really dislike the idea that being gender nonconforming immediately means you’re not allowed to be upset at getting misgendered… are only trans people who adhere to their gender stereotypes allowed to feel upset about something so personal? doesn’t make any sense. dressing like your agab doesn’t immediately mean you don’t deal with any trans issues ¿
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I need to make a guy whose a lot more masculine to mpreg the hell up.
I need to create a total bear that everyone thinks is finally just getting a beer gut, or settling into a hravier middle age body, and the closest they get is saying he's getting a dad bod, because THEY AREN'T WRONG. No one thinks he'd be the pregnant one. Maybe they even look PAST him and say that his partner is "so thin for being pregnant!" and that they "need to eat more to get meat on those bones!" (The best, silliest situation for sympathy weight gain ever ajdjakdkka)
I just need... a more masculine guy... and I need him so knocked up.
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transmasc cc masterlist
hi! after getting a few asks about it, I wanted to make a quick list of cc I use for my transmasc sims. I hope it’s useful! 💜
binders
edited ea binder by @ice-creamforbreakfast
accessory binders by @ratboysims
functional binder by @pigeonhome
functional binder recolor by @maxiematch
functional binder recolor by @standardheld
binders by @schmapple
accessory binders by @valhallansim
chest binder accessory by @sparrowcc
clothing
basic tee by @pigeonhome
vintage button up by @pigeonhome
suit by @pigeonhome
jerseys by @pigeonhome
crop top by @pigeonhome
hoodie/sweater/jumper by @pigeonhome
boxers by @pigeonhome
boxers accessory by @pigeonhome
boxers accessory (strap on version) by @glammoosecc
essentials collection (2 versions) by @nucrests
scars
top surgery scars by @ratboysims
top surgery scars by @mnlvlz-sims
top surgery scars by moody bagels
male trans scars by @cloudy-simmer
top surgery scars by @nihilisims
top surgery scars part 2 by @simreaper
top surgery scars by faaeish
top surgery adornments (tattoos) by faaeish
facial & body hair
all natural body hair by me
leg hair for fem frame by @mando-cc
fem frame body hair by @afternoonzephyr
facial hair for femme frame by @deelitefulsimmer
beards as skin details by @isaax-sims
facial hair by @goopsims
upper lip hair by @marigolde
bodies & skin details
necessity skinblend by me
body mesh by dumbaby (❗nsfw❗)
body details by wildguy (enabled for men by me) (❗nsfw❗)
body mesh & gender unlock by @simdulgencemods (❗nsfw❗)
presets & sliders
flat chest presets by @saruin
androgynous presets by @saruin
the tits sliders by @ssspringroll
neck slider by @luumia
mods
lgbtqia mod by lumpinou
cas breast & pregnancy option by maars
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mom avoids dead anime mom curse because he transitions. he’s always had a complicated relationship with pregnancy because of how woefully little people are told about potential complications and aftercare, and also because of how gendered it is, so after the birth of his second child he’s finally had it and decides to transition
he joins a local community group for mothers and at first it’s played for laughs how often they fall to the dead mom curse, but soon we find out more about how society has failed mothers and people who give birth, from information being withheld, procedures being carried out without consent, lack of accommodations and maternal and paternal leave, racism…
it also turns out that becoming a man doesn’t help with this, not really, because being a pregnant trans man brings its own problems. follow along as he learns more about being a parent and a mother, and maybe even… finding love???
coming to you never because I can’t write!
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I love trans guys!!
I love trans guys with top surgery.
I love trans guys without top surgery.
I love trans guys who're on T.
I love trans guys who aren't on T.
I love trans guys with facial hair.
I love trans guys without facial hair.
I love trans guys who embrace traditionally feminine things.
I love trans guys who don't like traditionally feminine things.
I love disabled trans guys.
I love POC trans guys.
I love closeted trans guys.
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The thing that sucks sometimes about transition envy is that, I guess you almost expect yourself to "grow out" of it the more you transition. I used to feel so much envy, and it was something I hoped would stop once I transitioned medically, and while it's absolutely less frequent... man, when I experience transition envy, it's still just as bitter a cocktail as I remember. It can be hard to move past that, and almost... resent the other person/s, but what helped me is knowing that the person you're envying isn't specifically trying to make you, personally, feel like absolute shit. Just as you can't always help what you are envious about in other trans people, they can't help that they have traits or transition experiences or opportunities you do not have, you know? And absolutely, it sucks. But it's something that helped me because then it's a reminder that the world isn't Out To Get Me, you feel?
I think a lot of us can relate to the experience of transition envy, and it's shameful to admit to it, I suppose. It's hard to admit to envy in general, but it's important to not be judgemental about yourself. Your transition is as unique and beautiful and worthy as literally everyone else's and I hope you remember that forever
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List of changes I wasn't prepared for when I started passing as a man after transitioning:
you smell a lot worse and get stinky quicker
animals start liking you less, especially rescues
other men will treat you vastly different, even queer men for better or worse
it becomes awkward to talk about afab issues such as abortion and menstruation
you have to change basically everything when it comes to interacting with women. for example: if you and a woman are walking the same direction, you have to change the way you walk as she sees you as a man who could hurt her
people (especially women) will move over for you on the sidewalk
people listen more to what you request (I've especially noticed this with hairdressers/barbers)
you get angry REALLY easily and are much more aggressive, one time I got so mad I got a pressure in my hands that I felt wouldn't alleviate unless I hit something, it was honestly terrifying
you may gain a sudden affinity for basketball shorts and adidas slides with socks (you must resist it)
feeling out of place in the lgbtq+ community if you're straight despite being trans
please add more there is so many
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