#multigender lesbians

[theasexual-jackson]

“Saying men can't be lesbians is exclusionist to multigender lesbians.” Mx, let me tell you something: Multigender people are not binary men.

#bffr the amount of times people used multigender lesbians as an argument to include men on a community that EXCLUDES men is #ugh #why? #as a multigender lesbian: #MULTIGENDER PEOPLE ARE NONBINARY #THEY ARE INSIDE THE NONBINARY UMBRELLA #YOU CAN'T DEEM THEM AS MEN EVEN IF THEY'RE MASCULINE ALIGNED #IDIOT #trans #transgender #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #nonbinary #lesbian #multigender lesbian #multigender lesbians #nonbinary lesbian #nonbinary lesbians #trans lesbian #trans lesbians #anti man lesbian #y'all need to realise how harmful it is to force the inclusion of men in the only space of the lgbtqiap+ community #that excludes men 100%'tly to a motherfucking T #PLEASE

[telumendils]

so i decided to take one of my autumnal inspired lesbian flags, spruce it up a bit, and give each color a meaning that's personally relevant to my interests as a nonbinary aspec lesbian. the result is a mashup of the nonbinary flag and the sunset lesbian flag using colors i actually like to look at myself.

i also made a version that includes the circle of wholeness symbol from the intersex flag for cis and gnc intersex lesbians who might want a lesbian flag that represents them explicitly. (i only made two versions bc i am not intersex and wouldn't want to give a wrong impression about my experiences by displaying a flag with the intersex symbol on it. this is my way of saying "i see you!" to my intersex lesbian fam without personally using imagery that doesn't accurately represent who i am to strangers.)*

i have dubbed them the harvest lesbian flag and the harvest moon lesbian flag respectively, though this is not set in stone. i honestly just enjoy the autumnal themes for these flags and their aesthetic.

THE COLORS & THEIR MEANINGS, ACCORDING TO ME:

Darkest Red-Orange: Gender Nonconformity

Medium Red-Orange: Independence & Community

Light Peachy-Orange: Love & Peace

White: Unique Relationships to Gender and/or Womanhood

Light Dusty Purple: Trans & Nonbinary Lesbians

Medium Dusty Purple: Multigender & Agender Lesbians

Darkest Dusty Purple: Ace & Aro Lesbians

Pale Yellow Circle: Intersex Lesbians

if either of them resonates with anyone else, feel free to use! if not, that's okay too! we all have our own ways of representing our pride.

* tl;dr: i made both of these flags in good faith but am super open to criticism if anyone feels i missed the mark by doing so!!! i did this all for fun and definitely don't mean to step on anyone's toes.

#lesbian #lesbian flag #lesbian flags #gnc lesbians #trans lesbians #nonbinary lesbians #asexual lesbians #aromantic lesbians #multigender lesbians #agender lesbians #intersex lesbians #pride #bee.txt #bee.png #bee makes.

[aholotte]

The point of being a lesbian is to like women, not to hate men. That’s like if I said that the “point” of being a gay guy is to hate women, which is obviously not true.

So many exclus are so hateful to anyone who doesn’t fit their strict label of what a lesbian is, as well as anyone who isn’t a lesbian, that I question if they’re even happy.

#the only requirement to be a lesbian is to have a queer attraction to women #nothing more nothing less #I’m convinced that exclusbians are just political lesbians #they’re more focused on hating men; bi people; and trans people that I’m not sure even if they even like women #they don’t like anyone other than themselves #because they’re so hateful #lesbianism is different for everybody #there are many different types of lesbians like #he/him lesbians #they/them lesbians #trans lesbians #aspec lesbians #arospec lesbians #non-binary lesbians #Butch lesbians #femme lesbians #multigender lesbians #mspec lesbians #and many more #there’s no right or wrong way to be a lesbian #for me I’m bi but also a gaybian since I’m bigender #gay for men and lesbian for women #it’s cool actually #not that deep #anyways #respect all lesbians #don’t force someone to fit into your definition #I’m not here to conform to your strict exclusive boxes #lesbianism is an inclusive label #cry more

[silly-media-enjoyer]

Image Description: The "I bring a sort of X vibe to X that X don't really like" edited to say "I bring a sort of all these rules are made up vibe to sexuality and gender that exclusionists don't really like"

#genderfluid #bigender #multigender #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #mspec lesbian #bi gay #pan gay #mspec gay #straight gay #straight lesbian #queer #aromantic #asexual #aroace

[queerbatting]

people need to realize that dissolving the lines between gender also means dissolving the lines between sexuality. you cannot say gender is fake and then say sexuality is strict and rigid.

there are multigender/genderfluid people who are lesbians and gay men at the same time. there are mspec lesbians/gays/straights who have a complex relationship with gender and their sexuality. there are gay men who are women and lesbians who are men because male isn't the opposite of female.

"conflicting" labels are a part of many people's queer experience, because the human experience isnt simple enough to be put into neat perfect categories. if you truly support trans/genderqueer people, you need to accept the fact that gender and sexuality is complex and there will be people whose identities you don't understand

#queer #mspec gay #mspec lesbian #mspec straight #lesboy #multigender #turigirl #veldigirl #sexuality #lgbt #lgbtq #critter chitters

[transmultiphobia]

“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities

#this was originally gonna say ‘yall can’t even handle sapphilleans’ #then i considered using male/female lesbians or male sapphics or gaybians #then i thought about using het gays #but then i realized what they all have in common and combined them all into one. #multigender #bigender #nonbinary #genderfluid #enby #trans #genderqueer #polygender #xenogender #sapphillean #gaybian #lesboy #transunity #trans unity #transmultiphobia #red speaks

[michaelmilkers]

i'm regularly astounded by the cognitive dissonance some of yall have to accept that gender is a social construct with infinite possibilities with the capacity to be deeply personal and individual but still think there's a list of like 4 acceptable sexual orientations and if you go outside of that list or mix entries on that list or relate to them in a non-traditional way not only are you Breaking The Rules you're personally directly harming people who follow them

#discourse #its no one elses business god bless #multigender #mspec lesbian #lesboy #inclusionist #trans

[genderqueerdykes]

i love the sheer variety i see when i meet trans men, trans boys, transmasc butches, ftms and the transmasculine community. no two transmasculine people you meet are the same. you'll meet tough boys, soft men, guys who love makeup, people who dress like they're from a specific period in the past, proud butches, dudes who dress like freaks, dapper gentlemen, lesboys and lesbian men, goofy boydykes, silly bros and your best friend. the transmasculine community is rich in diversity and every person you meet has a lot to teach you about what masculinity and manhood mean

#transmasculine #transmasc #ftm #trans man #trans men #butch lesbian #transmasculine butch #ftm butch #transmasc lesbian #transneutral #nonbinary #enby #genderqueer #gnc #drag king #genderfluid #polygender #bigender #trigender #multigender #lesboy #boydyke #guydyke #ftm lesbian #our writing

[punk-dad-sharkz]

cuz I can i'm gonna make a hyperspecific queer shout out post bc I want to appreciate all the lovely people in my life and more

shout out to men who used to be lesbians and women who used to be gay

shout out to fem bigenders

shout out to nonbinary people who don't like they/them pronouns

shout out to feminine men whose shoe collection is 90% heels & platforms

shout out to gender fluid folks who make really, really bad puns

shout out to the fem he/theys & the masc she/theys

shout out to the people who collect pronouns like a rock collection

shout out to literally every aromantic person ever

shout out to the trans drag queens & drag kings

shout out to all the gays obsessed with baldurs gate 3

shout out to the angriest and most passionate scenemo trans guy you'll ever meet in your life

shout out to the agender folks who make *gives you my gender* jokes

shout out to the most gender looking guy you'll ever meet

and shout out to you, queer person reading this. I love you

#thoughts by shark #long post #friends #transgender #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lgbtqia positivity #queer community #nonbinary #aromantic #bigender #multigender #drag king #drag queen #queer #lesbian #gay #genderfluid

[rouge-the-bat]

ribbons of genderfluid rage

#genderfluid #lesbian #feel free to use ig? #i just. am so fucking tired of this non-men bullshit #multigender

[therandomfandomme]

TERF has become so synonymous with bad person (which is true btw, not claiming it isn't) that people stopped thinking critically about what TERF actually means. Like I just blocked a blog that had TERFs and lesbian men in their DNI. You are still vulnerable for falling into TERF thinking if you keep a strict binary thinking about sexuality and can't imagine multigender people IDing in contractionary ways or trans people having a different relationship with sexuality than you think they should have based on their gender. Just saying TERFs DNI does not make you immune for their thinking or automatically right about your opinions about trans people. Yes, TERFs are bad people, but people have to start thinking critically about what it means to be a TERF...

#rrrambles #not me actually scared to make this post #but im right and i should say it #trans #transgender #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #queer #lesbian #politics #feminist #feminism #multigender #genderqueer #nonbinary

[theasexual-jackson]

Identity police alert!! Mind your own fucking business

Mx, the only things I said were:

Men (and by that, I mean BINARY MEN, since y'all love to twist it) cannot be lesbians, and saying that they can is actually fucking dangerous to lesbians, because we are constantly forced into and invalidated for not liking men. Saying that binary men can be lesbians is only reinforcing that and do no good for the lesbian community at all.

Multigender people don't fit into the gender binary. We are nonbinary exactly because we don't identify exclusively and/or 100% with male nor female. We are included inside the nonbinary umbrella by definition, there is no fucking denying that. We are not binary men nor binary women. Point. Blank. Period.

Long story short, if you're gonna call me “Identity police” for saying literal FACTS about both the lesbian and the multigender community, go on. But do note that labels DO mean something, because they have history, they have definitions and erasing them meanings makes no good for the community.

#omg I'm getting so tired of this #why do y'all love radical inclusivity? #exclusion needs context for it to be inherently good or bad #if you're excluding people for discrimination yes it is obviously fucking terrible #but if you're excluding a specific group of people from a safe space that is obviously made for another specific group #you cannot really say anything because it's a safe space and it's only for the people who relate to it #and this applies to the lesbian community #lesbian means NON MEN FOR NON MEN #and that obviously includes any nonbinary person who is exclusively attracted to other non men #multigender or not #but coming back #lesbian by definition excludes binary men #and this is what y'all are not understanding #ughhhh #this is fucking draining #lesbian #lesbians #nmlnm #nonbinary lesbian #nonbinary lesbians #multigender lesbian #multigender lesbians #genderfluid lesbian #black lesbian #black lesbians #please #please understand this shit for once and for all #I'm begging y'all #😭🙏🏽🙏🏽

[mozzyspurt]

as a genderfunky younger queer i would like to thank all the butch lesbians and feminine trans men and older multi gender people for existing

#mozzyspurt talks #lgbt #butch lesbian #transmasc #bigender #multigender #trans

[thehealingsystem]

It's so wild to me that as a community we're still so hostile to multigender and genderfluid people existing in gay and lesbian spaces.

You...are aware that people who are both men and women are allowed to be gay, right? And lesbian? Their other genders doesn't cancel their connection to womanhood, or manhood, or whatever else they id with. They are allowed to be gay despite their fem-alignment, and they are allowed to be lesbian despite their masc-alignment.

It comes from these weird online spaces that the standard to be gay or lesbian is to be a "non-woman" or a "non-man," which is inherently transmultiphobic and...extremely ahistorical. And completely misunderstands nonbinary identity. So if you're both then you just don't belong anywhere I suppose.

#they treat these people as abnormal when really shoving anyone into categories of non-women and non-men is fucking #completely out of touch with how identity works #like i saw a demiboy lesbian flag and the comments are just FILLED with teenage queers getting so mad for no reason #saying shit like im in your walls or your father left you or whatever #please this is so CHILDISH grow UP #multigender #genderfluid #gay #lesbian #lesboy #turigirl #queer #lgbtq #just a he/they transmasc nonbinary boydyke lesbian VERY tired of this nonsense #actually erasure of multigender experience and that one of our genders will cancel out the other #made me very resistant to the fact that i may still be connected to feminity and girlhood #even though i am undoubtedly am #transmultiphobia

[elysianmadness]

"Lesbian means exclusive attraction to women!"

"No, it means non-men exclusively attracted to non-men!"

"It actually means queer attraction to women!"

"Lesbian means women and nonbinary people being exclusively attracted to other women and nonbinary people!"

Lesbian is a multifaceted label that can describe many different experiences. There is no one perfect definition of lesbian that will encompass the entire diverse experiences that lesbians can have.

I'm personally a genderqueer woman who's exclusively attracted to other women, but the lesbian next to me might be a transmasc lesbian who loves all genders except for men. And the lesbian next to them might be a bigender lesbian who's both a girl and a boy, who's exclusively attracted to women. Our experiences can all be described by the term lesbian if that's how we wish to describe it, but we might define it differently based on our own experiences. And guess what?

None of our definitions are wrong, but none of our definitions will encompass every other lesbian's experiences. A word can have multiple definitions without any of the definitions being wrong. And those definitions can be very vague or very specific. Labels are made to fit us- we aren't made to fit labels.

People who may have a different experience with the lesbian label are not your enemies. People in lesbian spaces who aren't exactly like you are not your enemies. The problem comes when you try to force one singular definition on every single lesbian. THAT is harmful. Sending death threats to other lesbians because they don't have the same experience as you is harmful. Not another lesbian having a different experience from you.

#i'm tired of seeing this ridiculous argument online #if you're obsessed with giving every label one rigid definition then fuck you #lgbt+ identities do not always neatly fit into boxes #people seem to understand this with most other identities. i think i can guess why y'all are so rigid about lesbians (it's misogyny) #venus.txt #lesbian #trans lesbian #bi lesbian #mspec lesbian #multigender lesbian #bigender lesbian #transmasc lesbian #male lesbian #butch lesbian #he/him lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #genderfluid lesbian

[rainbowrayndrops]

shout out to multi-gendered lesbians, everybody give it up for multi-gendered lesbians

#lesbian #queer #multigender #nonbinary