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classycookiexo · 2 days

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#accountability #honestly #attractive

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niyana-the-ambiguous-mobian · 12 hours

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I would rather miss the first 3 periods of class before skipping out on a giant breakfast like this.

#honestly #i would be so mad when this would happen on those movie/shows #and the parents would rarely seem mad about it and let them be as they left #my parents would have had me eat a plate of at least one waffle before sending me out #even if i had to eat it like those anime kids ate they're bread as they ran to school

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cherryblossomchronicles · 2 days

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I'm halfway through the show, Queen of Tears, and something that I've seen floating across is the anti Hyun Woo sentiment regarding how he treated Hae In initially and was just trying to do it all for the will.

Something to understand here is that in situations such as his, where he was emotionally empty and just a shell of himself who was just functioning, he didn't have the bandwidth to understand the gravity of situation that was Hae In's terminal illness.

In Hyun Woo's mind, he didn't have Hae In's support anywhere, be it against his in-Laws or in the company. She is silent against her family and hostile and argumentative in the company. He doesn't know what all she does for him on the sly or in backstage. He is not aware and Hae In never made the effort to change that situation.

All that pressure, anxiety, gear and emotional drain took its toll on Hyun Woo's emotional capacity. Stuck in a state of constant negativity, his initial reaction to Hae In's illness might be a form of self-preservation. He shuts down completely, unable to process the additional emotional burden of her mortality.

Something to remember is also the fact, that although he was thinking of it, the one thing that pushed him to draft the divorce papers were the talk of their child, whose entire identity and life was being decided by Hae In's family while she had no opinion on that and couldn't care less. This entire situation fueled the fire of resentment burning within Hyun Woo. Here was Hae In, seemingly indifferent to the future of their potential child, the very thing that initially distanced them. It felt like a repeat of their early struggles, where her family held all the cards and Hae In remained silent, leaving him to battle alone.

This perception, however flawed it might be, explains his impulsive decision to draft the divorce papers. Exhausted and emotionally hollowed out, he saw the child issue as the final straw, a symbol of their inability to stand together. He might have been grasping at a desperate solution, a way to force a change in their dynamic, a cry for her to finally fight for him and their future.

Of course, this doesn't paint Hyun Woo as a hero. His actions were undeniably hurtful, a clumsy and emotionally charged attempt to solve a complex situation. But by understanding the immense pressure he was under, the constant negativity seeping into his core, we can see a flicker of vulnerability beneath his anger. He craved Hae In's support, her voice alongside his in the face of adversity. Perhaps, the divorce papers were a twisted plea for her to finally break her silence, to acknowledge his pain and fight for their future together.

Here's where empathy becomes crucial. While his actions are undeniably hurtful, it's important to consider if they stem from malice or a desperate attempt to cope.

Think about it this way: Imagine a cup overflowing with negativity. Hyun Woo's daily struggles with his in-laws, the lack of support at work, and the constant emotional strain have already filled his cup to the brim. When Hae In's illness is revealed, it's simply too much for him to handle at that moment. He doesn't have the emotional space to understand the gravity of her situation, let alone offer support. in fact, it's easy for him to consider her death as an easy escape since his capacity for empathy or his love for her was essentially buried under all that negativity.

#It was not that he didn't love her #its just the fact that he is tired and had easily given up on their relationship #there is also the fact that for all his calm he does have passive aggressive tendencies #He tends to avoid conflict so it all results in him reaching for the worst conclusion without arguing or hearing another person talk #as evident in the show the more hae in talked and was vulnerable the more he was reminded that he indeed love her #he was also easily jealous of eun seong inspite of not caring much of her #according to him #which just proves that he did love her but in all their struggle that love was lost #honestly #for all his smarts he is a disaster #how did he even graduate from SNU #baek hyun woo #hong hae in #baekhong #queen of tears #kdrama

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twogyuu · 8 hours

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svt bias line (half of svt) as tropes was so good,,, now please do bias wrecker line (the other half of svt) as tropes as well😌

my svt bias wrecker line as tropes

read the bias line version here!

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seungcheol - so so so so older brother's best friend coded #iykyk 🥸 also confession: i've come to a realization that i might actually have a thing for him bc he's so competitive and annoying in the most endearing sense if that's possible-

joshua - idk why but this man gives me S2L, barista/cafe!au vibes LOL. remembers your go-to order, draws silly hearts and smiley faces on your cup, if you're having a shitty day it's on the house. maybe one day if he's feeling cheeky, he'll write his number on it-

woozi - sunshine meets grumpy, but the plot twist is that woozi is actually the sunshine. nana tour has made him a changed man and he can change you too.

jun - **sobs** something sweet but still angsty and slowburn. right-person-wrong-time, but fate just so happens that you meet again and you both want to try it.

minghao - rich, fancy man (BUT LIKE HE BUILT HIMSELF UP - RAGS TO RICHES) meets normie!oc. need i say more? hahaha not like i have a wip in files-

seokmin - he's a simp - strong, strong idiots-to-lovers vibes, but in moreso in a mutual pining, they're both hella oblivious sense.

seungkwan - LISTEN!!! this is strangely specific, but he'd fit those master matchmaker/wingman accidentally falling in love when helping oc kind of stories so well 😭 it's a tragedy there aren't more elaborate fics for this man

#for coups - its the aquarius in me whatever that means #honestly #written with a clearer mind than my previous one lolol #seventeen headcanons #seventeen x reader #seventeen scenarios #seventeen fluff

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harlowsimpsjelly · 1 day

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#doomed yaoi #Honestly #shadow the hedgehog #scourge the hedgehog #sonicthehedgehog #shadourge #sonic au #cuffs and crowns #doodles

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lilacsleeps · 2 days

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To whom it may concern:

There's a thin line between being unnecessarily blunt and being honest. Saying 'I'm like this. I'm just being honest' isn't a free pass to be rude.

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5racha · 21 hours

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Khaotung as Bison in The Heart Killers (Trailer)

(aka Khao in a leather jacket)

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msue0027 · 1 day

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Can't wait what horrors they are gonna put the doctor thru this time

#honestly #a bit generic take but not less true #i like my men a bit deranged #but at the same time i hope they won't kill his happiness and goofy attitude too soon #we've had sad wet cat #but please put the dude in a situation #he's happy and freshly out of therapy and still crazy and traumatized but better and ohh #the horrors will be delicious #doctor who #dw #the doctor #15th doctor #Q

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free-my-mindd · 1 month

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Someone said “ I don’t walk away to teach people a lesson I walk away when I’ve learned mine” and I felt that.

#text post #my thoughts #so deep #honestly #quotes

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makingqueerhistory · 10 months

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I’m actually serious about this, if at all possible, right now is a very good time to request queer books from your local library. Whether they get them or not is not in your control, but it is so important to show that there is a desire for queer books. I will also say getting more queer books in libraries and supporting queer authors are pretty fantastic byproducts of any action.

This isn’t something everyone can do, but please do see if you are one of the people who has the privilege to engage in this form of activism, and if you are, leverage that privilege for all you’re worth.

For anyone who can’t think of a queer book to request, here is a little list of some queer books that I think are underrated and might not be in circulation even at larger libraries:

Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown

Silver Under Nightfall by Rin Chupeco

Harvard's Secret Court: The Savage 1920 Purge of Campus Homosexuals by William Wright

The Perks of Loving a Wallflower by Erica Ridley

God Themselves by Jae Nichelle

IRL by Tommy Pico

The Pink Line: Journeys Across the World's Queer Frontiers by Mark Gevisser

Passing Strange by Ellen Klages

The New Queer Conscience by Adam Eli

Fierce Femmes and Notorious Liars: A Dangerous Trans Girl's Confabulous Memoir by Kai Cheng Thom

Queering the Tarot by Cassandra Snow

Wash Day Diaries by Jamila Rowser

Queer Magic: Lgbt+ Spirituality and Culture from Around the World by Tomás Prower

Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender by Kit Heyam

Beyond the Pale by Elana Dykewomon

Hi Honey, I'm Homo! by Matt Baume

The Deep by Rivers Solomon

Homie: Poems by Danez Smith

The Secret Life of Church Ladies by Deesha Philyaw

The Companion by E.E. Ottoman

Kapaemahu by Dean Hamer, Joe Wilson, Hinaleimoana Wong-Kalu

Sacrament of Bodies by Romeo Oriogun

Witching Moon by Poppy Woods

Tell Me I'm Worthless by Alison Rumfitt

Dead Collections by Isaac Fellman

Disintegrate/Dissociate by Arielle Twist

Dear Senthuran: A Black Spirit Memoir by Akwaeke Emezi

Peaches and Honey by Imogen Markwell-Tweed

Nepantla: An Anthology Dedicated to Queer Poets of Color by Christopher Soto

#queer books #queer history #lgbt history #honestly #libraries are a massive resource in terms of preserving and uplifting marginalized narratives #and as a community #that has been so very excluded from both fictional and nonfictional narratives #this is a great way to reclaim and care for the stories that have been surpressed for so long

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classycookiexo · 2 days

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#this user #honestly #pink

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stuckinapril · 1 month

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#Honestly

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occudo · 3 months

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Hello? Are you still here? (Me after tmagp started, but I'm still drawing alternative s1 tma) If you are new to this AU, or don't remember: It's called Gertrude is still around or GiSA for short