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wanderlustbar4ney · 1 year

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A little bit of my world lately

So this is just a random post about pretty much everything lately. I am a bit apprehensive about posting though. I am always busy and now that I am able to finally touch my phone to check all other apps installed here, I figured why not write something? I am currently at a point in my life where everything I ever wanted falls into place. Except for one thing, of course, one can’t have it all,…

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wanderlustbar4ney · 2 years

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WHAT BETTER WAY IS THERE TO LIVE?

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wanderlustbar4ney · 2 years

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YOU MIGHT NEED THIS

For some of you who might need to hear this, if your plan in life didn’t work out, don’t worry. What didn’t turn out as planned is not for you.

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#blog #Blogging #encouragement #happiness #journal #message #Positive #quote #random thoughts

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wanderlustbar4ney · 2 years

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Serufukea

Are you the same person as you were say ten years back? Maybe 20? 30? Would you dare say you’ve learned and have been living an honest life? Would that be enough reason to feel righteous and/or to vilify people who don’t share the same views as you? I quote, we live in a society where it’s easier to break an atom than a prejudice. Because we are a lot more enslaved to social media and their…

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#ctto #negativity #Psychology #self-care #toxic

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wanderlustbar4ney · 2 years

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Mind De-cluttering

Credit to the rightful owner of this photo. Sometimes, I wonder why good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to the good ones. It’s never a question of faith though. My mind is at the state of de-cluttering random thoughts and this is just one of them. I keep wondering why repentance is always at the end. Can Jesus cut us some slack and give us a preview of what would be if we are…

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wanderlustbar4ney · 3 years

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MY CHOICE #BBM2022

Photo credit from Twibonnize We live in a very noisy, information-driven and fake news-saturated world and it is good to pause, to reflect, to focus on what truly matters. People will try to disparage your years of hard work trying to be better because of your political belief or view, and they can continue to do so, just don’t mind them. Don’t let it get to you. You are a work in progress and…

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#2022elections #BongBongMarcos #Philippines

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wanderlustbar4ney · 3 years

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SLOW MORNINGS ARE TO REFLECT

I wasn’t really supposed to write today but I feel like I need to share what’s on my mind. And NOPE! Not on Facebook! Here – where I can post a long one. So I read a book by Joena San Diego and it’s an inspiring book. Basically, what it’s saying is take it easy in the morning. Just a background, I am the type to sleep and when I open my eyes, I check my phone for the time and messages/emails…

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#100 happy days #coffee #gratefulness #life #Meet me in the morning #mental health matters #mentalhealth #SLOW MORNINGS

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wanderlustbar4ney · 3 years

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Why Depression Sucks In The Philippines

Reblogging for my sister.

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wanderlustbar4ney · 3 years

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PSYCH101: NEGATIVITY BIAS

Trauma and Stress doesn’t have to defeat you. It can be a perfect opportunity for growth. Don’t just make a come back, use it as a catalyst forward..by Matt McWilliams These past few days, I have been feeling exhausted and drained. I had negativity bias where I magnified or looked at just one small negative thing and didn’t appreciate the other great big things. So my coping strategy was that…

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wanderlustbar4ney · 4 years

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PAINFUL DEMISE

Mahal na mahal kita.

Gusto kitang yakapin. Kunin lahat ng sakit.

Pero hindi ko magawa kasi ako yun dahilan ng sakit.

Patawarin mo ko. Sobrang mahal na mahal kita.

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wanderlustbar4ney · 4 years

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HAPPY NEVER AFTER

06.02. 4th Anniversary and the day after, we broke up. This must be the one to end it all. The big one to really bid goodbye to 4 wonderful years.

I have given up.

I think there is nothing that I can do or say would change things.

I have no fight left in me and I am calm when I walked away. I think that was it.

Our last photo together. I will miss you forever.

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#breakup #goodbye #love #my 2020 #pain

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wanderlustbar4ney · 4 years

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Facebook Messenger Announces Upcoming Policy Changes for March update Facebook Messenger announces policy changes effective 04 March 2020. It aims to drive timely, relevant communication. It will also put a priority on people-initiated conversations. Below are new policy changes: To read the full article, please click on the link: social-stand.com

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wanderlustbar4ney · 5 years

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Sands of Time: Forever Person For most of us, we may have found our forever person. The day will still come that time and patience will test how strong you are.

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wanderlustbar4ney · 5 years

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Day 35:

I honestly can’t explain how I really feel. It’s still mixed emotions and there were still nights I cry. Mostly because of the songs I hear from Spotify.

There were times that I feel nostalgia. For almost 4 years, in all fairness, we were happy. Those were the happiest days of my life. I know that for sure.

I miss him terribly. I miss all the time we spent together. The nights we had to go out to eat because we were hungry. The days we go out of town to excape the husstle and bustle of the big city. The times we go out to eat, watch movies together, road trip, time with friends, or just cuddle at home. You know anything that we did were just special.

I always thought that there’s no me without Gino, and no him without me. We were a team. We used to be partners at everything.

If there’s one thing that I learned from this relationship, it’s this: You don’t really know the last time would be the last.

If I knew then that that night would be the last, I would’ve hugged him longer. I would’ve kissed him. I would’ve said sorry for my behaviour. I would’ve tried harder to be sensitive and would’ve asked him if there’s a problem.

Maybe, this isn’t really for us to keep. That relationship is destined to fail.

It’s hard but we have to grow apart. If we are meant to be, then we’ll always be. This isn’t a fault in the stars now. This is just it.

Sacrifice is only a sacrifice if you don’t know what you’re trading it for.

To you, the love of my life. I will wait until I can wait no longer. I will always love you. Wherever life brings us, you and I will always be my favorite chapter. I will find comfort knowing that you are happy now. Even if that happiness no longer includes me.

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Kung Di Na Ako – Agsunta

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Sands of Time: Day 35 Day 35: I honestly can't explain how I really feel. It's still mixed emotions and there were still nights I cry.

#break up series #couple #day to day struggle #huling sayaw #letting go #love #moving on #my forever summer #my love #random #regin02 #relationship #sands of time series

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wanderlustbar4ney · 5 years

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To my future husband whoever you may be..

Dear You,

I am not sure if I even want to marry in the future. But if in case I will ever meet you, I have a message for you.

I wonder how we’ll meet. Or if I have met you already.

I wonder where. I wonder when.

I wonder what you would be like. Perhaps, you can show yourself to me in one of my dreams. Tell me about you when I see you there.

I hope even if you are not a Prince Charming, I will…

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#blog #Blogging #Facts #Future #husband #journal #letter #life #partner #random #Wordpress

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wanderlustbar4ney · 5 years

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Mt Namandiraan Memoirs

#blog #Blogging #Couple Goals #Environment #journal #Me #media #Mt Namandiraan #news #Photos #Pictures #Relationship Goals #ReneeAndGino #Sports #travel #Wordpress

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wanderlustbar4ney · 5 years

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Stubborn Exes. NO CONTACT EXPERIENCE

Does it work? That was my question too.

My partner and I broke up a month ago. My initial reaction was the insane one. I begged. I pleaded. I was pushy. I was needy. I was really determined to get him back. But he was too stubborn so he pulled away even more.

So, I changed my approach. I did what I call a strategic retreat.

I tried no contact first and I failed. So I had to start from square…

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#Advice #Blogging #breakup #feedback #journal #no contact #random #relationship

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