#i love infjs

[kokoasci]

shoutout to the sigma enjoyers (its me i am sigma enjoyers)

#shoutout to anon who asked if i could color this i kind of got a little carried away #also sorry for like only drawing them on this acc i just love him sm #found out hes also an infj so thats fun (theyre just like me fr) #sigma #bsd #bungou stray dogs #bungo stray dogs #art #bsd fanart #bsd art #bsd sigma #fanart #bungou stray dogs fanart

[poetrybyonur]

Don’t just look at my outer shell. See me for who I am. Don’t just hear what I have to say. Listen to what I’m saying. Don’t just see my surface, dive into my deep end. That is where I keep my treasures. And I will do the same with you. Always.

A new spoken word created by me, using video I took myself of Antalya, Türkiye, at sunset. Click to hear my Londoner voice.

Background music by HAEVN.

#poets on tumblr #spilled ink #romantic poetry #love poem #romantic writer #poets and writers #onurtaskiran poetry #gentleman poet #love #poetrybyonur #infj #empath #i see you #see me too #spoken word #spoken poetry #londoner #british male poet #cockney

[toddbl4ck]

"Someone has to leave first. This is a very old story. There is no other version of this story."

fleabag (2016-2019), user starpeace, larissa pham, richard siken, taylor swift, boygenius, richard siken, nicole homer, mitski, sarah kay and phil kaye, sue zhao

#yea sooooo :3 lets just say i kin the priest #infj legend #fleabag #larissa pham #richard siken #siken #taylor swift #boygenius #nicole homer #mitski #sarah kay and phil kaye #sue zhao #web weaving #on leaving #do i put a bunch of random tags? #yea i should probably #love #heartbreak #lyrics #avoidant #quotes #.mine #i dont know what should i put next im so bad at tagging PLEASE #i need somebody to tag my posts for me honestly

[misspoetree]

So the lovely @haahka and I were talking about Tay and how it's a bit sad that the fandom only ever seems to send him on shopping tours or focus on his fashion (you guys know that I'm obsessed with the KinnPorsche Fashion myself, but it's just a little...unadventurous, you know).

And then I got waaay to deep into headcanons with the equally lovely @tumsa (I'm not even sorry for the spam 😌❤).

Now, there are two things I want to do: first, I'd love to hear more Tay headcanons - feel free to throw them at me (as an ask, in the tags, added to this post, whatever you prefer). Because I'm really curious. 👀

And second, I'm going to share a few of mine:

Tay is way more capable than anyone thinks. (But no one needs to know that.)

People treat Tay like a princess within the show - I mean, he isn't even allowed to help in the kitchen at Porsche's. But I don't think Tay IS a princess. I think it's a protective façade. Because letting oneself be underestimated is a (survival) strategy in a world of money and constant power struggle, and a smart one at that. Yes, Tay is really good at reading people in general, but I also feel like people tend to let their guard down around him. Because he's kind, and understanding, and compassionate - and he seems harmless, a bit spoiled even. His 'softness' puts people at ease, makes them talk, makes them more honest than they probably should be. He's not a threat after all. I bet he knows a lot of things he shouldn't. I bet he's smart enough to use that knowledge (to help other people, to help himself, if needed). And I bet Tay could be fucking dangerous if he ever chose to (and wouldn't that be exciting 👀).

I also like to think that Tay has a strong survival instinct that goes beyond 'pretending to be incapable'. He and Kinn have been friends for ages, their families know each other, he basically grew up surrounded by mafia. He probably witnessed Tankhun's kidnapping back in the day. The horror and trauma of it. Tay's family is rich. He's close to the Theerapanyakuls. To the future head of the family. But he DOESN'T have an army of bodyguards following him around. And the downside of 'being harmless' is looking like an easy victim. Tay is too smart to be unprepared. So in my headcanon he knows how to handle a crisis, knows how to deal with danger, knows how to survive. Knows how to get out of the country quickly, how to get money without leaving a trail, how to get an unregistered gun. How to land a mean punch even though he hates it, how to apply (good) first aid EVEN THOUGH HE HATES IT. (I do think that he really isn't a fan of physical stuff, so the princess image is not completely off. Or, well, he lets it work in his favour.)

Tay's reaction to being hurt, being really hurt, is to shut his emotions down completely.

I don't enjoy how Tay's often written as dramatic and over-emotional in his confrontations with Time after what happened at Hum Bar. He isn't sober when he catches his boyfriend shoving his tongue down another man's throat, and well, his boyfriend is shoving his tongue down another man's throat. So of course he's fucking angry. And emotional. Right then and there. But the thing is, Tay had time to think, time to cool off in those other confrontations. And that's just the way to describe Tay's demeanor then: cool, cold, like ice. I like to think that he just freezes over. Turns into a statue of neutral disinterest. Just imagine: someone like Tay, always so kind and compassionate, staring you down with an expressionless face, not reacting to anything you say, looking close to fucking bored. Imagine what that would do to Time, always so full of himself, always so used to getting reactions out of Tay. Walking straight into a wall of ice. Completely out of his element. Really forced to put the work in for once. And it truly is hard work to break through to Tay once he closes his feelings off from you. A little bit of grovelling might be necessary. (That said, dealing with his emotions like that isn't good for Tay either. Of course not.)

There's...'something' between Tay and Vegas, some kind of understanding

I never got over TAY asking after Vegas in the final episode. Or the way Tay watches Vegas as he passes him during the auction. So I'm having a lot of fun wondering about the 'relationship' between Tay and Vegas, or how potential interactions could have gone down.

I mean, Tay 'belongs' to Kinn. We know that Vegas wants everything that belongs to Kinn (I bet he thinks Kinn must have fucked a pretty boy like that at least once. Even though it's not his usual type. Why else would he stick around?). Tay's caring and understanding. We know how Vegas can react...to something like that. (Not him falling in love after one free therapy session or something like that.) Tay is really good at reading people, he is really good at reading Kinn. And we know Vegas is not so different from Kinn (in some ways), even though he would murder anyone suggesting something like that to his face. Or maybe that's exactly what Tay does. Telling that to his face. As Vegas tries to seduce him, in the earlier days. But Tay doesn't try to wound him with that, to be cruel or mean, it's just an observation, spoken in that calm and understanding tone of his. And a younger Vegas is so shocked by that statement that he just...stops? And stares at Tay who just keeps going with that warm look in his eyes and those observations that hit a little too close to home until he can't take it anymore and turns on his heel to...definitely NOT run away like a dog with his tail between his legs.

Vegas keeps his distance after that. That princess isn't worth the effort, he tells himself. Or maybe he doesn't. Maybe he stops trying to seduce Tay, yes. But they end up talking again. And again. Because Vegas desperately needs to know what Tay meant with those things he said. And there's just... something about their conversations that keeps Vegas coming back. Until (stealing some thoughts from @tumsa here <3) Tay tries to convince Vegas that the competition between him and Kinn is dumb. Vegas does keep his distance, then.

And Tay gives up trying to help, trying to make him see how futile all of this is because it's clear Vegas won't listen to anyone but his father. But he still cares about Vegas, and seeing all the things Vegas does to himself without realising, seeing that ever-growing self-destructive obsession with Kinn sits like a leaden ball in Tay's stomach. The knowledge that he can't do anything to help is a bit like its own form of torture.

Anyways, (stealing again from @tumsa) Tay definitely ends up going to the hospital to visit Vegas. In secret, of course. And seeing Vegas and Pete together, seeing Vegas being changed by love, seeing him try to be a better person for Pete, putting all this effort in to make it work - maybe all of this forces Tay to reflect on his own love life for once. To reflect on the things he wants. The things he deserves, after all.

Nearly everyone had a crush on Tay, one time or another

You guys know the thing we do with Vegas? Like how VegasPete is the holy grail of endgame ships but it's so much fucking fun to ship Vegas with everyone and to imagine all his possible encounters and escapades? Because he's manipulation, seduction and psychological issues stacked on top of each other and wrapped in a velvet shirt?

Well. I like to do the same thing with Tay. For more or less opposite reasons. Because he's understanding and warm and compassionate and smart (and really pretty). In a world full of violence and trauma and repressed emotions, only sharp edges. I mean, who wouldn't crave the warmth, who wouldn't want to bathe in the sunlight for a while? I'm pretty sure people are falling en masse for Tay. And I think Tay doesn't always know how to handle it. Or genuinely doesn't realise what kind of effect he has on those poor bastards for doing nothing more than showing them a bit of kindness. Or maybe he's simply choosing to ignore it because he only has eyes for one person and one person alone.

Anyways, a lot of fun directions to go with this last headcanon for now. (And I'm keeping it intentionally vague and without examples because otherwise, this would turn into a multichapter fanfic I don't have time to write just now. 🤡)

#it's a bad idea to post this when there's so many other things I should be doing #and I have to go back to work tomorrow #but that hasn't stopped me before has it 🤡 #and I had way too much fun writing and thinking about this ngl #(was there infj projection involved in this? maybe. MAYBE IT WAS) #anyways - I'd love to hear and collect some more Tay headcanons <3 #and I leave it to @haahka to share that one headcanon with you that started all of this 😂❤ #kinnporsche the series #kinnporsche headcanon #kinnporsche tay #vegas theerapanyakul #timetay #because the kinnporsche brain rot is still real

[television-overload]

Having both of these personality traits is cruel because it means you are perpetually single with no sign of hope unless you pull yourself together 😂

I'm speaking from experience

#sitting at home waiting for true love to break down my door is not gonna work #i hate putting myself out there 😂 #personal #dating #pride and prejudice #infj feelings #infj #i don't remember my enneagram

[easy-revenge]

the way mello would walk into matt's shithole of an apartment at 2am after his dealings with halle or sth to find matt shirtless over the bathroom sink, half burned cigarette hanging from his mouth as he inexplicably shaves his face at this hour while playing the most obnoxious music ever and honestly good for them both

#thought inspired by my infj roommate who was doing exactly that when i walked past the bathroom at 2am #very gender i have to say #yes i love creating a personality for matt in my head and yes it is entirely self indulgent #death note #death note manga #death note matt #mail jeevas #mello #death note mello #mihael keehl #mello x matt #matt x mello #death note headcanons #mellodramattic

[mariamthe1st]

It's not the way they say that they love you.

Words are sweet.

Words are mandatory.

But I believe that love is born when they call you between their busy daily details.

When they cancel something to see you for minutes.

When they make effort to see you happy.

When they talk to you about things they never discuss with anyone else.

When they make you feel safe and surronded.

When no one would make you feel less when they're around.

Love looks better by beautiful photos, sweet words and little gifts.

But it lives by care, safety and effort.

#aesthetic #dark academia #love #infj #healthy relationships #relationship #gestures #i love you #words #Sweet #small things #Passion #True love #Safe #Happy #romantic #Effort #actions speak louder than words

[the-sky-the-stars-the-sea]

I want to have at least one person from each mbti type tell me what they think of this sticker.

I’ll start: I’m an INFP, I think this sticker is weird and amazing and I love it.

#mbti #I love mbti #16 personality types #Infp #enfp #entp #intp #infj #intj #isfj #istj #estj #estp #esfp #entj #esfj #istp #isfp #enfj

[fishskeleton]

#meme #poetry #adhd #deppresion #anxitey #mental health #mental illness #actually autistic #hozier #love #infj #mental wellness #life quotes #gen z #weighted blanket #i wanna be weightless

[fadobeijaeu]

in my humble opinion rddk is lowkey deku's best ship and it shows in their mbti. ENTP x INFJ is infamously known as a "golden pairing" because they're complete opposites of each other in ways that challenge, energize and inspire both parties, while still being fundamentally similar enough to understand each other easily.

One of the many ways this shows itself is the how INFJs are known as the most extroverted of the introverted functions while ENTPs are known as the most introverted of the extroverted functions, so the two are excellent at meeting each other half way and bouncing off of each other.

In Deku's case, his INFJ shows up strong in how formal he is around most people, even his closest friends, thanks to a mixture of anxiety and the desire the to please others and keep the peace, rather than risk the chaos & uncertainty that might come with revealing their overly emotional and passionate selves.

ENTPs, with their impish charm and sense of humor, have the uncanny ability to disarm INFJs completely. They are the INFJ's chill pill, excellent at making them at ease, safe to reveal all of their passion, their ideas, their personality. The ENTP's knack for chaos makes them appreciative of other people's uniqueness, which in turn makes them attracted to the basket of quirkiness that always come with INFJs.

That last scene of rddk laughing their asses off despite the world almost ending and the both of them casually bleeding from severe wounds is like the most INFJxENTP shit I've ever seen.

We've rarely, if ever, seen Deku treat such dramatic situations with such gaiety because while many people wouldn't, INFJs much less so. INFJs can be such serious, intense people with very set ideals of what's okay and what isn't. But with the ENTP at their side ready to crack the perfect joke at the perfect moment to break the tension, everything goes out the window and the INFJ realizes that things don't have to be so serious when actually they are quite fucking funny because what the hell. From the outside, it'd look as though the INFJ becomes a different person around the ENTP. In reality, that person has been there all along, but requires the right kind of energy to show themself.

Deku has a lot of other ships that are totally valid for all sorts of reasons but man you've gotta admit none of them unveil Deku the way homeboy Rody does~ <3

#rody soul #rodydeku #rddk #irl im an infj whose partner is an entp so this is a dynamic i LOVE and know TOO WELL

[notanotherinfjblog]

Productivity

ENTJ: Do you know those moments when you’ve got so much to do that you have no idea where to even start and so you start making a list of things that are too unimportant to waste your time on right now? But at the same time you’re wasting time by not working on the things that actually are important. You’re just making lists of all the tiny aspects of your work that you can throw out just to make yourself feel like you’re doing something.

INFJ: No, I don’t know those moments. I’m less productive, you see. When I’m overwhelmed by all the stuff I have to do, I panic and stare at the wall for three hours.

ENTJ: You’ve been doing that a lot lately, haven’t you?

INFJ: ... yes.

#i feel like it has to be said that we only had this conversation because entj didn't have the motivation to work anymore today #so he came to my office to make me procrastinate with him together for an hour and then he left to do the same to our estj co-worker #he's such an idiot i love talking to him #every time i meet another NJ (which happens like once every 100 years) i slightly lose it a little #because talking to someone else with Ni is like suddenly being allowed to breathe #suddenly there's someone who actually speaks your language and there's never just one second of silence because there's so much to say!! #(is that how people with more common functions get to feel frequently? like SPs meeting other SPs? SJs meeting SJs?) #also it's very funny to be on the receiving end of the Ni stare because all of us NJs do that #so whenever you see two (not romantically involved) people just staring at each other's eyes for two hours you've found two NJs #my intj brother has a problem with eye contact actually but he STILL DOES THIS just not when you're looking too #this has nothing to do with the post but you know me #maybe i'll do a more elaborate post about the ni stare at some point #also i'm gonna post the list with the writer interviews very soon took a bit longer than i had anticipated and i still only have one isfp #but oh well what can you do #mbti #mbti conversations #entj #infj

[poetrybyonur]

I not only see that beautiful light emanating from within you, I see its source, the fire burning inside you. And I will risk getting burnt just to feel your heat.

#poets on tumblr #love quotes #love poetry #romantic poetry #love poem #onurtaskiran poetry #romantic writer #gentleman poet #poets and writers #love #your light #your fire #burning #i see you #heat #infj gentleman #infj poet #empath’s touch #empath’s love #infj empath

[soft-straydog]

PoV: in the process of writing a yanshen smut fic and being delighted by their silly goofy teasing dialogue lines

Like kings???? Can you stop flirting for one second? Tension is so thick I can cut it with a knife.

I'm joking kings, never stop flirting, keep being hornee and fuck your differences out

*giggles, kicking feet*

*makes Yan Wushi endlessly bully Shen Qiao*

#thousand autumns #qian qiu #yanshen is love yanshen is life #especially their s*x life #I love them #truly the best entp x infj couple EVER

[ghosts-cyphera]

wait wait, I can be a good older (younger?) sister!! I've never not been a mom friend.

first of all, congrats to angel anon for getting good dick. That is always a win, especially if you are being treated respectfully!!!

not sure why the school has a no fraternizing policy for lecturers bc I feel like it's not that uncommon, but if you've gone looking for a policy for TAs and not come across it, it's probably fine!! I know multiple TAs who have dated/been with people in and out of their own departments!

obviously, every institution and even national culture is different, but the main thing that matters in terms of job security is power dynamics. it sounds like you hadn't even really crossed paths at work before, which is a good sign, and it would only become an issue to me if either of you had a supervisory role over the other or had any decision-making power when it came to the other person's job. For example, different context but still academia, I know someone who was applying for a role with a uni association and they were seeing someone who would have been on the hiring committee; they disclosed it to the team, and their partner was excluded from making hiring decisions for them. It maybe a little embarrassing, but it all worked out in the end! i also know someone who was assigned a TA that they were dating because they were in upper year undergrad, and the TA was a master's student only two years older than them; they just disclosed a conflict of interest and were moved to a different group.

at the end of the day, get good dick! take a step back if you feel like your relationship is being leveraged in any way against your career! fuck anyone who is judgmental! and live your life!

(also keep lo's asks updated so we know the tea)

omg ru, I adore you so much for this !! angel anon, this one's for you. 👼🏻

#ru let me tell you I'm always the mom friend too! #on my blog I've managed to be more of an older sister which is a welcome change #I never got to replying to your prev ask but it's that infp/infj experience in a nutshell haha. I love us for this <3 #lo answers #👼🏻

[tetsuskei]

Omg a new fellow Alhaitham liker !!! Welcome to the club, Ms Risu !◝(ᵔᗜᵔ)◜

OMG REA thank u sm, i’m crying he’s so cute here‼️💗 i truly am a haitham enjoyer >_< !

#i’m stubborn like kaveh i guess #LMAO #love them both dearly #btw ​was snooping and saw ur an infj like me :))

[providnce]

it is yannis day in three weeks

#!!!!!!!!!!!! #i’m bad with dates so i. completely forgot jsjdjsjdjjd #personal #just saying i will be so annoying that day and the day before. not sorry #him being a taurus makes so much sense #coming from someone who’s more into mbti and enneagram than astrology #< anyways him being typed as an infj 5w4 on personality database makes so much sense to me #i'd love to do an in depth analysis* sometime #* because ik this is all pseudoscience (but it's FUN and harms no one) #????? #ignore me