#aroace couple

[authorofdragons]

hey i made another tick tock

the fact rhat zerako has fire powers makes this even funnier get his ass z

#original character #oc #oc meme #skull & pyro #bonehill #zerako #oc tag #oc art #aroace couple #oc ship #aroace ship #asexual ship

[little-red-fool]

Astarion you’re not the most dangerous thing in this two-man party.

Part 2 (CW: body horror)

#also please dont ship these two ive seen a couple of people ship them in the tags and they arent even friends ahdhajdjs #Pascal is very much aroace and hates Astarion #my art #my oc #d&d #graverobber #warlock #shadar kai #bg3 #bg3 tav #dark urge #pascal cadapher blackthorn #astarion #lgbtq #trans #transmasc

[curiositysavesthecat]

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#tumblr polls #poll #polls #tumblr poll #lovers #incognito polls #asexual #asexuality #aromantic #aromanticism #arospec #aroace #aro pride #aromantism #aspec #romance #couple #relationship #relationships #queer

[royalarchivist]

Tubbo: [After Fit kills a bear] He doesn't know any better!

Fit: Look I just- I got a thing against bears, like-

Tubbo: No! No, no, it's fine.

Fit: With specifically bears on the QSMP. I just got a thing, ok? I got a thing.

Tubbo: Yeah, yeah, ok... Ok, he was bear chill and you did that to him, ok...

Fit: Things happen. Maybe that bear- maybe that bear shouldn't have gone out for fcking cigarettes, I dunno, that's just me.

Tubbo: Bears don't smoke.

Fit: [Incredulous scoff]

#FitMC #Tubbo #QSMP #Fit #January 18 2024 #The Spreen slander LMAO #Fit you know you guys weren't actually a couple right? #Spreen is the most aroace man I've ever seen #/RP

[beesinspades]

buddy daddies really gave us canonical queerplatonic partnership rep.....thank you so much I could cry ;a;

#buddy daddies #also not canon but rei is asexual and you can't change my mind #I'd even say aroace #anyway I just watched the finale and I'm!!! emotions!!!!! #what a beautiful surprise this anime turned out to be #please watch it if you can it's so worth it and so much more than it looks at first glance! #kinda sad there likely won't be a season 2 but this was a perfect ending #when I started the show I wanted them to become a couple but I changed my mind I'm so happy with this #bee talks

[scarlct-vvitch]

okay platonic soulmate where are you im ready to start our buddy sitcom

#look man im just sayin #a double aromantic sitcom would be KILLER #im ready #ive met a couple ace people before but never really any aro people #i do wish i had a couple aro friends #i think itd be helpful #aromanticism #aromantic #asexual #asexuality #aroace

[quitefair]

Anyway. Aro and Ace Resources upon ye.

Since we're almost at 2024, and coming out of all this horrendous aphobic discourse, I thought I'd put together a bunch of aromantic + asexual resources for people who are maybe questioning themselves, or want to know more (heck yes for learning!) Most of these are long form (Youtube videos/articles) because that's how I feel is best for learning, compared to shorter form content like TikTok.

Long post, resources under the cut!

Yasmin Benoit (she/her, aromantic asexual)

The first asexual activist I stumbled across all those years ago. She was infamously the reason for a lot of aphobic comments on twitter, because hey, she's also a lingerie model, and lord forbid somebody who identifies as asexual present... yknow. Sexy.

She's also a researcher, who's putting in the effort to depathologise asexuality and aromanticism, especially within psychiatry and mental health.

Youtube

Instagram

Website

Ace Dad Advice (they/them, asexual/agender/queer)

AceDad is one of my favourite a-spec activists. Their simple, easily digestible posts on Instagram outlining the various aspects of asexuality, aromanticism and agender (the triple As lmao) are a comfort to read. There's also lots of affirming stuff on there that's helped me with my own spiraling thoughts.

They've also written a book about asexuality! Which is one that I've yet to read, but am looking forward to.

Youtube

Instagram

Website

Spacey Aces

A collective of neurodivergent a-spec humans making videos on asexuality, aromanticism, queer platonic relationships, neurodivergence... a whole lotta fun stuff! Their videos are soft and comforting and very affirming.

Youtube

Instagram

Nik Hampshire (he/him, aromantic)

So Nik doesn't make Youtube videos anymore, but he's done a series on what it means to be aromantic but not asexual, which I feel is super important to add to the online conversation! This one's for all the allo/aros out there, he's chill and confident and talks about things in a very enthusiastic way. Love him!

Youtube

Instagram

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Misc videos (I'm sure you've seen these around before)

Jayden Animation's coming out video

Being AroAce Doesn't Ruin Your Life | Alice Oseman's Loveless by shaggyjebus

Rowan Ellis' interview with Alice Oseman (author of Heartstopper, who is herself aroace)

Anthony Padilla

I spent a day with asexual people

I spent a day with aromantic people

(the titles are a little clickbaity, but trust me the conversation is honest and respectful. anthony is honestly such a good interviewer.)

The Sci Guys

Science of Asexuality

Science of Aromantics

bmudangel

My experience being Aromantic Asexual (AROACE)

I’m Happy To Be Aromantic Asexual

How being aromantic asexual affects my daily life

Questions Aromantic Asexuals Get Asked (Part 1)

#aromantic #asexuality #aroace #aspec #asexual #resources #reference #had this sitting in my drafts for a couple days now and needed to set it free lmao #happy new year lets be aggressively queer in 2024 #aroace tag

[lavenderspriggs]

me and Isaac watching all the side characters get romance plots

#I love heartstopper but it tired out my little aro brain a bit with all the couples #I’m glad to have Isaac on my side #heartstopper #heartstopper spoilers #aroace isaac #heartstopper isaac #aroace #aromantic #asexual

[cherrytea556]

Being aroace is like living as a background character lol.

#When a teacher called out to some school couple by 'romeo and Juliet' and dod not even say my name for cleaning i just knew #i just knew that i really am living as a background character lol #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aromantic asexual #*did for the first tag shit god dammit

[popcorn-plots]

*act like a married couple*

*constantly flirting*

*argue like an old married couple*

*cuddle on the couch, hold hands, can and will communicate like a married couple*

*can and will say 'i love you' whenever around the other*

*one of them is aro/ace and it is the absolute best platonic friendship a human being could ask for*

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #you know who you are #I love youuu #platonic #platonic relationships #old married couple #i'm also just tired and emotional and I missed my bestie today ToT

[sanyu-thewitch05]

I’m sorry, but the bisexual to asexual(or aroace) train is wild.

More talk in the tags

#I can’t be the only one who’s experienced this #I was literally questioning if I was bisexual for like a couple of months #you could probably find some posts mentioning it #the train went from bisexual to demisexual to asexual to aromantic then to grayromantic #like that is a lot of stops #asexual #ace #aromantic #aro #arospec #acespec #man the pandemic times were wild #aroace

[authorofdragons]

Skull & Pyro Update! Bonehill is Just Perpetually farting at this point

get this man some frebreeze

Whoa what the fuck is Skull & Pyro?

hi there its my comedy/adventure/fantasy webcomic about Bonehill, an intellectual who's too tired to be smart, and Zerako, a sweetheart pyromaniac. They're silly aroace qp husbands causing problems for everyone around them 🧡💛💙 also has a buff mom, airships, found family, & head bonks. You can read it on tapas or webtoon. Updates every other Monday!

#webcomic #asexual representation #aromantic representation #aroace representation #asexual couple #aroace couple #queerplatonic #skull & pyro #fantasy #comedy #adventure #aroace #asexual #webtoon canvas #tapas

[k-chips]

It's so funny when people ship aro and/or ace characters and they're like

"They're platonic partners!"

Like, WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN??? LMFAO

Just say they're partners 💀 aroace people aren't aliens, we can still have perfectly normal relationships 💀💀 lmfaooo

A "platonic relationship" is a friendship 🤣

(this came out by seeing people on TikTok talking about ships with Alastor from Hazbin Hotel lol)

#it's actually a bit ridiculous #if it's platonic it means they're not a couple lmao #but they kiss #so wtf does that even means #just say they're a couple amd don't fuck very often #or don't fuck at all #easy #we aroace people aren't aliens #hazbin hotel #alastor #the owl house #lilith clawthorne #radioapple #appleradio #this isn't about lilith actually #because there is no ship that actually works with her anyway #it's mostly about Alastor #aro ace #aromantic #asexual

[marsalta]

Take the happy Alastor

#scatters off into the abyss of Radioapple brainrot #hope everyone is having a good day :] #hiding in the tags while i talk #ive had a very shitty past couple of weeks ive been stressed non stop #finding comfort in a ship and seeing the support and love ive received on here and twt has been both wonderful and scary #especially an aroace character as on the aroace spec myself it means a lot #one day ill probabily make them kiss and make out but i really like drawing these simple domestic romanatic scenes i hope #people are enjoying them too #thats all :] look after urselfs drink some water eat something 🫵

[voxmilia]

Brennan knew exactly what the fuck he was doing to so many of us when he set up Oisin as being this physics wiz kid beer pong master and mentioning he fucks up THE REST OF THE NIGHT after ONE conversation with Adaine

#d20 #fantasy high #fhjy spoilers #fantasy high junior year #oisin hakinvar #adaine abernant #adaine o'shaughnessey #oisaine #fhjy #please dear god do not let him be evil #please they're so cute autism4autism #ace4ace wizard couple my beloved #demi aroace adaine with her first crush and mistaking it for anxiety my beloved #the idea that oisin had an interest in her since freshman year my beloved #christina.txt #i rambled to my friend about them and they are not leaving my brain

[keekeenuggets]

People act like shipping Alastor with anyone is a crime when like. There are literally aroace people who date/have relationships/have sex/etc. It may not be the majority, but there's nothing wrong with it. So like, people can ship what they want, just chill lmfao

#posts by 📲 #I'm not sure if him being aro is even canon but #the ace community is pretty bad at making ace people who have sex feel bad #or making it seem like asexuality inherently means being sex repulsed #but it does not! #so anyway #I ship staticradio/radiostatic 100% #a couple other Alastor ships are good too #people don't like acknowledging that sexual/romantic identities are NOT cut and dry #hazbin hotel #radiostatic #staticradio #also people can ship what they want regardless but it's still infuriating that people act like ace people can't or don't have sex #disclaimer: the majority of my system is on the aroace spectrum(s) #discourse