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sandeewithtwoe · 3 months

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Happy Valentines Day! Ink is asking Broomie on a date

Ink belongs to comyet/myebi

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#art #utmv #ink sans #ink x broomie #they got married the same night #everyone was invited #Reaper was the pastor #ink probably ate his ring #his dads were confused but very proud also #i still think is ink is aroace #but specifically cupioromantic and asexual #dating Broomie was supposed to be a joke but then he took a step further and married it

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oc-dev-prompts · 8 days

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Tag the OC who's on the ace spectrum, the aro spectrum, or both!

#i recently figured out that I'm aromantic #specifically cupioromantic and aroflux #oc development #oc questions #original character #original character questions #original characters #oc asks #character asks #character development #tag that oc #tag your oc #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace

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writer-ace · 1 year

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I watched the asexual and aromantic communities get eaten away at by exclusionists and proto-TERFs and queer people making fun of microlabels and people who talked about how they just wanted all of us to stop dividing ourselves so much and people who decided that the concept of the Split Attraction Model was homophobic and people who flooded the ace and aro tags with porn and--

Well, you get the point.

But now a lot of people on this site don't know about ace culture and modern history, so here's some stuff you should know about:

The Asexuality Visibility and Education Network (AVEN) was started in 2001 by asexuality activist David Jay as a forum and educational space about asexuality.

A Carnival of Aces, which is a monthly blogging carnival on ace topics, has been taking place since May 2011 and has included such topics as coming out, non-traditional relationships styles and polyamory, asexual education (which I hosted), and labels and microlabels.

The Split Attraction Model is one model for talking about sexual and romantic orientation that splits out those two orientations, allowing individuals to describe sexual attraction/orientation as distinct from romantic orientation (e.g., aromantic bisexual, heteroromantic grey-asexual). While this model is primarily used by people on the ace and aro spectrums, it can be used by anyone who wants to discuss or describe sexual orientation as being separate from romantic orientation.

The AVEN triangle (or asexuality triangle) is a black and white or greyscale triangle that originated from taking the Kinsey scale and extending it down into another axis to address/acknowledge the range of attraction between what's on the Kinsey scale (allosexuality) and no sexual attraction (asexuality). It's generally presented as white at the horizontal line at the top and then black at the point at the bottom, often with a gradation of shades of grey down to the bottom.

Microlabels are specific (sometimes very narrow) labels for sexualities, romantic orientations, and genders. While these are not aro- or ace-specific, they were often associated with those communities because there was a culture of having nuanced conversations about narrow definitions, often by people couldn't find something that fit their experience in the standard L, G, B, or T lexicon. Demiromantic/demisexual, cupioromantic/cupiosexual, and quoiromantic/quoisexual are all examples of micro-labels.

The ace ring, a black ring worn on the middle finger of the right hand (generally) is a symbol of asexuality that some ace people wear. It originated on AVEN in 2005 when people were looking for a symbol that was rather covert.

Cake has also been an ace symbol, mostly from the idea that ace people agree that cake is better than sex. It used to be common to see a drawing of a cake with the ace flag colors.

The ace of (heart/spades/clubs/diamonds) has at times been used as a symbol for different ace spectrum/aro spectrum combinations. Ace of hearts is generally agreed on as alloromantic asexual and ace of spades as aromantic asexual (aroace or aro/ace). Ace of clubs is sometimes for grey-romantic asexual and ace of diamonds sometimes for demiromantic asexual, but those are less common.

Dragons were also associated with the ace community, at least on Tumblr. I'm less certain where this one came from (theories include that they're mythological creatures the way ace people are seen to be or that it's because there were headcanons that Charlie Weasley was ace).

#asexuality #queer history

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chronicbeans · 3 months

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Queerplatonic Alastor x Reader Headcanons

Hehe my plan of writing headcanons for various Aroace-spec identity Alastor headcanons has begun. This one is with a cupioromantic and asexual Alastor in mind. I haven't seen enough of them, and as they say! "If you want it done right, you gotta do it yourself."

TW: Frustrations regarding romantic identity, complete unawareness of certain LGBTQ+ topics (my man's from the 1920's, he's almost completely in the dark), slight yandere behavior? (I feel he's just obsessive by default, regardless of the relationship type)

• So, this man has never necessarily identified himself with any sort of LGBTQ+ labels. Back in his day, there weren't any terms to use for being asexual or aromantic. At least, not any that he knew of. He's always been comfortable with his sexuality, though! His main thought process was always "I'll probably find someone that I'm attracted to at some point, and if I don't, that's alright." That thought process has also followed him down to Hell, and stayed the same for all these years.

• However... Whilst he's very comfortable with his sexuality... His romantic feelings are very complicated, now. He's always desired to have one, and he's very confused as to why he hasn't felt any romantic attraction, yet. It makes sense that someone who wants a romantic relationship to be able to feel romantic attraction, yes? He's very much in the dark to the complexities of how these things really work, mostly due to him being from the 1920s-30s. He's caught up on slang and technology, but he hasn't bothered to keep up with sexualities and romantic identities, as he doesn't think about them much.

• So, does he ask any more modern demons and sinners for help? Ha! No. He's too prideful, and simply assumes that there probably isn't much of a difference in knowledge on romantic attraction as compared to his day. Yes, he's aware that there's way more identities for sexualities. People talk about them often, and he hears terms thrown around here and there as he walks through Hell. He never hears anything in regards to romance, though. It's simply not talked about as often, from his experience. So, he's completely in the dark. If anything, he's probably completely unaware that there are identities for romantic attraction.

• He does what he can to cope. This whole situation is very frustrating for him. However, at the same time, he thinks that it shouldn't be so frustrating. So, it's embarrassing to him, and he doesn't tell anyone about it. Instead, he does what he believes everyone who is single and ready to mingle does: reading romance novels. More specifically, he flips to parts where said attraction is described, or little scenarios that he wants is going on. Restaurant dates, walking through the park, dancing, holding hands and cuddling. Those sorts of things! Things nobody would ever expect someone as unhinged as him would want...

• The most frustrating part, however, is that he feels he should already be feeling such an attraction to you. You, being his most close friend. You're the one he trusts with certain secrets, one of the few people he doesn't mind touching him unprompted (besides, say, Niffty), and probably the only person he lets his smile down around. Though, he rarely does so, as he doesn't want to worry you. Unlike Niffty, who he sees as having a more familial feeling towards, he sees you as a close friend. His closest friend, but just a close friend, which frustrates him to no end.

• It takes him a long time to even think of mentioning it to someone. However, when he does, he'd feel too awkward to bring it up to you. So, he decides to speak to Charlie about it! After all, she has one of the more "modern" relationships. So, she probably also knows something about whatever is going on with him! And after the long and grueling process of talking to her? He comes out even more frustrated than before. Being unable to feel romantic attraction, but still want romance? Cupioromantic? It is all so confusing. However, he won't question it. He's clearly out of his zone, and he was horribly wrong when assuming the world of romance hadn't progressed...

• You, however, are his most trusted friend. His closest friend. So, he decides to waste no time in deciding to propose an idea to you. He's heard of these things called "queerplatonic relationships", and his understanding is that they are like friendships, but with some more traditionally romantic interactions involved. Which, whilst his understanding of the nature of queerplatonic relationships may be a bit off, he's trying his best. Once you explain it a bit further, emphasizing that they're closer relationships than friendships, but not romantic and can vary widely in affectionate interactions, he is immediately is set on trying to start one with you. Luckily, though, you agree rather quickly.

• Despite him wanting many of your interactions and ways of showing affection to be more traditionally romantic, such as cuddling or going out on friendly dates, he won't cross any boundaries. Both because you're his closest, most prized relationship with another person, and because he can't think of many other people who would even be willing to enter such a relationship with him if he ever asked. Not that he'd want to ask anyone else. There's a reason why he immediately went to you. It's hard for him to describe it, though. Despite being a man of words, whenever he tries to explain why he feels like you are the perfect person for him to enter this queerplatonic relationship with, he stumbles heavily.

• His little ideal for this relationship is, essentially, the types of things he's read in the romance novels he has. Sure, a little bit of a twisted version of it, but at it's core it's the same. He wants to cuddle in a nice, safe, and warm room (while there's probably the screams of an extermination going on the background). He wants to go to restaurants (this man's a cannibal so check your food). He wants to do the cheesy move of handing you red roses and candy as a gift (do not ask how he was able to buy such an expensive brand, or where the two large, heavy trash bags came from or what they are filled with).

• He's going to be very, VERY protective of you. Almost, if not completely to an obsessive degree. He knows how Hell is. People want power, and he's powerful, and you are close to him. He's sure many people are going to go after you, in order to get to him. So, your little relationship is going to be as well protected of a secret as it can be, at first, until he believes he can properly protect you from any danger. And after the secret is out, he's going to be right by your side the entire time. Literally. Whenever he can be, he's next to you. Nobody, except maybe Vox or another pesky overlord, is going to try to hurt you as long as he is there. Even then, he could completely destroy them, anyways!

#hazbin hotel #hazbin alastor #hazbin hotel alastor #alastor hazbin hotel #alastor the radio demon #alastor #hazbin hotel headcanon #alastor headcanons #lgbtq headcanons #lgbtq+ headcanons #queerplatonic #cupioromantic #aroace spectrum #alastor x reader #hazbin hotel x reader

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lovefromthestarz · 8 months

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I love seeing aroace characters in movies and film, don't get me wrong, but I wish you could have just aromantic characters or just asexual characters. I feel like so many people group them together because it's easier but no you can be a loveless aro and feel sexual attraction, or you can be on the asexual spectrum and still be a hopeless romantic.

and don't even get me started on more specific labels like cupioromantic or gray-ace.

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #asexuality #aromantism #also i feel like when they are by themselves its usually asexual characters.#absolutely no hate but i cant name a single aromantic character in a movie or tv show

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artsyaech · 1 year

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shoutout to aspec folks!

shoutout to asexuals

shoutout to aromantics

shoutout to aplatonics

shoutout to asensuals

shoutout to analterous folks

shoutout to anaesthetics

shoutout to demisexuals

shoutout to demiromantics

shoutout to demiplatonics

shoutout to demisensuals

shoutout to demialterous folks

shoutout to demiaesthetics

shoutout to gray-aces

shoutout to gray-aros

shoutout to gray-any-other-attraction

shoutout to aceflux folks

shoutout to aroflux folks

shoutout to any-other-attraction-flux folks

shoutout to aroaces

shoutout to aroacespecs

shoutout to aegosexuals

shoutout to aegoromantics

shoutout to aego-any-other-attraction

shoutout to cupiosexuals

shoutout to cupioromantics

shoutout to cupio-any-other-attraction

shoutout to acespikes

shoutout to arospikes

shoutout to any-other-attraction-spikes

shoutout to reciprosexuals

shoutout to reciproromantics

shoutout to reciproaroaces

shoutout to recipro-any-other-attraction

shoutout to alloaces

shoutout to alloaros

shoutout to omniaspecs

shoutout to eclectio aroaces

shoutout to sex-favorable aces

shoutout to sex-indifferent aces

shoutout to sex-repulsed aces

shoutout to aces who enjoy sex as an activity

shoutout to aces who enjoy erotic media

shoutout to romance-favorable aros

shoutout to romance-indifferent aros

shoutout to romance-repulsed aros

shoutout to aros who enjoy romantic media

shoutout to aros whose favorite type of media is romance

shoutout to autosexuals

shoutout to autoromantics

shoutout to auto-any-other-attraction

shoutout to autospecs

shoutout to bellussexuals

shoutout to bellusromantics

shoutout to bellus-any-other-attraction

shoutout to quoisexuals

shoutout to quoiromantics

shoutout to quoi-any-other-attraction

shoutout to fraysexuals

shoutout to frayromantics

shoutout to fray-any-other-attraction

shoutout to apothisexuals

shoutout to apothiromantics

shoutout to apothi-any-other-attraction

shoutout to orchidsexuals

shoutout to orchidromantics

shoutout to orchid-any-other-attraction

shoutout to loveless folks

shoutout to lovequeer folks

shoutout to acespec folks who don't specifically label themselves

shoutout to arospec folks who don't specifically label themselves

shoutout to acespecs who experience sexual attraction

shoutout to arospecs who experience romantic attraction

shoutout to acespecs who experience romantic attraction

shoutout to arospecs who experience sexual attraction

all of y'all are valid as hell

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saytrrose · 2 months

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Ouu!! I love trans caine- what are all your sexuality/gender headcanons??

I best not see anyone get offended tho these are just my personal opinions.

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Caine: Agender/Cupioromantic/Asexual

Pomni: Ciswoman/Heterosexual

Jax: Cisman/Heterosexual

Zooble: Genderfluid/Bisexual

Gangle: Ciswoman/Pansexual

Kinger: Cisman/Bisexual but leans women

Ragatha: Ciswoman/Lesbian

Queenie: Transwoman/Bisexual

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For the sake of fanart I swap and bend these all the time 😭 like an example of calling Caine trans but I really think he’s agender and I throw the other characters all over- I’m not very strict on them tbh but if I’m specifically asked this is probably how I will respond

#tadc headcanons #tadc #the amazing digital circus #kinger #tadc kinger #queenie #tadc queenie #caine #tadc caine #pomni #pomni tadc #Ragatha #tadc Ragatha #Zooble #tadc zooble #gangle #tadc gangle #jax #tadc jax

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aromanticmina · 1 year

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master-list of arospec labels and microlabels

I like collecting knowledge of a lot of queer labels,arospec ones being no exception,so I'm doing a big post with all the ones I know, for fun and because it could be helpful for questioning folks out there!

all under the cut!

Aromantic: someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction, experiences it very rarely/vaguely, or otherwise has a significantly different/complicated experience with romantic attraction than most (alloromantic) people. It is a spectrum and anyone on it can simply call themselves aro if they want.

Greyromantic: someone who experiences (or has experienced) romantic attraction, but vaguely and/or rarely.

Demiromantic: someone who experiences romantic attraction only in the specific circumstance that they're really close with that person (or people), they do not experience "love at first sight."

Frayromantic: the opposite of demiromantic, someone who only experiences romantic attraction towards someone they're not close with, and if they ever get to know that person (or people) better,the attraction eventually fades.

Lithromantic: someone who can experience romantic attraction,but if that attraction is ever reciprocated, then the feeling abruptly (or slowly) stops.

Aroflux: someone whose romantic attraction can fluctuate, and is never really static, meaning their (romantic) feelings for someone may change every now and then, fading and intensifying over time.

Cupioromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic relationship, but wants or has a romantic relationship.

Aegoromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic attraction,but likes things that are "romantic" (movies,books,aesthetics,etc)

Non-sam aro: An aromantic person who doesn't use the split attraction model, they are "just aro"

AlloAro: an aromantic person who experiences sexual attraction.

Aroace/Arose: an aromantic person who is also asexual/in the ace spectrum.

Apothiromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic attraction and is repulsed by romantic things and/or acts.

Quoiromantic: someone who doesn't understand what romantic attraction is,doesn't think the term "romantic attraction" is applicable to their experiences at all,or someone who doesn't think defining whether or not they experience romantic attraction is useful or important for them.

Bellusromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic attraction but enjoys things that are typically seen as romantic acts (kissing,cuddling,etc)

Arospike: someone who usually doesn't experience romantic attraction, but occasionally experiences a sudden rise of attraction, before it eventually fades again.

Nebularomantic: someone who is aromantic because of their neurodivergency or their neurodivergency plays a big role in how they experience their aromanticism.

Reciproromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic attraction unless the person falls in love with them first.

Alicoromantic: someone who knows they're on the aromantic spectrum but doesn't think any other label fits their experience.

Orchidromantic: the opposite of cupioromantic, someone who experiences romantic attraction but doesn't want a romantic relationship.

Myrromantic: someone who identifies with multiple aromantic spectrum labels at the same time.

Uniromantic: someone who only experiences romantic attraction to one (1) person for a long period of time, and this attraction is never felt for anyone else.

Platoniromantic: someone who can't distinguish between romantic and platonic attraction, therefore can't really say if what they're feeling for someone is romantic or platonic.

Caedromantic: someone who is aromantic because of their trauma.

Idemromantic: someone who doesn't experience romantic and platonic attraction differently, but can distinguish between their "platonic" and "romantic" relationships based on external factors.

Romo aro: an aromantic person whose attraction,experiences,or feeling may be considered romantic in some sort of way.

Loveless aro: an aromantic person who doesn't label any of their feelings as "love", sometimes because the word "love" is usually used to indicate romance and they want to avoid that, because the word doesn't have any meaning to them,as an act of rebellion against amatonormativity,etc.

Lovequeer aro: an aromantic person who chooses to center other types of love who are often seen as "less" than romantic love and/or their unique personal experience with these other types of love.

#aromantic #arospec #aspec #queer #aro #greyromantic #demiromantic #cupioromantic #loveless aro #lovequeer aro #+ a loooot more #raysaystuff

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mysticfoxdesigns · 2 months

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What are your headcanons for your holoforms of the Rescue Bots?

I have a few different headcanons for my holoforms! Just remember these are my own personal opinions, you don't have to agree 100% with them

I am going to be more specifically talking about my Cyberaligned lore, but these can also translate to general headcanons

The Holoform Headcanons

Age

So I have talked about my headcanons for their Cybertronians ages before, but these are what those ages translate to in human terms the holoforms more often then not will resemble their respective ages

Heatwave: 25

Chase: 24

Blades: 35

Boulder: 23-24

Side characters

Quickshadow: 25

Blurr: 19

Salvage: 20

Hightide: 55

Holoform Races

These are the races and ethnicities that holoforms appear as.

Heatwave: Yaqui mixed

Chase: Japanese

Blades: Indian and Black

Boulder: Samoan and Black

Side characters

Quickshadow: British and Korean

Blurr: White

Salvage: Black

Hightide: Scottish

Pronouns

What human pronouns the bots have chosen to use.

Heatwave: He/Him but doesn't care too much

Chase: He/They

Blades: They/She/He depends on mood

Boulder: He/Him

Side characters

Quickshadow: She/Her

Blurr: He/Him

Salvage: They/He

Hightide: Uses anything, does not give a fuck

Heights

The heights the holoforms generally appear at. They have control over the height of their holoforms as well as other physical features.

Heatwave: 6'2

Chase: 5'8

Blades: 6'4

Boulder: 5'4

Side characters

Quickshadow: 5'4

Blurr: 5'5

Salvage: 6'6

Hightide: 6'8

Scars

The damages they received in bot forms will appear on their holoforms.

Heatwave: Fire burn scar from training covering his back.

Chase: Minor scars from rescues. Lichtenberg scars equivalent, caused by both his outlier ability (electricity) and being STUCK BY LIGHTNING

Blades: Rescue related scars. And specifically to Cyberaligned, their shadow play scars are the most prominent scars, but they have several more from their time in the war.

Boulder: Minor rescue related scars

Side characters

Quickshadow: Many scars from the war. Has a large one crossing over her forehead and temple area.

Blurr: Some scars from rescue missions. In Cyberaligned has a prosthetic left arm from his time with M.E.C.H., as well as scars revealing the dissection he went through

Salvage: Has scars from their encounter with M.E.C.H. in Cyberaligned, however was saved early on and did not suffer much.

Hightide: Many scars from the war. Most prominent is the one over his face and chest.

Queer Orientations

TBH, Cybertronians are genetically asexual and do not have genders. But this is just fun stuff I like to think of for if they were actually humans

Heatwave: Biromantic (fem preferred)

Chase: PanAegoromantic or Cupioromantic for RB, but for Cyberaligned it is hard to categorize him within the Aro identity due to lore.

Blades: Homoromantic (aka GAY AS FUC-)

Boulder: Demi-romantic Gay

Side characters

Quickshadow: Biromantic (equal preference for fem and masc)

Blurr: Biromantic (no real preference for a certain gender)

Salvage: Homoromantic

Hightide: Apothiromantic (though does not have a strong repulsive urge)

Disabilities

Both mental and physical disabilities are included here. I did as much research as possible and only used disabilities I am knowledgeable in for this.

Heatwave: Generalized anxiety. Some back problems in Cyberaligned as he used to work in the mines

Chase: Autism

Blades: PTSD, Autism, ADHD, generalized anxiety, depression

Boulder: Autism, and if he were to remain within his caste he would have self image issues similar to Bulkhead as well as muscle issues as I have him in the construction caste

Side characters

Quickshadow: PTSD, bipolar depression

Blurr: ADHD. In Cyberaligned has a prosthetic/replacement left arm and PTSD

Salvage: Generalized anxiety and PTSD symptoms after M.E.C.H. encounter

Hightide: PTSD, depression, generalized anxiety

I do have some updated art of their holoforms coming out at some point, I have been busy with zines though so I have not been able to work on it. But soon y'all will see their updated looks!

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frosty-the-killer-doll · 2 months

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aro headcanons for aro week 2024: team flash edition!

cisco ramon is aromantic, specifically cupioromantic allosexual.

iris west-allen is aromantic, specifically demiromantic asexual.

frost is aromantic, specifically quoiromantic allosexual.

harry wells is aromantic, specifically greyromantic greysexual.

allegra garcia is aromantic, specifically aromantic asexual.

chester p runk is aromantic, specifically aromantic asexual.

bonus:

chester and allegra are in an aroace qpr ‼️

#arrowverse #aro week #aromantic #the flash #the flash cw #cw the flash #cisco ramon #iris west #iris west allen #harry wells #killer frost #chester p runk #allegra garcia

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rainbowsandchocolate · 1 year

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Being not only aroace but specifically oriented aegosexual and cupioromantic has a really interesting effect on how I view amatonormativity.

We have talked about how aspecs don't subscribe to conventional amatonormative ideas and often exist outside of those, not needing sense or romance. But for those of us who are sex/ romance neutral or favourable it changes the entire premise.

Generally, the consensus is that sexual / romantic acts are based on sexual/ romantic attraction and when that isn't there it's either fake or unhealthy or even in some way predatory. Of course sex without attraction isn't "new", neither are romantic relationships without attraction. But they aren't ever seen as the "real deal". Sex work is work but is it the same as "just sex"?

An asexual person, who genuinely wants to have sex, challenges that premise. An aromantic person who is in a happy, committed, romantic relationship uproots the whole concept. Suddenly, those things are just acts. They are just things that you do (or don't) because you want to (or not). And it leads to questions. Sex is still fairly well-defined as an act. But what makes a romantic relationship romantic? The common answer is "the feelings" "the love" or something like that. Not to say that those aren't valid and important, but I think the real answer, for allos and aspecs alike is much subtler. (I don't have it, it's very individual).

Anyway, it's like the closer you look at it, those amatonormative concepts don't really hold well, even within an allo society. And I think that's super cool.

#asexual #aromantic #aro #ace #aroace #aromantic asexual #aromanticism #asexuality #cupioromantic #aegosexual #aegoromantic #romance positive #sex positive #amatonormativity #cupiosexual #queer #lgbtq

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rolaplayor101 · 9 months

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I love our aro queen Mina Ashido, and happy birthday to her!!!!, but I still can’t get over the fact that they purposefully mistranslated the Ultra Analysis book to erase her canonical aromanticism, specifically the fact that she’s cupioromantic

The "gaga over romance" part works for her also being aegoromantic, since it's also something shown in the Manga and anime specifically, but her cupioromanticism shouldn't be overlooked either!

Also,,,stop saying she's ace when you mean aro..there's nothing to support her being asexual. She's aromantic. Sexual attraction has never come up, we don't know if she's on the ace spectrum but she sure inherently isn't just because she's aromantic

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genderkoolaid · 10 months

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I think I might be aro but I'm not sure? I really enjoy romantic relationships and I crave being in them but I don't think I feel romantic *attraction* to specific people. I know there are asexual people who enjoy having sex, is that a thing with aromanticism too?

Yeah, that's totally a thing (cupioromantic is a label some use; others might just call themself a partnering aro).

You may end up finding you aren't interested in romantic relationships, as well. I spend years fantasizing about my future marriage before realizing I didn't actually want to get married, I had just always seen it as a Necessary Life Event. Regardless, your experience is very normal for aros.

#m.#ask box

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aaa-battery-not-rechargeable · 3 months

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I have a whole list of ace and/or aro characters lol

I hc that Shima Rin from Yuru Camp is probably aroace (specifically cupioromantic and asexual). And Nadeshiko Kagamihara (from the same show) as alloace.

I also hc Miyo from Onimai as aegosexual but tbh it seems pretty canon to me lol

Senku from Dr. Stone is defo aroace

Konata Izumi from Lucky Star defo seems like an aego lesbian

Okay I will stop now before I bombard you with my whole list lolol sorry if this was already too many 😅

a bigger army for meeeee

#lilith's aspec character army #asks #aspec #acespec #asexual #arospec #aromantic #aro #ace #aroace #aroace spec #aromantic asexual #demi #aro spec #ace spec #aspec characters

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yalocalfanficaddict · 4 months

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When it comes to representation, I've had this little headcannon floating around but don't know what to use specifically

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aroaceconfessions · 1 year

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before anything i want to say that asexual people who feel sexual attraction are asexual and the same goes for aromantic people, be it demi, grey, lith, or whatever micro labels, you belong in this community and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Something that bothers me is that people always use aromantic instead of aromantic spectrum and it makes it difficult to find people to whom I can relate. I have zero attraction and I want to find people with the same experience. (the same goes for asexual but I am still mourning my lack of romantic attraction and so I find it worse personally in the aro tags even if it is also a ace tags problem). Demi people have a place for them in the #demiromantic and #demisexual tags. Grey people have a place for them in #greyromantic and #greysexual. Cupio people have #cupioromantic and #cupiosexual. You can do that with every aspec label, but not for 0 attraction people. Spexific microlabels have specific experiences, why can’t we too have a place to share those?

Black stripe asexual or aromantic rubs me the wrong way, it sounds a bit like gold star lesbian and it is not a good look. In no world are we using shit like true or pure ace/aro because that would just be mean and invalidating and shitty to the rest of the spectrums because you are true aspecs. I just want a place to find people like me but we haven’t and we can’t create one because “a-“ alrezdy means a lack of attraction. I don’t know what to do.

(can this be tagged with “rainy days” please so I can find it? I saw it was possible in the faq)

Submitted February 18, 2023

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #aspec #aro #ace #arospec #acespec #arose #rainy days

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