#normalize this

[hometoursandotherstuff]

#normalize this #frogs #other stuff

[celluliteloverboy]

Random shots

#bodypositivity #cellulite #curvy girls #hip dips #stretchmarks #thick hips #celluliteisnormal #body positive #thick white girl #curvy and beautiful #curvymodel #normalize this #thickwomen #big beautiful girl #celluliteloverboy

[floralcavern]

Normalize being a damn human

#tumblr poll #poll #tumblr polls #my polls #polls #random polls #poll time #bodily functions #We’re all human #Heartburn #normalize this #normalize it

[gently-decaying-flowers]

like and rb if you think we should normalize having platonic soulmates

because i have someone in my life who is literally my soulmate and i would give my life for them. they’re my second half, my rock, one of the few people who has saved my life more than once

but i’d never be in a romantic relationship with them. they’re my best friend, but so much more?? but in a platonic way??

normalize this

#normalize this #pleas #eden rambles

[thementalshawty]

My New Beginning (My way out)

(Mentions of disabilities, mental, emotional, physical abuse, S*x abuse, bullying, self harm, suicidal ideation, Domestic violence, be wary before reading).

So where to begin……. This is about familial abuse, so this has been something happening my whole life!!! My “mother” is a narcissist. She bullied me and my sister our whole lives, I am the third of 5 kids, she would pit us against each other and watch us fight to laugh and make fun, most of my insecurities stem from her clowning me in front of my brothers, funny enough she is NEVER ALONE, my father he abused us including her but he left and I thought we were better off for it, I wasn’t wrong but little did I know the monsters she’d allow into our lives after, I was getting molested by older brother and my mothers boyfriend before I even got to elementary school, my brother started when I was insanely young, and I still protected him as I didn’t know what tf was happening, her boyfriend started when I was in 4th grade, he wasn’t a drunk or anything just a pedophile, she knew he was because he got caught cheating on her with teenage girls and yet she still kept him around for a decade so wherever we moved he was there and I started to become angry, rage grew inside my soul like a fire that had no intention of burning out, on top of that he was abusive hitting and bruising me and my siblings who all have disabilities, you know my sister as she’s a tarot reader on here so I’m not going into specifics about them, but she would sit and watch and do nothing, she would hide food with him, have us stand in the corner for hours on end while they are food in front of our faces “mmmm that’s good”. She even forced to drink her breast milk in front of him, she despised us having friends, soo when I would have a friend she wouldn’t let me see them or go out or we would move, I’ve never stayed more than 2-3 years in any place my whole entire fuccin life! I don’t know anything but toxicity when it came to relationships, I tried to kill myself multiple times but they failed so I decided to be a burner, I just burned myself, the fire it was the rage inside me felt outside, I decided to tell my mother about the molester from her boyfriend when I was 15, because I told someone in school he told me I had to tell her or he would so I wrote her a letter, he had a gun in the house and put it to his head and said he was going to kill himself (gaslighting), she kicked him out for a day, brought him back then told me that I had to share her with him, so at 15 and with her knowledge of him molesting me, we all moved to California, we drove there, and that was awful, we all fought and he screams how he didn’t care about what he did to me and he was laughing in front of her, i ended up just sweeping that under the rug because i went to focus on my career I had acting classes so my mind was focused but I met a guy from school and he automatically hated him (the boyfriend) he told my mother and automatically I was told to stay away from him, I didn’t I had got arrested the year before so I had community service and he was helping me with that, I told him what happened I thought we were meant to be but he cheated on me with his sister and I found myself in her another Jerry springer bind but I found that out months after we broke up, but he stood up for me and he was the only one on the outside that actually came and defended my honor as sick as he is I will give him credit for that. A year later we’re moving bacc to NYC, before we did though, they got Into a fight (my mother and the boyfriend), pretending to break up, he went to the gas station filled a gas canister wit gas came back to the front door and poured gasoline on himself, obviously not lighting himself on fire because it was an act, he went to jail a week or two later she invited him back into her life, I already knew that it was going to happen because the shit was predictable at that point, Skipping ahead to 17, we moved back to NYC, we came separately, I came on a plane with my mother and the rest of my siblings drove back with him, because obviously she trusted him with children why wouldn’t she? She already knew what he was capable of, she didn’t care 🤷🏽‍♀️, when we got back to NyC she

Promises me that he’s not coming back into our lives that it’s over this time, I told her he’s going to gaslight her she says not gonna work, fast forward to when they all made it to the apartment, she approached me with the sob story I said he would come in with so she said she is letting him stay, I was going to just walk away, but my sister told me that she fought with him on the drive here, she stood up for me, he yelled at my older brothers and her that he did What he did to me cos he truly wanted to and he’s unapologetic for it, the flame it was uncontrollable and I blacked out I went into the room and I kicked him out myself. He yelled bullshit but he left, she hated me for that, so she started to sneak him in secretly then they started hiding food again, leaving us to literally shake, starve and feel sick, we learned how to improvise with what little we had. I was going to school so I didn’t care, speaking of school I was supposed to be on my last year of school, and I couldn’t graduate because my principal explained because I moved so much my credits were all over the place, so she told me I had to repeat a year that was devasting to me because in California I only had a few credits before I could graduate, I got two jobs because I just wanted to save up money to leave, she told my grandma lies oh she has a whole bunch of recruits that she tells constant lies too about us and what we do never the truth because they already feel she’s sick but they do nothing about it, family tho right? My grandma called me and so again we told her the truth and she helped us kick him out for good, (so that’s the end of boyfriend 1…. For now) I was finally 18!! So again I have no friendships nothing ever stuck, but I had two jobs and I was saving up for an apartment, I shouldn’t have done this but I was so proud of myself! I told her (my mother) that I was going to move out, get my own apartment and live on my own, she didn’t like that, she was saying that it was disloyal and what was she going to do without me and she needed help because most of my siblings have a disability, so I stayed, I couldn’t be disloyal when she needed me, that was a big mistake. A year later we are moving BACC to California because she has found A NEW BOYFRIEND, some guy she met over the phone, guess who helped her move back to California though (boyfriend #1), my brother who molested me left to go into the army, don’t worry he’s not in it any longer dishonorable discharge (it was fitting). So anyways the new boyfriend was some white guy who I felt meant no harm the fuccin dude was quiet and softspoken so I paid it no mind, but I was wrong, he was a drunk, not only was a he a drunk, he was a RACIST DRUNK! Did she care???? NOOOOOOO! Everytime I tried to leave she stopped me, til we fought then she would say to leave knowing I had nowhere to go, if I had a friend to go too she would hate that friend, funny thing is most friends that want to take me away from this be friends she introduced me too, she wanted to be friends with them but they wanted to be my friend yes they are younger people, I don’t have those friends anymore because they were very similar to her go figure right ? I thought I should call the cops, call for help, but everyone I reached out too did nothing INCLUDING COPS! So I felt backed into a corner, well I had my sister my little sister my rock, funny fun fact though, her new boyfriend ALSO LIKES LITTLE GIRLS oh and BOYS! He got arrested and she stood up for him, while he was doing that in her home, she would run away and leave us all my siblings in the house with him drunk calling us the N word, kicking doors down and causing mess, I couldn’t leave my siblings who couldn’t understand what was happening behind all I knew is that they were scared and their mother wasn’t there all she did was make excuses for him she told me I should kill myself, that I was a cunt that didn’t deserve her name, ( I don’t have it, I have my dads last name), that I was going to be nothing more than a whore, by this time………………

She knows about what my brother did to me I didn’t mention that confession because she just skipped right over it. She literally didn’t care and she told me to my face she believed he was only playing with me and I am confusing it all and that I know nothing about it because it happened to her and she the only one who knows pain and my pain doesn’t matter she tried to assault me and again tried to tell family but she already took the narrative so they weren’t trying to hear me out or help, in august of this year, me and my sister left, we went to stay in a motel for a week or two, with the help of my booking agent we didn’t have enough money to stay and the homeless shelters were all full and we’re not answering back, so we had no choice but to go back, we are back and nothing even a week later back to the drunk racist, not eating, starving routine, I wanted to die and I felt like a failure! I couldn’t even get out of bed I felt like I deserved this I got my sister out to end up right back 2 WEEKS LATER?!?!! I fuccin hated myself! He was drunk and again causing ruckus, she came back a morning later and was telling him to leave, he was going to hit her, my brother (diagnosed with MR) was out there with my younger brother (autism) and they were scared and standing up for her and the boyfriend was in their faces what was I supposed to do???? Me and my sister tried to help and she tried to tell us to leave for helping her!!!!! Me and my sister decided to just call the police, they started to fight, and he tried to kill her, the police got him out, and they told her that she was lucky to have her kids here, we cleaned up her room after he broke her whole house apart, I mean EVERYTHING IS TORN APART RN!!!! she decided that she was going to move down to Texas with the molesting brother because he has kids, (oh yeah other fun fact she kept forcing me to have kids she even wanted me to give her my eggs so she can have kids with both of those boyfriends she approached me TWICE ABOUT IT, one she wanted my eggs and the other she wanted me to be pregnant for her!) So now my brother has kids she was like saying she knows I’ll never have kids and I’ll be forever alone, that no one will ever love me, anyways skipping to now my birthday came and left I’m 27 now! The housing program that me and my sister signed up for began to pend and we found a place! We didn’t tell her we found a place and that we were in a program we didn’t even tell her that we went down the city. We ended up getting a random woman come into the house and serve us she was evicting us (my mother) even on the eviction notice it says no fault just cause, she didn’t even tell me, so we have 60 days to leave and vacate her premises! Funny enough yesterday my sister got her APPROVAL NOTICE!!! Mine is still pending but I know that I’m getting approved and if all goes well we will be in our transitional home on SATURDAY! We finally did it, dug our way out, I didn’t think that I could and that I would, I would’ve been opened up to someone if I didn’t believe that it was against the family or that no one would love me like she did, she painted the world as such a unloving place and that this toxicity was normal and for the longest I believed it, but I am waking up now! And I am looking forward to beginning my life AWAY FROM HER! Just me and my rock @silvershiningtarot I AM NOT ASHAMED OF MY STORY, I’m only ashamed I kept quiet for so long, I allowed them to get away with everything and they took control of the narrative but I’m taking my power back! This is the first chapter of my success story! I’m not looking for claps or sympathy or for yky to actually care or anything I just wanted to put my story out there because this shit shouldn’t be in the dark anymore, mothers can be demons, family can be a dark and scary word for people and they’re not family, only relation! And I wanted to make that clear! RELATION DOESN’T MEAN FAMILY

I feel more familial love from you guys on here than I ever did anywhere! My music gave me hope and tarot gave me community

You deserve to know your reader through and through!

Thank you!!! For listening and taking the time for hearing this sad ass story, I hope I didn’t drag your day down! 💋

#my success story #successmindset #new chapter #new beginnings #tarot reading #tarot #tarot community #tarotblr #psychic #opening up #peek inside #vulnerability #personal rant #rant post #emotional rant #narcissistic abuse #abuse survivor #abuse survivors #normalize this #raw truth #my truth #child abuse #tarot saved me #music saved my life #healing

[set-wingedwarrior]

Normalize blocking people for different reasons than only because they're harassing you.

Normalize blocking people who post content you don't like and don't want to see in your dash.

Normalize blocking people who talk about news and politics and anything you're escaping from when you're going on tumblr.

Normalize blocking tags and people who make content about that show, or ship, or game that you hate.

Normalize blocking blogs you simply don't vibe with, even when the person has not done anything wrong.

Normalize blocking someone who did nothing wrong just because you dislike them and seeing their ulr annoys you.

It doesn't always have to be because of some big valid reason, because they're harassing you or anything else like that. Not wanting to see something for litterally any reason is more than enough, it's valid.

I promise it doesn't make you a bad person, and your online experience will improve immensely.

Normalize blocking as an act of self care.

#tumblr #block button my beloved #self care #normalize this #Having control on your dash is awesome #idk how to tag this #But it's needed to be said

[strawberryduckmenace]

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

@maxphilippa

Teehee Funni gamer gayman

(I would absolutely would love to see pickles reaction to this or well whoever ppl ship knife with LMAO)

#christmas #dress #ii knife #osc #osc art #gayboy #normalize this #weeeeee

[dusty-cobweb]

“normalize—“ no normalizing gay people. i need you to be lil freaks.

#normalize this #queer #queer pride #gay #trans

[greattemptation]

I was having dinner with a dear friend last night, and they started a sentence with, “So I was doom scrolling on porn hub,” and honestly? National hero.

#friendship #friends #stories #slice of life #true story! #there was also a cheese board involved #doom scrolling #sex positive #normalize this

[hometoursandotherstuff]

#normalize this #normalize it #other stuff

[perfectlyfucked]

I belive we should normalize giving swords and daggers as gifts and presents

#normalization #normalize this #normalize it #Normalize #swords #daggerheart #daggerfall #dagger squad #daggers #Swords and daggers #gift ideas #gift art #unique gifts #valentines gifts #gift inspiration #gift items #gift #Perfectlyfucked #Presents #jude x cardan #rowan x aelin #mare x maven #my otp #otp prompts

[scene-royaltylolz]

can we normalize talking like an anime villain i think it would be fun

XD that'll be a yes kehehe... my plan to make the whole world cringe is starting to unfold! Soon, the world will be in my hands! Mwahahahahaha! >:)

#scene blog #cringe culture is stupid #cringe culture is dead #cringe #anime #anime villain #thx for the ask #asks #normalize this

[canterai]

L'highlight del pranzo di pasqua per il momento è stato mamma che si brucia preparando i carciofi alla giudia mentre io gratto una triste buccia di parmigiano e nonna guarda la scena impassibile e feroce.

#normalize this #pasqua

[dreamer0903]

Can we normalize loving a celebrity and not wanting to f*ck them?

I love Timothée Chalamet and Harry Styles but I would never want do to actual *things* with them.

#arospec #ace #ace pride #acespec #lgbtq #asexual #asexuality #asexual problems #asexual pride #harry styles #timothée chalamet #normalize this

[sappho-favourite-pupil]

#SERIOUSPOST

We all know "representation matters", but i feel like we don't talk about how important can it be. Because, i gotta be honest: i probably would have never - or it would have taken me much longer - to realise i was attracted to women, if it wasn't for the representation i saw.

This feels a little problematic to say, because it kind of sounds like i'm saying that seeing wlw representation turned me into a lesbian, which is not possible of course. What i'm trying to tell is, yeah, i've always thought girls were prettier than boys, i've always randomly picked a male classmate to be my crush, i've always said that i did not want to get married or have kids (with a man)...But, despite all this, i didn't figure out i was lesbian.

Even despite the fact i've never felt romantic, and let alone sexual attraction, for any guy i've met, i did not figure out i was lesbian.

And it's not that i didn't know about lesbians or gays, because i did know they existed (for a certain period of time i was even slightly homophobic lmao), it's just nobody had ever shown me an actual alternative to heterosexuality. The moment i was exposed to wlw/lesbian representation, i knew that was what i wanted in my life, without a doubt. I was a bit surprised, but honestly i do not even remember being scared about it, because the fact i had always liked women was suddently so clear and so natural that i was like "yeah, sure, it makes so much sense".

I feel like this is the reason why nowadays people are discovering to be queer earlier than ever before, and it's not because the internet is infecting them with the gay or something, but because they get much more representation than any past generation.

For someone is easier to figure out they are gay, some people i know say they've always known, since a very young age, and that's awesome. But, yk, most people don't even know being gay is an option, and even if they do, they can't begin to imagine how that would be and how would that make them feel.

I think parents and istitutions and everyone should make an effort to increase representation, and to spread information and not misinformation, because it may be important to young queers like it was important to me.

I feel like most straight/cis people underestimate it, but i actually cried for a good ten minutes, when i saw my "sexual awakening", the character who helped me figure myself out more than any other, ending up married to another woman.

And she is that character, in case anyone is wondering.

#lesbian #the lesbian struggle #lgbtqia #lesbian yearning #sappho would be proud of me #wlw #representation matters #queer representation #wlw couple #girls kissing girls #queer tv shows #lucifer netflix #mazikeen smith #mazeve #it's not Adam and Eve it's Maze and Eve y'all #we want more queer representation #also queer cartoons for kids #internalized homophobia #lgbt rights #normalize this

[three-in-one]

Why can't we normalize not driving as much as we do driving? Like not everyone can safely drive, not everyone wants to drive. People always ask us when we're getting our license and our answer is always I don't know. We have medical issues. We have migraines, cts, and occasional tics due to the system. We don't know if we will ever get our license. We don't think we have the mental state to drive safely and that's valid because the mental state is just as important as the physical state when driving. Sure it can be hard when you see everyone around you driving and having their freedom, but there are other ways to get around. Also, safety is so much more important. We don't know this to anyone. We have medical issues, but not wanting to should be valid on its own.

#driving #driving anxiety #mental illness #mental health #disability #normalize this #not driving #physical disability #mental disability