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doctor-disc0 · 2 months

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I saw a comment on a post that made me a little angry. I decided to just block that person, but I need to vent about how it's transphobic.

For context, this commenter was complaining about the poc, intersex, and trans inclusive lgbtq+ flag used in the post.

[Photo ID: a cropped screenshot of a comment that says "I myself am a happily bisexual ace, but I do feel a little uncomfortable around trans ppl (sorry if it offends U but whatever). And if I voice my concern, suddenly I'm the villain" End ID]

Yeah. You know why you're seen as a villain? Because being uncomfortable around trans people is fucking transphobic. "Trans people make me uncomfortable!" Well, boo fucking hoo. I'm so sorry the evil transgenders existing where you can see them makes you uncomfortable /s

We did not ask to be born the way we are. We are trying to be comfortable in the bodies we were born in. We are trying to live our lives in peace. If you are uncomfortable around an entire minority group, I need you to take a good long look in the mirror and ask yourself why that is. Why does the existence of a minority make you uncomfortable? It sounds to me like you are transphobic, and you need to work on that.

It is racist to say black people make you uncomfortable. It is homophobic to say gay people make you uncomfortable. And it is transphobic to say trans people make you uncomfortable.

"If I voice my concern, suddenly I'm the villain." So you're saying that seeing a trans inclusive lgbtq+ flag makes you uncomfortable, so you say, "Hey, trans people make me uncomfortable. Can we just use the standard rainbow flag?" So, you're trying to persuade people into not using a pride flag, not because of any valid concern, but because you hate the fact that it is explicitly including a part of the community.

My response? Yup, you guessed it! That's transphobia! You are being transphobic. And being a bigot is a surefire way of being seen as a villain, especially in the eyes of those you are bigoted toward.

Address your biases and stop whining about how your transphobia gets you labeled as a villain. You are capable of not being transphobic. Trans people aren't capable of not being trans. We can't change how we are. You can either learn to accept our existence, or you can stay the fuck away. We are an integral part of the lgbtq+ community, whether you like it or not.

#transphobia cw #transphobia #lgbtq #lgbtq+#lgbt #lgbt+#queer #trans #transgender #sorry to all my followers for the rant #I'm really angry #and the fact that this person thinks this is okay is just. AAAAGGGGGHHHH #I'm so tired of my existence being seen as threatening #let trans people live in peace #let them exist #our existence is not threatening #our existence should not make you uncomfortable #we exist. deal with it

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nanstar200 · 15 days

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Hi gueys 🧍 (run away again)

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takesfew · 8 months

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My current hyperfixation

These idiots 🐍❤️🐙

#twisted wonderland #azujami #jamiazu #ashenviper #azul x jamil #jamil x azul #twisted wonderland fanart #disney twst #twst fanart #azul ashengrotto #jamil viper #twst #they’re so precious #good I love them #I could rant for hours #sorry to my ex red dead followers but this stupid Disney anime game is all over my brain rn #my art

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kaidanalenkosprmanager · 16 days

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THE BEST OF SHENKO 1/?

The end of the world has a way of reminding you of all the things you forgot to say do. Mass Effect: Legendary Edition (2021)

#mira makes gifs ✨#kaidan alenko #sophie shepard #EDI #shenko #fshenko #mass effect #mass effect legendary edition #dailygaming #OTP: you're real enough for me #i learned i am physically incapable of creating less than like 20 gifs at a time #but shenko stonks are up right now!!#gif’ing my favorite bisexuals gives me joy 🥹#even though ME2 is dry as shit for shenko content like it’s literally the sahara desert #like a whole ass 10 minutes max of cutscenes between shep and kaidan like come on #like 2 minutes in the prologue and like 8 minutes of cutscenes on horizon #and then an email and looking at the picture in your cabin before the suicide mission #i'm so sorry y'all ME2 shenko canon is absolute shit (besides kaidan being rightfully angry on horizon) which is why we ✨ignore it✨ 🥰#but i rant about ME2 VS treatment too much so i will not write another essay about it in the tags #i will say the EDI line isn't the exact quote from the game but i think about it a lot tbf #same with the quote i borrowed from anderson too lmao (which is also a tiny bit paraphrased)#i just love EDI asking shep for relationship advice when you get to follow shep and kaidan's relationship/struggles across 3 games #and anderson's quote about all the things you forgot to do in relation kahlee to is just *chef's kiss* when you think about shenko #like whether it starts in ME1 or ME3 shenko has some really fantastic moments across the series #two characters with strong morals who realize that they're falling in love and literally start to become each other's strength??#their soft place to land?? their support when they need it?? shenko will always have my heart #also the shenko quotes you get are the most fire thing in the world #you're real enough for me?? you make me feel human?? i want to be your strength- your soft place to land?? shenko you will always be famous #I FORGOT IM GONNA FIGHT LIKE HELL FOR THE CHANCE TO HOLD YOU AGAIN TOO LIKE??#but i’ll stop ranting now bc i do that wayyy to much in my tags lol. have a good day wherever you are! <3

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triaelf9 · 11 months

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ugh I reallllyyyyy didn’t want to get in on this but like

The assumption that all atheists are people who’ve “never touched a religious text in their life” basically says to me you have a specific view of atheists and have probably not known many.

Most of them grew up IN the system and DO know the text and THAT’S why they walk away.

If you’re gonna make a whole post on ppl not using nuance with CR stuff right now the least you can do is use nuance yourself and not paint an entire group of people with a brush that TV taught you, or a bunch of white men into power *cough* Dawkins *cough* coopted a movement in a society where to not believe in god is synonymous with being immoral.

So just keep in mind, the representation of people without faith that you see on TV or twitter isn’t the majority and 9 times out of 10 isn’t correct at all.

thanks ^_^

#I learned a new word the other day #apatheism or something #b/c there isn't a word for what I am #but like I know that people who don't know what I am will paint me with the nuance-less brush of #oh you're atheist or whatever #but yeah #maybe also pick up on the nuance that Matt's putting down #that not all the Prime deities are the saammmme #can't paint them all with a brush too #just funny that so many people saying I want to be free to not worship anything rn brings so much ridicule #I'm sad ppl are taking a really fascinating complicated take on gods and such is being turned into this stupid fight #just BREATHE please #yes I'm sub-blogging a little b/c I don't want to get into it #I just want ppl to keep in mind that some people out there are ppl too #sorry I don't mean to go off but it's a sensitive point for me #something I never talk about b/c of opinions like that out there #can't wait to see my follower count drop b/c this sorta thing always does T_T #I just wanna be me and make the world a better place isn't that enough #Tria rants

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ryryryryryryryryry · 2 months

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Another new blog… it’s been about a year since I deleted my blog. The one I’ve had since I was 18. The one I grew up with. The one I vented on, posted countless pictures of myself, learned about myself. And holy fuck, the amount of shit that has happened in the last year is intense.

I got divorced. C put me through the wringer. I didn’t know if I would make it out, but I’m doing so much better than I ever imagined. He continues to show his true colors - he got engaged less than a year after we separated, his fiancée has attempted to get into a yelling match with me, he continues to put our daughter at risk, amongst a whole list of things he’s done. I’ve learned the art of disengagement and it’s so healing (also, I finished therapy and my therapist told me how much healthier I am now mentally)

I got a new job. I think this happened prior to me deleting my old tumblr. Doesn’t matter as much. BUT I work when I want, and can spend any and all my time with my daughter which has been a complete life changer. Leaving the only job I’ve known for 10 years hurt more than I expected, especially since it wasn’t planned, and I was basically booted out of there due to them just absolutely trying to destroy me, but it was such a godsend of a misfortune.

I sold my house. C’s only claim to hurt me was the house (other than our daughter that we share). He didn’t own it, but wanted a piece of it in the divorce because it was worth a lot in equity. I just said fuck it, sold it, rebuilt my life, and I’m now looking at houses with my partner.

I got a new boyfriend. He’s an absolute gem of a human. He’s made me realize what I want in a partner. He’s made me realize I’m not nonmonogamous. He’s made me realize that I can have a partner that fulfills me in every sense of the term. He loves me, he loves my daughter, and he puts up with the crazy that occurs in my life.

I don’t know if I’ll actually be on tumblr like I used to be. I deleted all social media, except Instagram, because I found out C was stalking me (and even after I locked all my accounts, he made fake ones - which, at 30 years old and as the man who wanted to end the relationship and was cheating on me, is a little obsessive). I just wanted to restart fresh. I’m so happy with life, I’ve never been so full of love and hope and just life in general, and thus, I’m back, I guess?

#I’m trying to find everyone I used to follow before but I don’t want to be weird about following back people #er I mean following people #I left abruptly and had such a community of people on here that I cared about even if I didn’t talk to you all #and I’ve been really missing it #plus I have a lot of thoughts always #my new partner is great because he wants to talk all the time #C never wanted to but N loves listening to me so it’s really unnecessary to actually vent on here or post on here but I still enjoy it #I’m ranting sorry #there’s been a lot more than what I’ve posted but these are my #big bullet points

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sol-draws-sometimes · 1 month

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Maybe it’s my fear of not being believed but I literally can’t do comedy where the other person isn’t being believed. Straight up, at first I would get stressed when the Human Centipede clip was going around. Like, do you know how terrifying it is to be in a wild ass date where you think you’re in danger and the waiter notices but has they have to open their mouth so now you have lie. Or the Elmo Rocko memes like, OF COURSE ELMO’S DISTRESSED! I WOULD BE TOO! LIKE EVERYONE IS TELLING YOU THIS ROCK IS REAL WHEN IT’S NOT(and like yah I’m sure there’s nuance to the situation but like COME ON).

Or Bibi from La Familia Peluche, I remember liking the show as kid and I still do but like, fuck man, the borderline emotional abuse than girl goes through IS WILD. LIKE EVERYONE FUCKING TELLING YOU THAT YOU’RE NOT NORMAL AND FEELING LIKE YOU’RE GOING CRAZY. I remember rewatching La Familia Peluche in Highschool and like fuck man, that period episode. Or to this day I remember the scene where they were serving food and she started to eat first and her family chastised her so she stops but then they make her feel back cause she already started so now she just continue to eat it and like I’ve literally been in a similar situation. And for those who haven’t watched the show, the whole shitck is that this is an absurd world where everyone works on a different level and Bibi’s the only who reacts normally to our eyes(the comedic straight man to alot of the jokes), which leads to the iconic line “Bibi porque no eres una niña normal”(Bibi why aren’t you a normal girl) that is said in every episode. Which from a dramatic irony perspective that we the audience know she’s the only normal person, makes it a funny joke, but if you think about it too hard, it’s so fucking sad, I just can’t help but not fully enjoy the show cause I just constantly feel bad for her.

Fuck even watching HALF LIFE VR BUT THE AI IS SELF AWARE FUCKS WITH ME! Like yes I very much enjoy the series! But, most of the time I’m just feeling bad for Gordon, like fuck man, I’d react the same way, wouldn’t you. Like ESPECIALLY BENRY! MAN DID HE STRESS ME OUT! I genuinely felt so bad for Gordon!

And then this slides into how I can’t enjoy alot of comedy(especially cringe humor) cause even though I understand the joke and think it funny on paper, I just end up feeling too bad for the character to actually enjoy. And it’s awful because I’ll STILL watch the shows because I’m invested in the characters not the humor if that makes sense??? (Oh, Community/The Office, the hate love relationship I have with you).

Anyway, yes I’m so fun to watch comedy with, I literally can’t be in the same room from some scenes. And yes, all my favorite characters follow the Only Sane Man trope, why’d you ask?

#sol talks #my post #hlvrai gordon #hlvrai #sesame street #Elmo #neruodivergent #<-I didn’t mention in the post cause I think anyone can relate but I feel like people in this tag would relate more???#Bibi P Luche #red flags tom cardy #la familia peluche #La familia P. Luche #elmo sesame street #Elmo rocko #comedy #some should do a video/post analysis the autistic coding around Bibi from La Familia P Luche #sorry for referencing a show that’s only in Spanish that only Latinos know 😔#Like just thinking about Bibi too much fucking distresses me #Also this is also why Framing plot lines freak me the fuck out #Like YES I did mentally breakdown when relisting to tma and truley processed the framing plotline #and yes I DID spam my gc about it #And yes body swaping story/Time Loop stories also scare me cause of the ‘people not believing you’#Well Body Swap stories are inherently terrifying in the other sense that you can fuck up their life and vice versa #but that’s a different rant for a different day #Also it’s not true that ALL my fav character follow the trope that’s a hypervole but ALOT/MOST of them are #Uuuuh can you tell it’s past 9:00pm(insert that tumblr post here)#okay it’s like 1:00am goodnight #if you read all this you’re the real mvp

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sammypog · 4 months

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VICTOR FAGGENSTEIN. do you support walton and victor because there was some strong homoerotic rambling

YES I DO and OHHH MY GOD walton was so obvious like he was like ohhh i want a very very close male friend with whom i can share EVERYTHING…..oh look at this HOT TWINK i found in the arctic circle…let me nurse him back to health and write letters to my sister gushing about how cool and beautiful and smart and awesome and did i mention how beautiful he is….like it is impossible to read that and NOT assume walton was fruity. also it still cracks me up how literally every man in this book wants victor his tragic sickly and gaunt nature has captivated them… i could go on and on about how gay everyone in this book is but tbh walton is the most obvious about it like take a shot every time he calls victor attractive youre gonna get WASTED and victor obviously has some sorta thing for him too bc he literally didnt tell anyone in his entire life about the creature but then he spills his whole ass life story to this random guy who rescued him from the arctic?? like thats a lil fruity….i think hes still preoccupied with henry and his death because omfg they were such faggots for each other i could go on and on (and also victor literally says to walton something like “no man can ever be to me as henry was” like HELLO??? that is impossible to interpret in a straight manner) so hes not like really invested in walton i think plus all the stuff with still chasing the creature and also being like near death so hes pretty distracted but apart from all that he and walton definitely had something going on i think they probably kissed at some point during all that storytelling tbh. okay im done now 💖💖💖

#try not to rant about frankenstein challenge day 1 (IMPOSSIBLE) ((FAILED))#frankenstein #victor frankenstein #i am deeply sorry to all of my followers and moots who are witnessing this #this is why im not allowed to think about victor frankenstein for too long #what is the ship name for walton and victor #waltonstein #sure that works #clervalstein #being gay for victor frankenstein #robert walton #henry clerval

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lilacthebooklover · 5 months

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i think it's sad how little empathy kids tend to have these days. the other day, i was walking down a flight of stairs at my school when a random 11-year-old boy tapped my arm and asked "are you gay?". now, i thought he was saying "are you okay", and nodded (nothing wrong with being gay! i'm just not one to tell my sexuality to random kids who interrogate me). then, he began hollering the f-slur and yelling that everyone should get away from me. it's sad that literal children are so used to throwing around language like that and making jokes out of what is just plain hate speech. we're all human beings. i don't see why differences like that should matter.

#i know i sound really old here #but i'm just a tired 15 year old sick of the prejudice that follows every school environment #why is being gay an insult?#why is it considered funny when someone's race is targeted?#what does anyone have to gain from this?#where do we draw the line between banter and bullying?#it's been like this for years #and i'm sick of it #i don't understand how discrimination is almost always a prerequisite to popularity #don't people feel bad about saying things like that?#courtesy costs nothing #and yet i've encountered very few people my age who attempt to use manners at all #sorry about the rant there #i'm just tired of this being treated as normal #we're all people #we should treat each other as such #random #social commentary #i think?#i don't really know how to tag this tbh #discrimination #homophobia #school students #lqbtq #my friend came out as nb #and now everyone takes the mick out of them about it #what's the point?#it's just mean #people need to grow up #(or stop trying to be so mature)

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theartthatleavesthemark · 9 months

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k so first of all i really loved s2. it felt like s1 but if only neil wrote it instead of neil and terry which...is pretty much what happened. can’t expect any better than that (and i think the spirit of terry posessed neil for some of those jokes which was lovely). regarding crowley and aziraphale...this is what i have been SAYING for a long time honestly queer romances absolutely SHOULD be angsty and slow burn and queer characters SHOULD be dumbasses. and i was genuinely concerned in our world of queer tokenism that the era of well written queer romance was going to be stuck in the land of queerbait from the 2010s. frankly? did i think neil was going to actually do it? no. but he did and it was so well written because he treated it like an actual relationship between two people instead of a token look at us we r so progressive uncomplicated gay romance that has frankly been inundating queer media recently and which is very much not my cup of tea. the thing i think you can always say about neil is that he genuinely believes that relationships should be treated like relationships in writing no matter what the type and that assigning labels (while certainly important in many situations) can cloud what is important in a story by reducing the relationship to it’s apparent definition. he didn’t do that here and it was so great and i am really really impressed and happy. go stream s2! lets convince amazon to pay everyone more to make s3!

#good omens #good omens spoilers #good omens s2 #crowley #aziraphale #neil gaiman #sorry to all of my followers who very much do not follow me for gomens rants lol

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theghoulboysblog · 18 days

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thinking about releasing my drafts cause i have like 192 of them and i think they are kinda funny but most of them aren’t shane and ryan related and are kinda just my inner thoughts AGH 😭

#TW: RANT AND ANXIETY TALK #but i like yapping but i don’t want people to get annoyed AGH #don’t want people thinking the ghoulboysblog has stopped ghoulboys-ing #i know there is no way to talk too much on my own blog #but my brain is still like #“what if people followed you for strictly shane and ryan content and you are annoying them”#like i KNOW no one really cares i don’t think #but my weird brain likes to convince me that i am annoying people AGHH #i have an anxiety disorder and people pleasing tendencies if ya can’t tell 🥲#sorry for this rant i am just SO STRESSED ALL THE TIME OVER EVERYTHING!!!#and honestly it’s exhausting sometimes #even with meds

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kirlianradio · 5 months

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Love the inherent distrust I’ll always have to have of cis queer men as a gaytrans man. /s

Head over heels for this dude in my class but the back of my mind won’t let me relax abt how we rlly only started talking more after I talked abt being trans.

I wanna let myself like him so bad, I rlly don’t often feel this much for someone. But the back of my mind will always have that doubt of what if he’s only interested because of me being trans. I keep having these breakdowns of panic because I’m so scared all the time.

Scared I’ll only ever be viewed as an “experience” scared i’ll only ever be reduced to my genitals. Scared no one will ever truly take my gender seriously and view me as a guy.

I’m happy other transmascs are confident in their body parts. but I get nervous sometimes with how many peoples only thoughts on transmascs seem to revolve around their genitals or femininity.

I feel like I’ll never get to escape the confines of my agab. Even around other queer ppl it feels as if there’s this layer of “yeah but ur not FULLY a guy”

Ughgh

#venting #ranting #sorry tumblrs the only place I can scream in the void all my other socials have irls following #transgender #transmen #transmasc #trans mlm #ftm #gender dysphoria #sorry I am not ur fun boypussy femboy transmasc it’s cuz I hate my body💓#also again ^ if ur r one of those transmasc. happy 4 u. do what u want. my issue is w/ ppl *expecting* that of all transmascs

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sincosma · 5 months

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Started strange new worlds finally and got to the Spock and T’Pring body swap ep and…I reject it all. Not to be a delusional spirk shipper but…I do not care about or appreciate the efforts being made to try and make me give a shit about their relationship LMAO

Like, we all saw Amok Time and we all know what will happen. How can the writers honestly expect any Trek fan to be rooting for Spock and T’Pring’s relationship when WE ALL KNOW this bitch is gonna claim kal-if-fee and force Spock to experience the trauma of thinking he murdered his lover captain. To be clear, I’m no T’Pring hater. But I also am bored af during any romantic scene between them and wishing I could fast forward. My love for Spock as a character is the only thing that keeps me grinding through their romantic scenes.

And listen, I’m sure balancing a pre-TOS Spock’s growth and trying to show new facets of him is incredibly difficult, so I’m trying to be understanding and lenient with Spock doing things that are technically too early in his personal development. Like, this man struggles to even call Kirk a “friend” without immense shame in TOS. But he’s gonna sit at a table with Chapel and call her a friend so easily years before? Idk, I wish I didn’t notice things like that. But unfortunately my autistic ass has downloaded all of memory alpha into my brain and I KNOW THINGS.

But overall, I do love the show so far! I will always support new Trek shows. I critique them out of love!

#sorry followers I’m catching up on Trek shows so my reblogs are gonna be Trek focused for a bit #star trek strange new worlds #all criticism is from my deep and intense love as a trekkie #spirk #local idiot rants about the character growth of their favorite emotionally repressed alien man

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nick-close · 11 months

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Me when I wanna rant about dndads but first I need to explain the lore that I made up and my characters I made up and the non canon compliant universes I also made up and the literal multiverse that are also all connected and also this niche thing I stole from a fanfic and also how i retconned canon and then undid it and how it actually is technically canon compliant and

#hey so I learned I’m a maladaptive daydreamer #most of my day is thinking of these guys which means I have sm world building and also i waste half my day #lmao #I also do have the dilemma of #can I talk about all my hcs #bc sometimes u give characters things to help you cope #or dark themes you think r interesting #and even like can I reasonably discuss dark themes knowing full well a lot of my followers and newer fans are younger #that’s it’s own thing #sorry to rant in tags #dndads #dungeons and daddies

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libbys-braincell-loss · 5 months

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me when the person i like talks about their nerdy interests overexcessively for an hour straight and i have no interest in the subject matter when hes not talking to me but its absolutely adorable when he rambles about something he knows so much about

#like you go on my guy.#tell me all about sourdough bread (i dont know shit about sourdough bread)#tell me about double reeded instruments (i dont know music theory very well)#tell me why risk of rain 2 is the greatest game of the century (ive heard of risk of rain 2 until now)#tell me all about how you think hellfire is the best musical song to ever be made #(ive never seen hunchback of notre dame but i really wanna watch it with him)#also when he messages me back on discord when i get home with a follow up of the previous conversation #🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕#TELL ME THAT NERDY SHIT MY GUY #also finding out he has seen the amazing digital circus and lackadaisy #💕💕💕💕💕💕💕#why wont the universe let me kiss this guy already #sorry guys im gettin all twitterpated I JUST NEEDED TO RANT

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swiftfootedachilles · 6 months

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what do i have to do to get people to read my stuff actually like im not about to get in everyones faces begging for attention but i dont understand how im expected to make FREE fandom content without much feedback on my work

#ignore my ranting but im actually so fucked disillusioned #like why are there so many people who scream about supporting each other and lifting up small creators #and they never do it themselves unless its their friend #sorry i dont sit at the popular table but i never expected that it would impact my reach this much #my newest fic has more hits but less kudos and less comments than my first #it's so obvious people only interacted on my first fic *because* it was my first fic #and thank you so fucking much to the people who have given me kind words #and literally religiously rbing my stuff because you think im worth listening to #this isn't about me crying because im not popular #people with bigger followings are naturally going to get more attention #but the only reason ive started posting my fics is because all these POPULAR BLOGS were like 'we support each other here!!!'#'were a big family were not a big fandom so any time someone posts it brings a smile to our faces!' blah blah blah #like youre out here lying for clout you literally only leave feed or kudos if its your fucking friend 😭 not even if its good #i guess id rather have less people interacting if it means the feedback i get is genuine and not just blowing smoke up my ass #but it still hurts to write a fic that flops and then write another fic thats over 3x longer than my first fic #WITH A PREMISE THAT POPULAR WRITERS HAVE WRITTEN ABOUT BEFORE AND BLEW UP FOR IT AND PEOPLE IDOLIZE THEIR WRITING #so im expecting to get more feedback and constructive criticism because it's a concept that a lot of people seem to love #only to get EVEN LESS FEEDBACK THAN ON MY FIRST FIC #like sorry to everyone who genuinely likes my writing i actually love you so much #but im very rejection sensitive and don't plan on continuing this. it seriously hurts me. it triggers my abandonment and selfhatred shit ba #like im sick to my stomach that another thing im passionate about is sucking the life out of me & i cant even get my foot in the door #donut rebagel this thanks and goodbye

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