#being skinny is a privilege

[bluebmuf]

Healthy "What I eat in a day" ideas

#ed bllog #ed blr #thinspø #tw ana diary #tw ed diet #dark academia #aesthetic #healthy #low cal #low calorie diet #ed meals #thinspo #mealspo #what i eat in a day #fat loss #weight loss #being skinny is a privilege

[fiapple]

repeat after me: if you are the descendent of colonizers living on stolen land, you do not get to judge the methods of decolonial resistance movements.

#this isn’t in relation to the last reblog itself it just reminded me of something #thoughts #sarahofmagdelene has some good shorts about this on insta though #like specifically abt how it relates to white feminism + patriarchal notions of (white) womanhood #the skinny of it being that white women tend to impose the standards of white womenhood laid out by white patriarchy onto those who they ar #*womanhood #(​sorry all over the place today) #complicit in the oppression of with the added specifically racialized view of violent resistance through the lens of various savage tropes #have to get a copy of her book after the strike tbh #but yeah i think a lot about this in congruence with how authoritarianism is such a deeply engrained aspect of whiteness & how that itself #contributes to the attitudes being discussed here being so prevalent even among my fellow white people who consider themselves leftist or #progressive (& how that relates to how many white people are liberals/neoliberals posing as being farther left than they are) #but if we were to relate this specifically to the last reblog i would like to point out that another part of that is the whiteness frames #good & bad as an immutable either/or binary & the way super fucked up notions of purity play into whiteness #which (not an excuse absolutely not acting like this is still 100000% white supremacist at its core) is what leads my fellow white people t #be so fearful of having current or past wrong doings pointed out as such & why so many are more concerned with being seen as racist than w #the actual racism they perpetuate/garner privilege from #because that means being horrible with no chance of change (thoug oppressed ppl do 100% hold the right to view their oppressors as such #the white guilt this often leads to when self imposed is what leads to attitudes like the article from the last post describes) #(& so the difference of perspective in the oppressed feeling that way & the oppressor using it to self flagellate is v important here) #& all of this is ultimately rooted in the carcerality inherent to whiteness as a social construct #both in terms of the far worse tangible violence imposed upon poc (particularly black people & fn ppl here in canada) & the carceral view o #morality white “culture” imposes upon those white people who are unwilling to fully do the work to divest from whiteness #hope this is coherent #also if any of this is out of line plz lmk #but basically to cut to the chase power (& as a result empowerment of the oppressed) viewed through the lens whiteness has set for it will #always be fucked up & lead to completely racist conclusions about liberation movements for poc #& the reason i mention this in relation to decolonial movements specifically is due to whiteness being an inherently colonial construct it’ #*itself #racism

[hotgirlmuseboardxo]

just got bomb ass dick from a 6’2” man who brought me weed and left before midnight. i am WINNING this week baby

#w in the chat pls ! #i’m in my receiving era. which basically just means seeing what i can get from men for no more than being gorgeous #it’s surprisingly a LOT. pretty skinny privilege is real and i will be taking advantage while the getting is good 🫡 #the annoying thing is everyone falls in love w me when they meet me and i just wanna chill lolol likeee 😭

[despertara]

Irene bro if you see this I want you to know I've been podcasting (talking loudly and emphatically to myself) abt that Grammy Gun post for Hours. I started ranting in the rb tags and then I got so mad I started a spreadsheet on my phone Yes I have the Excel app. No I did not finish my tags

#Pacing around my house ''IN LIEU OF A PERSONALITY TAYLOR HAS A MARKETING STRATEGY AND THAT'S WHY WHITE AMERICANS LOVE HER'' #''BC SHE'S A WHITE GIRL NEPOBABY & THEREBY PERFECTLY EMBODIES WESTERN IDEALS: MARTYR COMPLEX + ARYAN PROFIT + QTY>QUALITY + CENTRIST + MID' #''AND IT'S PROBABLY TOO GENEROUS TO CALL HER A CENTRIST WHEN SHE'S NEVER REBUKED THE PPL WHO CLAIM HER AS THEIR ARYAN PRINCESS'' #''THE VENN DIAGRAM OF PPL WHO ARE SICK OF HEARING ABT PALESTINE AND PPL WHO CAPE FOR TAYLOR IS ALMOST CERTAINLY A SINGLE PERFECT CIRCLE'' #''IN WHAT WORLD IS SHE A TORTURED POET HER WRITING IS ON PAR WITH RUPI KAUR AND— WHO'S EMAILING ME FUCK OFF'' #In the shower ''AND ANOTHER THING'' #She's the physical manifestation of privileged ppl's desire to be oppressed bc they can't stand when the convo isn't abt them lmfaooooo #''it's hard for skinny white conventionally attractive cishet ppl whose fathers were bankers too!!! Don't erase my truth!!! 😭'' #''Taylor is the number one most streamed/whatever artist in the world'' #Popularity or notoriety? Bc the US is also well-known for Trump + Texas + public shootings + genocide + wasting money on football stadiums #But again! She's the Western/American Ideal Made Flesh! It's Punk To Have Money And Connections! #And Being White Is The Punkest Of ALL! #Oh my Christ I say this all the time but if university classes have to be offered on her they should be in Marketing and Ethics #She should be a business school case study and that is NOOOT a. Compliment #She couldn't even stick with country bc how truly country of an experience could she have had when her daddy was rich like #She doesn't have the range like idc if you like her just don't act like she's revolutionary when all her movements are calculated + LATERAL #It's not art it's business acumen please she is rewarded by the Grammies bc they respect her for upholding Capitalism I'm so tired #Remember when they gave AOTY to HARRY last year when Beyoncé and Benitito were RIGHT THERE #It's propaganda just like the news plzzzzzzzzzzzz you are all lemmings and she know it which is why she is so good at CONNING YOU #ME N BRO TAG #These are not the comments I wrote on that post you tagged me in btw I got out of the shower to write these FRESH #You know Kacey Musgraves is coming out w a new record too and even tho she got cut out of the CMAs last time she's still proudly country... #I am never drying my hair at this rate #Too busy explaining to you - in complete detail -..........

[selfindulgentfandomstuff]

My patience for skinny/nonfat ppl is at an all time low im so serious-

#vent #tw vent #vent tw #like the victim complex is so real with some of y’all #like ok you got bullied for being skinny #guess what #i got bullied for being fat too #and moreover I am denied medical care on an institutional level bc of fatphobia and ingrained medial bias #you are privileged in ways you don’t even know #and yet you have the gall to insinuate that you are more opressed than fat people who DIE from fatphobia routinely #i am ripping out your jugular with my teeth

[slimnotsorry]

“Men prefer curves!!!11!11!!!”

Has only ever been said to me by fat women. Usually after insulting my body by insinuating that I look like a boy, a child, or any other comparison meant to invalidate my femininity. This very long post sums up my thoughts about this “men prefer curves” sentiment.

First of fucking all. These are the same cunts that screech about feminism and “women supporting women” that are the QUICKEST to police my appearance in the name of appeasing the Straight Male Gaze™. Which I’ve never given a shit about. Every man on the planet could find me repulsive and I’d be relieved, not upset. Seems like the same women always preaching online about how happy and beautiful they are care a lot about what hetero men think of them.

Secondly, this is not a “hUmBLe bRaG” because I, again, genuinely couldn’t care less if men find me attractive or not. I have a sixteen inch difference between my waist and hips. I gave up on pants a good 7 years ago. I have a true hourglass figure naturally, regardless of my weight. A wide-ass pelvis which gives me a thigh gap at any weight/size. People are constantly pointing out my ass and how disproportionate it looks to my body. Which I don’t appreciate. I don’t appreciate any random body related comments. Point is, my body type is what almost anyone with functional eyeballs would call curvy. I have a lower waist-to-hip ratio than Beyoncé for fucks sake.

But apparently my body doesn’t count as curvy to these brainless asshats because my body fat percentage isn’t high enough (???) As if someone’s huge gut spilling over their sweatpants, shrouding whatever bone structure they may have underneath is the only thing that counts as “curves” 💀

Third, I have been fighting off men with a proverbial stick my whole adulthood and most of my adolescence because of the way I look. I’m hit on and leered at every time I leave the house. Sometimes I cannot make it to the end of my driveway without strange men pulling over in their cars and rolling down the window to ask for (or demand) my number (I wish I was exaggerating, this happening more than once is what prompted me to put another camera on the side of the house). If I’m having a particularly irritating day, I wear giant over-the-head earphones and dark sunglasses to discourage suitors from interrupting my day. Sometimes this isn’t enough. Boys as young as 12 and men as old as 70 approach me regularly and make comments about my body and proposition me for dates/sex/whatever. Occasionally women approach me to ask for my number too. It might sound really strange but I have spent years dressing down and wishing that I looked more average or invisible. Wishing for a more peaceful life and to be left alone. I’m not the type of person that’s ever enjoyed receiving any attention, especially from people I don’t know. It makes me anxious and puts me on edge. I want nothing more than to blend into the background and to not stand out.

So obviously when an overweight woman brazenly utters the phrase “men prefer curves” to my face in an attempt to put me down and imply that I’m unattractive, it’s clearly coming from a place of insecurity. I find it pathetic that so many women operate under the assumption that every woman who’s not overweight must be taking drastic and dangerous measures to keep thin with the goal of being more attractive to men. Which by the way, I strongly hold the belief that MOST straight men simply prefer whoever has the largest ass and breasts, which typically is overweight women (or surgically enhanced women). So I don’t even fully disagree with the underlying message of those words in and of themselves. It’s the context in which they are said to me which is so backwards it’s laughable.

God, if only they knew how badly I want to be left the fuck alone by men and the general public. To be able to move through life undisturbed. To not be viewed as a piece of meat that lacks autonomy and humanity by both men and women. If I could suddenly overnight put on 100 pounds and be invisible to society, I’d be crying with joy and relief.  I DREAM of the day when I’m finally considered “old” looking enough to no longer be conventionally attractive. Fuck, what a heavenly, PEACEFUL existence that must be. It’s really not the soul-crushing bingo they think it is to imply that men won’t want to fuck me because I’m too thin. It’s just a toxic, vain, contemptuous lashing-out from people who are desperate for male validation.

#I can already hear the comments and reblogs from people calling me arrogant and self absorbed #and accusing me of bragging #and of being a hater #and of being jealous #lol keep crying because you feel called out #feminism amiright #toxic #narcissistic #internalized misogyny #text #personal thoughts #sexism #bullying #anti fat acceptance #anti harassment #stop body shaming #skinny #skinny problems #thin privilege #men like curves

[ihophashbrowns]

bella hadid is allergic to serving and slaying its kind of incredible

#maybe if she wasnt a weirdo racist 😭😭😭 #and yet ppl gag over her its so crazy. but if i said WHY thts the case despite her being mid and racist no one would like it so. #actually i will say it. its because shes skinny and comes from a privileged background. #she has brought nothing new or interesting to her field. her smug blandness is tired like u can tell she thinks that #shes serving but anyone who doesnt have a sheep mentality can see the opposite 😭😭 #so sick of yt women getting famous off of being mediocre and NOTHING #🧁.txt

[whoviandoodler]

I sometimes feel bad for skinny people bcs they'll gain a bit of weight (often via natural weight fluctuation) and immediately have a system failure and thirty two identity crises and then start weeping instead of considering their relationship to fatness and the implications of being terrified to no longer be skinny like. this your first rodeo bud?

#weight mention #dan talks #this is half genuine bcs it sucks to be so insecure and scared of a natural and morally neutral thing #and half patronizing bcs like. they never reach any kind of self awareness??? #its just cycles upon cycles of hating fatness and contributing further to how our society views fat ppl #had this girl who was like skinny skinny start complaining abt how she was getting fat after eating #and i was just sitting there like hello??? u gonna. u gonna think abt that??? #eds aside skinny ppl will just cradle the status thinness gives them and never consider it aside from how to keep it #and then absolutely implode when it's threatened #like being fat sucks bcs of fatphobia but once u unlearn shit u get rid of such a huge burden of constantly trying to grasp that status #and then u just see ppl who have always been skinny and like. they never had to have that journey??? #theyll just keep perpetrating diet culture and all that bs and forever be trapped #even if theyre the privileged ones #idk where im going w this exactly its just a thought thats been circling in my mind today while going to the grocery store lmao #and where better to write down half-connected thoughts but on tumblr.com w/ replies turned off

[how-bout-i-tell-you-anyway]

i've seen so many tiktoks of skinny people saying that they can also relate to "fat funny friend" and not to gatekeep but for the love of god please stop.

it's not just about who has the right to be sad and relate to the song. it's about us non-skinny people having a safe place where we're all experiencing the same bias and we can reassure ourselves that we're just enough as we are. please just give us this you have everything else

#tiktok #funny fat friend #song #fatphobia #skinny privilege #self esteem #safe place #being fat #just let us exist #please #give us one thing #please just one

[bluebmuf]

If you can't control your diet how will you control your life?

#ed blr #thinspø #tw ana diary #dark academia #tw ed diet #aesthetic #ana st★rve #runway #low calorie diet #dieta #low calorie #model #dont report #not promoting #i dont promote ed its just a diary #ed bllog #being skinny is a privilege

[koifrog]

I know I always try make a point to be supportive and open minded of all people regardless of presentation but mannnn if I didn’t still hold onto this deeply internalized notion despite all my acceptance of others that being respected as a trans man is somehow my own responsibility and dependent upon my choices and how I present myself in order for not only the cisheteronormative world around me but my family and friends and other queer people to accept me as worthy of being seen as a man, I DEFINITELY would be dressing and acting a lot different… if I didn’t have this trauma ingrained into me of close friends and family saying things like “if you cut your hair it would be easier to call you by your pronouns” and “how do I know it’s not a phase” or straight up misgendering me when I put a skirt on for a costume, if the queer community wasn’t so obsessed with bullying others in order to make themselves feel more valid in comparison, if being called a “trender” or “tenderqueer” or “softboi” or whatever new term they’ve coined this month wasn’t something I was so scared of being labeled the moment I decided to actually wear things that bring me joy, my wardrobe would probably change dramatically. Growing up online seeing waves and waves of intra-LGBTQIA exclusionism, alongside right-wing leaning comedians making fun of non-binary and genderqueer people for YEARS has done some pretty substantial damage. It really sucks that I feel like me choosing to express myself in a way that really does make me happy would lead to people treating me VERY differently right away. It sucks that wanting to buy a pink backpack or wear makeup makes me feel like I’m not really a man, and that nobody around me would respect me as one if I indulged that desire. I don’t know what conclusion there is to this long ass post and I don’t know if there really is one, but. Just something that’s bumming me out today.

#talk #if it wasn’t clear these feelings are a Me Thing Only and I don’t feel this way about other people at all #which is silly of course but isn’t it always like that #I always feel such envy for cis men who dress in feminine or cute clothes #because I think I envy that ability to wear whatever they want while by virtue of being Born A Man they don’t really get the same like #scrutiny that trans men do when they do the exact same things #not to say those men don’t face hate and bullying as well of course they do all gnc people have to deal with that shit #but I just #I don’t know #I hate feeling like me being recognized as a man is some privileged afforded to me by the people around me as a reward for Performing Right #I don’t actually like wearing the things I do these days #I don’t feel good in them #but that’s all I’m allowed to wear if I still want to be respected or at the very least ignored #idk #not to mention the fact that I’m fat #so that’s. a whooooole other facet to this discussion #if I was skinny I’m sure I wouldn’t have to deal with this shit as much #then again the infantalization would be just as bad if not worse #god I’m just #so angry about transphobia rn #I JUST WANNA BUY THE CUTE PINK COFFIN SHAPED WALLET WITHOUT HAVING AN INTERNAL MELTDOWN ABOUT THE FACT THAT I WANT IT AT ALL #grrrr grrr

[yoongisautumnleaves]

i need to empty my brain a little so im hear to scream

#so in the summer on a trip me and 2 of my friends were talking about like pretty privilege and stuff and most of my friends are conveniently #attractive and like they are aware of that and bla bla we were just walking down the street talking about it bc it had to do with how pretty #ppl can get away with being rude and like not very nice bc they are pretty so ppl just assume they r good ppl - we were talking about a #friend who anyways i am bad at telling stories this context is not needed #so my bestie was just like ya i see like how people treat me and then how they treat T (me) #and it’s been eating away at me FOR MONTHS bc yes i am aware that im not conventionally attractive #and im not skinny but like it just made me feel so fucked up and i DIDNT realize in the moment bc i was processing #what we were talking about but since then ive just been like even more anxious and self conscious whenever i have to go out anywhere and #when im hanging out with my friends like the body dysmorphia and jisy feeling like absolutely huge next to my friends #has been driving me insane and i feel like my ED is lurking and i just constantly am thinking about how i look #and how i look compared to everyone whether i know them or not and im literally getting so anxious even typing this out #and i know like I KNOW she did not mean in that way but did she really have to say that like why did you bring me into it #tw ed #i guess? #tw body image

[petite-elf]

scrolling through some photographer's instagram and wrrr im so annoyed by the way we view beauty that conforms to societal beauty standards (skinny, long-necked, able-bodied etc) as art in and of itself. the way you can take a mediocre black and white photo of an attractive skinny white person and it's considered valuable just because the person in it is "beautiful"??? or how you can sew something ugly and put it on a skinny person or dress an attractive skinny person in literally whatever and it will be regarded as pretty because being skinny and attractive is treated like an accessory and a fashion statement in and of itself?? i know that the world is just like that and that it's unfair and i have to just deal with it but that doesn't stop me from being annoyed like!!! maybe i'm just bitter bc im not that attractive... but im really tired by the way we treat beauty in our society....

#beauty standards #pretty privilege #body image #idk how to tag that so that people who can be triggered by this kind of thing can block it... #body image issues #?? #soory ive been having a crisis like... the way you can make money off being skinny and tall and attractive... (modeling)

[scorpihoe1111]

Astrology Observations-Part 2🌙

Having both Taurus and Aries placements in a chart can indicate someone who enjoys pressuring/embarrassing people when underdeveloped. These people can be actual bullies towards others when they’re at their worst.

Gemini rising’s/Mercury in the 1H look younger than they actually are.

Scorpio rising women are sometimes shorter than average while Scorpio rising men are taller than average.

8H moon’s can have dreams about scenarios that end up happening IRL.

Capricorn Rising’s usually have a skinny/bony appearance.

Whatever sign and house Saturn is in your chart can tell you what other people’s karma is for messing with you. Ex: Taurus Saturn in 7H? Taurus is a Venusian sign so it rules over beauty/appearance as well as luxury and money and the 7H signifies relationships, partnerships and marriage etc. Their karma may be their physical appearance looking uglier, plus going broke as well as their relationships/love life going downhill.

People with Scorpio in the 6H may prone to UTI’s/yeast infections or very heavy and painful monthly periods.

Cancer Rising’s may attract a lot of jealousy because of how intelligent they are (Gemini 12H)

Aries Rising men are usually buff and naturally muscular in appearance.

Aquarius in the 11H can attract multiple friend groups from all walks of life way more easily than the average person.

Pisces Moon/Venus are a lot more skilled in manifesting the things they want than they think they are.

Venus/Libra in the 12H can signify a lot more people than you think having a crush on you/being attracted to you. Your secret admirers just keep it to themselves because they assume you already know and don’t wanna boost your ego.

Leo, Libra, Scorpio and Capricorn rising women consistently attract men who neg them as a way of trying to get them to notice them.

Sagittarius placements (esp mercury) are blunt and rude in their speech but they don’t mean any harm by it, they just say whatever they’re thinking.

Virgo placements on the other hand are also blunt, but they over analyze every encounter and conversation they have so they usually know what’s rude to say and what’s not. So if a Virgo’s saying shady things towards you, they mean it.

Libra Venus’ can not remain in a relationship if there isn’t constant flirting. It’s also important not to let yourself go if you’re in a relationship with them because they are visual asf.

12H sun’s rarely get acknowledgment for the good they do but get a lot of attention for the mistakes they make.

12H suns can also be kind of gullible and naive growing up.

Mercury in the 2H usually don’t like to talk about things that aren’t factual or don’t benefit them in some way.

Mars in the 12H can be prone to high blood pressure due to internalizing their anger most of the time.

Venus in the 1H are very attractive, even if not conventionally handsome/pretty there’s something very aesthetically pleasing about their facial features and their overall vibe.

Venus in 1H can also do no wrong in the eyes of the public. Basically pretty privilege.

Same goes for Pisces Risings ⬆️ they usually get away with a lot due to their innocent demeanor.

Your moon sign is usually a prominent sign in your mother’s chart.

Saturn in the 8H might not lose their virginity until later in life, or at least not as soon as their peers.

Your rising sign can tell you what everyone was feeling or what was going on during the time of your birth.

Leo women have this tendency of leaving or cheating on men who are good to them for guys who are terrible people. (Not all Leo women of course, but I’ve seen soooo many Leo girls do this)

Pisces men are very, very confusing. The type of person to be married for years with kids and still try to keep up with what you got going on in your life.

Cancer in the 12H usually have issues with women/mother in their life.

Aries Venus prefer the chase more than the actual relationship.

Scorpio/8H placements have an inherent fear of their spouse/loved ones dying.

Pisces mars are freakier in bed than most people think.

Moon sextile Neptune manifest through their dreams a lot.

Sun in the 5H is someone who doesn’t take life too seriously and prefers fun over responsibility a lot of the time.

Mars in Scorpio are more revengeful and unforgiving than any other Scorpio placement honestly. These people can get revenge and still not be happy.

Mars in Sagittarius usually have lots of flings and hookups throughout their life.

TW!: Some underdeveloped Virgo men have a weird tendency to actually want to harm women mentally and emotionally. They’re not the type to just break up with a partner and move on, they usually want to make the breakup as fucked up as possible so the thought of them remains in the persons mind forever. I’ve met over 6 Virgo men who’s admitted to this before and the girl didn’t even do anything wrong in the relationship, they just didn’t wanna be with her anymore but didn’t want her to forget them.

Capricorn women usually have very long, flowing luscious hair.

Part 3 coming soon 🌪️

#aries #astro notes #astro observations #astrology #cancer #gemini horoscope: star sign dates #leo astrology #scorpio #libra #taurus #traditional art #ask #astro community #astroblr #virgo #aries sign #aquarius #sagittarius #pisces #12h placements #12h synastry #8h placements #8h synastry #8h moon #8h sun #1st house #2nd house #5h #7h ruler