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YESSS What are some other green flags? I’d say lack of jealousy is one.

This is really important

#green flags #relationships #what do you think #yes #more of this #love it #red flags #jealousy #self reflection #personal growth

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I saw this quote once and never found it again, so I made a meme of it.

#lol #truth #partner #relationships #dank memes #funny #random #nonbinary #nonmonogamy

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<3

:))

#yes #truth #amen #love #self love #keep it #its for you #self worth

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THIS IS MAGIC

We don’t deserve AOC 😭

Very interesting. I'll be excited to see what they get from this little experiment.

#beautiful #childcare #mom support #love this #AOC #alexandria ocasio-cortez #progress #yes #more of this #love #progressive #the future

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Needed this <3

rainy day mood ♥  °˖✧*•  Shop, Patreon, Book, Mailing List *•. ✧˖°`

#life #truth #yes #depression #existential dread #inspiration #you can do it #relax #chill #self care

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Interesting that Eve supposedly ate the apple, yet men have an 'adams apple' in their throat.

#facts #lol #for real tho #truth #dank memes #interesting #food for thought #adam and eve #adams apple #funny #random #men suck

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Flappy dogo knows his priorities.

#lol #cute #omg #love #smol

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Does anyone else celebrate 1:11 by making 3/4ths of a wish?

#life #thoughts #random #lol #real talk #is it just me #11:11 thoughts #11:11 #funny

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Great breakdown!

All about that relationship anarchy lifestyle!!!

Wait, wait a minute, that phone background. Is there a difference between Polygamy and Polyamory? Are there others?

oh yes! there is! first, let me explain a couple things

POLY- poly means many, but not allMONO- mono means one, singular-GAMY - gamy means marriage, legally or not-AMORY - amory means romance, relationship-FIDELITY - fidelity means faithful, exclusive

here is a helpful graph:

So, let me explain them:

MONOGAMY: a marriage in which you are dedicated to one other person, no one elseMONOAMORY: a relationship in which you are dedicated to one other person, no one elseCHEATING: a relationship in which you do not tell your partner that you are seeing another person. even if you are sure they wouldnt mind, not telling your partner is cheating! cheating CAN happen in a poly- relationship, it still can have disastrous effects, it doesnt matter!DON’T ASK DON’T TELL: a relationship in which your partner is aware that you are seeing someone on the side, and they dont mind, they dont bring it up, they dont want to know who it is, its a secret between the three of youOPEN RELATIONSHIP: a relationship in which your partner approves and allows you to have one-night stands with a person on the side. said person could be a mutual friend, or a stranger, and your partner likes to be kept up-to-date on whats happening.POLYGAMY: a marriage in which you are dedicated to more than one person, everyone in the marriages are aware and approves of the other people involved, you can marry an additional person if you wish and the others approve POLYAMORY: a relationship in which you are dedicated to more than one person, everyone in the relationship is aware and approves of the other people involved, you can date an additional person if you wish and the others approvePOLYFIDELITY/POLYEXCLUSIVITY: a relationship in which you are dedicated to more than one person and they too are dating each other. everything is mutual and everyone is aware of everyone. if you wish to date an additional person, the others of the relationship must agree, approve, and also be in a relationship with themSOLO POLYAMORY: a relationship in which you are dating more than one person, but you do not want to move in, do not want to marry, you want to be on your own and have your own space and your own time to yourselfRELATIONSHIP ANARCHY: yeah, this ones great, fucking hilarious, woo!!HIERARCHICAL POLY-[blank]: in which one partner is more important than any others EGALITARIAN POLY-[blank]: in which all partners are equal to each other

so, for me? im Egalitarian Polyfidelity. i have three partners, they are all aware of each other, they are dating each other, and i love them all equally.

good luck on your poly adventures, friends!!♡

#polyamory #open relationship #relationships #fyi #thank you #yes #this #love

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“Everyone who terrifies you is sixty-five percent water. And everyone you love is made of stardust, and I know sometimes you cannot even breathe deeply, and the night sky is no home, and you have cried yourself to sleep enough times that you are down to your last two percent, but nothing is infinite, not even loss. You are made of the sea and the stars, and one day you are going to find yourself again.”

Finn Butler, From The Wreckage (via thoughtkick)

This 🖤🖤

#spilled ink #spilled thoughts #yes #truth #preach #amen #love this #find yourself #love #loss #change your paradigm #paradigm shift #you can do it #motivating quotes #motivation #inspiration

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lmaooo, saving to do this to my future husband 😂

#lmao #too good #doing this #future husband #lol #funny #random #dank memes #real talk #the right idea #genius #😂 #sticker chart #stickers

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A handy list! 😂💯

how to adult:

make lots of lists

make your bed

send lots of emails and only cry maximum 5 minutes before making phone calls

scream only mildly internally when strangers talk to you

laundry sometimes

#lol #why am i like this #for real tho #dank memes #existential dread #depression #anxiety #it me #personally attacked #relatable

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All the people upset about Ariel being black because she was white before were probably the same people who thought Obama couldn't be President because his predecessors were all old white men.

STOP ASSUMING a position’s race “should” be something, just because that’s what it was before!!!!

THAT. IS. RACIST.

It’s pretty simple.

#ariel #little mermaid #omg #just stop #seriously #dear white people #casual racism #obama #for real tho #quiet down children #stfu

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Instead of lamenting what could or should have been, I instead choose to invest my focus on what presently is... Either to enjoy the moment, Or to make the necessary changes until I do.

Another lonely girl shouting into the eternal void

#life #thoughts #random #blog #spilled ink #spilled thoughts #focus #attention #thought of the day

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🖤🖤🖤

#galaxy #space #introvert #cuddle #yes #please #cosmic #pic of the day #art

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Why am I like this 😅😅😅 

Literally Me. 😭

#lol #truth #so called out rn #why am i like this #literally me #depression #lmao #dank af #dank memes #for real tho #true life #personally attacked #cute #funny

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This is important. 

#life #thoughts #random #paradigm shift #existential musings #depression #sadness #reblog #spilled ink #spilled thoughts #yes #all of this #quote of the day