#and thats messed up

[redheadedfailgirl]

I really wish people who think trans women aren't treated like women could see the endless amounts of social and emotional labor demanded of them, both to be legitimately seen as women, and as payment for rejecting maleness. Because holy shit I don't think they understand. The amount of people who have asked me to be their lifeline when they need a suicide watch is insane. The amount of people treating me as their personal therapist is astonishing. There is genuinely no other explanation for some of the shit people do than that trans women are the proverbial whipping girls of the queer community and we have to shoulder people's emotional burdens alone.

#not to suggest that this labor isnt important or necessary #id rather be burnt out than have a dead friend #but this is a pattern in my life that i just dont see present for most other people #the next closest experience is when this same shit happens to black women which is real but i think a separate point plenty of black women #have been talking about for a while and you should listen to #this is largely about how this keep happening to trans women and its rarely acknwoledged by anyone else #i can simulateneously hold beliefs that evwryone deserves all the care and we should give it #and the people providing care are often coerced into that and selected for particular reasons #and thats messed up #idk if this is a coherent idea rn but it is now zero days since someone has asked me to talk them down from the ledge and im tired #transmisogyny #transphobia #transgender #lgbt #queer #trans women #suicide #depression #emotional labor #trans women are women #and that sucks sometimes

[cawziiku]

why tf is pompouspep so normalized in the phandom again ?? thought this phase died out a decade ago

like, I've blocked tags and yall degenerates are STILL coming up in my fyp. normally I'd say "tag your ships so people don't have to see it" but this shouldn't even exist, it shouldn't BE a ship

I can't be any more clear about how much I hate seeing a 40 y.o man being shipped with a 14 y.o kid 💀 especially when it's nsfw. get a hold of yourselves sheesh

#danny phantom #phandom #dp #danny fenton #dannyphantom #dp phandom #seriously #i just came across an account. really liked their art so i clicked their page #and boom. banner. bio. all the posts. pomppep nsfw. #most of them werent even hidden behind filters?? #danny wasnt even depicted as an adult. like are you okay?? #all the interactions ontheir posts were POSITIVE. One post had hidden replies #but everything else was just. buncha phandom members validating them #and thats messed up #i fr said so many times that this was the least problematic fandom out there #but i domt think thats true anymore? #im not dunking on the whole community. but im starting to think all the sane people are leaving #and the degenerates are replacing them

[wavebiders]

Before this episode starts and all shit hits the fan one way or another let me just say that it is absolutely ok to be upset about how things play out!

This fandom is generally a very postive very happy space and that's great! Unfortunately, a lot of that comes from this parasocial bond a good chunk of us have with the cast where we feel we have to love and support everything they do, and that's no more of a healthy attitude than this fan vs. Creator mindset that's so present in most fandoms

We owe them basic human respect and kindness. We can't make demands of them to play their game a certain way. They are under no obligation to make their story fit what fans want from it

(All of this holds true for any kind of creator for the record)

But on the flipside we don't have to be happy about every choice tbey make either! What we don't owe them is our eternal loyalty and constant praise. If where the story goes doesn't spark joy for you you can walk away! Temporarily, for the rest of the campaign, or for good, and it is not a betrayal nor a moral failing to do so

No, not even if there's a precedent for it. Yes, we all know characters can die in dnd but if Laudna being permadead is a dealbreaker for you than that's ok. You're not wrong for being upset and you weren't wrong for watching the show despite that risk. Same goes for if her being ressurected ruins the emotional impact or the stakes for you. This too is part of dnd and of cr, you're still allowed not to like it and decide not to follow the story any further

As special as CR is to so many of us, it is at the end of the day just a show, and you're allowed to have whatever feelings you have about it, regardless if they align with those the cast or other fans

#im sorry this hot way long but it's been swimming around in my head for a while now #ive seen so many guilt trippy posts faulting people for being unhappy or needing to step away already #even pushy replies on posts from people that didnt stick around after molly died #and thats messed up #by far the most damaging thing i did to myself as a new fan was not allowing myself to ever be unhappy with the show #and once that hit a breaking point when i genuinely couldnt force myself to be happy about how things were going #it p much ruined the whole campaign for me #to this day i havent been able to love it the way i do the other 2 and i dont think i ever will #and i suspect this is the case for many of the people that ended up hating the show alltogether #and idk man i just dont want to see that happen to others #so you know feel your feeling #be sad or angry if you are #just tag negativity and dont harrass people #and dont let anyone tell you were wrong for caring #critical role #cr3

[crumb-crumblet-s-crumbington]

RE9 AU where the game is centered around the winters family with mia as the antagonist trying to bring back ethan and rosemary as the protagonist trying to stop her...

#ethan winters #mia winters #rosemary winters #rose winters #resident evil #resident evil fanart #rebhfun #resident evil 8 #re8 #resident evil village #resident evil 9 #re9 #RE9 AU #sorry antagonist mia is just my favorite concept ever #like she lost everything and is so grief stricken #i have so much info stored in my brain for this au...... #mithan #in a kinda messed up and tragic way #thats just regular mithan anways

[sbeana]

the pool scene

#the locked tomb #tlt #griddlehark #gideon the ninth #harrow the ninth #tlt art #tlt fanart #comic #apologies for how wonky it looks in some parts #um i spent like five days working on this nonstop #well not nonstop i ate a shit ton of pomegranetes or however its spelled during it #but uhm yeah #im not good at drawing backgrounds or anatomy (YET) so hhuhshsu #anyways yah yeepers when will i get to have a homoerotic moment with my former rival/enemy where i get to show them forgiveness and care #gideon wants to kiss harrow on the lips so bad its so fucking funny #harrow is a whole pathetic looking sopping wet kitten and gideon is like ooh yah thats the stuff #anwyas yah #ill post the version without their skull makeup because i like that one more #the skull makeup looks ugly sometimes (BY MY OWN DESIGN!!!! HARROW QUEEN I WILL NEVER DISS YOUR FASHION <4) #ALSO SORRY ABOUT THE PACING BUT DID YOU KNOW THAT DRAWING TWELVE PAGES OF A COMIC CAN MAKE YOU REALLY MESSED UP IN THE HEAD #hatman is in the corner of ym room rn

[flamingpudding]

Message to the past

Was one nice family dinner in the Wayne Family really possible? Jason was starting to think it wasn't. The evening started out so well, for once he did not have any sort of beef with Bruce for the moment. He got to spend time with Alfred preparing the dinner. Neither Demon Brat nor Pretender were at each other's throats because of a case yet and there was no argument about to happen with Dickie either and he didn't feel like avoiding Bruce. Did he mention he didn't feel like leaving the Manor at the first sight of his old man?

Everything felt like it was gearing up to be a nice and well deserved family dinner with all his siblings being in one space for once.

That was until a Lazarus Green portal opened and a fucking silver green tin can smack dab hit him square in the face. Causing him to fall backwards in his chair and hitting his head painfully on the floor. Why didn't they have carpet in the dinner room again? Oh right, someone -one of his siblings- got mud all over it after patrol and Alfred decided the dinner room didn't need it anymore.

Once the first shock of what had just happened passed. They got to inspect the tin can and found a letter inside it.

Dear future Dad,

Gramps Clockwork spoilered that there is a mess up in the timeline because of the speedsters and I can fix it like this, which is why I am writing this. Please pick me up in the attached location marked on the map. My current self is in need of saving and I honestly would like to spare myself at least a little of the trauma that's about to happen.

Also please bring some explosives. You always regretted not blowing up a corupted govermental facility, so here is your chance of doing so! Be proud, though. I blew up a bunch of them in the future, with supervision, of course, from my uncles and aunts, so great grandpa wouldn't worry.

Please pick me up? Thanks if you do!

Your future adopted son.

PS: please ignore any complains my current self might have. I was in server need of a real parental figure and as you like to say as stubborn as grandpa.

PSS: also please stop antagonizing grandpa about my adoption. It's bad enough that you had to fight him over it in the first place.

PSSS: please bring great grandpa's cookies, I beg you please! I swear I will do all my schoolwork and be a straight A student if you do!

The girls of the family started to pout while the boys exchanged glances. Jason narrowed his eyes at his brothers. There was a silent argument happening and Bruce was watching them all also.

But if there was one thing Jason was sure about. It was that the tin can smacked him in the face. Which meant the letter was his and the time shenanigans arson kid with sass was going to be his kid. His brothers AND Bruce can fight him over that.

Like the kid has said in his letter.

#dp x dc #danny fenton #jason todd #bruce wayne #dick grayson #damian wayne #duke thomas #cassandra cain #tim drake #danny phantom #dpxdc #crossover #dcxdp #fanfic #danny wrote a letter to the past #asking his future dad to come save him #jason is set on getting the arson kid #he will fight bruce over it #a kid thats willing enough to mess with time and blows up corrupt goverment buildings? #that just screams red hood junior #tho some of his brothers might fight him over it #maybe cass will too anyway #just because the letter was adressed to a dad didnt mean she couldn't fight for the kid too #let the adoption battle begin #clockwork got the popcorn ready to watch the chaos unfold #can be kind of crackish i think...

[mblue-art]

BAD SANSUARY // [14] tears for owl-bones's event !

"...Killer, it just looks like I have running mascara."

"it's such a look though."

messy kisses and post-nuzzles

#badsansuary #killer!sans #self insert #mblue art #m rambles #yes he is rubbing his tears on my face #he is a menace but he is also my skrunkly my little meow meow so i still love him #i was also attacked (/lh) with goofy dorky romantic guy SOFT killer and #and with lots of giggling and playful rumble tumbling #and smooching him up until he's melted on the floor and cartoon hearts float out of him #i also think about very similar thoughts w lust my bbg beloved but this post is about killer LOL<3 #bc showering this dork w smoochies n genuine love n interest and seeing his reactions to all that is very cute methinks #adding to this bc again i was given thoughts #(girls) boys night w lust and killer but we're actually messing around with makeup and thats how i get the real running mascara look #and other whatever experimental creative makeup looks theyre gonna try on me because apparently im their canvas for the night #woohoo? yippee.

[mochasucculent]

Gilf on gilf psychological warfare

#fionna and cake #fionna and cake spoilers #adventure time #simon petrikov #the winter king #my art #fanart #this episode was soooooooo fun #id render this more but i dont wanna mess it up cause i like the rhythm of the sketch #so here ya go lol #idk how to draw simon in my usual style yet #i DID look at pics of j*hn l*nnon for this tho #also perspective is a lil sillay cause my refs did not have the same perspective #but theyre both sillay guys so i think its in character actually and im soooo smart for it #^joking #thats the remote simon is holding btw i was just too lazy to clean up his hands lmao

[pherredraws]

from the homumiko mines

#dgs #tgaa #dgs spoilers #tgaa spoilers #homumiko #idk why mikotoba is taller in the kiss. hes on his tiptoes #the first one is inspired by the moment when sholmes puts his hands on ryu's neck so he can feel how cold they are from blood loss lol #anyway i continue to be deeply fascinated with early years homumiko #i feel like my view of their relationship is more slowburn than most #like. they were both not at their best when they met and i can very much see a scenario where they start living together w/out necessarily #liking each other #the last one in based on a line in 1-5 where gregson (?) says that after an hour of blood loss even sholmes piped down or something #which makes me think he would not shut up beforehand. and i think he'd say some stuff He Really Shouldn't Have #but susato wrote it off as delirium + she was too worried abt her dad and messing with the crime scene #que like 5 months later her going .........ohhhhhh #thats not how you write que i think. anyway

[iooiu]

good to know all casey jones’ are the same

#as a fandom i think there is so much hidden potential in casey jr that we're not talking ab #thats an apocalypse baby right there he knows how to de-bone things #he WILL fight you to the death for the last scrap of pizza no he is not joking #u all watch tmnt for the turtles i watch it for the funky little humans #they're so messed up!! i love them!!!! #trashcan kids i swear every single one #sorry 2003 casey i havent watched enough of the show to remember you </3 #tmnt #rottmnt #tmnt 2012 #casey jones #casey jones jr #cassandra jones #foot recruit #kk im done #leave me alone folks im inconsolable #the formatting is so wack LIKE WHO HURT U

[raytorotits]

couldn't stop myself from doing lettering for the first time in ages. sometimes the emotion is more important than the technique

#almost didnt post bc i messed up the 'neat' lettering. but also thats the point. #my hands shake now theyve shaken since i was mismedicated when i was 11 because the dictors didnt listen to me #and now im almost a nurse. and im going to be a fucking good one. #amd my hands shake and im drawing up my syringes anyway. and im making art anyway #in the face of extermination say FUCK YOU. and make 'bad' art. #tag.txt

[justaz]

au where arthurs death only lasted like 20 mins bc merlin spent time setting up his little boat to send him out into the lake but before he could part with him, he gently kissed arthurs forehead and it was actually true loves kiss and they lived happily ever after

#yipeeeee!!!! #merthur #merlin emrys #arthur pendragon #idk what to do about the rest of the mess #but thats not my problem #maybe they just keep up the rouse of arthurs death and merlin never returns to camelot #gwen is the once and future queen and leads camelot to glory and repeals the ban etc etc #merlin and arthur get to run away and live on a farm #like arthur always wanted

[peachyutdr]

i finished it, was kicked out of the game, and then spent the next 10 minutes drawing this. i will now go take a shower, most likely cry, and then go through the emotional turmoil of convincing myself to reset so i can do a geno run. i hate it here :D

#undertale yellow #uty #my art #<- ifg #spoilers under these tags beware. although it is mostly just me being very very sad #that entire thing was heart wrenching. anyways #CEROBAS FIGHT??? HELLO??? #i had to exit out of it the first time (i got to the last phase) to get better items but i came back and won pretty quickly #but THE CUTSCENES?!?!? #JFC NO WONDER THIS WOMANS SO MESSED UP. HER HUSBAND PRACTICALLY DIED IN HER ARMS AND THE LAST THING HE LEFT HER WITH- HIS DYING WISH- COULD #ONLY BE FULFILLED BY PUTTING THEIR ONLY CHILD IN DEATHS WAY. AND THEN WHEN SHE TOOK THAT RISK THE WORST THING HAPPENED AND SHE NOW HAS TO #LIVE WITH THE GUILT OF BEING THE ONE TO. MOST LIKELY. KILL HER ONE AND ONLY DAUGHTER #ALL THE WHILE SHE WAS PUSHING AWAY HER CHILDHOOD BEST FRIEND AND CONVINCING HERSELF THAT SHE WAS IN THE RIGHT TO SACRIFICE CLOVER WHO HAD #BEEN ONLY KIND MERCIFUL AND JUST THIS WHOLE TIME. EVEN TO THOSE WHO WERE TRYING TO KILL THEM. FUCK. #AAND WHEN CLOVER HUGGED HER I DOUBLED OVER IRL BC *THATS EXACTLY WHAT I WANTED TO DO IN THAT MOMENT* I HATE IT (read: love it) HERE #n dont even get me STARTED on after that. when clover started moving on their own and the gd white screen came up and we got flashbacks of #everyone's words. thats when the tears rlly started coming bc it clicked for me. 'oh. this is it. isn't it?' and IT WAS #WHEN THEY GAVE THEIR FUCKIGN HAT AND GUN AWAY TO MARTLET AND STARLO WELL THATS WHEN I REALLY STARTED CRYING #AAND THE GROUP HUGG #I WAS SOBBING WHENEVER I HAD TO WATCH THEM CRAWL UP AGAINST THE WALL AND DIE AND HAVE FLOWEYS WORDS PLAY OVERHEAD #AND THE FUCKOGN #THE F U C K I N G #AFTEWRCREDITS SCENE WHERE WE GOT THE 'You heard someone calling for help. You answered.' I GOT CHILLS SO BAD #to think that all the other souls have stories just as expansive and emotional as clover n frisks. how fucked up is that. in a good way tho #and finally the last scene where we got all 4 of our main friends sending us off in waterfall and we see clovers items end up in the dump #just waiting to be found by bratty and catty. fucken hell man this was a masterpiece #anyways time to reset and obliterate everyone and never emotionally recover from that ever!! really is feeling like 2016-17 again w the way #this game has me sobbing my eyes out and feeling the guilt of knowing that i dont HAVE to kill them all but im too curious not to #oh well. at least i have the balls to do it this time around instead of letting a youtuber do it for me ig

[will41n]

some eefo and effubs :Pc

#i'm sOOOO normal about them!!!! (lie) #idk what does the 2nd sketch mean probably etho is cold and bdubs is warming him up #it was hard to draw 2 characters i think i messed up the proportions and was too lazy to fix #alex draws #hermitcraft #hermitblr #ethoslab #etho #bdubs fanart #bdoubleo100 #bdouble0 #bdubs #ethubs #hermitshipping #holy smokes thats a lot of tags

[kth1]

d-day in japan | cr. @/jung-koook

#myg #min yoongi #yoongi gif #yoongi #gif #btsgif #btsedit #userbangtan #armysource #networkbangtan #bangtanarmynet #dailydaegu #usersky #agust d #suga #i messed up my fr but thats okay! he is a beautiful and handsome man either way!

[thatonechocogirl]

been feeling sick lately but heres koda waking up with his hair looking like a cockatoo

#disney #fanart #art #my art #don’t steal #brother bear #ber bros #kenai #koda #my bonnets been falling off while ive been sleeping and when i wake up my hair looks like a absolute mess #so thats what kinda inspired me to make this #im starting to feel a little bit better but still kinda meh #im actually so proud of this tho #i really love the way it turned out #bro slept GOOD