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goemoni · 2 years

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ForThem Binder Review

i just received my forthem binder. i haven't seen any reviews for the brand on here, and only about 3 total on the rest of the internet, so i thought i'd post my own. this shit isn't sponsored or anything.

if you didn't know, forthem is a new brand. their binders are meant to be a happy medium between traditional binders and sports bras. that's exactly what i've always wanted, so i bought one pretty much right away.

PROS:

super soft and comfortable material. like i cannot overstate how comfortable it is. its some kind of nylon blend, so it stretches and isn't stiff, while still offering some compression. and it's recycled material

definitely binds better than my sports bras. in my particular case, it's more comfortable too. i barely notice it's on

no breathing issues, rib pain, or back pain to speak of

it's front-back reversible. one side is scoop neck and the other is v neck. the v neck side comes up a little higher, so i find it binds a little better

fun & unique colors

CONS:

doesn't bind as well as a gc2b or underworks binder. those are the only two i've tried before, so i can't speak for other brands

i can see it not working out as well for larger chested people, due to the overall length being shorter than your average binder. however, some reviews on their actual website mention the binder working well for bigger chests, so do with that what you will

your color options are limited depending on what size you need, because they use recycled material. also only one skin color option is available (beige)

they say they'll text you at every update, but i only ever got one text that confirmed my order, and that was after i texted them first to check in a few days after placing it. no shipment tracking.

OVERALL:

i love this thing. if you're disabled in a way that affects your ability to bind, have sensory issues, are just starting to bind, or have anything else going on that makes traditional binders a not great option, i definitely recommend trying forthem.

#binder review #forthem binder #forthem #lgbt #trans #trans masc #binding

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avixenprince · 2 months

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CHEST BINDER GIVE AWAY!

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I’m giving away my XS black full length Underworks chest binder & my Conjur (like a small/medium size?) grey half lengt chest binder from ForThem!

After 4 years of binding I can’t wear mine anymore, I cough and wheeze too much unfortunately. The Underworks one is newer but both are in very good condition!

Reach out if interested! I’ll take care of the shipping costs, your big bro has your back!

#ftm #chest binding #chest binder #underworks chest binder #underworks #forthem chest binder #ForThem #trans ftm #transsexual #demiboy

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stal3bread · 9 months

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I require advice about binders. Basically, my chest is bigger now than it used to be which means I am not getting as flat as I used to in a binder. I have Spectrum binders, and they get me sort of flat but not passably flat. So, I’m considering buying a new binder from a different brand. I’m looking at: ForThem (the MAX one, not the regular binder), CantiqLA, Amor Sensory, and Wivov. If anyone has any experience with any of these brands, please share them with me. The biggest factor for me right now is compression, though it does have to be sensory friendly which is why I’m not considering Underworks.

#trans #transmasc #transmasculine #trans man #trans guy #ftm #trans ftm #binding #chest binding #binder #chest binder #spectrum binder #spectrum outfitters #wivov #amor #amor sensory #CantiqLA #ForThem

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littlewritersinspace · 2 years

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My Moon,

Most people refer to their happiness as “sunshine” that radiates sunlight, the one that pulls them out of their darkness. But you are not my “sunshine.” You are my moon. The moonlight that shines down on me on the darkest days. Even without the stars, a pool of ethereal light radiates you in stark contrast to the black sky. You are my moon shining dimly behind clouds, but just enough to see the light in the dark, to see there is hope when I think there is none. You are the moon shining brightly on a clear sky when I feel lost in the darkness. You are my comfort and serenity at night. You are the constant moon in my life. Regardless of where I am in the world, you will always be the same moon that grounds me, the same moon I adore, the one moon I have, will, and forever love.

Selenophile

(n.) A person who loves the moon.

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bilbobignaturals · 7 months

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Has anyone ever used For Them binders? I heard they're not like the most amazing at compression but what I want is something between a binder and a sports bra because I find full compression hard to deal with. I'm wondering if it's worth it for that in-between vibe... But I also like don't wanna waste my money

#trans masc #trans masculine #nonbinary #ForThem #binder #gender #gender euphoria #gender dysphoria #enby #lgbtq #queer #queer fashion #ftm

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ftm-radio · 2 years

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Do you have any suggestions for good binder brands? I tried gc2b and their binders didn't really work for me, mainly because my chest tissue moved around a lot and after the first 5 minutes I had to readjust a lot, but I don't know if that's a common issue with all binders or specifically the one I tried. If it's an all-binders issue, do you have any other recommendations for alternative methods?

fam, i know EXACTLY what you mean regarding everything moving around too much in gc2b binders. 😫 I'm not sure if that issue is caused by the binder not quite being the right size, or if it's just how gc2b binders are shaped/constructed. Like maybe you and me are in the same boat and we just don't have the right shape for gc2b to work well with us.

I have not had personal experience with these brands, but I think some folks have had better experiences with binders from Spectrum Outfitters and Shapeshifters. Another brand I know of is Underworks, but I don't think they're recommended for anyone who isn't thin and/or small-chested bc they are tighter and more uncomfortable. (I haven't looked into them much myself, so I could be wrong but that was the general vibe I got.)

However, there is one other binder brand i DO have personal experience with—ForThem. I got one of their binders recently, and like.... I love it so very much???? They are only in the US, though. (for now?? maybe they'll be more widely available in the future? i couldnt tell ya)

hang on I'm about to ramble so let me put a cut in here before the post gets too long lmao.

ForThem binder review and discussion of TransTape under the cut! 😘

okay SO. I just went up to get mine so I can be accurate with my gushing.

here's the info printed on the inside of the binder:

The Binder; Size: Illusion

65% Polyamide, 35% Elastane, 100% recycled from waste.

Wash cold. Dry flat. Love forever.

Made just for you with love in New York City.

First, lemme tell you about the sizing—they only need one measurement. Just one. Glory hallelujah for that bc getting the measurements for my gc2b binders was a pain in the ass and confusing and I hated it. When you go to their site they have a questionnaire for you to go through to find your size and it's pretty simple. They even have a video showing you how to measure your chest. Easy peasy. And you can have them save your binder size for you to come get it again later when you're able to order.

Regarding colors—because of the way these are made, you don't really get to choose what color binder you get (mine is Forest, it's this pretty nice desaturated dark green) but you can go on a waitlist for specific colors if you want.

Oh, and their binders are reversible. One side has a scoop neck and the other has a vee neck. I tried the vee neck and personally didn't like it, the scoop neck feels more secure & it covers my chest better, but it's nice to have the option.

Additionally, these binders are only available as half tanks. I think I saw one person say they are shorter than the gc2b half tanks but I just compared it to one of my old gc2b half tanks and it's basically the same. The biggest differences between the two are the necklines and the thinner straps on the ForThem binder.

okay with all that out of the way I have to tell you about the fit & how it feels to actually wear it.

.....it's so good, y'all.

Being a half tank I was worried it would have the same issue I had with my gc2b half tanks where I could not raise my arms without my tiddies literally falling out of the binder (although to be fair my first two binders from gc2b were also too big). But I mean even with my more-correctly sized full tanks from gc2b, if I did anything or lifted my arms my chest would fall out of place and be weird and uncomfortable.

well when I got my FT binder and tried it on, that was the first thing I checked. and I could lift my arms and move all around and my tiddies stayed inside the binder where they belonged. it was honestly a miracle. I mean, it's not completely perfect—over time they do kinda get pushed to the middle of my chest kinda like a monoboob situation, but it's not nearly as bad as walking five steps in a gc2b binder and having to adjust everything.

it's also just so comfortable?? the material is very soft and nice. like on the site they went on about how lovely the material is and i was like yeah sure but then i got mine and THEY WERENT KIDDING. it is so fricking soft i cant get over it. also, I don't notice the seams at all when I wear it, and the armholes don't really annoy me either. I honestly forgot to take it off a few times bc it was so nice to wear. (don't do that, tho! 8 hours or less, depending on what your body can handle!)

as far as compression goes, I think it does a fairly good job. if I'm wearing it and I put my hands on my chest and try to smush it all even more flat, I can't get much flatter than the binder gets me. does that make sense?? idk, it does a pretty good job and when I have a shirt on it looks great! I look like just another tubby guy with an appropriate amount of man boob.

I think literally my only thing with this binder that could be a little better is that the bottom edge has a tendency roll up sometimes. but I think that's because of my bigger stomach tbh, and if I fold over the material between my chest & belly it's not noticeable but keeps it from rolling. 🤷🏻‍♂️

as a fat guy with C(?) cup tiddies, this binder works better for me than gc2b did, for sure.

aaaaaaaaand now that the impromptu FT binder review is over, you also asked about alternative methods!

so yes, I highly recommend checking out ForThem binders if you're in the US!

another method I've tried is using TransTape, and I also recommend that if you're interested!!! It's definitely not suited to everyone, though.

If you haven't heard of TransTape before, the gist of it is that instead of wearing a binder for part of the day, you apply tape to your chest to manipulate the tissue into a more masculine shape. You can wear it for multiple days, sleep in it, shower/bathe/swim in it, exercise in it, etc. It's honestly amazing.

But there is a pretty tough learning curve when it comes to application (and removal.) It takes time to learn how to get the look/shape you want, but if you keep at it it's definitely worth it.

on the other hand, removing the tape is a whole other thing, and is my least favorite part. 😩

Basically, to remove the tape safely, you have to use oil to break down the adhesive, which is messy and annoying and requires a lot of time and patience. if you do not remove the tape properly, you will have a lot of ouch in your future, specifically in the form of abrasions and torn skin and sores/blisters (although the former is also dependent on application). and the worst part is, if you have any wounds from removal you can't use tape again until it's healed because that would be begging for trouble. (and infection.)

I personally had just.. the most awful trouble with removal. at first I was too impatient and pulled on the tape too much and didn't really give the oil time to do its job, but then even with my very last attempt when I tried SO HARD to be patient and waited for much longer than the recommended time, I was left with really sore and irritated skin despite feeling like it was the best i'd done at removing it. 😔

it was just really upsetting after a while, and it's part of the reason why I have taken a break from trans tape. the other reason is financial—i'd used up all the tape i had, and i couldnt really afford to keep buying more. depending on what size tape you get it can be almost 20 bucks a roll, and since I use two different sizes my next order would have been a little over $40. the ForThem binder I was eyeing was only a little more than that, and I figured spending the money on something I only had to buy once that would last for ages if it worked for me would be better than spending 40 dollars every month or so on tape that didn't seem to agree with me. 🥲

now, I've kind of done trans tape dirty by talking about the negatives first (sorry trans tape) but it is genuinely my favorite binding method.

when I got a little better at applying it, it was amazing and I had just the best euphoria. I didn't have to think about my chest, I didn't have to wear anything under my shirt, I didn't have to feel my chest move and bounce around because it was good and secure under the tape. I even got to enjoy being shirtless in my room for a bit one night, and it felt so comfortable and natural and wonderful that I'm.... not gonna think about it too much more or I'll get sad lmao

I'm not sure exactly what my problem with the tape was. I don't know if I had some very slight allergy to the adhesive that got worse the more I used it, or if it had something to do with using too much tape on my chest than my skin could handle, or if maybe bc I have eczema in a few places the skin on my chest is also too sensitive?? I don't know. maybe someday I can give it another go and try to figure it out.

but my point is, the issues I had with the tape that are preventing me from using it might not necessarily be problems for you, so if you are interested and are able to, I recommend looking into this particular method of tiddy-taming!!

it doesn't work for everyone, but goddamn, when it does work it is so flipping good. 😫💔

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crowsa · 2 years

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For Who?: A Disgruntled Review of the For Them “Binder”

2.5 stars

Don’t get me wrong, the For Them product has many good features, but it cannot in good faith be called a binder.

Although the compression and security is real, this binder works like and creates the shape of a sports bra. It leaves you with a rounded, thick-chested appearance. It feels very held-in-place I can say that much, but it is hard to wear and does not do much to alleviate dysphoria. Were the binder exceedingly comfortable, or safe to be used for physical exertion, the shaping failure could be forgiven. But it is not. It compresses and seems to get tighter over time, from the second it's on to the moment before it's off, and without a doubt immediately and continuously enforces shallow breathing. Even as I sit typing this review, exerting nothing but brainpower, inhaling and exhaling regularly is a struggle. It takes effort. Maybe I got a size too small, but the size itself is not difficult to put on or take off; it doesn’t pinch. The material is nice and smooth, but I was skeptical as soon as I held it — it is over 60% spandex which contributes to this loose rounded shape and continual tightening sensation without actual flatness.

In terms of actually receiving the thing, it was a mild nightmare. I had high hopes for this binder when I followed an Instagram ad to order it in early May; I thought it might give me something to wear for the summer, even on its own. Somehow, my order never came through; it was never shipped; then it was out of stock; then it was out of color; and finally, the final week of August, when September starts in a week, I received this binder. The customer service was interesting during this time. They texted me back, but not with a lot of detail or regularity. And all I got for the three-month delay in receiving this hopeful investment venture was a binder in grey (when I originally ordered navy blue and then requested orange for their first offered replacement, which was out), and the promise of 10% off a future order. I wish this product was fulfilling enough that I wanted to get another. If the product was absolutely great, I wouldn’t even mention the company’s apparent organization struggles. However, it mostly leaves me feeling misunderstood.

After twenty minutes of sitting and wearing the For Them binder, I’ve been constantly aware of my breathing and my chest, and I still have a rounded hump there. What else can I say. I wish I could wear this as a compromise for activities or chill hanging out, because it definitely has more compression than your average sports bra, but it's so uncomfortable it’s making my back hurt just sitting at home. I’m not disappointed ,because throughout the months of not receiving it and upon a closer look at the promotional photoshoots, I got a pretty diminished-hope sense of how it would be.

If you want to have a smaller but still visibly rounded and prominent chest, and don’t mind feeling increasingly constricted, if you want to feel like you’re wearing a binder without the results of wearing one — maybe this product is for you. If you have genuine chest dysphoria and desire livability with a flat feel and appearance, don’t waste your time and money on a For Them binder. Primarily, it only reinforced my feeling that I desperately need to get top surgery so that I never have to wear a binder again.

I’m going to go take it off now. In further consideration, the most helpful thing this binder might do is give me even more increased back pain that leads my insurance to more smoothly cover a breast reduction. <3

#for them #forthem #binder #review #forthem binary #nb #non binary #chest dysphoria #doesn’t get your chest flat

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binder-reviews-by-arden · 2 years

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forthem binder review

i just received this binder in the mail, and decided to post a review. details under the cut

i was a size "ethereal" in this brand. First off, can I mention how much I hate the sizing this company uses? “we dont do sizing bc body positivity” honestly id rather be called fat then go through that confusing shit. picking out your body shape was also confusing as hell, none of those looked like my shape at all. in an effort to be body positive, they just ended up being really confusing and honestly a little insulting. like, come on. kindred? ethereal? fire? amethyst? balance? what the hell do those even mean. i get its supposed to be like “omg sizes dont really MEAN anything” but since they GET the sizes from the apex chest measurement, it would make SO MUCH MORE SENSE for the sizes to just have a number that represent that measurement. way easier than taking the stupid fucking customization quiz every time you wanna see your size. if you were so concerned abt people seeing a number associated with their body, then why are you having measurements at all? if you acknowledge that measurements are incredibly important for clothing (which they are), then WHY are you trying so hard to avoid that fact when giving people their sizes. just condescending especially since the person who made the goddamn things LOOKS pretty thin to begin with so like… who is this helping. just feels off to me. does anyone feel GENUINELY better about themselves bc a quiz called them size “fire” instead of a size “40” after their chest measurement?

but back to the actual binder review. The binder was pretty easy to put on, no issues there. The colour I got for "forest green". The fabric feels kind of like thick swimsuit fabric. It pinched a little under my armpits but I'll go into why I don't want to get a bigger size later. This is likely just due to my stupid disproportionately large ribcage than a flaw with the company's sizing. The reversible style of the binder was pretty interesting. It was fairly comfortable to wear.

As for the actual binding quality? Not good, and worse than all of the binders I've previously reviewed. Honestly fits like a sports bra, which is weird because I could feel it compressing: I got that kind of breathless feeling right after I took it off. The compression I could feel was roughly the same feeling I got with my gc2b binder, except the gc2b binder made me considerably flatter. This is likely due to the front panel design, while the forthem binder is just the same all around. This is the reason why I don't want to get a size up, since it would likely be completely useless even as a bra. I was in the middle of the measurement for my size too. The pinching will likely go away when it stretches though, and i remember a similar feeling when wearing my gc2b binder for the first time.

Comparison of my wearing the forthem binder in a tight-ish t shirt vs a regular bra in the same t shirt:

overall, would i recommend this binder? No, it's not worth the price. These binders cost $48, I got mine for a little less because I found a coupon code but that's way too much for what you get. Considering returning it so I can use the money to buy a different binder. It's comfortable but only a little more comfortable than my gc2b binder and that one compresses way better, so I'd just recommend getting a gc2b.

(a side note: im not trans (butch lesbian), but i tagged the post as such so this review would reach people most likely to buy and wear binders so it's as helpful as possible for anyone trying to find good binder brands. just wanted to clear things up in case anyone was wondering, don't want to claim stake within a community im not technically apart of)

#Butch #Cosplay #Binders #Binder review #Trans #Nonbinary #Transmasc #Lesbian #Forthem #Binder

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ruthiesrambles2 · 1 year

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Got a ForThem binder and it's not very compressing at all but it's somehow still so gender???? Affirming???? Euphoria????

Like i still have tits but they're no longer the first/only thing you see when you look at me

Also!!!!! So fucking comfy. Like wearing air. Which at my size is impressive af.

#I wanna size down tbh but the risk of compressing any more than this is too high whilst I still chestfeed #Binder #nonbinary #For them #ForThem

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mygiftsy · 5 months

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#mygiftsy #handmade #flowercombos #alloverindiashipping #booknow #love #forher #forhim #forthem #delivery #homedeliveryservice #Midnightdelivery #SameDay #hurryup

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akashballoo · 6 months

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loving from a distance 🪦

#taylorthomas #music #breakup #forthem #Spotify

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loversplayground · 7 months

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Looking for something different to tantalize and satisfy? Try the double-sided INYA Pump N Vibe. One side features interchangeable suction cups suitable for vaginal, breast, and all over body play. The opposite end features a silky smooth rechargeable massager with powerful speeds and functions.

#inya #forhim #forher #forthem #nsnovelties #pumpnvibe #adultsonly #pleasureproducts #loversplayground

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sunshinestayy · 11 months

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i wrote this for the love of my life

one day i'll be brave enough to tell you these words instead of hiding behind them...

Note: 'Axel Engelbrecht' is a pseudonym. I've kept my love's name hidden for obvious reasons lol).

(I'll probably publish all my "love letters" here since I can't give them to 'Axel'. Not yet anyway.)

(Thanks for reading:]).

30 March 2023

dear axel

one day you’ll read this. maybe not. maybe it’ll stay here forever, lost in the archives to collect digital dust. maybe it’ll find its way to you. if it does, i hope it finds you in love, light, and happiness.

i can’t lie and say that my heart doesn’t shatter, and my stomach doesn’t drop whenever i see, hear about, or picture you with someone else. merely typing that brought tears to my eyes. it’s selfish of me, i know. you are the last person that i want to be selfish with or towards, but i can’t help it. i am selfish with you because i want to be the one. i want to be yours, and i want you to be mine, neither possessively nor from a place of objectivity. i’d like us to share one house, one home (because a house and a home are two different things), one heart, one life, one love. ours as separate vessels may be imperfect and not in working order, but maybe we can build something so strong, powerful, beautiful, and everlasting together.

i’m willing to do whatever it takes. i’m willing to suffer for ten, fifty, a hundred more years if it means that, in the end, i have you to hug, kiss, hold, laugh with, love, and cherish for all the days of my life. i’m willing, able, and ready to get out of my comfort zone; to try new things, struggle through what makes me uncomfortable, embarrassed, and/or afraid. i will fight for you and defend you from everyone who tries or thinks of even hurting you. when necessary, i’ll defend you from myself. i would and will do anything for you; not just as your partner/person, but also as your friend, confidante, companion, and whatever else you need me to be.

if you let me, i promise that i will try my hardest to make you happy all the days of my life. i will be faithful, honest, respectful, and i will try my best. i’m not perfect at all. i still look in the mirror – and/or i look within – and i wish that i was a different person. i wish that i was better than what i am; that i wasn’t as stubborn, self-deprecating, insecure, self-sabotaging, fearful, and weak. i only ask that you love and accept me as i am, and i will do the same.

i will screw up. i’ll say and/or do the wrong thing every once in a while. i won’t always get it right. i won’t always be happy. i will have my moments where i push you away even when every cell in body is screaming at me to reach out to you for help and support. please bear with me, and please forgive me for any pain i may put you through. with all my heart, i promise that it is not intentional. hurting you is the last thing i want to do – i swear.

i also don’t want to restrict or change you, or make you feel like you have to behave a certain way or do/say/think differently. i love you for you; and not for what the unrealistic and idealistic parts of my brain dictate the love of my life to be (no doubt due to me consuming too much romantic fiction for my health). i don’t want or need a perfect love. i just need you and your love.

i love you, and i want you to let me to in a way that will cross the boundary of a typical friendship. i would also love it if you felt the same, and i do not wish for you to feel coerced or pressured into returning my feelings. in fact, if you feel even an inkling of doubt at any point in time, just say the word and i’ll back off. i’ll let you go. i’ll set you free. no doubt, it’ll be one of the most agonising and difficult things i’ll ever do, but i want you to be happy even if it is without me and/or because of someone else.

i felt an inkling of this sensation when we first got to know each other, but now that i’ve known you for over a year i can confirm and declare it with confidence. you are my person. you are it for me. you are my endgame.

when i was (or thought i was) in love in the past, it fogged my mind. it completely consumed me and became my identity. i almost made the same mistake with you, but the breakup – and the few months we weren’t talking – really opened my eyes. i learned that pursuing a romantic relationship with you instead of simply appreciating the relationship we already had nearly destroyed you. when i’m not hyper-focused on my feelings for you, i can truly enjoy my time with you. i can be present in the moments and the memories in the making. i can learn more about you, and i can learn more from you. i become calmer and more centred.

loving you is no longer the centre of my life. it, however, makes my life more enjoyable and worthwhile. it makes me want to be a better person. you make me want to be a better person.

you’ve taught me some of the most important lessons in my life – including how to not take things for granted; how to persevere through the difficult times; how to find happiness in the unlikeliest of places; etc. above all, you have taught me what true love is. love is not a Wattpad book, romance movie, or a painless and picture-perfect scenery.

love is challenging, complex, confusing, and not for the faint of heart. it has no recipe, formula, or structure. it is the strongest and most fragile thing to ever exist. it exists in abundance, and humanity often takes it for granted, and misuses, misinterprets, and wastes it. love is not an end goal or destination. it is not a beginning or end. it’s a-fucking-lot, that’s what it is.

however, it is worth it. when you have the right person, the amount of tears, sacrifice, suffering, pain, and difficulty pales in comparison to the ultimate joy, blessing, gift, and treasure that is love.

axel, you are worth waiting for.

you are worth fighting for.

you are worthy and deserving of the greatest and most beautiful love to ever exist.

i hope and pray that i will be that lucky person who will give you the love that you deserve.

in case it wasn’t already clear, i love you. with a clear, sound, sober, and unbiased mind – and a determined and persistent heart with quite a few abrasions and stitches in it – i love you. differently and more than i have ever loved anyone in my life. i love you. i admire you. i respect you. i appreciate you.

i want you in every capacity, every category, every city, scenario, universe, timeline, and lifetime.

my belief in god wavers every day, but my belief in us is as solid as the house that was built on the rock. i truly believe that you are my person, and i will continue to work hard to be the person that you deserve.

one day – god willing – we’ll live in a spacious apartment/house/dwelling/whatever together. we’ll have at least 2 bedrooms and a guest room, so that you can sleep in your own room when you need your space, and you can have a sleepover in mine whenever you want. we’ll get tile flooring so that we don’t have to worry about vacuuming. we’ll get a dishwasher, or i’ll wash and rinse the dishes and you can dry and pack them away. you’ll sweep and i’ll mop. we’ll both handle laundry. we’ll teach each other new recipes; i’ll try my best to nail your ouma’s date bread and you’ll get me hooked on mango cheesecake.

should we ever marry – which is my greatest heart’s desire – i will ask for your sister's permission, because i know how much she means to you.

if i’m rich enough, i’ll get someone to perform for us at our wedding. i highly doubt that it’ll be skz, but i’ll make sure that this artist does our songs justice.

i want to give you the world, for you make mine better by simply being in it.

i love you, axel engelbrecht, with everything that i am. everything that i will be.

i am so grateful that you exist, and i am so grateful that i know you, and that you are part of my life.

you are my person, my best friend, my happiness, my laughter, my joy, my hope, my love, my confidence, and everything that you are is phenomenal. everything that you are is more than enough for me.

here always,

your sunshine

#sunshinestay #loveletter #lover #unrequitedlove #secretlove #herealways #bysunshinestayy #forthem

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forlovewithlove520 · 1 year

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………………………………………………………………………… “Soak up every moment, be generous with your love, and be thankful for those who love us back” — Jacquelyn Middleton Saturday morning I had plans to visit some wedding venues and meet with the coordinators of these locations when my heart decided it was going to give me hell. For the past 2 1/2 years i’ve been dealing with a heart related issue due to my covid infection which occurred at the beginning of the pandemic. Randomly, with no warning my heart will set off on its own course and rhythm and it takes a hospital and a team of doctors and nurses to administer medicines to me to get it back beating correctly again. Well, just before I took my first sip of coffee in the morning it happened. I was fortunate to have my friend with me who took me to the emergency room where I spent the morning and afternoon getting treated. I also had another incredible person who stayed and checked on my condition minute by minute until I was discharged. Without either of them my terrible day would have been absolutely miserable. I don’t have the right words to describe what it means to me to have these beautiful people in my life, especially when it’s always been difficult for me to ask for help. I’ll just say I am beyond grateful and the love I have for them is unparalleled. Without them I would have driven myself to the hospital, and I would have laid in the emergency room alone trying to calm my nerves. I would have been asking myself “Why me?” over and over again, but instead I have these amazing people in my life who I am blessed by every day and their presence made a very uncomfortable situation bearable. It doesn’t take much to show someone you care, but things like this can change the world, one person at a time; we need more of it. I am forever grateful to them. — Mark ~ For Love, With Love #forlovewithlove #tucsonphotographer #weddingphotographer #engagementphotography #elopementphotography #weddingphotography #portraitphotography #love #connection #unconditionallove #tucson #arizona #forthem #gratitude #mg #byron (at Tucson, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ch2Do82rFa9/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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