Btw Tolstoy was a piece of shit loser and an incompetent writer and His Wife Sofya was A Girlboss who had to give birth to more than 10 children and breastfeed most of them . She was also ill but still had to literally be her husband's writing assistant on top of every single house chore. And Dumbfuck-Loser-Lev literally left her a few years before he died (WELL DESERVED) and it left her in awful distress (which you can read about in her diaries) And She still Outlived Him
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self care night 💫🌙
(treating my ingrown toenail and foot fungus)
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me every single fucking time i see a picture of natasha romanoff anywhere:
i mean come on just look at her
girl is the prettiest to ever walk the earth
and the best part is she knows it ✊😌
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I've been debating on if I wanted to say something about this or not, but I realized that, in the end, nothing is going to change unless someone says something. And if y'all have an issue with what I'm going to say, I will be open to talking about this--with the understanding that its a good-faith discussion.
Either way.
People active in this fandom nowadays are so ready to call others out for anything from using AI to posting a picture they found on Pinterest. And I'm not saying that this stuff is okay, but I really think people need to reconsider putting others on blast for something as minor as one or two social missteps. Calling someone out shouldn't be used in situations like these, because all it's doing is publicly shaming them. Calling someone out (or shaming them via anon messages) is incredibly hostile and in the end just encourages people to stop interacting with the community entirely. I'm not even the target of these messages, but y'all are making me feel like I'm being watched what I say and do, else I'll be the one to get anon messages about me next. 99% of the time, calling out should be used when other (more private) messages have been ignored or the situation simply isn't safe.
Calling people out and shaming them for doing something they might not understand the nuance of is making this fandom an unwelcome space. Other creators have left the fandom and consciously decided not to come back because of behavior similar to this or being taken for granted. I've decided to stop writing simply because of the way people have treated my work in the past. Going to an anon blog and shaming someone, or making a post not naming names but being really obvious about who you are talking about, rather than actually talking about it, is making RA a hostile community.
In the end, if you have an issue with someone, or feel like there's some social cue that they missed, just message them. Publicly shaming them and starting arguments is not going to solve anything, but rather chase people away.
And for what it's worth, this is not the same for if someone is being openly, violently bigoted. Call someone in, privately, for missteps or genuine misunderstandings. Call someone the fuck out if they're being a violent bigot or if they're ignoring other calling in messages.
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Very disgusting and ignorant thing to say. “He just wanted to insert himself between Tamlin and Amarantha” Yes because a man who was raped for 50 years definitely “wanted it” and only did it because he liked drama. This was all just a love drama between Amarantha and Tamlin and Rhys wanted some attention. Definitely.
This fandom proving once again that they are weird when it comes to male SA victims. Do y’all realize that you sound like those modern day rape apologists who look for every reason in the world why someone was raped? “They wanted it” “It was just a lovers spat” “They just wanted attention” WAKE UP?
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