Genuine question, why do a lot of people say Villanelle is a lesbian? I’m currently reading the first book, and I’ve seen the show, she consensually pursues relationships with women AND men in both, unrelated to her work. I understand she may have a preference for women, as well as her love interest is obviously Eve who’s a woman, but that doesnt take away from that fact shes still had relationships with men too. Am I missing something or is it just those people have deep rooted biphobia?
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Sexual activity between women, which had previously been ignored, glossed over or referred to only in discreet private letters, started to be discussed more widely, and gossip and accusations published. Women lovers of women were called 'tommies' in slang, but the classically educated spoke of 'sapphists' – from the Greek poet Sappho who wrote of her love for women.
"Normal Women: 900 Years of Making History" - Philippa Gregory
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I’m reading Persistance: All Ways Butch And Femme and lemme tell you it’s doing wonders for everything -- feelings about gender, politics, language, relationships
every time I think I’ve come at some unknowable concept about myself that nobody could possibly understand and I’m totally alone (or at the very least I’m something new and fragile), reading about other queers makes me understand that actually it’s existed possibly forever and I can calm tf down and stop being so angsty, it’s not fragile at all, it’s years of others living these things into reality!
anyway, us lonelies under 30 (and over 30 too quite probably) who think we’ve reinvented the wheel and nobody could possibly get it, we need to read this sort of stuff to get out of our own heads and to respect where we came from and maybe all the fucking discourse can chill out and we won’t be so afraid of changes and concepts that already exist and have done for a lot of years!
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sapphic academia II
discussing uni plans till 2 am
having her pack books for you for a trip
reading said books on the beach
discussing new topics based on those books
randomly doing a uni entrance exam together
hanging out in the library
trying to figure out kids' books in a language you don't speak
singing operas together
them making tea for you
cross-stitching
still calling her nicknames stolen from sappho
refusing to translate those
"I should be studying"
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I don't know why the cishets are so convinced Meridach is proof of Merida not being an aroace lesbian anymore. Or, in their words, “Merida is no longer a queer icon.” 1. aromantics and asexuals can still very much experience romantic or sexual attraction because both labels are indeed spectrums. Merida, seeing as how she didn't fall in love with Feradach right away but instead needed time to develop a genuine emotional relationship/attraction towards him, is still on the aroace spectrum, specifically she is demiromantic and demisexual. 2. Bestie you're straight AND cis, you don't have the right to dictate whether or not a character is for/represents identities and sexualities of the lgbtq+ community or not???
THIS. Like, as an aroace lesbian I fail to see how aros, aces, or lesbians have “lost” Merida whatsoever when it comes to Meridach. Who cares about what Disney interprets as str8?? Who cares about what the cishet readers interpret as str8?? That literally does not matter here based on the literal fact that:
1. Feradach is a genderless entity made of just barely air only inhabiting human bodies, and this is stated throughout the book.
2. Merida tells him point blank that yeah he looks like a man but she doesn't care what appearance he takes because she doesn't see Feradach as a man or as any specific gender. She sees him for his kindness and that is still him no matter what physical form he takes. She doesn't love him for his appearance, she loves him for who he is internally: the odd entity made of barely air who is free and loving, with no face, no body, no eyes, no mouth, and no gender, just an entity who loves the world, humanity, and her. That is who she loves. This is literally in the book?? She's canonically nblw, what else do they want??
Those cishets swear up and down that Merida is now “str8” but show me where she expressed any attraction towards men throughout the entirety of the book. I'll wait. You can't count that miniscule paragraph of Merida being aesthetically attracted to this young boy when she was a young girl because she quickly grew out of that AND it then followed that up by saying she never entertained the idea of being with a man nor “finding the right one” someday because she knew they'd all bore her, anger her, and fail to give her what she needed eventually. You can't use Feradach because he is literally not a cisgender male just because he's borrowing the body of a man for a short period of time and uses he/him pronouns??
Using a lesbian’s explanation of literally growing out of her comphet as a means to try to prove she's somehow str8 vs. being transphobic and enbyphobic towards her nonbinary love interest as a means to try to prove she's str8,, my brother in christ the cishets have indeed lost it.
Anyways, Feradach is canonically nonbinary and Merida is canonically an aroace nblw whilst harbouring no romantic nor sexual attraction towards men and simultaneously harbours romantic and physical attraction towards women (i.e. Merida’s internal character playlist showcasing love songs towards women and female-aligned people and Merida’s physical attraction towards Leezie [literally describing her as “pretty” from Merida’s perspective at least over 20 times] in “Bravely.”) By literal definition alone, MERIDA IS A LESBIAN.
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Conservative MP John Moore-Brabazon instructed ignoring lesbians: 'Leave them entirely alone, not notice them, not advertise them. That is the method that has been adopted in England for many hundred years.' MPs agreed that sex between women was too dreadful to describe and there was total official silence on women loving women even when other sexual acts were openly discussed.
"Normal Women: 900 Years of Making History" - Philippa Gregory
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