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justtwotired · 8 months
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heyyy, how are you
I was wondering weather you could do a regulus x female reader with prompt 31. so they're both Slytherins and there's a lot of tension between them because they both like each other but are too scared to admit it and then they get into a stupid argument like over hw or a potions assignment and the reader says shut up and when she kisses regulus, he's shocked but pulls her back for another one.
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Hi there! I’m great, thanks for the request, it took a while to reply, I’ve been rather busy, but here you are, I hope you’ll like it.
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“Reg, can you just focus on the assignment! We have to get it done because McGonagall will murder us if it’s not done today, we already got an extra week!” She says annoyed and he rolls his eyes.
They where in Reg’s dorm, finishing an assignment they chose to do together.
“We’ve been working for hours. I need a break from this stupid assignment, and from you!” He raised his voice slightly as he got up from his seat, Y/n also stood and followed after him.
“What do you mean a break from me? I’ve done nothing but make this assignment, while you just sat around not doing shit!” She says angrily and a bit hurt.
“You are the transfiguration genius, besides, you didn’t even let me touch a bloody quill! Saying you where writing everything!” He turns around and she narrows her eyes.
“Because it looks better if it’s in only one handwriting you blithering idiot! Not to forget I told you to keep reading the book to me, which you did not do!” She started raising her voice aswell.
Regulus grumbled something and then combed his hand trough his black curls for a moment in a rather stressful manner.
Though she was mad, Y/n couldn’t help but blush as she looked away quickly. Though she composed herself and continued.
“What? You have no excuses anymore? Honestly, Black, you should really learn how to finish a fight if you keep starting one.” She points out and he is at a loss for words for a moment.
“Oh I keep starting fights? It’s all my fault now? Obviously I’m going to start fights when you keep ordering me around, and then I want to stop and you still keep going!” He pointed an accusing finger at her as he took a step forward and she one back.
“Merlins balls, I really regret partnering up with you out of all people.” She grumbled, folding her arms over each other. “Should’ve just chosen Evan.” She mumbled, but he heard and he couldn’t help but grit his teeth and silently curse the blonde boy.
“Oh, of course, Evan would be a much better pick then ‘always starting fights Regulus Black’ maybe he would just rip the work in half in a fit of rage, or curse at you for doing something wrong!” He started another kind of fight and her head snapped towards him.
“Hey! Evan wouldn’t do that! What is wrong with you?” She took multiple steps his way and he stayed rooted in his place.
“Oh? What is wrong with me? What’s wrong with you?! You keep accusing me of all sorts of shit and it’s getting annoying, you know.” He yelled and she huffed.
“I’m accusing you because it’s true! There’s no reason to get mad at me for shit you did because I said it out loud!” She poked a finger in his chest and grabbed her wrist and narrowed his eyes.
“Stop.” He said and her angry frown turned into a confused one. “What?” She asked and he sighed. “I said stop, you’re being rather annoying.” He said and her frown became angry once again.
“Oh, I’m the annoying one? If you had listened to a word a I said the past few minutes, maybe you could realise I’m not the problem here!” She hissed angrily.
“Oh right, right, I remember, I was so annoying you would have rather done this project with Evan.” He pointed out and she rolled her eyes at the fact that’s the only thing he could remember.
Why was he even mad about that, was he jealous or something- holy crackers, he was! No, he is! He’s jealous, she couldn’t help but smirk as she thought it.
This smirk didn’t go unnoticed by Regulus and he squeezed her wrist bit. “Maybe I would’ve been better of doing the project with Marcella.” He snarled and her eyes traveled towards his and he saw the storm raging in them.
If there was someone is Slytherin house Y/n hated, it was Marcella, always one upping people, a huge pick me, and she was always over Regulus, talking to him, hugging him almost sitting on his lap.
She knew he was trying to make her jealous, and for Merlin’s sake, it worked.
“Shut up!” She said angrily and he raised his eyebrows. “What’s wrong?” He said mockingly. “I said shut up!” She repeated and he looked a bit surprised.
He was about to open his mouth but she leaned forward and caught him up in a kiss before he could start his sentence.
When she pulled away, he was surprised and most of all, flustered. “Once again, I said shut up.” She said with narrowed eyes. He blinked for a moment, but then he pulled her towards him and kissed her again.
She leaned into his touch and put her hands behind his neck while he put his own on her waist.
They pulled back and she smirked. “I can’t wait to see Marcella’s face when she finds out about this one.”
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my-autism-adhd-blog · 9 months
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Hi so I’m an incoming freshman I have autism and ADHD I was wondering do you have any tips for high school specifically for people with autism and ADHD like me? Thank you for your time!!
Hi there,
It’s been out of school since 2015, so I’m rusty with tips. However I did find one article listing 12 tips that might help:
1. You don’t need ONE study space.
A well-stocked desk in a quiet place at home is key, but sometimes you need variety. Coffee shops, libraries, parks, or even just moving to the kitchen table will give you a change of scenery which can prompt your brain to retain information better.
2. Track more than HW in your school planner.
Keeping a calendar helps you plan ahead—but you’ve got more going on than just homework assignments! Make sure you’re marking your extracurricular, work, and social commitments, too. (Tests, band practice, away games, SAT dates, half-days and holidays are just a few examples of reminders for your planner.)
3. Start small.
If you’ve got a big assignment looming, like a research paper, stay motivated by completing a piece of the project every few days. Write one paragraph each night. Or, do 5 algebra problems from your problem set at a time, and then take a break.
4. School supplies (alone) don’t make you organized.
Come up with a system and keep to it. Do you keep one big binder for all your classes with color-coded tabs? Or do you prefer to keep separate notebooks and a folder for handouts? Keep the system simple—if it’s too fancy or complicated, you are less likely to keep it up everyday.
5. Get into a routine.
When will you make the time to do your homework every day? Find the time of day that works best for you (this can change day-to-day, depending on your schedule!), and make a plan to hit the books.
6. Learn how to create a distraction-free zone.
A study on workplace distractions found that it takes workers an average of 25 minutes to return to what they were working on pre-interruption. Try turning off your phone notifications or blocking Twitter (temporarily) on your computer so you can concentrate on the homework tasks at hand.
7. Get real.
When you’re looking at the homework you have to get done tonight, be realistic about how long things actually take. Gauging that reading a history chapter will take an hour and writing a response will take another 30 minutes will help you plan how you spend your time.
8. Use class time wisely.
Is your teacher finished lecturing, but you still have 10 minutes of class left? Get a jump on your chemistry homework while it’s still fresh in your mind. Or use the time to ask your teacher about concepts that were fuzzy the first time.
9. Look over your notes each night to make sure you've got it.
Fill in details, edit the parts that don’t make sense, and star or highlight the bits of information that you know are most important. Interacting with your notes will help you remember them. You can also use Homework Help to get your questions answered 24/7.
10. Study a little every day.
Cramming Spanish vocabulary for a quiz might work in the short-term, but when comes time to study for midterms, you’ll be back at square 1. You might remember the vocab list long enough to ace the quiz, but reviewing the terms later will help you store them for the long haul.
11. Don’t let a bad grade keep you down.
A rough start to the semester doesn’t have to sink your GPA. Take proactive steps by checking your grades regularly online and getting a tutor if you need one.
12. Make a friend in every class.
Find a few people you can contact from each of your classes if you have a homework question or had to miss class (and do the same for them!).  Then when it comes time to study for exams, you'll already have a study group.
The article will be below:
I hope this helps. Thank you for the inbox. I hope you have a wonderful day/night. ♥️
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funkymbtifiction · 2 years
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Do you have any tips on how to focus on tasks especially boring ones as a 7w6. There was a week where I couldn’t focus on my homework like my mind would go blank trying so hard to focus on one of my subjects because I was thinking about my new job that I just started and then whenever I would try to go back to studying, I would go shopping online. My mind would wander and then I would start thinking about what foods I want to eat cause I’m so hungry and what show I want to watch right after I’m done with my hw. I have a Midterm coming up and coding was pretty decent at first then I started stressing and I’m not understanding an assignment correctly and It’s so hard to concentrate for some reason. Tricks I found out that works would be studying and then take lots of breaks in between whenever i get stressed because I cannot think clearly and it makes the assignments confusing, so I start doing things like watching movies, eating, working out and then I go back to the assignment I was having trouble on and it makes so much sense after having my mini breaks. But there are times where I just sit on my phone to take a break and I think about doing my hw and don’t do it because somehow I ended up being on Tiktok for 3 hours and other apps for the rest of the day. I feel like I have ADHD everytime I try to sit still and just focus, it’s like my mind is thinking about a billion other things to do. Most of the time this trick works for me to focus and other times I get lazy to even do those things & end up on my phone where I stay on it for hours. I think being Ne dom and 7 makes it really difficult to stay focused for long periods of time. Anyways, I was wondering if you have any other tips that’ll help? Thank you, Charity!
I would say find a 6 wing attachment reason to focus, such as the approval of the people who matter the most to you or a sense of obligation and a desire to finish your tasks. Then, work on self-discipline by allowing yourself mini-breaks, but set a timer on your phone to go off when your time is up (15 minutes). You don't get another break until you've done X amount of homework. It's hard for 7s to focus and stay on topic, especially when something is 'boring or hard,' so the mini-breaks are a good idea -- you will just need to firmly commit to your time limit and force yourself to go back to studying. (The idea being that the sooner you get this crap done, the sooner you can go have fun for hours on end.) I used to motivate myself through boring stuff with a reward at the end of it -- M&M's for each chapter I read in a textbook, watching my favorite show at the end, even a weekend "treat" of some kind as a reprieve from schoolwork and because I got everything I wanted to do, done.
It might also be helpful to think in terms of longer term goals -- why is school important, where is it going to take me, what fun will it allow me to have, once I have an established career and/or am finished with it? I think you are ENTP as well, right? Are there motivated, focused, non-7's in your life to cheer you on academically and keep you motivated, to talk to you when you feel like procrastinating? Can you power through boring stuff for the sake of someone else and their approval? Etc.
I would also say -- inject variety and fun into the days when you do have to study a lot, and that will make them more bearable. I don't know if it helps to play music so you can focus or not, but it always helps me to put on an instrumental and listen to it while I work.
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corneater3000 · 4 months
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feeling so incredibly burned out i feel like i need 6 months to recover!!!!! having a difficult time keeping up with friends and passions and things i actually truly care about. working 55 hours a week is eating me alive currently and so is the constant pressure my new boss is putting on me. but i can quit if it gets to be too much and i trust myself to find my own ways to support myself that won’t take a toll <3 it’s what im working towards. getting a promotion wasn’t all it cracked up to be lol
to do list today:
order some groceries
make coffee
call/text back all my friends
wash dishes, clean litter box, tidy up
laundry
(chores can be pushed to tomorrow if in too much pain today)
spend present time with my kitty
catch up on readings and update scheduling for hypnosis sessions
do 2 hw assignments and schedule call with teacher
smoke a joint and be outside for at least 1 hour (can overlap with other to dos)
long reiki charged salt bath
play new video game
make sure to take bedtime supplements + do bedtime skincare
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highonthought · 2 years
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Post-Vacation Depri
It's not so fun coming back from vacation. I just miss him. The trip back is always so much longer than the trip there. Maybe anticipation that makes the trip to California so much quicker, I'm so excited to see him. But leaving us so long, I feel every second. Just saying goodbye before the terminal, before security, it sucks. And I come home, and I'm left with this feeling that I've met before. I know it all too well, I'm not anxious I'm not mad, I'm not sad either, I'm nostalgic and I just want to be with him. There's a bit of a twang, of how I felt the last time before we broke up. I didn't know what to do with all of the feelings I felt, all that pain from being away from him, but I thought it would go way if he went away. Obviously it didn't, lol. Two years later were happily dating again and I couldn't be happier.
People say its easier to remember bad things than it is to remember happy memories. And I guess that's true. It's hard to forget how I felt every second after he left the airport and I had to wait through security and walk to my two little, and walk to my gate, and then wait an hour for my flight. Yeah, and I wait for my luggage, and I wait for my bus, and I wait to get picked up from the bus stop, then I'm home, and everything is just how I left it, everything is just as it was when I left. Just stark contrast of arriving to his state, where he waits for me at baggage claim, and i can't wait to get there knowing that my bag wont arrive for another 20 minutes, because I'll get to just stand by him. And this last visit was no different. He had on a red long sleeve mock neck, and he greeted me with a smile and open arms. I just miss him, I can't help it.
We spent basically a whole week at an airbnb living together. I only ever catch a glimpse of what our lives are like when were together. Im happy waking up next to him. Making him breakfast, making dinner together, enjoying our youth together. I love danny, Im not leaving ever again. I get weird manic days where i do some crazyshit but i think ive grown, and am able to rationalize my thoughts now. And even if i cant, I know how it felt to be away from from, completely, for two years. That sucked big balls. It felt off, hes one of my best friends and confidants.
Anyway so im back from vacation with him and i cant get much of nything done because im upset, im sad, im melancholic, I miss him and i just sit and think of him, or i just want to be talking to him. Im havingbtrouble falling back into a routine. Maybe bc i didnt have much of an established pne to begin with. Its easy to just sit here and mope. But theres a pain in my chest and i get a shiver all throught my body when i remeber that im back to my own life, no more fairy tale.
I want to remeber how good it feels to do the things i like.
School
Gym
Work
really i shouldstop watching so much tv bc i never feel good after. I feel great when i come back from the gym, or when I complete a homework assignment. But its so hard to want to do better when my room is such a mess. and man, it is always a mess. But that makes it a great place to start. Im going to clean my room tonight so i can go into the work week feeling good
Sunday: hw, gym, :)
Monday: work, hw
Tuesday: work, gym
Wednesday: work, hw
Thursday: work, class
Friday: (no work hehe) gym, hw
Saturday: clean up room, rest
This looks like an easy enough week list to follow. Simple and realistic. Im glad and looking forward to it. 💕📝
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skialdi · 3 years
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Sleepy hour~🥱💤
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ii-zi · 2 years
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took 2 ibuprofens (even tho i was scared to do so lol) about 6??? hours ago. had a light breakfast v slowly over the course of about 2-3 hours around the same time.
“magically” started feeling better, to the point i took off my coat when we were still at 50°F/10°C (i was freezing by 9am after almost boiling alive around 5am). got too warm too quickly. started boiling again. 6 hours later not only i have the coat back, but the funky headache that makes me dizzy when my sight moves is back, as is the joint pain at full strenght
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pallases · 2 years
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just pulled my first college all nighter 🤪
#personal#maybe. idk doe sit count as an all nighter if im abt to pass the fuck out at 8 am#and then have to wake up again in like two hours since family is visiting and that is in fact the reason why i stayed up this late to get#done hw due tomorrow (for some god forsaken reason who the hell assigns a quiz due at 6 pm on a saturday)#that’s not the only thing i was working on obviously since it has a time limit but that class in general is since the assignment this week#is giving me absolute hell… for reference I have been straggling through this single class’s assignments sinc e 6 pm#with breaks ofc but not as long or as many as you’d expect to justify that length of time#and this class is worth ONE CREDIT this is insanity… i feel so useless honestly i feel like if i had more resources at my disposal or knew#where to find more it would be so much easier but he only posts a couple tutorials a week which i guess is more than a lot of classes would#get but it’s not enough for me 😭 they’re not v helpful either just in general#i mean they Are helpful but they’re not usually super applicable to the assignments for the week like they’re supposed to be#idk.#i am just not feeling great abt myself rn LOL he keeps saying we should be finishing each model in like half an hour meanwhile here i am 🤪#the quiz i ABSOLUTELY did not get a 100 on like the last one but i am praying that i got the gist of it like i think i did#i didn’t even get the chance to figure out how to fully define mt sketch since a lot of dimensions were missing and there weren’t sketch#relations to follow either but for once i don’t think that was technically part of the criteria so hopefully I will get away w it#not counting on it tho 😔#okay anyway i have been gone for over two weeks and have a lot of notifs and am exhausted atm so i will try to reply to them tomorrow#or today. whatever#also apologies for the no doubt horrible incomprehensible grammar of these tags i am so tired#the engineering chronicles#my sleep schedule has been legitimately laughable the past couple weeks i keep staying up until 5 am and im supposed to wake up at 7:30#the first time that that happened i decided to skip my first class for some extra sleep and my professor EMAILED me asking abt my well-being#and when i said i was fine my alarm just didn’t go off (technically not a lie) she practically lectured me abt the importance of not missin#this class and needing to let her know beforehand if im going to be out etc etc#exact words at one point were ‘it’s time to invest in a new alarm clock! 😊’#yes the emoji was included anywyay she was v nice throughout it all but it traumatized me <3 and so i have not done it since#i was so taken aback when i got it like this isn’t high school djsjnfdn even if it was what hs teacher reaches out to you like that#god okay that was a lot. if you read all this props ily
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cinanamon · 5 years
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#i want to bang my head against my desk i have so much pent up anger in me#like /months worth/ and ive literally started to just randomly snap and have short yelling outburst haha??? im reaching a likit i think#*limit#ive been so stressed with hw and now my art show/modeling is tomorrow night and saturday#and we had the rehearsal today during school so now im having to make up work and hw and my teacher marked me as unexcused even though i#sent him an email#and im modeling one of my teachers dresses and i forgot to ask what hair or makeup she wanted and i cant ask her since i dont have her class#this semester but i need to have it done before we even go to the plce tomorrow but we have to be there in less than an hour after school#ends and dont even get me STARTED on saturday because i was going to hve to leave at 8am for a compeition for winterguard and leave right#after our performance to make the art show and bow our performance is in the afternoon but i need to be at the art show in the afternoon and#the winterguard thing is almost an hour away so!!!! wow!!! fuck responsibilities!!!#im not even sure if im stressed or not anymore bc ive been bottling it in for so long im eerily calm but i just want to break and throw#things and thats not a good sign??? and i have a headache plus i cant even relax when i have no assignments bc im so anxious and prepared to#have work suddenly thrown at me#and my friends’ been moody and petty all week!!! literally bipolar in the way she interacts plus i have two tests tomorrow!! i just need a#massage and nap and good cry but i never do any of those nor would i even have time :(#sorry for negativity but just all of this hit me while trying to write my spanish notes and i felt like screaming so! yeah#rant#how to blacklist your own neg/rant tag god thats depressing to read
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ephemeral-eternity · 3 years
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FUCKIN GET IT MR. MITCHELL
#i can HEAR his voice say this#and im probably the only one#at least here#he was my modern world history teacher in 10th grade. he thought my name was sophie AND a completely unrelated teacher also thought my name#was sophie. same semester. an hour apart#and then i found out that my mom almost named me sophie. so if i ever need an alias....#AND mr. mitchell was also my psych teacher senior year. his class was always my favorite. and he rarely assigned hw. and it was really funny#he forgot my name cuz his daughters name is olive and olivia is pretty close to that. some people even call me olive. but no apparently im a#sophie. the other teacher made more sense. there was a sophie in the class and she has nieces named sophie and olivia so she remembered our#names but forgot which was which. but i have many fond memories of mr. mitchell. he has a very distinct voice and knew how to work it to his#advantage. kept peoples attention. made him more approachable. he used to let me and my friends hang out in his classroom during lunch and#watch youtube on the projector. he had us watch silence of the lambs in class. everyone was deeply disturbed that me and my friends could#recite it line for line. id only actually seen it once before but my brain loves to hold on to movie dialogue. but i managed to memorize my#teachers voice well enough to be able to hear his tweets. itd be weird not to have an inner voice. and be able to hear other people's voices#in their head. if i worked at it i could probably mimic voices pretty well. be great for a voice acting career. thats what i wanted to be in#high school btw. i wanted to be a voice actor. or a comedian. still considering it honestly. i could do stand up comedy on youtube.#ive really been considering that lately. wouldnt make much money but itd be fun. now i just gotta try to get my brain to focus on a topic#enough to write some bits. i have all these ideas and my brain is like a toddler bouncing excitably from topic to topic and not sticking#with one long enough to get anything cohesive out of it. idk. would anyone watch that? is that even a thing? i guess i could try animating#it? im asking my grandma for a new drawing tablet for christmas. i need one with a screen. my brain doesnt make the connection that whats#happening on the computer is screen is what im doing on the tablet surface. i need to be able to see my hands while im drawing. otherwise i#just get a headache. digital art would be easier for me cuz theres less steps to setting it up than with setting up an area to paint or#something. less steps is good. less steps means my brain has less time to get distracted from the objective. i love art but the process is#so daunting. and i think my pencil sketches are shit so i try to go more detailed and include more mediums. but then it just fucks it up#then im back where i started. at least with digital drawing if i dont like what im drawing and get frustrated i can just x out of it. with#physical mediums you have to clean everything up and decide what to do with your disaster and possibly throw it out and then wish years#later that you kept it so you could show your progress. did this happen to me? maybe. now obviously you could just delete it off your#computer and itd be just as lost as the one you threw away BUT its much easier to save some copies of the different parts of the process.#with physical art you might have just done it in one sitting on one piece of paper and once thats gone its gone. of course you have to have#the foresight to have saved the copies but i imagine it would become a habit after awhile.
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finchleaf · 3 years
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howdy! sorry i've been away for so long; i've been visiting family here in turkey but i'm gonna try to start this blog back up :) for now it'll mostly be journal pics
24th july - would you prefer your summer to be shorter or longer?
honestly? maybe a bit shorter. i feel like the days tend to blur together during summer break and not having school to focus on seems to make my mental health even worse :/ anyways! i'm very excited for senior year as you can tell haha
answering the rest down below!
1st July - What are your plans for this summer?
lots of traveling, working as a camp counselor in august, makin some sweet sweet money to save up for college, playing the new sims expansion pack (!!), and hanging out with friends as much as possible before schoolwork begins to bury me alive again :)
2nd July - Do you have a specific goal for this summer?
i want to study really well for my sat in late august!! (i’ve already made some great progress) also i want to get a lot of college app stuff out of the way (write some more practice essays bc i don’t like my current one, get my letters of rec in place, figure out my major, etc)
3rd July - Do you have a lot of work to do for school, university or your job this summer?
ooo ok we have to read a book and write an assignment for it for ap lit this year (except i think we start that once we get back to school?). also i need to do a bunch of summer hw for ap calc, but that’s pretty much it! and then i have a job for 2 weeks in august (as mentioned above hehe)
4th July - What is the most important task that you need to complete this summer?
probably college app stuff ahhh don’t want to even think about it anymore
5th July -  Do you have any special plans or activities for this summer?
traveling to turkey to see my family!! staying in a couple of villas (there’s a lot of us!) and then my grandma’s old summer apartment for ~5 days
6th July - What do you usually do during the summer? Is anything different this year?
going to turkey! a lifelong tradition since i was a lil baby :) last year we couldn’t go so this year’s extra special. also my first time doin a summer job!!
7th July - What did you do during the summer when you were a young child?
^^^ same as above haha
8th July - What’s your happiest summer memory from your childhood?
ooh probably one of the many from my grandma’s little summer apartment here. i have an 11 yo cousin so we share a lot of memories like running to buy our anneanne her newspaper in the convenience store downstairs, finding fish underwater at the local beach, staying up late gorging on magnum ice cream bars :)
9th July - Do you usually go on vacation during the summer?
yup
10th July - What is the best vacation you have ever been on? (note: doesn’t have to be a summer vacation)
oooh one time after flying into istanbul to stay with aforementioned cousin and my aunt, we all traveled to london for about a week! i loved that so so much, we never could really afford to go anywhere else for vacation so that was super memorable for me.
11th July - What is your favourite vacation memory?
swimming with my family in oludeniz, (called “blue lagoon”) a super pretty beach area. we swam to a little island and then jumped off its cliff :)))
12th July - What is the worst vacation you have ever been on?
oh god ok vomit tw for this one but one time my aunt, cousin, mom, and i traveled back to istanbul after staying at my grandma’s in ayvalik and we had to take a boat for a couple of hours. everyone on the boat (and it was a big one) for some reason started vomiting everywhere. i was i think the only one who wasn’t sick so it was hell haha
13th July - What is your dream vacation?
like a month-long roadtrip around france!!!! i’ve wanted to go there since i was in elementary school
14th July - Would you rather stay in one resort for a month or travel across the country for one month?
definitely travel cross country omg
15th July - Are there any special events for you in the summer? (for example, birthdays, festivals, etc.)
bayram!! bayram is sick you get money for kissing the older people in your family sjfdsjj
16th July - Do you have any summer traditions?
renting a villa with the entire family!
17th July - What is your typical daily routine in the summer?
at home, i usually wake up anywhere from 7am to 10am, take my dog for 2+ walks, read a ton, and avoid work ;)
18th July -  How do you stay motivated during the summer? (for example, to study)
it’s pretty tough! i’m hoping to study daily in my town’s library for my sat once i get back home in august. i think that’ll be pretty handy!
19th July - Do you stay indoors or outdoors more in the summer?
oh outdoors there’s no ac here so we’re constantly heading over to the beach
but at home in the us, probably indoors
20th July - Are you a ‘summer person’?
nOOOOOO i love any season/month that allows me to wear sweaters and pants, so obviously i’m not a big fan of summer
21st July - What is an unpopular opinion that you have about summer?
oh hm i’m not sure... most of the women in my family always wear bikinis when we go to the beach and i just really hate them? idk haha
also i think summer camps are kinda weird but that’s probably because i never went to one as a kid
22nd July - What does summer feel like where you live?
rather cool in the later afternoon. i also love how it smells there-- lots of freshly-cut lawns, grills constantly being used, the hydrangeas in our backyard
23rd July - Would you prefer summer to be hotter or colder than it usually is for you?
oh huh it can get reaaally hot midday so it would be nice if it was a bit cooler 
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marigold-doms · 4 years
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hi! can I request an Ateez reaction to their gf not paying attention while studying together? like the members try their best to help their gf with her studies but she keeps pouting and flirting and stuff😅 I've just recently found your blog and I love it so far!💕
Admin Mika🌻: This was supposed to be cute... with an exception of a few... enjoy~
||ATEEZ reacts|| to gf not paying attention to studying
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Seonghwa:
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He’ll probably try to force you to study.
“Baby, I know I’m handsome thank you.” He taps your side as you shower him with kisses. Finding it hard to help you focus since you were doing plenty enough to distract him.
But he wanted you to get a good grade on you essay so he catches your eyes seriously.
“How about cuddles and kisses for 5 minutes after every page you do?”
He’ll do his best to motivate you with prizes and affection—UWU
Hongjoong:
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our cute boyfriend here will leave the room.
Strict tutor here.
He wants you to do well and when you keep distracting yourself he might take something from you.
“Alright. No boba after we study then if you keep doing this.” He tries to cup your pouting face.
You actually get sad and he ends up folding anyways and getting you boba. Only with the compromise that while he goes to get it that you at least knock out an assignment or two.
Yunho:
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He would be the reason why you’re laughing and giggling so much.
Then it’s two hours before the deadline and you both are up frantically working on the project, hoping that the procrastination gains pressured creativity—or something like that.
“I told you not to distract me!”
“You wanted to start playing our game!! How could I not join???” Yunho argues back before helping you finish up.
Yeosang:
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Yeosang is the type to ignore you. But only for a little while.
As soon as you get pout he breaks and he showers you with a big hug.
“No no no sweetheart, I was only playing.” He brings out his laptop. “Come on. Share the file with me— I’ll help you finish taking notes.”
He wants you to get all the important things out of the way before you guys can have cute dates and spend time enjoying each other’s presence.
San:
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He’s the type bf to make you ditch studying. (What a bad influence)
He’ll be the one trying to grab your attention.
San is so adorable though that you just end up doing hw while cuddling with him or while sitting on his lap so he can back hug you—
Y’all thought i was gonna keep SAN’s reaction clean???— WRONG
I see him starting out with just wanting your attention but as soon as you start sitting on this boy’s lap.
I promise you homework isn’t going to be the only thing done on the desk tonight.
Mingi:
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Oh mingi. (I feel like I always start mingi’s by going “oh mingi” lol idk why i do that)
Anyways—
Mingi is the type of boyfriend to be your little cheerleader.
Brings you tea, coffee, or water to help you gain strength or focus.
He wants you to be able to focus on your studies.
When you get a little distracted he probably encourages you tbh.
“You got this baby!! Only a few more questions left!!” He pats your head. “We can go get food after when you finish!”
Wooyoung:
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Studies with you.
Makes jokes and even asks for your opinion on his work.
Exchanges cute little notes through the post-it’s that are on the desk.
Loves to take “breaks” with you
Which ends up being an hour....I wonder what you guys do for a WHOLE HOUR???
“Let’s gets back to work baby... I think we’ve taken too long of a break.”
He chuckles, while you both study half naked.
Jongho:
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Jongho is the type to silently be around you.
Probably on his phone.
As soon as you start becoming distracted, he does that cute thing— you know when a puppy keeps running to their owner and the owner keeps pushing them back— to you.
You come over to him and he laughs but carries you back to your seat.
He finds it endearing when you keep doing it.
At the fifth time he huffs and presses you back into your seat.
“Love, just stay and study for 30 minutes then we can finally hang out.”
Super supportive but not strict about it.
He just ends up holding you in his arms as you study.
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jasperswh0re · 3 years
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Here to Help [Raylan Givens x Reader]
sorry this is so late</3 like the person who requested this, school has been biting me in the ass :’D but i have zero hw assignments so I’m gonna churn out some stuff!!!
Summary: Requested by @universallyraylangivens, the reader is going through an anxiety attack, and Raylan’s here to help. Gender neutral reader
Warning: anxiety attack symptoms, nothing else just fluff
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This week just keeps getting worse.
Life has been beating you down, punch after punch. You can’t seem to get a break. Stress has been piling on and you weren’t sure how much more you could take.
You haven’t been sleeping much lately. When your anxiety is at an all-time high nothing can keep you still enough to sleep. So not only are you worrying about a million things at once, but you also couldn't sleep.
Tonight was one of those nights. Your boyfriend Raylan was supposed to be home three hours ago but he hasn’t given you so much as a call.
You sat at your kitchen table, your leg bouncing at insane speeds. Realizing what you were doing, you held still. But you were up on your feet in less than two seconds. 
What if something happened to him? You knew how dangerous these cases were. Sure, he was good at his job... Well, at least good shooting someone before he could get hurt. What if this was the one time he was hurt? 
Your chest tightened at the thought of this. You glanced at your phone but there weren’t any messages. Maybe you could call his Aunt Helen!
No... She doesn’t keep tabs on Raylan. You would have called Art but Raylan told you to stop calling his job every time you were worried. 
You let out a weak sigh and placed a hand on your head. The longer you dwelled on this, the drier your throat became. Tears welled up in your eyes but you forbade them from slipping. 
What if he was shot and bleeding out in the backwoods? You didn’t know where to find him or what you could do. He’s dead for all you know.
A door slammed closed in the living room causing you to jump out of your skin. 
“I’m home...” Raylan’s voice called out. “(Y/n)? Where are you?”
“I’m in here,” You called out meekly. Your body collapsed onto a chair as he entered the kitchen.
“Sorry it’s so late, Tim and I had to chase this guy real far- ...What happened?” Raylan sounded tired. He threw his hat onto the table in front of you only to see your head in your hands.
“Nothing...” You exhaled.
“You’ve been crying.”
You were starting to calm down. As soon as you heard his southern drawl half of your worries washed away. But now that he was aware of your mood you could feel yourself breaking down again. 
In an attempt to flick it away, you waved your hand at him. Your boyfriend grabbed it and pulled you to your feet.
“What’s wrong?” He held your wrists so you couldn’t hideaway. You stared at him pitifully, unable to speak. 
Like a flood bursting through the gates, you came undone. The sound of your sobbing filled the tiny kitchen. You tried to explain everything but it came out as mostly helpless blubbering.
By the time Raylan managed to calm you down, he had you both nestled comfortably on your bed. You were sat on his lap and he rocked you back and forth, his large arms wrapped around your torso.
Your head was pressed against his chest. He had yet to change out of his work clothes so you noticed the heavy smell of coal, gunpowder, and pine on his shirt. His heart thumped loudly against your ears, allowing you to realize just how exhausted you were.
“Did- ...Did you get him?” You whispered.
Raylan looked down at you before replying. His voice was soft and comforting “Yeah... We got him.”
“You smell like you’ve been running around outside,” Your voice croaked and Raylan laughed in response. 
“That’s because I have been running around outside,” He set his chin on your head. “It’s a part of my job, hun.”
The marshall paused once more. You were nearly asleep when he asked, “What’s wrong?”
“A long week...”
“I bet my being late added onto that.”
“Yes it did, Raylan Givens,” You huffed angrily. You turned to glare at your boyfriend who was staring at you like you were the cutest thing in the world. 
“Well, I’ll keep that in mind. I’m very sorry.”
“You should be,” You said. 
Raylan chuckled once more as you leaned forward to plant your lips on his, which he happily obliged. He tasted like whiskey but his lips were gentle and passionate. His grip on your waist tightened to bring you closer. You wrapped your arms around his neck while he deepened the kiss, the faint feeling of his stubble pressed against your skin.  
Raylan held you on his lap, stroking your hair and allowing you to listen to his heartbeat. It was like this for hours until you fell asleep peacefully in his arms. 
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wolvesloveyou · 2 years
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This is another rant post cause life decided to shit on me this week, so ignore me.
I had my advising meeting yesterday to plan out my schedule for next semester. Scheduling wise, I went fine, and I can register for classes. Great. But then she asked about my assistant design thing.
For context, I'm a theatre major who specializes in costume design. This semester, I'm assistant designing for Taming of The Shrew. It's great. I also and a student worker for the costume shop, so I get paid as well. Awesome.
My advisor asked how it was going, I said it was going good, all the stuff I've been assigned are almost done (hopefully since we open next week) and she asked how much of that was I working on outside of work. I was confused, but I had done plenty of research outside of it so I said that. She said that as an assistant designer, that's not enough hours that can be counted since I'm being paid by the school. Meaning there's a difference between work and design. Which makes sense. I knew that. But, because of that, technically I can't be counted as assistant designer, but because she's nice (-_-) she'll let it slide and just make me assistant design again before I can be a ful designer. Fine. It's a little frustrating, but whatever. No biggie.
She then proceeded to ask how much I've been in the costume shop this past week. Well, outside of the 8 hours I work a week, none. I have other organizations that I'm a part of and hw that I need to be working on. She told me, verbatim, "you need to be spending every waking moment you can in the costume shop. You can go to class, eat, and sleep. Otherwise, you're in the costume shop. The Designer is here super late at night working on this, you should be here too."
1) No. I shouldn't have to sell my soul to work on this. I have OTHER THINGS that I've committed myself to doing that are not negotiable, and this is what happens when you encourage students to join organizations. We get conflicts. And guess what. I'M WORKING WHEN I HAVE FREE TIME. I literally took a day off my available schedule to allow myself 4 HOURS to do homework. Weekends are a whole other deal, but I'm not gonna entertain that for now.
2) the costume designer for this show is a professor. He is in his late 40s I think? I'm a 20F. I don't feel comfortable staying on campus late at night working on costumes alone with him. I'm sorry, but to me, my social anxiety and the slight fear I have of being left alone with a man significantly older than me late at night disagree with that statement. Granted, I might be overreacting here. He's gay and I'm straight, he's not going to actually pull something like that. But he's already proven himself to be extremely petty and passive aggressive. I don't want to be put in that position, and frankly, the fact that you think it's a good idea to put me in that position is worrying. Also, he works here. He chooses to be here for super long hours. That's his job. I'm a student. I'm here to learn, to take classes so I can get a degree and do something with my life. I have more things spread of a wide variety of categories to think about and manage where as he only has his job as a professor and costume shop manager. Our priorities are very different here, and staying late working on costumes isn't one of mine, especially when I have homework to do and a pet to take care of.
My advisor also said that "I should be aware that things get more demanding the week before a show, so any homework you have you should do ahead of time."
To be fair, yes, I know that. For most people who work in theatre, the week before a show opens is the most stressful and demanding. However, as a student I can't always plan around it. Non-theatre professor won't care. Even if they have a calendar out that has big projects and their due dates, they can still assign homework the week of with warning. They can make it due the next class, which gives me 2 days. I'm already nearly fully booked throughout the week, so I need the time to do it. You telling me I should have planned around it is irresponsible. Have you ever tried asking a professor who doesn't like working with students to give you homework early so you didn't have to do it the week of? It doesn't work most of the time, and some don't even see theatre as a reasonable excuse to work around it.
Now. Some of these points are valid to some degree, and I realize that. If I was working full time somewhere, and not taking classes, then yeah, I can see that and would agree. But I'm not working somewhere else. I'm a student. I'm paying to take classes and get a degree. You pushing me to spend EVERY AMOUNT OF FREE TIME I HAVE WITH YOU is just as irresponsible and annoying as those professors who think their class is the most important thing in the world. I'm sorry to break it to you, but its not. Even if it's important to my career, it's not important enough to push me to a breaking point.
I already struggle with time management and taking care of myself. I have a hard time making myself eat and drink water and do laundry and take showers and literally any other self care thing you can think of. It's hard. I can barely make myself do it without that kind of stress. I've already had instances where I've gotten sick after a show because I was dehydrated, because I FORGOT TO DRINK WATER FOR A FULL 2 WEEKS. That's not healthy. I recognize that. It's a work in progress. It's harder for me to take care of myself when I can't go home and make food, and rest properly. And you basically saying I shouldn't be leaving to do so, but staying here is astonishing.
On the bright side, instead of having 2 years left, I have a year and a half. 3 semesters. I'll be graduation in December instead of May. Hopefully I won't snap before then.
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icarusgf · 3 years
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hellooo jia. entering my senior year next year and Not Prepared! grades wise esp. you seem very smart (and particularly good at math) so i was wondering if you had any tips for someone who's not great at studying or getting concepts quickly 😭
hiiii here are my basic tips that work for me!
do as much by hand as possible. obviously there are exceptions but if there's not too much information and u have an option, i strongly suggest solving problems/taking notes by hand bc it really helps me focus on the material a lot more than typing.
esp for stem classes, push urself to show ALL your steps. for classes like chemistry and physics i would have a main notebook i used for hw assignments/class notes and a separate pad of scratch paper that i'd work out long problems on before transferring the clean solution over.
quizlet!!!!!!!! maybe this is just me but i use quizlet for almost everything ... it's a godsend for any memory-based assessment. most of the features are free and u can basically make ur own flashcards and test urself
"study smarter not harder" is a very overused phrase but i do think it's useful to try and figure out when in ur studying process u hit that point of diminishing return (as in, at what point will putting in more time studying not boost ur grade/help u perform better anymore). usually this is when u get too exhausted to focus lmao but basically develop a test prep routine that's good for u (mine is usually just making a review sheet and doing a quizlet) and don't force urself to study for an entire night if u don't HAVE to.
some more general studying tips: do ur hw the night it's assigned if u can, try and start studying 2 nights before a test rather than 1 so the information has time to settle, make use of free periods/long lunches if u feel like u don't have enough time after school, go to office hours, study with friends if u need motivation/support, see if having snacks/drinks while ur studying helps (i've found that drinking water or tea w a straw makes me focus way better than just out of a cup for some reason LOL).
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