#apagender pride

[dietcolqz]

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Pride Month Art Challenge !!! <33

Day 25 :: apagender (gender-apathetic) <3

:: it’s mee- I guess, I only added apagender to this months challenge so I have a reason to draw myself, and make myself more visible to the apagender community soooo- yeah hello.

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#dietcolqz #eduarjoncanon #persona #persona art #irl persona #irl persona art #irl art #irl #apagender #apagender pride #gender apathetic #gender apathetic pride #pride month art challenge #30 days of pride #30 days challenge #pride month

[emojis-for-weirdness]

#androgynous #apagender #aporagender #alexigender #cassgender #gender questioning #trans pride #nonbinary #emoji #emotes #my emoji #custom discord emoji #custom emoji #custom emojis #madness combat #madcom #pride

[dizzy-lights]

f2u apagender shiny pixel gif!

requested by @spideykiddie

#apagender #gender apathetic #ID in alt #requests #web decor #page graphics #pride pixels #rentry resources #carrd resources #moth's shiny flags #moth's original content

[artistic-lj]

Okay so I “made” a new gender apathetic/apagender flag because the one I found/we have was just kinda lacking for me?? Like it’s okay and I don’t dislike it, but I thought it needed something

So the current one, according to gender fandom wiki or whatever (https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Gender_Apathetic), is by @pridearchive (idk why I can’t tag them but I also just don’t understand tumblr so oh well)

But anyway, I’m not a huge fan of the fact that a lot of the definition relies upon the usage of the word “lazy” a lot, because like, while it’s true that laziness and apathy are similar, they are not the same. I was confused for MONTHS as to why everyone around me cared so much about their gender, both cis and trans people, and I just didn’t. Like, I thought my dad might understand cause we talk about queer stuff all the time and he was like “???… but I am a man, that’s just a fact… are you saying there’s people who don’t care??” And that confused me more cause I was like “wait even cis people care that much about their gender expression??” Because for me, I thought that trans people really cared about their gender identity and expression because of the dysphoria they dealt with from being born as the opposite sex. So, to hear that cis people also have a strong sense of gender and really care about the way they present and are perceived threw me for a loop.

So I went down this rabbit hole for, as stated previously, MONTHS, just trying to figure out if anyone felt the way I did because I felt fucking crazy. No one else spoke about not caring about their gender identity, not caring if someone called them a guy or a girl or something in between. I found labels like Aporagender (“a gender identity that is neither masculine, feminine or inbetween the two but nonetheless involves a strong sense of gender; a term similar to maverique.” - https://en.pronouns.page/dictionary/terminology#aporagender) and genderfluid (“a gender that varies, or changes over time.” - https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Genderfluid) and bigender (“a gender identity which can be literally translated as 'two genders' or 'double gender'.” - https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Bigender) but none of them felt right, even if I liked their flags.

But then, out of frustration, I decided to google “what is it called when you don’t care about your gender” and gender apathetic popped up. And I read the description and I felt so… understood. I felt like, no matter how small the group was, I had finally found people who understood me and felt the way I did. And then, because I’m annoying and visual, I saw the flag… and I was just… feeling very… ehhh…

Like, the brown, purple/lavender/light blue, white, and gray on their own aren’t inherently bad, but something about it just felt bland and… nothing like the sense of relief I felt when discovering I wasn’t alone.

And then I clicked through onto the post about the meanings of each color and began to like it even less

But, I pushed forward, ignoring my dislike of the color arrangement and meanings behind them and sharing my newfound label/identity and flag with my friends. I finally felt like I had something I understood.

That is, until one night when I got bored. And I started searching for flag makers to see what was out there. I came across a Reddit post about a custom flag builder (https://www.reddit.com/r/lgbt/comments/ooz3tb/custom_pride_flag_builder/) which lead me to Team Ultima’s custom pride flag maker: https://www.teamultima.org/flag/

Needless to say, as an artist and someone who’s nitpicky about colors and designs, I was stoked to find something that allowed so much creative control! After messing around with it for a bit, I made this:

Now, I know it’s not really that different from the current flag. But, to me, this feels a lot more balanced and cohesive. With the one by pridearchive, the “light blue,” which we all know is just lavender tbh, was the only color that had a bright saturation besides the white. Our eyes are naturally drawn to it and this does not allow our eyes to flow along the flag and take it all in. We kinda see the purple and get stuck there. Not only that, because we expect white to be in the middle of pride flags (as well as Im sure a lot of other color theory reasons that I’m not knowledgeable enough to know of or explain), the flag felt top heavy and uneven, with no equivalent saturated color along the bottom. The flag was lacking horizontal symmetry and I think/hope I did a good job of bringing it to this flag without it feeling like it’s too much or too little.

With all that being said here are my/the new and improved color meanings:

Brown - The natural human desire to find a sense of belonging and community, even if said community is formed around having a label for not caring about labels. It can also represent the warmth and security felt by having a label that represents how you truly feel.

Light Blue - A feeling of tranquility and peace towards one’s gender identity and expression

White - The limitless void of possibilities in which one can express themselves

Lavender - The mixture of all genders, feminine, masculine, neither, and everything in between

Gray - Lack of gender stagnation, not caring if one’s gender presentation is not as simple as black or white

Anyway, I’ve never posted anything like this before so… lemme know if I’m totally doing it wrong and all my color meanings are terrible and way off base or whatever. I’m gonna make a separate post of just the flag and the color meanings and whatever so that people don’t have to read all my dumb backstory to get to the actual “redesign” 💅💅

#apagender #gender apathetic #lgbt pride #pride flag #pride flag redesign #pride flag design #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #pride archive #color meanings #lgbtqplus #idfk what to tag this #idfk how to tag this #i know what you are #bruh #I know as much about how to tag this as I care about what pronouns people use for me #help #uhhhh #i guess thats a tag #I guess that’s enough

[ryanyflags]

Apogender × apagender or cassgender combo?

Apogender, apagender / gender apathetic, and cassgender combo flag

I tried to simplify the stripes a bit to make the combo flag work. Apogender was simplified down to just three stripes, light green, black, and dark green. The light green and black of cassgender was also combined with the other light green and black of apogender. Gender apathetic is the top three stripes, with the grey moved to the bottom. The light purple was combined with the light purple/blue/greyish color of cassgender. The light yellow color from cassgender was moved to the bottom.

The three flags used,

#apogender #apagender #gender apathetic #cassgender #pride flag #combo flag #request

[kawaiicow10]

#gender #gender apathetic #apagender #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtqia #trans #transgender #lgbt pride #queer #mood #moodboard #pastel #sweet #aesthetic #aesthetics

[sadlysweet]

Subtle flags: Gender Apathetic/Apagender

#pride flags #flags #uhhh #pride month #pride #happy pride 🌈 #nonbinary #apagender #subtle pride #the subtle art of not giving a f*ck #subtle flags

[unogayart]

Hello

PANSEXUAL APAGENDER/GENDER APATHITIC

#pansexual #happy pride 🌈 #apagender #gender #pronouns #gender identity #gender apathetic

[just-here09]

Happy Pride Month everyone! :D

#pride month #non binary #apagender #bi oriented aroace #queerplatonic #I'm happy to be me :)

[gender-jargon]

is there a cis apathetic flag?

Hey anon, thanks for you question. :-)

I looked all over the place, but I wasn't able to find a cis apathetic flag. If you (or anyone else) would like to make a flag and submit it/tag me, please feel free to do so. I can also create one myself if requested. There are plenty of gender apathetic flags, though, but I couldn't find any that were specifically for cis apathy.

If anyone knows of one, please send me a message so I can link it here.

— Gent

#ask #cis apathetic #pride flag #cisgender apathetic #apagender #gender apathetic #cisgender #gender modality #term #inersgender #anvisgender #gender apathy #mogai community #liom community #transgender #nonbinary #lgbt #mogai #mogaireal #mogai safe #mogai positive #pro mogai #mogai friendly #mogai heaven #actually mogai #anon

[roonienoonie]

Hi Happy Pride guys

#pride #apagender #who give a shit #meme #shitpost

[keigora]

What nice timing to figure out my own gender identity, at the start of pride month nonetheless. I am Cassgender, meaning you feel gender is unimportant to your identity, or just feel completely indifferent to the concept of gender. I go by any pronouns! Happy pride! :0

#pride 2022 #cassgender #apagender #genderfluid #agender #kei #art #oc

[xxtrash-panduhxx]

Hey everyone, my name is Odyssey Morningstar! If you want, you can also address me by my nicknames “Ozzie” (can also be spelled Ozzy) and “Oz”.

I couldn’t really fit alot in due to limited space but if you have any questions or just want to get to know me more, send me a DM!

I am a very open minded person and very patient and understanding. I have discord and Instagram as well so if you want to add me there you can, just ask!

I mostly lurk but i will comment and engage on posts here and there.

{}~Thanks for reading~{}

#demigirl #pansexual #apagender #gender fluid #non binary #meet the artist #info sheet #introductory post #pride #lgbtqia

[am-i-obssed-probably]

1234

Open the closet door

5678

Your child is definitely not straight

Something something something

they also don’t care which pronouns you use

#gay #Pride #lesbian #bisexual #not straight #abrosexual #apagender #gender apathetic #poetry #I am a great poet #reading #this is me #this is my life #I miss the closet #lol jk

[artistic-lj]

Gender Apathetic/Apagender

According to https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Gender_Apathetic, “Gender Apathetic, also known as Apagender, Inersgender, or Anvisgender, is a gender identity in which one feels apathy towards one's gender.”

This flag is one that I made/redesigned based off of @pridearchive’s flag, the current Apagender flag.

Here are the color meanings and the hex codes I guess:

Meanings:

Brown - The natural human desire to find a sense of belonging and community, even if said community is formed around having a label for not caring about labels. It can also represent the warmth and security felt by having a label that represents how you truly feel

Light Blue - A feeling of tranquility and peace towards one’s gender identity and expression

White - The limitless void of possibilities in which one can express themselves

Lavender - The mixture of all genders, feminine, masculine, neither, and everything in between

Gray - Lack of gender stagnation, not caring if one’s gender presentation is not as simple as black or white

Hex Codes:

Brown - #7e4f20

Light Blue - #68d4fd

White - …do I really need to…? …fine… #FFFFFF

Lavender - #b6b8f9

Gray - #4b4b4b

#gender apathetic #apagender #queer #lgbtqplus #pride flag design #pride archive #pride flag redesign #pride #color meanings #color palete #color pallet #color theory #I feel kinda pretentious with all the color meanings but I feel like it’s better than making every one either bored or lazy #idk what else to tag #idfk how to tag this #new flag I guess #new flag #flag design #flag redesign #flag remake #flag recolor #hex codes #lgbtq community #lgbt pride #lgbtqia #lgbtqiia+ #lgbtq #lgb keep the fucking t you goddamn terfs why is lgb drop the t even in here #lgbt especially t #fuck jkr

[pan-demigirl]

Day Three of LGBTQ+ Challenge - How I came out/ how I will

I actually only came out four days funnily enough, but that was only about my gender (cassgender and apagender) but I did tell my sister. I am not old enough to move out and I’m quite worried about my parents not supporting me being pan so I am just trying to tell them when I am eighteen, the my think that this is just a phase. The way I want to come out is at my cousins house, she is also pan, and maybe just slide it into a conversation. I just don’t want to make a huge deal out of it. I know some people sit down with their parents and tell but that’s not for me.

#fyp #fyppage #challenge #lgbtq pride #lgbtq community #pansexaul #cassgender #apagender #apathetic gender #coming out #my story #day three