For Us, by. Kai-ya Bos.
“For Us”
I don't need feminism for me,
I need it for my family, my friends, the random girl walking down the street,
Because people say, “protect your daughters”,
Instead of saying, “educate our sons.”
At the age of 10 i lost my closest friend due to the fact,
It happened 4 times by the time she was 9.
I need feminism because I had to yell at a grown man for trying to look under my skirt.,
I need feminism so we can wear skirts on school campus.,
Without teenage wolves howling at their next meal.
I need feminism because I was sent home from the third grade, because my shorts were to "distracting"
I need feminism because I can't wear headphones in both ears Because, I need one ear to keep lookout.
I need feminism because I can't post a picture of me at the beach, without people saying I'm “asking for it.”
I need feminism because I should be able to walk down the street, without having to worry about the eyes of the people who don't get punished for their actions.
I no longer need it for the one I lost, we all need it so we can feel safe inside and outside of our home.
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I had a friend who would giggle when I'd pronounce words as if I'd only read them, who you'd catch with a glowing smile when you admitted to not knowing something he did, and who never failed to try and make himself seem the smartest person in the room.
I'd never really been enchanted by his intelligence, but that isn't to say he had none, just that his version of it was much different than mine.
See, he considered intelligence to be memorization. All the names, dates, and specificities of a subject (to which he only specialized in one), was what he considered the height and extent of intelligence.
I see things differently. While the memorization of facts is all very impressive and can come in handy in a variety of situations, it isn't (to me) what makes a person truly intelligent. What makes someone intelligent is wit, problem solving capabilities, and that kind of genius that you know when you see it.
Once, I boasted very proudly (and with a bit more ego than men are used to seeing from women) that I considered myself to be smarter than them. Not in any kind of mean or malicious way, or even in a way that implied them stupid, just that I'd seen more life.
I'd lived through more tails, fought grander dragons, and emerged victorious from more ashes than he'd seen fires. And while I explained this to him, and said that I believed everyone to be smart in their own way, he still wasn't satisfied.
Maybe I'm the jerk for saying what everyone was thinking so clearly, and if I am, the only thing I have to say is, he had no such reservations in proclaiming himself the smartest person in the room.
His issue wasn't that it was rude to so brazenly call oneself out on the strengths so clearly evident over another, but that the receiver of the declaration wasn't himself.
I find this kind of behavior in men often. They're so used to having their egos stroked, and women so used to having their's dulled, that confrontation with their own inadequacy scares them.
But scared isn't the right word either: irritates or infuriates are more accurate to describe the look in his eye. It wasn't a conversation where one debated the merits of intelligence and what is valued over another, it was one where he expected me to bow.
He expected me to admit my wrong, to beg for forgiveness and proclaim that I (a stupid woman) had been led astray by my feeble womanly mind and was only shown the light by a stern manly mind who truly knows that intelligence is.
And maybe it is rude to call yourself smarter than another even if it is entirely true. I can admit to being rude easier than being stupid.
But I'll always be so thankful I didn't bow like the generations of women who would have had to bow before. The women who would have been bounced off the wall, ridiculed, or worse for daring to say in casual conversation what I did.
There was nothing he could do but stare at me with those desperate eyes of a man who has had nothing but an ego stroke his entire life, waiting patiently for yet another. I didn't give that to him, and that will always be the smartest thing I've ever done
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"a dude in Texas legally changed his name to "Literally Anyone Else" and he's attempting to run for President against Biden & Trump" [source]
okay, but putting aside the comedic aspect of this, it is concerning the amount of people who are prompted to vote for candidates just because it's funny. I'm not the biggest fan of how his policy about the boarder sounds [Site], but I do implore anyone who is able to vote in the 2024 US election to please research other candidates.
The media is only going to continue pushing the idea it's inevitably going to be Trump vs Biden 2.0 and we have no other options, that we have to vote for Biden again because of Project 2025. Is that whole thing terrifying?
Yeah, fucking absolutely.
But voting for Biden will not solidify our safety from that. Biden is exactly like the rest of them. He always has been. You can't make the lesser of two evils argument when they're both just plain evil.
You cannot say that Biden is even mildly a better choice than Trump when he is currently directly involved in a genocide. That is not some little fucking thing. That in and of itself disqualifies him as a lesser evil. Biden is just as bad as him and he will not save us because he doesn't fucking care.
Cornel West [Site] is an Independent candidate running for President in the 2024 Election. [Policies]
Claudia De la Cruz and Karina Garcia [Site] are running for President and Vice-President as the candidates of the Party for Socialism and Liberation in the 2024 Election. [Policies]
There are options.
There are people trying to change the corrupt foundation our system is built on, but we have to help amplify them because the mainstream media will not.
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