#very aggressively actually

[nanaironohikari]

I miss my tumblr group chat like that one was the first successful online “friendship” I’ve ever had and it was gone just like that and my shitty memory can’t even remember the names of the ppl who were there pff

#so lonely #they were the only ppl i could talk about mangas and manhwas #and lately my rl friends have been so distant #it feels like they make an appointment once a week to check that i didnt die #instead of just hanging out like we used to #i guess im a boring person but o boi do they break my heart #and im on my period so im crying my eyes out #my sister left my cat in my room and left #cause i told her i was sad #she knows i was with my friends and asked me if we fought #very aggressively actually #she looked ready to throw hands lol #this is depressing #i even deleted twitter bereal and insta #cause i didnt qanna see anything about them #not in a I’m mad way but more in a very sad way #like #we used to be good friends and now it feels like they are obligated to hang out w me #when i told them that they told me to go see a psychologist #i was like srsly #what i need is you guys but i can’t help it if you dont like me anymore i guess #this hurts whatever age you are i guess #my heart is in pieces #and i cant find any glue to fix it #i guess im depressed again

[sweepingboy]

modern au fengqing is real because in their world therapy exists while in original universe they just have pei ming and his only advice is to get laid

#don't get me started how these love love each other so much they recognize their problems and work on them to be together #tgcf #tgcf mu qing #feng xin #mxtx tgcf #fengqing #mu qing #tgcf feng xin #tgcf headcanon #okay actually pei ming can be a very good friend but he treats them sooooo differently #he kinda bullies fx #mq is his favorite because he finds his long lasting crush very touching #and while mu qing has like million doubts and insecurities feng xin is just annoying and stubborn #i just know mu qing watches this psychology videos on YouTube and tries his best to deal woth his passive aggression

[dantelionwishes]

talk about gap moe......

bonus:

#gk #golden kamuy #koitsuki #koito otonoshin #tsukishima hajime #lionhe(art) #SO HAPPY I GET TO POST ART ONE MORE TIME #headcanon: koito is very cheerful and clingy but he's actually outwardly aggressive towards ppl other than tsukishima #vs. tsukishima being very deadpan and distant but being very weak in the knees only for koito

[otaku553]

A certain first encounter

#genshin impact #demon slayer #crossover #kaedehara ​kazuha #shinazugawa sanemi #first chapter is in progress for the fic lmao I just felt like doing a little drawing of their first meeting #why is sanemi so hard to draw actually #I love the idea of kazuha seeing the demon slayer uniform and just noping the hell out of there #not shown because I didn’t plan this comic out great: sanemi has just seen kazuha killing demons with a broken nichirin sword and #nichirin swords are generally only within the corps— but Kazuha’s not a demon slayer clearly #which means to sanemi that he must have stolen the blade somehow or picked it up from a corpse somewhere #which sanemi will absolutely get angry about #anyways their second meeting both of them are definitely more eloquent but also no friendlier with each other #really pushing it in the fic with how sarcastic and passive aggressive I think kazuha can be #never seen him interact with Raiden directly sadly so very little reference to go off of on kazuha interacting with people he doesn’t like #I’m determined to believe that kazuha would be extremely petty but in a classy way if someone pushed his buttons enough

[pluralcultureis]

Plural Culture is getting a bit upset when ppl tell you "I can't believe you let {this alter} front, why would you ever let them out?"

Because first of all; we don't fucking control who fronts. Not even our gatekeepers have real control over that. Our brain throws whoever it thinks it needs to into front

We may have some influence over it, with positive triggers to try and get certain alters to front

But we have zero control of keeping other alters out of front

I have exactly 1 memory that involved an alter being forcibly removed from front (it was me)

And it was because I was fighting to stay in front during an extremely triggering moment, and it took half the fucking system to get me out of front

I was physically removed, and it drained everyone so harshly the body threw up and had to leave work early.

We do not control who fronts

And second! In a majority of systems, controlling front like that isn't healthy!! Most alters are meant to front!! Even the "bad" ones!!! *

Controlling front is so rarely actually a good thing!

Don't shit on systems for "letting" certain alters front, this isn't some fun quirky roleplay that we have control over. It's a fucking disorder

* I say most and majority, but do not mean ALL. I understand that in certain systems, most often ramcoa survivors, certain alters cannot be allowed to front. This post is not referring to cases such as those.

#endos dni #osdd #pdid #did #did system #pdid system #osddid #actually did #traumagenic #actually dissociative #plural culture is #we got far too many asks sent about why we were “letting” Constantine front #after what he did #idk maybe because he's a protector?? #the dude isn't as bad as people think he is #he just reacts to stress in a very aggressive way #we're really tired of people acting like systems are evil for allowing alters to just exist and do their jobs #and maybe also make a post of two online so they can feel like they're more of a person than just their role #plural culture

[skitskatdacat63]

Roleswap anyone??

Tell me Fernando wouldn't make a fantastic general/emperor, and that Napoleon wouldn't make a fanastic driver/tp!!

#this might be the most mentally ill thing ive drawn yet.... #lmao im like ah this would be a funny idea to draw #and then got WAAYYYYY more into drawing napoleon #to the point of cuteness aggression and sadness that him in f1 isnt real :( #cofi and i made up a whole lore and plot line so if you want a pt 2 of that hmu LMAO #but briefly: hes a driver(2 wdc btw) who got kicked out for smth and then came back as a tp again to torment his former rivals #gahhhhh why is he so cute why isnt he real :( i would stan him so hard you dont understand #with his cute little lesbian bob and introverted but brave and outspoken demeanor.... #his mechanics and team in general are all tall men who love to pick him up #but god the plot is just so fun and compelling that it makes me sad that kinda driver doesnt exist irl #my greatest dream is for someone from the actual napoleon fandom to see this #bcs its weird enough for you guys so i cant even imagine what theyd think #BUT PLEASEEE #anyways. this is a very odd post. but im very proud of it :) #lmao this is just like one step closer to actually writing my proper manifesto about it #but yeah i posted that silly meme the other day and it got way more notes that i expected so maybe this will be appealing too? #girls who cannot draw normal fanart #<- like seriously i wont draw napoleon in his normal clothes and fernando vice versa but no prob with the reverse?? my brain... #f1 #formula 1 #fernando alonso #nandopoleon alonsoparte #napoleon bonaparte #napoleon #catie.art

[emry-stars-art]

Whumptober day 27: forgotten/locked away/immortal (full under the cut)

Find the royal au masterpost here

These poor puppies have no idea why someone’s huddled in their house; Abram might not find it so bad if he wasn’t too hungry and tired to keep them from playing too rough with him.

#i want this to be something Abram gets exposure therapy for #like Andrew or Day or Katelyn take him out to Palmetto’s kennels and they play with the dogs together #now that they know what to watch out for they can safely take care of the dogs and the kennels #soon enough abram can go all on his own #and he does sometimes #just to remind himself that he actually has recovered at least a little #maybe when he’s frustrated with something else #plus the different breeds of dogs help #and all the dogs are very nice all the time #evermore’s were trained to *act* vicious #but they’re not actually aggressive to people #the biggest difference is #as stated #Abram’s much more capable of being able to play with Aaron’s hounds in palmetto #and push them off him when he wants #anyway #whumptober #emry whumptober 2023 #fan art #my art #aftg #all for the game #neil josten #dogs #royal au

[bluehairperson]

My players are about to head to The Dinner™. What do you think of my seat disposition?

#someone's being passive aggressive #waifu on the side and then... the other ones... #strahd inviting everyone to peer pressure ireena to come: 🥰🥰🥰🥰 #strahd when they actually show up: ugh 😒😒😒😒 #roommate suggests putting a very pissed off rahadin at strahd's opposite end of the table just to make their stay even more tense and shitt #curse of strahd #not art #strahd von zarovich

[kaladinkholins]

yeah taimizu IS toxic and off putting actually ‼️‼️🗣️🗣️🗣️

EDIT: TO BE CLEAR THIS IS A POST IN FAVOUR OF TAIMIZU!!! I AM A DIRTY TAIMIZU SHIPPER!!!!!

#it's funny because that was my FIRST thought about them but then i realised wait this is scratching some itch in my brain #people are all very correct about this btw and their discomfort and dislike of the ship is valid #but it's so interesting to me and that's why these days I'm leaning further into that toxic aspect of their rship in my art #that whole “strangles you with the red string of fate” drawing i did was meant to capture that as well #like this equal amount of aggression and twisted affection/attraction they have for one another #like it's very fucked up #and people are not wrong to think so but i enjoy it LOL #one of the theses of my fic is literally “theyre fucked up but they make it work” #like i dont want them to be perfectly healed and normal by today's standards #i want them to be crazy and murderous but work through their shit individually AND together and make things work #and have feral nasty sex bcs mizu deserves to be a pillow princess (TO MEEEEE) #i still have a meta drafted that actually goes in depth on their rship and why we “”“should”“” root for them #but my brain is goop rn and cramps are KILLING MEEEEE so have this first instead #taimizu #blue eye samurai #fandom.rtf #shut up haydar #wank.mp3

[quirkle2]

[zombie au] when ur.when ur brotherturns into a z.when ur brother turns into a zombie and u spend the next several years of ur childhood braving the most fucked up shit ever so u can find a cure and it gets to the point where ur killing parts of urself just to pick up the pieces of ur brother with shaking, cut up hands and glue him back together but at that point ur just going to end up bringing him back to a world that's not worth living in

#qkdraws #id in alt #mob psycho 100 #mob psycho #mp100 #zombie au #ritsu kageyama #mp100 ritsu #shigeo kageyama #mp100 shigeo #mp100 mob #btw even tho i like to draw mob snarling and being a bit feral i do wanna make it clear that he's Very rarely like that #i just enjoy it when he Is so i draw it <3 hope thishelps #he's usually more like the top right. chill as fuck. not a single thought in that head #mob only gets aggressive when ritsu's in trouble #in the top left one he's actually snarling at tome. bc of uhm.reasons <3 #dw she didn't hurt ritsu. mob just Thinks she did and he's going mad abt it #wanna write that part eventually. maybe. some day perhaps #anyway yeah.uhm. i think im cookin w this au #im cookin Smth. might not be edible but im cookin and u can't take that away from me #mob doesn't just have eye bags cuz he's a zombie and owahh zombies gotta look scary #he has them cuz in this au it's REALLY hard to fall asleep when ur zombie #but ur stillhuman and u still require sleep to live. which is why sleep deprivation is like the leading cause of zombie death in this world #and that means ritsu has to be Super careful not to let mob go too long without sleep #he's always tryin to get the poor guy to Rest. even when ur exhausted beyond belief it's Rly hard to sleep when ur a zombie #ur brain's been rewired n shit man. it fucks up a lot of systems #ritsu has eye bags bc he's .tormented.by the entire earth #quite literally everything is against him.for a very long time #and he's fuckin exhausted man.he's fuckin tired #fun fact if u raid my inbox about this au ill kiss u on the mouth

[neobastard]

side note, but i'm honestly appalled at the way people ask questions for the AMA. rude language, aggressive tones, and general impatience with the team are all super common and it genuinely makes me feel bad for TNT despite my issues with the way the site is run and updated.

people don't know how to speak to others and have no manners and respect istg. would y'all behave this way if it was a face to face AMA and you didn't have the veil of anonymity?

#txt #neopets #i was actually embarrassed scrolling through some of the questions to vote on ones i agreed with #like i hope y'all realize you are less likely to get answers if you're aggressive towards the staff and make their jobs unsafe #just rude and mean over a children's pet site for very little reason

[e-vasong]

listen im SO on board with all the new luther fans because that boy deserves love but people saying that luther is so much more likable now that hes a himbo and loves his family is extremely confusing to me. this boy’s wanted to be a part of the family dynamic since season 1. remember season 1 luther carrying five like a baby and trying to convince five that hes still a good person? season 2 luther apologizing to viktor and shielding klaus from harm with his own body??? hes always been like this!!! i keep seeing people go “luthers so different now!” and that is objectively inaccurate! he’s always been good and he always drank his Loving My Family juice!!! 

#before anyone asks yes i DID censor the 'bitches' it came across very aggressive and im not actually salty im just goofin #the umbrella academy #tua #anyways hello new luther stans i love you <3

[wizardnuke]

im a casual pjo fan in the sense that i don't really participate in fandom and haven't read the books in years but at the same time. those books made a permanent impact on my psyche. the show has awakened the sleeper cell in my brain that gives me psychic damage whenever i think about those kids

#side note - #seeing comments on how percy isn't actually as aggressive as he was in the books (he was on probation. he was on the way to juvie)/gabe #isn't as abusive and i see where that's coming from but. this is a goddamn d+ show. not netflix or hbo. they really can only do so much #they're doing very well given that It's A Kids Show guys it's a kids show. don't steven universe the pjo show ill start biting.

[sea-buns]

Holy fuck, man. What a trip Fearne has been on, huh?

You tell her how grateful you are to have her in your life, you flatter her, you tell her you need her, that you have to do this together. You have her make a promise that has this woman, born of chaos and fey, agreeing through shaking hands and a trembling voice.

You make her deceive your friends; you make her follow where they cannot know; you make her help you into this contraption; you make her feed this thing into you despite the fact that you both have been warned extensively of the risks. You make her watch you crumble and splinter and shatter and fracture and burst and implode. You make her watch you die, over and over and over and over, for a minute in agonizing bullet time.

You make her do all these things, because when she tries to back out, when she tries to not be the one who let you do this—how could you do this—

you tell her, "YOU PROMISED."

Because if there's one thing you know, it's that the fey do not break a promise.

#cant wait for her to fucking pissed for a very long time. shes really packing the entire human experience in a very short period of time. #critical role #cr spoilers #c3e77 #fearne calloway #ashton greymoore #bells hells #just gonna get ahead of the um actually mfs and state that i am aware that its not confirmed that thats why ash brought up the promise #but boy howdy would it make for some great drama down the line huh? #edit: apparently i did not get ahead enough cuz ive had to turn off replies #since ppl were somehow interpreting this mini introspection piece as me infantilizing fearne?? #anyway the first line is now changed to something a bit more neutral. after sleeping on it i do see how it was a bit aggressive at the top #other than that im not sure how else to reword without completely disregarding the core of the post #i might make more posts addressing this but im not sure yet. i wanna try to approach it in the best way possible. #but if it helps any the point of the post was not to say fearne had no agency. she had plenty of moments where she tilted one way or the #other. the POINT was to just shine some light on the emotional pressure she had been put under. #hasnt your friend ever asked you to keep a secret or promise that felt wrong or unsafe or made you anxious? #it has nothing to do with the amount of agency she had. ash wasnt holding a knife to her throat and forcing her to follow against her will #all i was trying to do was take this detail about his reminder of the promise that i thought was interesting and have some fun writing an #overview of the kinda stress she was under BEFORE theyd reached that scene. this entire ep was everyone discussing how grateful they were #for this family theyd made. and while im not saying ash was PURPOSELY emotionally manipulating fearne.. #there is a level of unintentional manipulation when you pair the severity of his request with the convo theyd had 2 seconds prior #as well as the desperate need they all have to save each other NO MATTER WHAT. #ash was giving incredibly strong energy of a friend who peer pressures you into helping them do something that you know in your gut WILL #cause problems. hes a fucked up guy. theyre all fucked up guys. even if he didnt mean to “force” her into anything the pressure was THERE. #<- i feel like all of this overall gets my message across. i think maybe ill clean it up later into its own post. #im gonna try not to rush myself to get it done tho. #im under no obligation to explain myself. especially when ppl approach the misunderstanding by being rude af. but i do think it CAN #be clarified so id at least like to try to some degree

[cissa-calls]

Countdown to Coven of Chaos: Day 424

Wanda: “I AM VERY UPSET AT YOU BOTH! I CAN’T EVEN LOOK YOU RIGHT NOW.”

Y/N: “We’re sorry, we didn’t mean to upset you!”

Agatha: “It was a complete accident, it won’t happen again!”

Wanda: “IT BETTER NOT! DON’T DISAPPOINT ME! NOW I’M GOING TO MAKE TEA, DO YOU WANT ONE CUBE OF SUGAE OR TWO?!”

Agatha: “I thought you were upset at us?”

Wanda: “I AM!”

Y/N: “Can I please have some honey in mine?”

Wanda: “YES YOU CAN!

#Wanda has an odd way of being angry #it’s okay she’s actually very upset #she just very aggressively throws the sugar cubes in the cups #wandavision #agatha harkness #house of harkness #agatha all along #hahndavision #house of harkness counter #marvel #wanda maximoff #agatha harkness x reader #wanda maximoff x reader #coven of chaos #coven of chaos counter

[veliseraptor]

what are some xue yang thoughts youve had recently?

one xue yang thought that surfaced while I was thinking about xue yang thoughts for this ask was about feelings and about how I sometimes see people talking about xue yang like he doesn't experience feelings of love or care or tenderness (for instance the "he doesn't actually care about xiao xingchen, just thinks of him as a toy" line of thought, which I personally...do not agree with, to put it delicately).

and I don't think that's accurate! I think xue yang assuredly experiences the whole spectrum of human emotion; I don't think he is very good at empathy specifically (or possibly, and importantly I say this completely without judgment, doesn't have the capacity for it) but I do think, for instance, that he could learn compassion if he put some effort into it (and someone was willing to help him practice a little). what I think xue yang can't do is identify his feelings, let alone process them in any kind of reasonable or healthy way.

some of this is an effect of emotional disregulation and xue yang feeling everything at 110% all the time (all his emotions, not just anger or whatever, when he goes he goes hard), but some of it I think is part of having this sense of a script for what things look or feel like, and a self-image about who he is and how he experiences the world. so when it comes to, say, love, there's a combination of "love looks like this specific thing and that's not what i have/want" alongside "i don't do love, love is for suckers" and those two things combined resulting in not recognizing the feeling for what it is.

he can recognize other things more easily because they fit more into his self-conception and his experience of them is closer to the script - when it comes to anger and fear he knows what they look like and they're more familiar/a part of who he knows he is (even if he would rather deny the fear and transmute it into anger), and he knows what it's like to feel happy, but when he hits the limits of that horizon then he stops parsing things so accurately. he experiences them but doesn't name them, and this is exacerbated by the fact that xue yang does not introspect pretty much at all. he's just not interested in self-analysis. who has the time for that? he's very aware of what other people see in him, and he does have a very strong sense of self, but when it comes to, like, thinking about the how and why of what he's thinking and feeling, he's not getting into that.

and some of that is because it would be dangerous for him, in a sense; both in terms of "getting caught up in your own head is a good way to be not paying enough attention to your surroundings" and also in terms of a more abstract "it might challenge his self-conception and part of xue yang's resilience is in the solidity of his self-conception, being forced to confront his own contradictions and weaknesses would be devastating and, in fact, is part of what kills him when it happens."

i guess the short way to sum up this post would be "xue yang's reckoning of his own emotions is pretty narrow, and he would probably actually agree with people saying he doesn't feel certain things, but the deal is really that he's bad at identifying them and doesn't really put in the effort to try."

#conversating #anonymous #xue yang #aggressively headcanons #it's actually one of the things that makes him very different from other blorbos of mine #who are very up in their own heads and excruciatingly self-aware and cerebral #not that xue yang doesn't think. he's just not introspecting about his own thoughts and feelings all the time #to which a part of me is sort of like. it must be nice #but it does ultimately cause him a lot of Problems so #the sad queer cultivators show