#marriage song and divorce song

[thankstothe]

Some notes on Wilson's marriages/divorces, and how he met House:

• House didn't just meet a freshly divorced Wilson. He met barely married Wilson, who just got notified about his #1 divorce by a lawyer, not his wife

• Wilson walked around with papers on hand, long enough to give House a chance to sneak a peek. The same day he received the news. (there's a chance it was some sort of middle step in the divorce procedure, but "just served", checkmate your honor)

• House 100% knew that when he bailed him out. No, I don't have any concrete evidence besides "it's fucking House"

• House had Wilson observed the entire time to know he didn't open the papers. The divorce lawyer prob gave him an idea of what it is, and he was just marinating in the suffering juice

• House had to be nosy and stealthy when he checked the package Wilson clung to, he saw what's written on it

• They didn't actually talk at the conference itself, so House did it silently too

• There was a law firm address on the papers, and you couldn't just google shit then. House's had to remember it to investigate it further, or he already knew of the firm (or it said "BLAH LAW FIRM BLAH HERE'S YOUR DIVORCE PAPERS, LOSER", which is possible)

• Wilson likely opened them in a hotel room (or he looked at the package sadly/angrily there too), needed a drink, and House was at the bar

• House was watching Wilson at that conference, then at the bar, then meltdown over the song, then the whole fight and the mess, then the detention, and was like yeah I'll bail that

• "First words you ever said to me." This is when they first talked, Wilson was in jail and the one in need

• Ok alright, hear me out, if House didn't know what the papers were at the time of bailing. There are 2 paths for him to find out

• Wilson STILL had them on hand in jail

• Or Housey saw them at Wilson's hotel room. Yeah

• It's been over the decade since they've met and they both vividly remember the details of that drunk night (I get why for storytelling purposes. Still... Much to think about)

• That conference is either the last one, or one of the lasts, House attended. And that one was already boring to House without Wilson. 15 years prior to s06e06 "Known Unknowns", can't do the timeline magic I just eyeball it

• House also introduced Wilson to Cuddy pretty soon, since she was a witness to the levels of despair he was apparently in

• House might've pestered Cuddy to hire him, or she chose to do so herself (whenever she was dean). Maybe House chased away some poor oncologist to make an opening. Even if House isn't as obsessed with Wilson at the start of season 1, he's always plotting

• There's the brother thing too. Wilson still fresh out of med school, still divorcing, still guilty af and looking for the brother in Princeton, so he was happy to work there

• Prior to that, Wilson was working 2 jobs to support himself and Sam and was ready to follow her to Baltimore

• The divorce and meeting House happened in 1991, the same year USSR completely fell apart. Just thought I'll throw that in #educational

• Wilson was married, non-fraudulently, for 12 years total

• Marriage #1 has only lasted 1 year

• That means every marriage House was present for has lasted longer #math

• Wilson found a way to get fulfilled while in the marriage

• Now he's got a needy bitch with infinite problems and who will slurp any poison he has to siphon

• I'd argue House is what made Wilson bearable at home

• At the same time, House is what kept Wilson away from home, ultimately contributing to the divorce

• Wilson himself describes his marriages as crappy - he doesn't really need help destroying them. House still helps~✨

• Timeline gets wonky, but there couldn't have been much of a downtime between marriages, a couple of years max

• "Fell in love at the wedding" - whatever the fuck that means for Wilson

• Either Wilson met Sam through that wedding, and she also aimed to work in medicine - how they've connected. Or they went there as a couple, both being med students? Got high on emotions and jumped into marriage

• Wilson speedruns relationships once he's in them, so it could've gone "hey that was a nice wedding, how about we have our own?"

• He fucking sucks at proposals, his looks and general air of niceness carried him all 3 times, I will not be hearing any objections on the matter

• When Wilson talks to Cameron about cheating. He says, "I have (cheated). I always told them"

• "Them"

• It's could've been every marriage (#1, #2 and #3). If boy managed to sneak in cheating in his 1-year lightning marriage #1, while he was studying + 2 jobs (now I don't doubt his time management skills, but it's still a hassle. On the other hand, all that stress couldn't have been helping)

• Or it could be #1 and #2, or #1 and #3. But #3 is pretty much a certainty (he flirts with nurses on screen, House is also there), and it's "them", so why would he randomly stop in the middle? Don't think so

• What's most likely is - #2 and #3. When arguing with Sam (#1) again she didn't mention or allude to the cheating, her problem was that Wilson didn't communicate ANY emotions to her, she even admitted to House she made the most mistakes in that marriage, let's say there's some truth in that

• Wilson either didn't tell Sam about cheating, she didn't have a problem with it, or he lied to Cameron

• OR he didn't cheat on Sam

• He started to cheat after the first divorce AND his marriages started to last longer, which is funnier too

• He could've started cheating prior to House entering the picture, but much more likely - after. Divorce and/or House are the cause

• Speaking of. Meeting House is very tightly linked to the #1 divorce. Every time Wilson would think back on it, he would have to think about all the turmoil and getting bailed by House. And vice versa - every time he'd think back on meeting House...

• "I met someone who made me feel funny. And I didn't want to let that feeling go." Another Cameron talk. Ur honor, there's something on that wall

• btw, he is STILL married while meeting House, so if you hilson 1st-night-fuck truther, that meeting is his cheater origin story in a more practical sense. He then could've really meant all the marriages, but then he lied about telling Sam/Cameron, he might not count it since he's divorcing to tell Sam

• Ultimately, he's a huge liar, and I'm wasting my time. What I'm saying - nothing is really off the table with this guy in terms of hcs

• Aftermaths of #2 and #3 aren't really talked about like #1. It must've been really nuclear

• House says neither of them recovered from (#1) divorce to Wilson's face, Wilson doesn't contest that in any way. Even tho House didn't know Wilson before the divorce he usually right on the money with these things

• After the divorce #2 Wilson got 3 legged cat

• After failing to secure marriage #4 (#1 part 2) he got a diabetic cat

• Just like the thing he has with missing phone calls, after every divorce, consciously or not, he might expect a savior to bail him out

• After and during #3 he crashed at House's, then surfed hotels, then moved in with a dying patient, then Amber's, then House moved in with him (still Amber's)

• Maybe his wives kept taking properties in the divorce, and he just stopped getting them

• Man frankly didn't have a home for a while (HOMELESS BUT NOT HOUSELESS)

• Then Wilson finally commits and gets the place for himself and House, from Bonnie (#2)

• Wilson adamantly remains on good terms with his ex-wives (but not random exes. One helps House with a prank, House kept tabs bc of course)

• But Wilson thinks they hate him. Did he ever pay attention to them?

• While spending all the time with House, then cheating, telling his wives about it, Wilson gave them more attention and emotions to delay the divorce

• He also learned how not to get attached in marriage, to not get destroyed by the divorce (excellent gambit if you expect your marriage to fail)

• He has a better support system now too. Can't believe House is your support system, fucking lmao and ouch. Cuddy is his only other friend we see, maybe Stacy at some point (he kept in touch with after the incident)

• All his other friends and family we hear next to nothing about, at best they're surface level

• In season 5 he's only visited by the coworkers/House's team + Cuddy <- all that is pretty much House's tolerance circle

• House is pathetic, but Wilson is something else entirely

#house md #gregory house #lisa cuddy #james wilson #sam carr #bonnie #his failed marriages and house #studying Wilson under a microscope #I was just trying to piece all of this shit together and speculating none of this is gospel lol #ive compiled this thinking i dont have much to say. look at us now #not even touching his “divorces” w house here #that's entirely different beast #might've missed something obvious - feel free to add/correct #prob got carried away and tunneled #but wow that first divorce must've been rough #if i was house and saw the man so distraught at some dusty conference breaking shit over a song id fall in love too #you might think im obsessed but im really not #long post #longpost #like actually longpost

[hoffmanstits-enjoyer]

the fact lyrics like

you got me down bad to feel your touch, you put my body through pain and i confuse it with love

your voice so clear like you say my name, got me runnin' for my life like this shit's a game

are playing as william and zeke drive towards what will be their first step towards their own special game is so fucking personal to me, the home of sexuals did it again

#the fact the entire time zeke's complaining abt his failed marriage?????? #gay gay homosexual gay #william has the audacity to go 'so.... youre divorced then?' like this bitch didn't drink celebratory beer when he stalked this info out #i'm mentally ill about this song okay #been listening to it for days it's driving me up the walls #you ever look at william schenk smiling and laughing at whatever bullshit zeke's saying #boy so happy to just let zeke rant his ass out about how Love Ain't Enough and Romance Is Dead and Cheating Is Always In Season #all while giving him heart eyes #he DOWN BAD fr fr #(hehe) #spiralshipping #william schenk #ezekiel banks #spiral from the book of saw #spiral #sawposting #spiralposting

[miliamin1]

A Marriage That's Unlike Her Parents'

Enid taps a melody on the driving wheel on their way to a grocery store. Despite the late evening the werewolf kept her joyful energy. Even when technically doing a chore. Wednesday doesn’t know if it’s because of the music playing or because they’re doing it together. 

It could go both ways really. 

Wednesday tries her damndest to not pay attention to the inane lyrics but them being in English for once and Enid singing them interrupts that. 

“Don't you go fallin' in love. 'Cause I'ma break that shit up. I won't let her. Love you like I do. Touch you like I do. Nothing like I do~”

Wednesday stopped questioning why sometimes Enid randomly plays songs in English or Spanish amidst the drowning of Korean years ago. Fully knowing that Wednesday only tolerates her song choices when she’s spared understanding of the copy pasted lyrics. At first the she-wolf wouldn’t comprehend that she was doing it, not realizing the language switch since somehow it was still Korean pop. 

Somehow.

It is better not to ponder over it much.

She can dredge an occasional mishap. Smidgen of English during the chorus is technically part of the Korean pop staple so even when singing English it can be a forgiven mistake.

“Wens, can you check what’s the title? I swear it’s on the back of my tongue but I can’t get it and it’s so irritating.”

Wednesday picks up the pink cased phone and turns the screen on. “By brackets capital G end of brackets, capital I, hyphen, D L E capitalized too and the song title is ‘I Do’-”

When Enid hits the manual brakes and swerves the car, performing a drift to a stop on the side of the road, Wednesday realizes the trap that ensnared her. She sighs deeply. 

Enid doesn’t react to the exasperated look and takes off her ring, then Wednesday’s, and then holds them between their joined hands. “By the power vested in me by the State of New Jersey-” she cheerfully starts.

“Enid, our latest divorce papers did not even go through.”

“-shush, I pronounce us wife and wife.” Enid puts a ring on Wednesday’s finger.

“You didn’t even propose this time.” Wednesday rolls her eyes and does the same.

“You were adorable and asleep and sleep talked a yes. You may kiss the bride.” 

Wednesday kisses the smiling lips. “Did you even really crave your favorite ice cream we can only get in one store?”

Enid giggles as she backs up the car.

“Of course amorcita, how else would I celebrate my seventeenth wedding?”

#silly idea that wednesday keeps divorcing enid over smallest inconviences #enid proposes over the smallest nice things #their taxes are a mess #'can we break up for 30 minutes so i can relate to this break up song?' #'only if i can divorce you at least once' #wenclair fanfic #wenclair #og post #andrew look #marriage shenanigans

[arsenicflame]

the problem with my blackhands playlist is like. half the songs are on there because of one particular line but i have no way of telling anyone listening that so they dont get my vision!!!!!! anyway heres some lines to kill you today:

Holy War - Tallhart

Ruth - Flower Face

Reliable Narrator - Chase Petra

Every Night My Teeth Are Falling Out - The Antlers

#i think im gonna split it into two playlists bc its getting out of hand anyway #this is honestly just my music taste propaganda #there are actually other bits of reliable narrator but i think thats the only other bit thats tangible #its about the desperation #also the antlers song. ita about the themes!!!!! but also. they are divorced (but not devout) #edizzy have had 3 divorces and 4 marriages and have never gone more than a month completely separate #nyxtalks #theres more!!! but these come to mind #ofmd

[sunshades]

miss penelope 🧵 + cathy 🌿 warmups induced by listening to too much mountain goats today....

#shades art #original #KIND OF. #IM SHY I WONT PUT THEM IN THE TAG THEYRE JUST DESIGNS WITH NO FOUNDATION IN REALITY but yes its limbus #pennys songs are sax rohmer + oceanographers choice btw if u even care. yuri milves potential divorce wins #for cathy i actually had be good pompomsquad in my brain which is what the letters there for. #but then i was like Huh isnt all of the sunset tree like. like. THIS YEAR? ARGHHH #anyway <3 handbaked marriage spiders be upon ye!!!!!!!!!!! #also wishing everyone good luck with the banner tomorrow <3 #ok good morning i changed my mind lets put it in the tag bc i personally like seeing ppls interpretations heeheee #limbus company #lcb penelope #lcb cathy #lcb catherine #lcb outis #lcb heathcliff

[art-eat3r]

And I present to you........

Good Omens 3; Written and Directed by art_eat3r

#good omens 3 #good omens #good omens 2 #david tennant #kiss song #this came to me earlier today LMAO #canon #i was there #burn heaven to the ground like the king you are crowley #crowley #aziracrow #ineffable husbands #ineffable divorce #ineffable second marriage #muriel is a child of DIVORCE #this is a coping tool

[lanternbats]

alright another one bc i’ve been adding to my batlantern playlist —- but the ballad by blur right before their divorce

AAHHH that's so GOOD... I have To the End by Blur on my batlantern playlist I think they might be Blur boys

#asks #divorce song and then reconciliation seocnd marriage song

[steelycunt]

ridi my cousin is getting married at 18 and i’m my knee jerk reaction is r/s thoughts.

in my little brain i think the thought of marriage would send remus into such a spiral he would invert his head into his shoulders to hide like a turtle at such a terrifying prospect (he’s so me in every way i hate him so much). like i think he’d be so so scared of it or it’s like not interested at all.

on the other hand i feel like s would love the idea of love and being one persons forever person. and i think the person her love most for that to be is r. because in my mind s belongs to r and r only and i think he’d love that tether of being committed to someone he loves so thoroughly and feeling so safe in the thought that they have each.

i see conflict and miscommunication and lots of refusing to actually talk about the issue. like james and lily’s wedding, s dropping unsubtle hits and r conveniently needing to go on a seven hour walk at 11pm.

anyway my point was what’s your opinion on r/s marriage?

ahh i have thought about r/s and marriage before!! and honestly i have to say i do not think it would be the sort of thing they would bother with or find much value in. in a canon timeline obviously they are both dead before gay marriage is legalized, but even if they're alive for 2013/14 by then i can't imagine them really being bothered considering how long they would've been in each others lives at that point. but even talking abt a situation where the option to get married is always there i just. dont think they would bother with all that like the exaggerated ceremony of an elaborate proposal and a whole wedding and all of that malarky...if they were to get married i picture it being more of a situation where they are sitting on the sofa and one of them goes umm we need to get more milk tomorrow. and the other one goes yeah alright. and then the first one goes why don't we get married. and the other one goes yeah alright. do we need to get eggs as well? and then they go down to a registry office when they feel like it. but really i think they are already very freakily and permanently entwined with each other in ways they could not really fix even if they wanted to and i think they know that so. they are as good as husbands without all that they would not deem it necessary to go through all the extra fuss

#except for the sole purpose of getting divorced again. they perhaps would marry five times just to divorce five times as like a fun #couples hobby and have sex in the courtroom bathrooms. other than that i dont think theyd find much use for marriage #they are sort of married whether they like it or not. like they can make a whole song and dance about how they want to be. together forever #et cetera but really its like well yeah ur going to be. u dont rlly have a choice in the matter...were u under the impression that u did.. #telegram #anon #r/s

[michyeosseo]

why do you keep losing yourself?

why can’t we feel the same way?

Can Love Be Fair by G.Soul feat. Ben

#kdramaedit #kdrama #reborn rich #kim shin rok #kim do hyun #재벌집 막내아들 #still on the hunt for a karaoke date to cure me ): #not that i keep explaining myself with this 화창 fixation that has become part of my normal #but yeah heylo and here i am archiving the third (how???) capcuttery of them #y’know the export fxn was a hater because the first voiceover was dad and it was garbled regardless how many times i tried #the eps from the stocks blunder up to… well… jumping back to 2022 was so rife with angst #i really thought they’d end up divorcing each other #they did not - to my immense relief - but this song #the flow of ben’s verse #the title as sung in the chorus #i believe that’s where hwayoung’s at in their marriage #changje’s supposed backbone i am also convinced stems out from a place #where he realizes that to be the best malewife to her #he has to help her realize that breaking away from the main family toxicity is for the best #idk maybe that’s also part of what he meant by he wasn’t just being puppet’ed by dojun #though it does hurt when he scared hwayoung……. that was Not commonplace in their years together #of course my meow meow being full of pride refused to back down after the fact (despite how clearly bruising the ordeal was) #contrary to popular belief i do ship straights once in a while lmao #aaand that’s enough neurons spared for fictional uber-rich folk

[mysecretpublicjournal]

“What is it that makes you so sad? Really, it's the dread that’s so daunting The us that dreamt of a future together is no more We're the ones who tore down the sand castle They say there are no winners or losers in this game But I'm always the loser We said we'd give our all, but we tore it all down And then we leave Because both love and people are selfish”

-Agust D, People Pt. 2

#i feel this in my soul #this song has nothing at all to do with divorce and yet line for line this describes my marriage perfectly #i know the song isn't about divorce but i'm still crying because fuck i feel this #how is that even possible? #please don't judge me #thank you yoongi #this song is beautiful and vulnerable and honest and i love him for that #thank you for sharing this side of yourself with your fans #it must have been hard but i'm so glad you did #agust d #min yoongi #people pt. 2 #suga #bts #road to d day #quotes

[schlagerkopf]

Suddenly love’s so MGM I can’t stop loving you M The kiss we shared on that bench I can’t let go, my heart is all wrench Your eyes as you said the three holy words Your affinity for Skyrim and playing Nords Your funny texts on whatsapp That day I wrote you a rap Your sweet little kisses on my neck Why’d you have my cardiovascular system to wreck Sippin’ wine on your parents’ porch In my heart you lit Almond’s torch I cried and cried like O’Sullivan sings When we kissed I started thinking of rings You were such a beaut and hellishly cute Why did you decide my heart to shoot Eyes like Daenerys, booty like Jada To get you back I just gotta But to you I ceased to be By now you’re probably married +3 I try to love others but it’s hard So I am just a lonely bard “Living in the Past” is my eternal song Don’t stop reading, I won’t go long I loved you like I never loved before Anything with you was never a chore You have a mortgage on my heart In another dimension we have brand new start

#writer #writers #song #poem #michael franks #love #heartbreak #mgm #movies #movie #nostalgic #nostalgia #memories #kissing #kisses #french kissing #marriage #divorce #Youtube

[sadsonglyrics]

I'm wearing his boxers

I'm being a good wife

We won't be together

But maybe the next life

-Katie Gregson- MacLeod

#sad quotes #sad songs #sad #sad lyrics #sad thoughts #wife #marriage #divorce

[a-very-fond-farewell]

I’m back at it again folks. (*inhales k/im g/o-eun content like kirby*) I’m fine. time to write 😔🏳️‍🌈💅🏻

#sneaky niki #lamb loose liveblogging #it’s women loving hours in the club and I can’t get over how pretty and charming she is #I can’t watch the big scary movie she’s in now bc: #I’m a scaredy cat (*dpr song playing in the background*) + it’s not available where I live #but believe me I am /this close/ to make a ‘do it for her’ poster with her face on it #anyway #topic of the day is (*checks notes*) divorce #listen I’m no expert on relationships and I can honestly say that HDS’s wife should demand one #will she get it? would she even want to get a divorce? that’s beside the point #but I want to truly honor Hye Young’s character and put myself in her shoes as I write this part of her story #bc what /i/ think she should do has nothing to do with what /she/ wants to do #also marriage and companionship and relationship are very complex IRL?? #ik we’re all on board on this nemesis-living-together-while-giving-one-another-blue-balls train of a fic #believe me I get it. but I feel so much for Hye Young. her husband turned into a horrible person. 3 years have gone by. poor woman #so. since these are the vibes for today. I plan to take a small break from ch16 (that detestable chapter >:0 bad chapter! headache-inducing #) #and focus a little bit on Hye Young for the time being. #she will make an appearance later on (possibly after ch 20) #but today feels like a good day to listen to her #nobody listened to her in the show. now it’s my turn to let her talk #ok so. confusing omens aside. #have a very good day folks :)

[cyarsk52-20]

When Tina Turner left her first husband - who was also her boss, captor, and brutal tormentor - she snuck out of their Dallas hotel room with a single thought in her mind: "The way out is through the door." From there she fled across the midnight freeway, semi-trucks careening past her, with 36 cents and a Mobil gas card in her pocket. As soon as she decided to walk out that door, she owned nothing else. When she filed for divorce, she made an unusual request. She didn't want anything: not the song rights, not the cars, not the houses, not the money. All she wanted was the stage name he gave her - Tina - and her married name - Turner. This was the name by which the world had come to know her, and keeping it was her only chance to salvage her career. Things could have gone a lot of ways from there. She could have labored in obscurity for decades, maybe making records on small labels to be prized by vinyl connoisseurs in Portland. She could have stayed in Vegas, where she first went to get her chops back up, and worked as a nostalgia act. And, of course, given what she had been through, she might have … not made it. What happened instead is that Tina Turner became the biggest global rock star of the 80s. I'm old enough to barely remember this, but if you aren't, it was like this: The Rolling Stones would headline a stadium one day, and the next day it would be Tina Turner. A middle-aged Black woman - she became a rock star at 42! - sitting atop the 1980s like it was her throne. She managed this because of whatever rare stuff she was made of (this is a woman whose label gave her two weeks to record her solo debut, Private Dancer, which went five times platinum); because she decided to speak publicly about her abusive marriage and forge her own identity, and in doing so give hope and courage to countless women; and also because - in a perhaps unlikely twist for a girl from Nutbush, Tennessee - she had her practice of Soka Gakkai Nichiren Buddhism, to which she credited her survival. She remained devout until the end. Tina's second marriage - to her, her only marriage - was to Edwin Bach, a Swiss music executive 16 years her junior. Of him, she said, "Erwin, who is a force of nature in his own right, has never been the least bit intimidated by my career, my talents, or my fame." In 2016, after a barrage of health problems, Tina's kidneys began to fail. A Swiss citizen by then, she had started preparing for assisted suicide when her husband stepped in. According to Tina, he said, "He didn't want another woman, or another life." He gave her one of his kidneys, buying her the remainder of her time on this earth and perhaps closing a cycle which took her from a man who inflicted injury upon her to a man willing to inflict injury upon himself to save her from harm. Born into a share-cropping family as Anna Mae Bullock in 1939, she died Tina Turner in a palatial Swiss estate: the queen of rock 'n roll; a storm of a performer with a wildcat-fierce voice; a dancer of visceral, spine-tingling potency and ability; a beauty for the ages; a survivor of terrible abuse and an advocate for others in similar situations; an author and actress; a devout Buddhist; a wife and mother; a human being of rare talent and perseverance who, through her transcendent brilliance, became a legend.

Credit: Will Stenberg

#in memoriam #tina turner