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sowearecleariamhere · 2 months

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What annoys me is when allos are so caught up in their amatonormativity (or just allonormativity) that any statement akin to "romance is not or less important to some/you don't need a partner to complete you" comes across to them as downplaying their own relationships, present or past, and then take offence, raising their pitchforks crying out about how they love their partner and for good measure throw in something like "being by yourself is selfish", "falling in love is what makes us human", "everyone wants a relationship"...

They don't though. That's the thing. There are people that are perfectly content without a romantic relationship, whether at all or just for the season of life they are in at the moment.

So heres my message to those people:

Me maybe not ever wanting a relationship is my preference and has nothing to do with you. Me stating that there are people like me does not devalue your relationship. If you perceive it as such, then that is on you and you might want to learn to not take shit that isn't an affront personally. End of PSA.

*awkward curtsy*

#aromantic #aro #aroace #fuck amatonormativity #seriously tiring #tired of this shit #when I say I don't want a dog because it doesnt fit my lifestyle or I don’t know how to take care of one properly #or because I JUST DONT WANT TO then no one bats an eye #can we do the same for relationships please #what do you care if I have a partner or not #and if you come at me for using a dog as a metaphor you're getting blocked #you know what I mean and of you dont then just ask #dont be rude #or else like I said youre blocked #i have no fucks to give today

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sunshineandlyrics · 8 months

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YeAh. Don't Do That!! You don't want to get on Joni's bad side.

FITFWT Lodz, 11 September 2023.

#dont be rude #Louis is being sweet and meeting up fans #FITFWT Lodz #11 September 2023 #Louis Tomlinson #Louis vid #Joni #mine

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ariluna91 · 7 months

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Keep misusing tags like an asshole maybe you'll get the attention you crave when tumblr bans you. Idc about ppl posting horny crap online but dont tag your shit "cats of tumblr". Some of us have jobs and don't appreciate your tits popping up on screen w/o seeking it out.

sweetheart that tag was on a picture of my cats......... on a question of someone asking to see my cats.... its not my fault you went and looked at my whole ass blog, just block me if you dont wanna look 🤦‍♀️ and why are you scrolling tumblr and not working?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💋

#shit talking #why are you like this #dont be rude #rude #what a jerk

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alyx-the-witch · 5 months

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Hello! my name is Alyx, and im a Hellenic Witch! i wanted to talk about my practice a little bit, and let other people know that its ok to be unconventional when it comes to your practice. you do what you think is best, and intuition is your best friend when it comes to designing your practice.

anyways, heres some things i do throughout the week to worship my Gods.

personally, i got very overwhelmed when i started worshipping, so i set up a schedule, giving each deity and myself a day of the week that coincided with their historical days of worship.

Sunday

This day is for Lord Apollon. for him, i wake up before the sun and have a glass of orange juice while i watch the sunrise. i also go for a walk, and feed the corvids (crows and ravens) in my neighborhood.

Monday

this day is for Lady Artemis. for her, i record the moon phase, go to a park near my house, and bring some food with me for any animals i might come across. this is also one of the days i cleanse my space and myself.

Tuesday

this day is for Lord Ares. for him, i go to the gym, spend any free time i have with my dogs, and take good care of my mental health.

Wednesday

this day is for Lady Hestia. this day is apart from her historical day, but i trusted my intuition and chose this day because she feels very centering and in the middle of everything, and wednesday’s give that energy for me. for her, i bake or cook something, veil, and make sure that im choosing kindness over everything else.

Thursday

this day is for Lord Thanatos. for him, i wear something dark, honor the dead by visiting the cemetery near my house and leaving offerings, and finding a butterfly in something. finding a butterfly is a bit unconventional, but butterflies remind me of the beauty and peacefulness of death. its actually funny because when i first started to worship him, he would send me monarchs. one of those times, i found one almost dead and drowned in a puddle, and i took care of it in its final moments.

Friday

this day is for me. i set aside time to take care of myself, i make sure i eat well and drink water, i go to the gym, and i try to get more sleep. because i am currently worshipping 6 Deities, i have one day left over, and so i treat myself on that day how i would treat a deity. obviously i never compare myself to them and never hold myself on the same level as them, but its important for me to set aside a day for myself.

Saturday

this day is for Lady Aphrodite. for her, i take an everything shower, do my makeup, and honor Water. to me, she is a Water Deity, because in her birth myth, the blood of Uranus and the sea mixed together, and she rose from the foam, so involving water in her worship is important to me.

Other Things i do for my Gods

i took a vow of chastity for Lady Hestia

i make my own offerings out of clay (im a ceramics student so thats easy for me)

i wrote my own prayers for them

i braid colors into my hair that reminds me of them (i do one color per day and on each of their days i braid it into my hair using string)

i use my hair as a tool for my practice, and take care of it well. i use it to express periods of my life, and periods of change. for example, i cut it all off when i decided to change myself, and morned my old self while it was short, and now that it grew back out, i am out of that period and into a different one.

i offer myself as a conduit for them to experience the human condition of the 2000’s. they can inhabit my body for a period of time and live my life, taste my food, experience working a modern job (🤢🤢🤢), stuff like that.

i have a playlist for each of them with songs they like/songs that remind me of them/ give off the same vibe. i listen to their playlist on their day

anyways, my posts will most likely be about my practice and anything i think might be helpful, please talk to me about any questions you have!

#hellenic polytheism #hellenic deities #hellenic pagan #hellenic devotion #hellenic gods #witchcraft #witch #apollo #ares #hestia #thanatos #aphrodite #pagan witch #please ask me questions #i love getting asks #dont be rude #be a nice person

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avengersacademytalks · 9 hours

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#avengers academy #marvel #doctor octopus #Otto Gunther Octavius #doc ock #green goblin #norman osborn #dont be rude

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anonymous-pizza-tower-fan · 1 month

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Ask me anything about anything! Can't draw for crap, but I can respond nicely!!!! Any rude ppl to me or my other fans/visitors will not be able to see my stuff or be rude again!!! Any inappropriate photos sent will mean you are blocked too. Sorry for so many rules, I just don't like hatred or unreasonable unkindness. I don't bite! Pls, I want to be your neighborhood friendly pizza tower fan! Go ahead, step right up folks!

#pizza tower #one piece #anime #(:#ask me anything #have fun #dont be rude

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quietly-sleeping · 1 year

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I've been thinking about how bbc Merlin would fit in with the batfam. especially if this is dp x dc and Danny is vibing with the family at that point

#dp x dc #bbc merlin #batfam #who is that random person standing with the wayne family?#that's dicks younger brother #dont be rude

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unhingedicedlatte · 1 year

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Please think before you comment on people's physical traits/appearance! There is NO NEED WHATSOEVER to shame, belittle or otherwise mess with someone's feelings because of something as superficial and unimportant than looks!! It's dumb, it's insensitive, it's unnecessary, uncalled for and oftentimes simply cruel.

Care for some examples?

I was walking my dogs once and stopped at a local dogpark where an elder woman started chatting to me. She was nice enough, but all of a sudden she asked why I didn't get my teeth fix. Yeah, I am 100% aware that I have crooked front teeth. I don't really care, I accept them the way they are, back then I also was not generally in a good mental state and such a comment felt downright mean and utterly out of place. Luckily, I was able to tell her as much by coolly stating that this was none of her business and that it's extremely impolite and rude to say something like that...

I've also had several occassions in my life where people told me negative things about my hair which is not only rude, but also plain racist. European, white people telling me, a PoC, that I should get another hairstyle 'cuz it would look "much better"?! I mean, do they even know what they are suggesting?! Yeah, get over it; not everybody needs to have fair, straight hair. I like my hair the way it is naturally: curly, sometimes a little messy, and whenever I dye it, I do it because I enjoy being colorful (I had it pink for quite some time), but that's my decision and no one else's business and maybe these people should take a long hard look at themselves and understand how utterly brainwashed they have been to believe that there is exactly ONE way of being beautiful/handsome/pretty.

Also, do not comment on people's weight!! Seriously?! Why is this even still a thing?! You know NOTHING about a person's history, about their eating habits, their routines, you don't know whether they are struggling with an eating disorder and you certainly don't get to decide what their body has to look like for them to like and celebrate themselves!! It's just not okay to tell someone "Oh, you used to be so thin, what happened?" or "You have lost way too much weight, it doesn't suit you at all!" or "You've grown fat since I last saw you" - CUT THAT SH*T!!

Also, you don't have to comment on other people's fashion preferences; if you don't want to wear skinny jeans or leoprints or bright neon colors or cheap shoes or wheaver, well, you are not obliged to do so, but let other people wear whatever they want and just LEAVE THEM ALONE.

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fnafgirl092407 · 2 years

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Story Makings?

Should I make some stories for King Candy/Turbo Tastic X Reader?

I’ve noticed that there are not many short stories of the crazy racer man, and I would like to make some more for appreciation of him.

I, of course, will apply these rules to other fandoms; like TMNT (2012-2018), FNAF, LEGO (Monkie Kid or Ninjago), Undertale, TFP, and Sonic.

Things I will do:

Fluff

Angst

Lemon (possible smut)

Things I will NEVER EVER do:

P3d0philia

Inc3st

R@pe

Please, follow these rules, and I will do requests for those fandoms.

#wreck it ralph #tmnt #tmnt2012 #tmnt2014 #tmnt2016 #tmnt2018 #fnaf #lego monkie kid #lego ninjago #undertale #transformers prime #sonic #x reader #dont be rude #i am gay #interests

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fangirlkimba805 · 2 years

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Anti milevens…. GET THE FUCK OUT OF OUR TAG

#mileven #dont be rude

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her-pale-shadow · 1 year

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ok but what if i knot you instead

When have I ever said that's something I'm into? Check what people who run horny blogs like before sending them an ask, if you're not sure then you can ask politely, or just find one of the many people who are actually into that kind of thing.

#dont be rude #it isnt hard to check what people are into instead of just forcing your kinks into their askbox #I dont have strong feelings about knotting but I dont like being a bottom #asks #anon

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ariluna91 · 7 months

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