let me tell you all abt a little thing i like to call
the kevin day paradox
the kevin day paradox is when you have conflicting headcanons over a character's sexuality!
it first came about when i did not know if i headcanoned kevin day as bisexual or aroace. and i realized that i didn't have to choose! and thus: the kevin day paradox was born
so, if you too have conflicting sexuality headcanons for characters, you now have a word for that!