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torieaston36 · 3 days
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They told me white look good on me but i think something else will be better in me 🥵 😉 Who knows that?
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I’ve had the incessant need to draw trans masc Javier since a week ago.
A bit self indulgent because I really like seeing trans masc characters with chests / no top surgery. Mainly comes from me not feeling dysphoria for my chest and being frustrated by the lack of trans masc characters with chests still.
Keeping the chest or getting surgery does not make either party more or less of their desired gender. That being said, I feel like showing trans men with chests sends a stronger message of “men can be more than flat chested” as opposed to every single trans man character in media having too surgery as if that’s the only way to be trans.
and also I just like seeing cowboys relaxing on a hot day with their jugs out.
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teenage trans guy here with a burning question (btw crazy ive never seen a blog like this before. you are doing wonders)
what should i resort to for binding if :
a) i have rib damage and breathing problems due to my inexperience binding and lack of research
b) have tried transtape with terrible results
c) physically cant bind with sports bras due to previously mentioned lung issues
i cant afford top surgery. im not even out to my family as a trans man, and i know i dont have to bind to be able to pass but its getting increasingly harder to be in public and pass as a man. thanks for your help if you end up responding to this 🏳️‍⚧️
Hey there dude, welcome and thanks for your support. I try and get through all of my asks, but I am doing full-time school at the same time too, so sorry for any delay in responding. Since you seem to have not seen many of these style of blogs, I'd recommend @our-transgender-experiences @our-transmasculine-experience @our-trans-punk-experience and @our-queer-experience .
This is a difficult ask and first let me take a moment to warn people against unsafe binding because of this.
Now for my advice to you - don't double down on the bad binding practices - no duct tape I REPEAT NO DUCT TAPE - I suggest trying to create an overall boxier, angular less curvy silhouette - this can be done by working out, particularly chest and other upper body exercises - or by layering clothes that have structured fronts (tshirts with large laminated design panels, utility vests, jackets with big chest pockets) Also, I wouldn't completely write trans tape off, it's a skill you can get better at with a little practice :)
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rxccoonboy · 1 day
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Alright boys(ftm, gay, lgbt, cis ally, as long as you're cool with the LGBTQIA+ people and you're okay with being called a boy, you're included)
Let's all go to a park and get stuck in trees together
And then we can blast Mcafferty and Cavetown and Mindless Self Indulgence and we can all be bro's and AUHSJSHSJ PLEASE I PHYSICALLY NEED TO BE ACCEPTED AS A GUY WITH OTHER GUYS I NEED A GROUP OF PEOPLE/BEINGS I CAN GREET WITH 'ALRIGHT BOYS IT'S TIME' PLEASE I WANT TO DO DUMB BOY THINGS GOD PLEASE
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How do you differentiate being aro/ace from being scared of intimacy/dysphoric/ being not being attracted to a specific gender
And also
What do you think the differences between qpr and allo relationships are?
Like Qpr's can still have kissing and sex and everything right?
(sorry, this is coming from a really, REALLY confused transmasc person who's trying to figure out how I identify)
I'm going to be honest dude, I'm going to try to answer this but I'm in the same boat as you.
Now, for your first question, I'm not actually sure? Because for me I have a mix. I'm demi aroace, which basically means: I can't fall in love or have sexual intimacy with a person without a long established friendship first. And i really only diffracte it because I'm in a relationship.
Like I'm having a sexualty crisis because maybe I'm actually bi and not straight??? So yeah idk with the first one either bro.
Now, #2 the difference? Would be romantic feeling which honestly from what I learned the best way to difference platonic vs romantic is to listen to a love song and imagine it's you directing it at them.
Ok, #3 absolutely they can still have sex, kissing, snuggling all that jazz, I'd say the difference is romantic feelings but again I'm not that knowledgeable on that topic.
(Sorry if this was really long and for taking a while to get to it)
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dylouid · 2 days
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Back in the day before I started transitioning, I hated beer. Like really really hated it. I swore I’d never like it.
Now, I yearn for the Cold Beer™
This is the real downside of T no one talks about 😤
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mascstaddy · 3 days
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Femmes in a sundress with no underwear deserve to be eaten out constantly
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burgundykicks · 3 days
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Ok so question for all the trans ppl out there (mainly trans masc but anyone can respond!) ,ik thus is a question u probably get alot but how did you know?
I've been questioning my gender for literally years at this point and I'm just so confused so I wanna hear more experiences!!
Anything that helped you figure it out ,lmk! (Can be comment ,reblog ,dm ,I don't mind)(idk which of my mutuals are trans so not tagging anyone but feel free to share this)
:))))
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library-fae · 2 days
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do you ever get sad about your departure from womanhood because you miss the solidarity and community there?
being a man and loving men can feel so isolating in queer spaces sometimes
divine femininity, lesbianism and sapphic love as of higher value, a better love
the hatred of men makes becoming one feel like becoming a monster
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sylviii · 5 months
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was asked to make a transmasc version of the meme
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jude-us · 5 months
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As a brown trans boy it sucked so badly to watch those “gender envy” slides on tik tok and see only white boys with fluffy hair. It was a little thing but it made me feel invisible even in my own community. So these are men that look like me and give me gender envy. If you’re POC disabled/ don’t see your self in common trans discussions feel free to add on.
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while i was in philippines my ma encountered an old friend and she introduced me like "this is my kid" and the friend looked at me and called me guapo (handsome)
literally cannot get better than that
That's awesome my guy!
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talisidekick · 8 months
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Unfriendly reminder that while you're busy mourning the loss of your childs old gender, claiming you need to mourn the death of your son/daughter, there's a group of boys/girls/enbies scrambling to take your kid clothes shopping, snatching up the chance to take those "first" experiences from you forever. Your sons first fishing trip is gonna be with his best bros, your daughters first makeover is going to be with her girl friends, your kids first camping trip out as themselves is gonna be with the besties. Good luck getting those bonding experiences back. While you're busy trying to guilt-trip your kid with your weird manufactured parental trauma, there's a whole community ready to take your place as the better family.
Your loss, someone elses gain.
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possibly-astraeus · 3 months
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You know what
Screw it
If this post gets 5k[edit, the new goal is 10k omg] notes before the end of January, I'll come out to my parents, get my hair cut, and ask parents for the things I need to pass as a boy.
Have fun
[Goal reached]
Thank you to everyone who took their time to reblog, like, and reply. I'm going to keep this promise and come out to my parents soon. I love you all, stay safe <3
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slithymomerath · 4 months
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⚠️ warning: side effects of testosterone ⚠️
✅ harder
✅ better
✅ faster
✅ stronger
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