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[aroacesafeplaceforall]

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[yagikidd57]

#aphobes fuck off #acephobic #acephobia #aphobia #aromantic #asexual #asexuality is valid #twitter #ace spec #ace community #ace space #lgbtqia+

[myrandomthoughtsblog]

Me: asexual out of the closed for like 3 years, pretty much sex repulsed, complaining about how I hate my period cus it makes me so sick that I can't leave my bed (plus I take medication in order to not get my period cus it makes me anemic so)

Also my best friend who I've know for years and was one of the first people I came out to: at some point (when u start having sex) you'll be thankful for having your period

Girl fuck u

#my random thoughts on lgbtqia+ #lgbtqia+ #queer #asexual #ace #actually asexual #asexuality #my random thoughts on asexuality #acephobic #acephobia #acephobes fuck off #lgbtqiia+ #lgbtqia #actually ace

[katapotato55]

happy ace day friendly reminder to the lgbt community that "asexuality doesn't exist, you should just get game and then you will realize you are just confused" is the exact same as "you are not really gay, you just need to meet x and you will realize you are just confused" no this is not up for debate. you don't get to decide what i do with my sex life just as much as no one gets to decide yours. If you are a part of the LGBT and you say shit like that, then you are not a real ally, you are a hypocrite. thank you.

#asexual #asexuality #ace #asexuality day #ace day #ace pride #queer #queer stuff #lgbtq #lgbt pride #lgbt rights #lgbt representation #queer community #acephobia #acephobes fuck off #acephobic

[coco-little-rose]

Wanted to have an aroace character is not homophobia. We exist out there and we deserve our representation too.

So yes, I'm going to headcanon some character like Wednesday Addams as aro and ace. This is just a fictional character and this is fun. Also, sorry but I feel like people should stop to force some character into a romantic standard whatever it's gay or not. Because even gay people have struggle to accept the existence of aro and ace.

By the way, here my list of characters I headcanon as aroace, despite what the canon said about them:

Odo (star trek)

Wednesday Addams (Family Addams)

Jango Fett (Star Wars)

Boba Fett (Star Wars)

Frodo (Lord of the rings)

As you see, the list is very short. f you're gonna cry homophobia because you ship those characters in a gay ship, I'm just gonna say acephobia and block you.

I'm just tired of some expectation people have about everyone and it show even on media, like everything is about sex or romance.

Like sometimes, whatever people are gay or super het, sometimes they remember me GRR MARTIN whinning about Lord of the rings because let's be honest, most people think like him:

Life is very full of sex, or should be. As much as I admire Tolkien - and I do, he was a giant of fantasy and a giant of literature, and I think he wrote a great book that will be read for many years - you do have to wonder where all those Hobbits came from, since you can't imagine Hobbits having sex, can you? Well, sex is an important part of who we are. It drives us, it motivates us, it makes us do sometimes very noble things and it makes us do sometimes incredibly stupid things. Leave it out, and you've got an incomplete world.

Thank GRR MARTIN.

#aroace #representation matters #acephobic #acephobia #acephobes dni #wednesday addams #jango fett #boba fett #odo #frodo

[moonshinemagpie]

Just saw a post saying that the best queer spaces are ones with a "cishet dude or two" hanging around.

Honestly it's okay if you don't feel this way. I've had multiple, sometimes very, very hurtful experiences of "straight allies" joining in drag shows, pride parades, etc., only to later "come out" as acephobes, transphobes, and misogynists. My former friend, a straight man who performed at drag shows, told me he didn't see why him drunkenly catcalling women after the shows was a problem. This came out of left field. One of my former best friends, a straight woman, went full rabid TERF after reading Rowling's essay in 2020 and harassed me for refusing to exclude my trans friends from queer spaces. The list goes on.

Yes, queer people can also do these things, but anecdotally (in my experience!), it's been straight "allies" who decide to take on the responsibility of defining what they deem to be "acceptable queerness" and then using their privilege to hijack queer spaces. Straight people still have privilege in queer spaces. It is okay to make spaces that don't include them.

Even if allies are not using their privilege to be awful, there can still be a really uncomfortable feeling when everyone plays what I call "pet the straight," which is when the straight person in the room receives significant praise just for being there ("you're a certified ally!" "we love that you wanted to join us!").

I have experienced what's going on below multiple times, from people I've known for years and trusted:

(hiding it under a read more, but it's a picture showing former Economist editor Helen Joyce, a straight woman, holding up a pride flag that has had half its colors cut out, mostly because she hates trans people:)

#queerphobic #acephobic #transphobic #negative #politics #lgbt #there's something really fundamental about queer spaces that gets weirdly overlooked #straight people exist in spaces where they can safely assume most people are like them ALL of the time for THEIR WHOLE LIVES #queer people literally NEVER get this unless they're in a curated space #i was 22 years-old before i was in a room with 15+ people and knew everyone there was queer #this didnt happen for EM Forster until he was 40 years old #and he wrote that it changed his life #we should never feel guilty about curating life-changing community spaces #lots of people in the post i mentioned were trivializing and making fun of queer spaces too #like hmmm maybe i wont take their advice on queer spaces seriously

[leighsartworks216]

Hey, if someone HCs a character as ace, that does NOT give you permission to suddenly be acephobic toward a harmless HC that YOU DONT HAVE TO HAVE

#was scrolling on Pinterest and saw a hc for WWDITS Guillermo being gay ace #and I was like omg yes I had the same thought #and almost all the responses were acephobic #ITS NOT FUCKING OKAY #lgbtq #lgbtqa #gay #ace #asexual #acephobia #acephobic #guillermo de la cruz #wwdits #what we do in the shadows #wwdits guillermo #psa #rant #mini rant #vent #mini vent

[noodlexii]

Normalize talking about the ace and aro communities separately so dumbasses stop thinking they are the same. There’s no reason to put them together, I don’t wanna hear the argument about them being similar. Imagine talking about being gay and being bi or pan every time the other is mentioned so much that people have the miss information they are the same. If you wanna support them how about we talking about them on there own as they are there own separate labels. And how about me try to get away from the current allo normality portrayed in media. Start actually pushing for aro or ace rep and I don’t wanna see a aro ace character and they are like see rep and it’s just them being single and not addressing it. No I wanna see them separately AND together and with other labels and I want it talked about. Talk about how it feels to be ace or aro and talk about there experiences in life realizing it and and struggles they’ve had coming to terms with it based on the allo normative pressure put on us as a community by society.

#ace #aro #aroace #pride month #asexual #aromantic #alloromantic #allosexual #acephobic #ace pride #ace problems #arophobia #aro pride

[kingoftheu]

*Hurtling towards the ground on the Failed Inator of the Week*

Doofenshmirtz: Why must you always THWART me Perry the Platypus. Are you really that cruel? See this, THIS, is why you will never get a girlfriend!

Perry the Platypus: *platypus chatter*

Doofenshmirtz: Yes I had heard about your asexuality. I'm very glad you discovered that about yourself.

*beat*

Doofenshmirtz: I'm sorry about the girlfriend comment. I just blurted it out without thinking. My most sincere apologies Perry the Platypus.

Perry: *jumps out with his parachute*

Doofenshmirtz: *crashes*

Doofenshmirtz: CURSE YOU COMPULSORY HETEROSEXUALITY!

#asexual #perry the platypus #heinz doofenshmirtz #phineas and ferb #dr doofenshmirtz #doofenschmirtz #doctor doofenshmirtz #owca #acephobic #doof isnt really acephobic hes just dumb #and in reality he probably wouldnt say this #but #i had a very vivid dream last night #and it must be shared

[mythicaldemigoddess-of-deltarune]

Why Do Acephobic Jerks Bring Out My Dark Side...

[Note: do NOT reblog without permission, also some of this will be mature talk, such as the type of people who believe “r*pe” fixes someone, but really it doesn’t and does more harm than good........this isn’t for little kids, and the tags will have “mature audience only” and “not for kids” along with other mature tags. also no one has to read this post, as it is optional....so only read this post if you want to.]  

there is nothing wrong with being Ace or Aceflux, and even when I do flux some humans will still have a problem with my being Aceflux.

Toxic-Humans who seem to have a problem with Aces

and some who even agree to that "corrective r***" are going to be not attractive to me...

and those who do the corrective r*** might end up going to hell, and shouldn't even go to heaven.

even if other Earth Angels might disagree with me on that, but if some who are Acephobic cross that so called "corrective r***" line....then they should be punished for it.

I will NEVER forgive toxic-humans that think it's okay to do such a disgusting thing...

and there is some Aces that can be Bi, Vincian, Lesbian, Sapphic, Achillean, Enbian and Heteroromantic.

and it isn't right for both sides to try to force Aces to be interest in s*x in the same way that Heterosexuals or some who in the LGBT.

like one side saying that all Aces are Straight  while the other says that all Aces are Gay......FYI, some Aces will be romantically attracted to the opposite gender or the same gender or both, not all Aces are gonna be the same.

and even if I do know that not all people in the LGBT are jerks to Aces, I still would rather be a part of LGBTQIA.....

this is because of the jerks in LGBT who don't seem to want Aces to be part of them and say that all Aces are straight, and while some Aces are Heteroromantic-Ace or Heteroromantic-Aceflux, this isn't the case for all Aces...

plus I can be Aroaceflux and have another romantic identity added to it, meaning I wouldn't just be Aromantic-Flux....even though I know that I wasn't always Aromantic or Aroflux...

but that can be said for many who don't always start out as Aromantic but might become one later on...

I have had crushes before, and I even fell for the wrong type of guys, who I now know weren't the right type for me, and might of not really loved me for me....and I was a fool to trust them with my heart.

and besides being Aroaceflux, I know that I am a type of energy empath, and it might be possible that I have been picking up "lustful energies" that were not my own that would cause me to feel....

well let's say "turn on"....so I have another reason to wear my gem bracelets, besides the other reasons I wear them....

it is also to protect me from picking up those type of energies from people, that can fly around the air and end up in my space and cause me to feel it. besides those types of energies causing well that "switch".....

it might be possible that those energies can also cause seizures in children, some energies could be dangerous for babies and children who are empath, and if there is like too many people in a very big room, then the energies of those people will cause a overload to the body when the energy of those people end up being absorbed.

like even if you are minding your own business, and if you had seizures that aren't really the normal type, then you might end up having your body absorbing the energies of others that end up around the air.

some seizures will be energy based, and even if doctors try to solve the problem the same way they do with the seizures that don't happen because of energies....

they will only end up doing more harm than good and causing those who have energy based seizures own bodies to become addicted to the medicine....

I have learned that the best medicine for me, was moving away from the town that most of my seizures had happen in, because since moving to the town I live at now, I haven't had a seizure since, which I think might have to do with most of the places in the other town I had lived at before, had some bad energies in it.

it might not make sense to some, but not all seizures will be the type that will need the medicine, but even those who have energy based seizures will still be stuck taking it...

so far I'm the only Aroaceflux who has figured out they are a type of Empath and made sure to protect myself from other people's energies....

if I'm gonna feel any form of being "turn on" I rather it be on my body's terms when it flux to that, and not because of outside energy that belongs to someone else.

if I had to pick a song that fits the foolishness on how some humans who put down other humans for being Ace or Aceflux....

it would be "You'll Never Win My Love" by Jem & The Holograms.

if I was ever harmed in that disgusting "corrective" way, and my big brother ever found out......it is possible he would beat the inhuman filth who would dare harm me in that way. even if we might not agree with each other at times, but I'm still his baby sister (I can still use the word "sister" because I'm a Enbirl...)

and if he found out that one of those sickos had deflowered me without me being okay with it.....then he would likely punch them and beat them senseless. but I rather him not cross the line when beating them up, even if they deserve the beating, I don't want him to cross a line.

if those sickos keep going down that disgusting path, then what will be waiting for them will be a very mad parent or sibling who will beat them up. and if it weren't for the fact I'm also using my gem bracelets as sealing charms and limiters....

I would possibly go "Alessa Gillespie" on those sickos...

I love Silent Hill....I hope there will be a third movie someday. I still haven't beat the Silent Hill games I have, I know I'm stuck on some parts of the one where you play as Heather.

one of the reasons why I decided to use my gem bracelets as sealing charms and limiters, so I don't end up like Alessa Gillespie or Carrie White....

even if there are some people who are Acephobic, at least some of them know not to cross that disgusting line to try to “fix” someone.

that isn’t love, that is a heartless and loveless action that will only end up hurting the person, possibly both mentally and emotionally.

that isn’t “fixing” someone, that is breaking them to the point where they might never be the same again, and would probably have to therapy to talk about the trauma that was done to them. 

it isn’t right and it sucks that humans like that can both trigger and bring out a dark side of myself.

maybe the song that would match me when having to put up with Acephobic jerks, would be “Never Fall In Love Again” by Evan Rachel Wood.

“they can’t tell me what’s all about, cause I been there and I’m glad I’m out.”

and if I give my heart to someone who’s Acephobic, my heart is likely to shatter.

also is it weird to have thoughts of wanting to punch both Asmodeus and Raphael...?

I have my reasons of wanting to punch and or slap those two.... 

I’m still gonna have Raphael on that restraining order, he is still not allowed near me, like we could be in the same house and he could be in the other room, but he isn’t allowed to come too close to me.

and yes I had prayed for that restraining order, why I had to do it, I don’t want to explain about it right now...but I will say this, if it is true that Raphael has a pranking side to himself, he needs to learn there is a time and place for that.

and well, Asmodeus just confuses me, and yes I know he is suppose to be the embodiment of lust, but that ain’t what is confusing me.

maybe I can talk about the confusing thing with Asmodeus another time...

but I don’t think I will ever truly understand or accept Acephobia.

or why some humans think it’s okay to do that disgusting “fix” and think it is a good thing when it isn’t, it is loveless and heartless and will only do more harm than good. 

maybe it be best to try not to let those Acephobic jerks as well as those who do that whole stupid “fix” thing, get to me.

maybe talking about this once in a while in maybe a much calmer way might be good at times, but not all the time, maybe only once in a while.

I don’t think I was in a calm mood when first getting some of the feelings out about those who r*pe just to, well you know....but it isn’t okay no matter if it’s that stupid disgusting “fixing” or the other...

I know my family wouldn’t cross that disgusting line, even if I know they might not understand why I’m Aroaceflux, and might not know there will be some Aces who will be Heteroromantic and not all Aces will be the same.

I still can’t talk to them about it, I did want to come out as Aceflux, but like I said before, I wanted to get my family’s thoughts on Asexuality first before I came out.

like I said the other few times when I told this story, it didn’t turn out well, and I had to act like the talk wasn’t about me, and once I was in my room I let myself cry.

sometimes you can’t come out to your family, and that is the case with me.

I don’t think my family are like those Acephobic jerks and some of who end up crossing lines that shouldn’t be crossed.

I wonder if I talked to my big brother about it, would he accept me for being Aroaceflux...?

maybe I can ask him to promise not to tell anyone else in our family about it.

weird, for some reason right now, tears started to come out of my eyes...

maybe a part of me is worried that he might not accept me being Aroaceflux either.

I don’t know, but maybe if I try to do some stuff to take my mind off of it.

maybe it is possible to build up a immunity to some energies if your a energy empath, I’m not sure....I will have to look it up and see if it is possible.

I’m still gonna wear my gem bracelets when I sleep, to protect me for outside energies, and because of certain reasons I can’t use my dream-catcher for a while, I will still use one of my other gems as a alternative.

maybe after I check out a few arts on here, and then go and read, I can try to do some meditation, or maybe play some video games....

then again, maybe I can just check a few arts on here, read a little bit and then go to bed early....cause I just want to lay down and try to relax and not think about how stupid some toxic-humans are.

I hope some can understand my thoughts and feelings, and it doesn’t get misinterpreted.

no sane person would be okay with that sick and twisted thing that goes on.

even if you could write some mature fan fic or write a movie or video game with that kind of thing in it, but at least have the sicko get the karma where their actions have consequences.            

I would feel safer with The Radio Demon from Hazbin Hotel, than dangerous Acephobic Humans....yeah a Defective Earth Angel feeling more safer around a someone like Alastor, makes you question half of humanity that make up half of Omnimanity....

Alastor is still funny though, he’s dangerous but funny.

also I know I don’t know many empaths, and I didn’t even know I was one before when I kept having seizures in the places where I use to live before living in the town I live at now, because for some reason they stop all together.

I don’t think my family believes me or takes me seriously about my talking about that my seizures might be energy based.

heck, even I know that some who read this, wont take it seriously and only maybe a small half will and understand that not all seizures will be the same.

plus it’s like you can write mature stuff in some fan fic, like some stuff that is “snu-snu” implied but not really feel anything towards it.

I guess that might be confusing to some, but it’s like if you think about a mature scene from like one of the Deadpool Movies, but you don’t really feel anything about the scene...maybe some who read this might get what I’m trying to say.

or like if you think about the mature private time scenes in Mass Effect video game, where Shepard ends up having well “snu-snu” with one of the love interests, and you might end up finding yourself not really feeling anything towards it, like you know in the s*xual way....

maybe some will understand what I mean, and some might be considered lucky to not have their body go through well feeling “turn on” out of the blue, and finding out it is because half the time it isn’t you, it’s someone’s energy going through the air and your just ending up absorbing it.

and yeah, some people get some things wrong about that type of energy empath thing...

I mean, you don’t have to make physical contact for it to happen.

and I’m not sure if gem protection will work for everyone, and then there is the possibility you will still be valuable when you go to sleep.

and maybe I’m not the only one who gets all “dark side” when it comes to humans who are Acephobic or like thinking that their way of “fixing” solves everything, what they are doing is making some real life human less attractive.

and is it weird to have thoughts that Acephobics are possibly gonna be the reasons why I don’t want to fall in love.

like maybe some might have those thoughts, I don’t know...

but I know that some who are Acephobic, just don’t care or understand.            

they will possibly keep thinking that s*x is more important or like only being s*xually attracted to someone...well it sure seems that way.

it’s like “oh you should be really into s*x” or like “hey, why aren’t you into s*x, maybe you should try it.” or them being all “you just need to do it.”

DON’T FREAKING TELL ME TO DO IT JUST BECAUSE YOU PUT IT AS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE THE FEELING THAT SHOULD BE IN THE HEART, I AM NOT GONNA DO IT BECAUSE YOU ACEPHOBIC JERKS THINK IT’S MORE IMPORTANT THAN IT BEING BALANCED OUT WITH THE HEART FEELING!

sorry everyone, but with how some Acephobic people are, they are basically acting high on s*x and they are kind of making it seem that is the only thing that is important.

I can’t be the only one who views it that way, because it really does seem that some humans thinks s*x is more important and some who are Ace or Aceflux are just something alien to them, and they just assume that all Aces are straight or gay, not all Aces will be the same and we know that it will be the Toxic-Straights who will be the ones who believe that all Aces are Gay, same goes for some who are in LGBT who believe all Aces are straight.

I know that not everyone in LGBT are jerks to Aces, there are some good people in LGBT who aren’t insensitive jerks to those who are Ace.

 and I don’t want there to be a misunderstanding with the good people in LGBT, and I hope they understand why I would rather be part of LGBTQIA, because at least in the Multi-A in it, the Ace is included in a fair way, right...?

I’m still not sure if I am Intersex, even if I have suspected it but I am really not sure anymore, there are different types of Intersex, and not all will be noticeable after you are born.

I know that the “I” in LGBTQIA, stands for Intersex.

if there was a blood test I could do, that can show me if I’m Intersex or not, that would be great.

I mean they have that home blood test, that let’s you see what your blood type is, why can’t there be one where it can tell you if your Intersex or not.

and I can’t talk to my family about it, and it’s not likely I can get a doctor to help with it.

and there are reasons why I suspected that I might be Intersex, but maybe I’m not.

maybe I shouldn’t worry about it right now, I’m still unsure about it.

anyway, I hope some you understand why some humans who do that disgusting stuff and half of them might be acephobic, peeve me off.

maybe whenever people like that peeve me off, I should try to do stuff that calms me and helps me relax, like maybe listening to some music and reading, and saving playing video games with fighting in it for later.

I can’t help but love using the bat in Fallout 4, and I was finally able to upgrade one of the bats.

it does seem the bat gets a bit more powerful when you upgrade it in the game.

anyway I’m just gonna go and check out a few arts on here, and then maybe in the next post, I can talk about some fun stuff like fan theories about a show or movie or video game or book series.                           

#r*pe mention #acephobic #acephobes fuck off #deflowering #aroaceflux #empath #may be triggering #dark side #mature audiences only #mature warning #not for kids #do not reblog without permission

[nelliecom3t]

Quick Thing:

Ok, so my bestie and I eat lunch every day in the same room in our school, because it’s away from other people and nice and comfy. BUT. I can never get a signal!! I’ve tried everything. But, NO DATA FOR NELLIE. My bestie happens to have no trouble getting a connection. Therefore, IT IS ACE-PHOBIC. (My friend is gay and trans so it can’t be queer-phobic.) Stupid wifi. You’ll regret this when we invade Denmark.

#asexual #no wifi #data #no signal #asexuality #rant post #acespec #come on bro #acephobic

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

How do you deal with casual aphobic comments?Like when you come out as aroace and someone says “well have you actually tried romance/sex” or “maybe you just haven’t found the right person yet”. Like I know they’re not trying to be offensive but it hurts. And I always feel horrible pointing it out because like even though they made the comments, they still accepted me, even if they think it’s just a phase, and that’s more than a lot of queer people get. So I just feel like I’m complaining about a first world problem but like it really does hurt.

Ok straight of the bat; if they say it’s “just a phase” they are not accepting. If they say “well have you tried it?” They are not accepting. If they say “maybe you haven’t met the right person yet” they, and say it with me now, they are not accepting

Acceptance isn’t “I like you as a person but I don’t like what you are” acceptance isn’t “I think this is fake but your my friend and I ‘accept’ you”

Acceptance is “oh wow I don’t know what that is but cool!” Or “I don’t understand that but I support you!” Or “What’s that can you explain it to me?” Or maybe even “oh that’s cool I have a third cousin who is also xyz” (grey area but)

Dealing with ace phobia is something no one should deal with ever but unfortunately so many people don’t recognise some signs that someone isn’t supportive. I really feel for you here, it took me a while to realise that some people didn’t understand because they chose not to and they made comments like the above because they choose to.

The only true way through this @dragonsarecool123 is to educate people or ignore them. It is not your job to educate people, don’t feel the need to in anyway! Unfortunately cutting people out is sometimes the only pathway.

I’m so sorry asker, I was kind of harsh here but I think this was needed. We’re always here for you and I’m sure most of you irls support and love you!

You are incredible, amazing and deserve true friends asker, I wish you the best in life and goals. You are always valid <3

#aromantic #aroace #asexual #aro #ace #asks #ask #pride #aro pride #lgbtqia #acephobic #acceptance

[yagikidd57]

Ace Notes by Michele Kirichanskaya.

(I wish this book came out when I was 14🥲😅)

#ace notes #book #asexual #asexuality is valid #asexuality #ace space #ace community #acephobic #acephobia #lgbtqia+

[myrandomthoughtsblog]

Am I the only one that thinks that she hulk was kinda acephobic while talking to Bruce about Steve's virginity?

#lgbtqia+ #my random thoughts on lgbtqia+ #queer #asexual #ace #actually ace #ace spectrum #acespec #asexuality #acephobia #she hulk #marvel #my random thoughts on marvel #hulk #capitan america #bruce banner #acephobic

[weeamdeadinside]

Just got told by an acephobic that I didn't exist, so y'all want to come help me haunt the buttermilk biscuit who has been insulting me for not being Allo?

Because ghost don't exist, and neither do I, so get ready for some spooky shit, Rebecca.

#asexual #lgbtq community #lgbtq #lgbtqiia+ #acephobic #acephobes fuck off #acephobia #ghosts #asexual struggles #asexuals are valid

[punapioni]

#Asexual #Ace #Truly one of the moments of all time #If an acephobe touches this i'm peeling your skin off