#I am queer

[captainjackscoat]

I want to go to a gay bar

However I do not want to go to a gay bar because I do not, nor will I ever, drink alcohol. I do not particularly want to be around drunks.

So instead of a gay bar, I propose a Queer Cat Cafe.

Non allergenic cats ofc

There's a section of the cafe where the cats can't go if you don't want cats near you. That section is the library.

There are lil pride flags everywhere, even the obscure ones.

They sell pride pins for £1.50ish each at the counter.

There are LED lights.

It's autism friendly, lights can be toned down if needed and everything is neatly spaced out

You can have a sticker to write your pronouns on

Mostly queer artists/songs played

feel free to add on

#lgbtqia #queer #gay #lesbian #bisexual #transgender #nonbinary #agender #genderqueer #genderfluid #pansexual #aromantic #asexual #polysexual #omnisexual #demisexual #demiromantic #biromantic #panromantic #skoliosexual #here queer and filled with fear #cats #cat cafe #I like cats #I like cafes #I like queers #I am queer #I am unfortunately not a cat #or a cafe

[witchyplantmc]

happy pride month!!

#smp #minecraft #mineblr #minecraft build #minecraft house #minecraft interior #minecraft server #minecraft survival #sildurs shaders #aesthetic minecraft #cottagecore #farmhouse #mossystonewall #survival build #aesthetic #i am queer #also i got accepted into UP #so yay more gays #the last pic is a different house in a different server lmaooo #filipino

[i-m-crazy]

I just want a butch to make my wildest fantasies real. Fuck.

#butch nsft #tumblrpost #tumblr culture #lmao yeah #i am queer #queer nsft #queer life #lgb rights #lgbtq #sapphic #smut #eat my pussy #eatmeout #please #fuckkkk

[specialagentartemis]

“You should listen to this podcast because it’s SUPER QUEER—“ every podcast is super queer. If at the end of your pitch I know all the main characters’ sexual orientations and genders but not even the premise of the story, I’m going to have to assume it has nothing else worth saying about it.

#I am queer #but I’m also spoiled for choice #So give me any reason to pick up YOUR book/podcast/whatever #‘It’s queer!’ so’s everything I read/listen to. Give me literally anything else to go on

[neonjazzparty]

Finally updated my Meet the Artist

Fun fact: I am not a person but a concept

#art #cartoon #drawing #me #meet the artist #oc #counting myself an original character actually #other things about me: I can't speak spanish #i am in college #i keep my room immaculate according to my friends #i can't cook because i think it's boring #i am 5“3 #i am queer #i need glasses but dont wear them #i am told my willpower is scary becase i will simply command my body to not do something like get food poisoning #i have a scar on my forehead i dont remember getting but have always had #i try to be normal and fail everytime #i cosplay at conventions #i fully believe i will be famous at some point in my life and i love that for me

[purplecatgurl321]

don’t understand that whole “man in uniform” thing but i do think abt women in armor at least 7 times a day

#I am queer #women

[scenicphoenix]

Came out to my mom today. Went about how I thought it would. She isn't fully supportive or understanding, but she doesn't hate me. She is indeed very happy she can keep calling me a girl and by my birth name, she got VERY lucky that I give no shits about pronouns. Especially when I am not a people pleaser, I won't adhere to social norms for others. My mom is probably very aware of this, because she had to deal with me as a kid.

What I didn't really expect is that she is giving me advice on going to pride. She suggested to get a hotel/motel and spend the two days pride will be going on. My mom just suggested to spend a weekend to be Queer, my not fully supportive mom, my mom that doesn't get it, my mom is suggesting I spend a weekend being gay. My Christian mom is suggesting I go be gay as shit for a weekend, my mom.

#i am queer #queer community #queer #queer pride #lgbt community #lgbt pride #lgbt+ #pride month

[funkyalienz]

my FUCKING GIRLFRIENDDS no they dont smoke weed

#polyamory #lesbians!! #oh my god i’m gay #i love my polycule #i am QUEER #insanely queer even i also love writing whatever the fyck i want in the tags #my art

[mintmatcha]

I thought you were straight mint? When did that change!?

i haven't identified as straight since I was 16 hahaha.

#i am queer

[fullofcake]

Having some very queer thoughts rn

#i am queer #queer #queer thoughts #lgbtq #hehe hoohoo

[glamgoblin]

Okay but where is MY queer coffee shop where everyone gets to be queer and have yummy little treats

#the eclipse #no seriously I want to live there #some things you may need to know about me #i am queer #i love coffee #i love cakes and danishes etc #where is my coffee shop gmmtv???? #no but fr kans omg we can’t be here what if people think we’re gay im not ready for that #and akks okay but wait #both experiences baby me had

[canyouhearthelight]

So, @mustachebatschaos reblogged something that I need to talk about, in a good way. Their post is here.

It talks about the knowledge and history gap between older and younger members of the LGBTQIA+ community. I won't rehash, that's why I linked it.

The two things I want to comment on are the "Q Slur" and "bi/pan people need their own terms". Mostly bc I am a victim of both.

I'm not sorry. I identify as "queer". Because I don't know if I'm bi or pan, or demi, or whatever the term is for "Attracted to everyone until you prive to be ugly in your soul". Because I don't know if I feel more feminine or masculine... And I just don't care. Because I am lucky enough that my life doesn't require me to have or need a label. I was born female, I look female, and no one cares that I would prefer waterboarding to daily makeup. Or that my hair dryer sees more use shrink wrapping vinyl than drying my hair. Or that I like men's shirts and no bra or pushup bra, there is NO in between.

So. I'm queer. The default "not straight". I'm bent.

But also... I never had the chance to figure anything out beyond "I like both".

When I was at the point in my life where I should have learned all that, trans people were still beaten in the street where I lived. I knew 1 trans woman, and she couldn't get GCS bc she is HIV positive, so she could "pass" as a gay drag queen.

Side note: FUCK passing, bc she was trapped.

But as a bi/pan/idk womanish thing... I wasn't a lesbian, so the only culture I got was as "an experiment". A "past time". At absolute best, "picking a side".

So, I get it. I get that younger LGBTQIA folks don't know all the history bc we are hard wired to react. But some of it...

Help us fill in the gaps. Share what happened after. I would LOVE to know what the term is for "I am entirely apathetic to gender. I present as these clothes fit, I don't hate my body, and I have a trauma related requirement for a ponytail"? What is the term for "sex is a sport. Unless your soul is ugly, then it's torture and I'd rather wash dishes" and "sharing a pizza and watching you play video games can be more intimate than sex"?

When we have words for that, I will 100% them. And until then, I will 100% use your terms for yourself, bc you know the words, and that is AMAZING.

But I will also just call myself queer until then. Bc I don't know what the fuck else to use.

#lgbtqia #lgbtqa+ discourse #lgbtqia community #queer #i am queer

[i-m-crazy]

POV: likes red haired ppl

#netflix #tumblrpost #tumblr culture #red haired girl #tv shows #original charcters #phineas and ferb #tally craven #vi arcane #kissae #muted webcomic #webtoon #webtoon lgbt #sadie sink #sansa stark #chloe beale #lgbt pride #i am queer #girl huh

[kairos-polaris]

fast way to check if you are queer: kiss me. if nothing changed, congratulations, you were always queer. if you feel differently, congratulations, you are queer now

#explanation #i am queer #and nonbinary #kissing me turns people queer #shitpost #rambles

[aniseandspearmint]

*sees a post on my dash*

*idly starts to read*

*realizes it's a FUCKING INSANE thing on how the person realized they were bi in HS but they the power of their FAITH and they have decided to FIGHT this and gawd bless YOU can too!*

... what the ACTUAL fuck where is this FROM

*scrolls to the top*

'sponsored' ugh.

*goes to OPs blog and blocks them* since I can't report it for anything apparently.

Ugh. Ick. *makes a face*

Institutionalized, ernest self hate framed as religious happiness. Gross. I feel so freaking sorry for them. Hope they can actually accept themselves someday and be happy with who they are.

#there goes my streak of only blocking bots i guess #me #my life #this is an unapologetically PRO LGBTQA+ BLOG #i am ace #i am aro #i am QUEER #i believe in a higher power #and i am 100% sure that god does not care that i am aro ace and queer

[thorne1435]

I think by doing so much vaguely-flirtatious online conversation with so many different people, I've convinced every algorithm logging my existence that I am a single queer woman who is looking for love.

#i am not single #i am queer #im basically a woman #love is nice i guess