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nyxisart · 5 months

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You know what? I'm gonna art dump all my old comics here.

#digital art #comics #transgirl #transgender #lgbtqia #trans egg

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deadeyedfae · 3 months

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It’s 2010 and a little bit of my egg cracked that day 😅 just one of many that eventually lead me to come out back in 2020!

BONUS PANELS: I was in geography and thought to myself ‘it would be so cool if I was born a girl…oh well’ if only you knew younger Fae 🏳️‍⚧️💜

#queer artist #transgender #transfem #small artist #artists of tumblr #lgbtq #furry #lgbtqia artist #furry oc #trans experience #trans egg

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religion-is-a-mental-illness · 6 months

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Editor’s note: This hypothetically open letter was originally posted by its anonymous author on Medium and was rapidly removed as “hate speech.” We found it to be a refreshing dose of honesty, a charming and relatable open letter from one parent to other parents (not to the child, obviously!) about dealing with a challenging and dangerous moment in raising children, especially “weird” adolescents who search for their identities harder than others and risk making life-damaging mistakes in a way never before possible. We are reposting it here on New Discourses with the permission of the author.

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By: Donna M.

Published: Mar 5, 2021

My dear, sweet, son,

I’ve got to break it to you: you’re not trans, you’re just weird.

This seems like a cruel thing to point out right now. Clearly, you are struggling and feeling pretty awful about things. I can see that you are in a rough patch, and one of the first rules of parenting is to not pile on. The world is pretty heavy on your shoulders. You’re fifteen. There’s a pandemic going on. But here I come anyway. I’m about to throw more on you.

When you were two – a happy, chubby, little tyke in pull-ups, you watched the world with wary eyes behind the thumb in your mouth. You leapt with joy in the rhythm of the toddle music classes. You chattered and shared stories about your stuffed animals. You loved your little sister. Enjoyed cookies and finger painting. That was all pretty normal.

But you also started to count to one thousand on our walks. And you started to call out the store names as we drove around. And you preferred reading books rather than playing with the other two-year-olds at preschool. And you hated sitting in the circle when instructed. And you hated the feel of blue jeans. And you threw big tantrums when you lost any kind of game. In other words, you started to show signs that you were… weird.

The grandparents were the first to notice. They said gentle things like “You oughta keep an eye on that one,” and sent us links to Wall Street Journal articles about child prodigies. And then the other parents in the play groups started to comment; “He’s pretty intense, huh?” And the teachers were on to it pretty quickly. They started to use fancy terms like “asynchronous development.”

By third grade, we realized you were different, but we still didn’t realize you were weird. Truthfully, we’re used to people like you. Our family is full of engineers, artists, musicians, computer programmers, and a lot of “free-thinkers.” Family gatherings always have chess, political debates, and quartets around the piano. That’s just us.

And besides, you had a small but solid group of friends. There was Pokémon, then Minecraft, then Magic, then Dungeons and Dragons, then Catan. You were never in the center of things, but you weren’t alone.

But then, in middle school, things started to change. By 7th grade, school finally started to require some effort, and it turned out you were pretty disorganized. People kept calling you smart, but the teachers were annoyed at your humor, and frustrated that you wouldn’t or couldn’t follow the guidelines for assignments. Classmates didn’t appreciate your frank (if accurate) descriptions of their efforts. I’ll admit, we got pretty frustrated with you, too.

And then puberty arrived, with its triple curse of acne, braces, and bizarre growth. The girls appeared to have it all together (I know they don’t, but they do appear that way). And the popular boys seemed to know exactly what to do. They can talk sports to each other, they brag about their romantic exploits. They never get in trouble for stupid reasons like forgetting an assignment three times in a row. Your anxiety started to kick in, and it seemed like you got smaller. And some of your guy friends moved on.

So you drifted over to the weird-o crowd. Well — I’m not sure what you call yourselves, but that’s what we would have called you back when I was in school. At different schools these are the geeks, or the theater kids, the math team kids, or the artsy-fartsy kids. This used to be where the gay kids ended up, but I think they’re more dispersed now. You get some kids whose parents are going through some rough times. Some girls with anorexia. A few boys who are edgy and angry. Kids with a great sense of humor and big hearts.

And some of these kids are really passionate. Just full of righteous anger about the injustices of the world. And some of them are dramatic. And truthfully, that looks pretty attractive to you. Because you share some of that confusion and anger about the world. And though you may not be sure what you think or what you feel, you are certain you don’t want to be on the bad side. You certainly aren’t like those popular boys with their suave charm and dominating manners. You’re not like them at all.

You’re actually more like those vibrant girls who can speak for hours about their ideas. Well, you would be if you could find the words to speak. And there is something so fascinating about those girls, but you can’t quite put your finger on it. You’d never think about talking to those girls anyway, because that’d be weird. Because you are weird. You’ve never been good at chit-chat, or eye contact. Or girls. And besides, you wouldn’t want them to get the wrong impression. You understand that your peers are starting to date, but you really don’t see the point. Sex is still gross and weird to you. It’s better to just call yourself “asexual” or “pansexual.” It’s like a get-out-of-jail-free card that helps you avoid the whole mess. And your group of friends tell you that you are super cool and brave for being able to say that about yourself.

But you’ve fallen into a funk. Anyone can see that. But computer games help. And there’s always trying to beat the speed record for that one game you’re kinda good at. And that one guy on reddit always has good tricks. And the people on that message board seem to get your humor.

So when one of them posts a meme about trans rights, it makes sense that you’d check it out. You’re curious! You’re a free thinker! You’re not like the normies. And the web quiz hits home. You do feel discomfort with your body. You don’t like sports. You do wonder what it would be like to be a girl. You’ve always felt like something was different about you.

You’re right. There is something different about you.

But you’re not trans, you’re just weird.

So we’re right here for you. We’ll always be here for you. But those online folks who urge you to “crack your trans egg” and rush to hormones and surgeries don’t know you at all. They don’t know that gifted kids and ADHD kids and Autism kids and Asperger’s kids are slower to develop emotionally and sexually. They don’t know that sexuality takes time and experience to figure out, and that the majority of trans teens seeking medical treatment haven’t even masturbated or kissed someone yet. They don’t know that 80% of trans children end up becoming comfortable with their birth sex if you just give them time. They don’t know that there are increasing numbers of desisting and de-transitioning people in their twenties. They don’t realize that hormones permanently stunt your growth, decrease your IQ, and can cause sterility. They don’t know that these hormones are prescribed off-label and there’s no research on the long-term outcomes. They don’t even know that the most recent research shows that short-term outcomes are clearly worse.

They don’t realize that you’re weird. But I do. You’re weird, kiddo. You’ll figure that out in a year or two. But that’s okay. We are all weird. And I love you anyway. You’re going to be just fine.

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You always hear stories and justifications like, "she never liked wearing a dress," or "he always hated having his hair cut." This is post-hoc confirmation bias. Not only does this confirm everything critics say about this being a movement based on gross stereotypes, but they always leave out things like, "she refused to eat anything yellow," and "he was obsessed with elevator and crossing buttons and would cry if he wasn't the one to light it up."

It's okay to be weird.

#Donna M #gender identity #gender ideology #queer theory #genderwang #trans egg #it's okay to be weird #it's ok to be weird #normalize weird #religion is a mental illness

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technodahlia · 1 month

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HAPPY TRANS VISIBILITY DAY!!!🏳️‍⚧️🩷💙

#qsmp eggs #lgbtqsmp #juannaflippa #trans egg #qsmp fanart

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aubryjoi · 1 year

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Egg burrito blanket! 💙💖🏳️‍⚧️

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aceysun · 1 month

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I was in denial about being trans for a long time, until I realised I have no incentive to "convince" myself I'm trans, but all of the incentives to do convince myself that I'm cis

you're told by everyone your whole life that you are your agab, if you are feeling like you are convincing yourself to be trans you are in reality doing the opposite

the most beautiful thing you can do is accept yourself, whoever that might be

#trans #transmasc #transfem #queer #lgbtq #enby #genderqueer #gender euphoria #gender dysphoria #ftm #mtf #words #nonbinary #mental health #transgender #questioning #trans egg

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ftm-radio · 9 months

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do any other trans masculine folks have this odd... not quite gender envy, but it's like 'oh if I was younger I would be having some envy for this person' where the person in question is a girl (or girl-adjacent) and you can recognize that back when you thought you were a girl and/or thought that was your only option, you'd have wanted to be this specific sort of girl? if that makes sense???

like before I gained any real, conscious gender awareness I would always admire the girls who were more boyish and less feminine (gee, i wonder why it'd be those girls, specifically... how peculiar, what a mystery, we will probably never solve it... 😐🏳️‍⚧️) and would think that I wanted to be like them. so now, as an adult guy who knows a lot more about themself and their identity, I still find myself fostering a certain fondness for those same sorts of girls and the kid who looked up to them before he finally woke up and found himself.

#this post is officially brought to you by Darcy from Heartstopper lmao #i watched season 2 and have been Thinking about this ever since i finished it #also apparently the actor who plays Darcy is nonbinary???? good for them!! love that! hell yeah.#ftm radio #transgender #trans #ftm #trans guy #nonbinary trans guy #trans masc #trans man #trans masculine #nonbinary #nonbinary guy #nonbinary man #gender envy #ish. kinda.#trans egg

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ameba-from-space · 2 months

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#a tale of two eggs #who somehow found each other #trans egg #trans #transfemme #transmasc

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slime-water-shrew · 4 months

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A little comic I made of my dumbass self. I was a weird egg and would rather make strange conspiracy theories than actually question my gender.

I drew it by hand rather than pen so it’s baaad but the point remains the same

#tw sexism #I don’t know why I thought this but yeah…#transmasculine #trans male #trans guy #trans man #trans boy #transgender #trans #comic #my art #but it was done in five minutes so sorry about that #egg #trans egg #trans memes #queer memes

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befemininenow · 1 year

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Many of us have at least one female influence that got us to explore femininity. It could be someone like Katy Perry, Ariana Grande, or Lisa from Blackpink. It could also be fictional characters like the Sailor Scouts, school idols, or Pokemon characters. It may even be an IRL female friend, relative, or someone else you looked up to. Whoever it was, it played a part on helping you discover your female side, trans identity, or both!

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offline-nobody · 7 months

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when the egg cracks:

#ive been rewatching epithet erased for the hundreth time #and somehow i had completely forgotten about this line #so ye #trans #trangender #trans ftm #trans egg #epithet erased #giovanni potage #molly blyndeff

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chibiisanii · 5 months

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you know when youre like “im not [agab] im enby!” and youre really proud of yourself for not questioning anymore but then youre like “wait what if im really just a [binary gender opposite to agab]” and youre questioning all over again

#enby #nonbinary #non binary #transmasc #transfem #transgender #trans memes #trans egg

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deadeyedfae · 3 months

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I hope this could help some questioning people out there! For me I thought I must be cis because I didn’t feel that euphoria right away!

#queer artist #transgender #transfem #small artist #artists of tumblr #furry #lgbtq #lgbtqia artist #furry oc #queer comics #queer artwork #trans egg #trans experience

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pizzano-the-paisano-and-pizzelle · 6 days

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Pizzelle...

How would you feel if you saw your original outfit before the memory loss

Take another jawbreaker plush btw

"... what was that."

<- Previous Next -> Pro1ogue

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#pizzano the paisano and pizzelle #pizzelle #sugary spire pizzelle #pizzelle answers a question #anon #before the sugar and spice #sugary spire #pizza tower #theodore noise #the noise #BTW the palette Noise was wearing is named “Feminine Side”#So I like to think that Noise is actually a transfem egg #cuuuuuuz why not #trans #transfem #trans egg #morse code #secret message

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chronicallycouchbound · 10 months

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When you call cis people an egg for practicing gender non-conformity, you are risking the safety of actual closeted trans people.

Enforcing the gender binary harms us all.

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aubryjoi · 1 year

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Say hi to Egg the trans raccoon! 💙💖🤍

Egg is here to promote trans joy and comfort 🏳️‍⚧️ They like tea and cookies, getting cozy under blankets, and dismantling gender stereotypes 😌 Egg can use any pronouns - whatever you see fit!

I hope they can bring a smile to your face - I have big plans for them this year! 💖

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