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al-ixee · 4 months
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lolrel · 7 months
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gunsatthaphan · 2 months
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⚽️🥅🫶🏻
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Incase anyone needs to hear it.
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oneshortlove · 1 month
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Crying
Love you all so much<3
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Why do you type comments in your tags
It’s me whispering in your ear
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lucadrawss · 9 months
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Remembering the time my dad told me I would never be loved because I had to break up with my girlfriend at the time because she was emotionally draining, toxic and manipulative
Well it was more around the fact that I'm a lesbian-
Eh been almost 2 years since I cut contact with him because of his emotional/verbal abuse towards me, SO much happier now
Remember that you are loved no matter what anyone says and things will get better for you I am so sorry to anyone going through this
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home-for-artists · 1 month
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You’re doing fine. You’re doing more than fine.
You’re doing amazing. Just never lose sight of the goal. Focus on the twenty-four hours right in front of you. Do your best in them. Win the day. Master the little moments. Celebrate the little milestones. Life is short, make it sweet.
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oh-gods-no · 3 months
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hi everyone :))) im currently in ed recovery and i want to do the fear jar thing! i dont think i have many fear foods but i want to explore food options because im sure i have way more foods i subconsciously avoid than im aware of :)
sooooo yes give me some fear foods you have/had :) i think it would be very cool to challenge myself and also show others that these foods are okay yayyyyyyy
tl;dr: give me some fear food suggestions for ed recovery
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i have lq art and i get so scared when art fight comes because it’s a little intimidating. i’ve gotten better over the past 5 years but i still get scared for some reason
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selfdiagnosedeyemotif · 9 months
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ghost trick is making me be rude to wait staff and that is not very rock n’ roll of them
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cosmic28dreams · 11 months
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is authenticity overrated?
In Vinland Saga, the main antagonist, Askeladd said an insightful line that caused Thorfinn to second guess the revenge path he was persevering with for years on end. After yet another duel, Askeladd said:
“Everyone is a slave to something.”
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Hey guys, I haven’t posted anything in two weeks. I have a lot of topics in mind, but just didn’t have the energy to write anything. These past few days I’ve also been thinking to myself, should I even write? What if what I write is nothing new, and it makes it uninteresting? I guess that’s what encouraged me to come back from my short hiatus with this essay.
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To be authentic, in a social context, is to be free of any expectations that other people might have on for your life. It is to achieve the highest form of freedom that only you desire, which separates you from the majority, making you interesting and inspirational.
However, does authenticity really matter today, when everyone is racing to be relatable? Influence topics such as micro labels on TikTok may suggest that you are authentic, but it actually does the opposite. To be truly authentic in this day and age means to escape every single advertisement and propaganda (ew, strong word) that is constantly shoved on our faces.
On trains, every 2 tweets you scroll, literally every single TikTok video ever, unsolicited Instagram ads in between stories, and.. 3 ads before a YouTube video now? Are you kidding me? In fact, you might see an ad after you scroll by this post. We live in an era where influence from others is so ingrained within our culture, it’s impossible to truly reach your highest form of freedom.
And I think that’s okay. Well, sort of.
According to existentialist philosophers, we are all born with a fundamental freedom. That we are, at our core, allowed to do anything and everything we wanted to. However, the reward of being completely free comes with the risk of being constantly lost. Which sounds quite exhausting, which is why we are creatures of routine. Routines hold us down when life is shaking us. Routines prevents us from going mad. Routine exist not for it to cage you, but to free you. Free you from decision making, free you from the pressure of taking the best course action, free you from constantly being in your head. Routine creates space and time for you to just, be.
While routine is good, it also scares people as a routine too mundane will feel suffocating and dull. Every day you spend sticking to your routine is another day you are trapped in your own circumstances, supressing your human desire to be somewhat free. The space created by a routine that is supposedly there to assist your desire to be free, is now feeling a bit counterintuitive. It’s seen as mere gaps in between activities, rather than time for you to be your own authentic self.
Authenticity is supposed to make you unique. Yet how will you ever be unique if you are stuck with a 9 to 5 and hit the gym everyday and only see the same three people for the next decade? Having spared only a few hours to ‘do your thing’.
Well, does it really matter? In the constant battle to not be boring, we tend to chase an authenticity that might not even exist anymore in this age of constant oversharing, and the awfully close proximity capitalism have in normal people’s lives, going as far as hiring employees who are so Gen Z and influencing other so Gen Z people to buy their so not Gen Z products.
So does being less authentic makes you less unique? I don’t think so. Uniqueness is when you might know something the next person don’t, yet there are still some things that you might have in common. Maybe you and your friend in book club both read Percy Jackson last week. But on Fridays she’d be crocheting like crazy while blasting Mitski and you’d be going to a gig 4 hours away from home. And that makes you both unique.
To be completely authentic means disregarding yourself as a member of society and refusing to have anything in common with the rest, which can make it harder for you to integrate into a community. And if we’ve learned anything from the pandemic, is that we need to be in a healthy one. Your uniqueness will always be retained in the midst of this being relatable era because there will always be a mix match of niche things that other people might not share with you! Worrying about being authentic can be quite tiresome, and you are not expected to do that.
In conclusion, since I’m such a fawkin Libra, I would say that being your authentic self is neither good or bad. It should be pursued in moderation. It might take a bit more time but that’s okay, do it while you’re sane. People who are totally different from you most of the time aren’t any better. They’re just that — totally different from you. And if you wanna be like them, well go ahead. It does not make you any less of a person than they are either. I’m sure they’re inspired by someone as well. Because that is the beauty of humanity after all.
Thanks for reading!
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References and post inspo
1. philosophy and film: “don’t look up” and the fear of authenticity & sincerity by oliSUNvia (https://youtu.be/khqTXJPX3CA)
2. Episode 167. When Burnout Gets Out of Control by The Self Love Fix Podcast (https://open.spotify.com/episode/2Ca6SCpCySfu9NwvDTdLPN?si=YbJiodniQX-6-snrpqtRoQ)
3. Atomic Habits by James Clear
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landonor · 2 years
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i love how seb’s helmet this weekend is triggering a whole bunch of right wingers
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lady-laura-speaks · 1 year
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Go on guys give us nothing
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queerfemboybf · 2 years
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vicbandana · 1 year
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