard's castle

[lovesthepens]

Some of Ned’s great saves tonight.

#alex nedeljkovic #shut out #pittsburgh penguins #Instagram

[vircan]

WHAT THE FUCK !””LD”HSUSH

Hey, I love curse words lol

Sorry

#2023 #soul’d out #s.o #s.o illustration #bro.hi #shut out #2003 #traditional illustration #summer 2023 #summer

[turflamicgaming420]

Red team gets SCRAPED!!!

#turflamicgaming420 #gaming #gamers #video games #funny #epic #gameplay #gang beasts #football #gang beasts football #beatdown #shut down #shut out #skunked #Youtube

[mental-health-advice]

sorry ive already sent this but i wanted to edit it so its gonna be a bit longer. i know that to have a friendship with someone, consistent contact isn't necessary, however with my friends its like we rarely talk. im sort of being dramatic but im left on delivered for days, sometimes weeks, at a time. i understand and respect that they need space and time but it gets exhausting. they are the only people in my life that we can talk about anything and it feels like they're shutting me out and it feels so isolating and lonely. its not just that they dont respond to me but that theyre active on social media and post pictures hanging out w other friends. I dont want to be a toxic friend and force them to respond to me and drain them and have them dread talking to me but i don't know what to do. ive resorted to just talking to myself but it makes me feel like im losing my mind. im not good at making friends so i have none at school and i just feel so alone i dont know what to do. i have so much i wanna tell them but i dont want to blow up their phones and stress them out more but it feels like we're drifting apart? ig? i know we probably arent based on what everyone says, that true friends can go days without talking, but it doesnt feel like that for me.

Hey there,

No worries, at all with resending your Ask – sometimes it’s only after we send/ submit something that we then think of something else we would like to add, so it’s completely OK!

It can be really hard and frustrating when we talk to someone via txting or on other platforms but do not get a reply in what we see as a reasonable time frame or see that they are online but do not see them see/ view our message at that time. Is this something that you have brought up with to your friends in the past? If not then I would encourage you to do so, as it’s possible that your friends, to a degree, don’t know what they are doing to you in regards to you feeling left out and lonely.

You are right in saying also that friends can go ‘x’ amount of time without talking but of course this is not and does not always fit for some friends/ friendship groups. Unfortunately, we do not know what is happening for your friends to not reply to your messages as they do with others but I definitely think it’s definitely worth a conversation to be had with them – it’s only through communication and being upfront that things can change to best suit everyone, including you!

It can be a bit of a balancing act in a way with how much we choose to tell our friends and especially if we don’t want to stress them out or put extra pressure on them, but with this being said it’s equally as important that we do have someone to talk to about what is happening for us and in our day to day life.

I know it can be scary to let another in, but perhaps speaking to a counsellor may be of some benefit for you? Counsellors aren’t just there for people who have mental health concerns but are also there for those who need to talk to someone/ confide in. Speaking to a counsellor or some other support worker can be great because you don’t have to worry about saying ‘too’ much as they are always happy to just sit back and listen or help you out in other ways if needed.

Another idea of something you could do may also be writing in a diary/ journal. This can help to get out what ever is on your mind and especially those things that keep circling in your head and just won’t go away! Writing can also be helpful to pin point what is going on for you and then think of ways to work through those things. Is this something you may feel able to give a go?

I’m really sorry that your friends aren’t there for you as much as you would like or are needing them to be but talk to them if you can and feel comfortable in doing so because at then at the very least you will all be on the same page!

I really hope that this has helped a bit and please do let us know if we can help to support you in any other way!

I’m thinking of you and hope that you are going OK!

Take care,

Lauren

#mha-lauren #advice #advice blog #mental health advice #anonymous #friends #lack of contact #not replying #isolated #lonely #shut out

[willgrahamscock]

I think staff doesn't realize that all they have to do to make this website profitable is stop changing the UI, leave tumblr as it used to be and ask people to donate to maintain the server it runs on. Ao3 gets double and triple their donation goals because we are dedicated to keep it alive and it would be the same with tumblr. The first step is to accept that we hate change and none of us are leaving. Let us reblog our little images and stop trying to turn this website into a cash grab. This website is full of little freaks with disorders, we are not profitable but we are loyal. Let us have one place where we feel at home.

#alex says things #i don't think the website is going to shut down any time soon btw but it might be on its way out #tumblr

[pixelpolls]

Vamps vs Werewolfs like its 2010!

#No in-betweens #Vampire #Vamposting #vampcore #Werewolf #Werewolves #Werewoofs #Twilight #Polls #Poll #tumblr polls #Polls on tumblr #Honestly they're so opposed in nature that it's pretty easy to choose #Werewolves are more open-space outdoors and fluffy with a pack mentality while being massive and can go out in the sun #And Vampires are reclusive shut-ins who live away from society in their manors while having the public appearance of Victorian goth twinks

[catmask]

with that said there are characters that a fat maybe not canonically but they are spiritually. to me. they may not be drawn that way but i know whats true. ive seen it like a sort of prophet

#serizawa. send post #he did NOT live his life as a shut in for almost a whole decade to be drawn SKINNY! not by me at least #also like so many characters over the age of 30. no more fit moms and dads GIVE them that divorce body fat NOW! #*strikes you down with the force of god* #but honestly alternative for serizawa that ive always liked is that he gains weight when he starts working for reigen #because he can now go out and eat new foods :D he has actually gained an appetite because he's moving around more #and isnt just eating like instant ramen or whatever his mom brings him #see how easy it is you can just believe it with your heart. you just have to find the ways to make true waht u know #scratchpost #txt

[fairuzfan]

You will never ever EVER suffer the effects of zionism like Palestinians have. If anyone dares to prop up a zionist at all I hope you all understand that you're pieces of shit. I will never trust you.

#get out of here with this liberal ass bullshit #“racists and antiracists actually agree on some stuff” shut the fuck up. shut up.

[howifeltabouthim]

You know, sometimes the thought of happiness torments me. This house reeks of happiness, it drives me mad. Sometimes I'm happy in my dreams.

Iris Murdoch, from The Philosopher’s Pupil

#sad #happiness #tormented #left out #odd one out #on the outside looking in #unhappy #going crazy #resentful #jealousy jealousy #sour grapes #in dreams #in the ballroom of my mind #shut out #my favorite quote #relatable #personal #quotes #lit #words #excerpts #quote #literature #iris murdoch #the philosopher's pupil

[soyochii]

Grown adults but also Highschool bullies fr

#jjk #gojo satoru #satosugu #geto suguru #my art #artists on tumblr #jujutsu kaisen #They call you gay then go home and make out #They are the highschool bullies that are doing so much worse after highschool asdfghj #Screaming into a void #I've been begging all of my friends to watch jjk knowing it's the most heartbreaking story #gojo twirling getos hair just bc he can #I need to shut up #and go to bed.... help

[rodrickheffeley]

people’s oscar winner

#kotfm being shut out entirely is so 😭😭😭 academy you’ll crumble #lily Gladstone #oscars #killer of the flower moon

[ivaspinoza]

not me writing this giant synopsis of my own wip to myself so i can understand what i am actually trying to create

#and then my brain starts to give me lines #but it turns out they are for this other story that is not even a wip yet #shut up brain- oh wait thats actually such a good idea *writes it down #writers on tumblr #writeblr #writing

[saewokhrisz]

2/2 "gift"

#happy 2/2 people enjoy #[shuts off my phone and opens p3r] #albeit im posting this according to japanese time because im too excited to sit on it more... #this is actually based on a real story i bought a pomegranate two weeks ago and found out it was rotten when i tried to peel it i was so sa #shuake #ren amamiya #goro akechi #persona 5 #persona #fanart #my art #comic

[turtleblogatlast]

It’s a good thing that the boys had cute little button eyes when they were babies, because imagine if they had big ol eyes instead, like

#rottmnt #rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #rottmnt splinter #turtle tots #rise of the tmnt #I just wanted to give the babies staring moomin eyes lmao #*gives Raph and Donnie long tails BECAUSE I CAN* #they look cute with them #side note but why were Leo’s eyes white initially #I actually wondered if he instinctively shut an outer eyelid for protection since they were in a dangerous situation #either way it stood out hm #anyway I love the babies #imagine if they were often weirdly SUPER quiet #and they would just #s t a r e #turtle art tag