#cluster b acceptance

[leo--png]

It’s not ableism. We should be cautious with custard b people when they have a famous streak of getting vindictive with people (we often perceive as innocent where they see a guilty party is a hallmark of ASPD; yes getting revenge for strange reasons -without logic- or believing someone is guilty where majority of normal people would perceive that person as innocent is a HALLMARK of ASPD and psychopathy).

And the symptoms: manipulative, deceitful, rash, manipulate for self benefit and entertainment, blameshifting, argumentative/starting arguments, law breaking, perceiving self as better than everyone else, acting above the laws and rules, having a streak of poor and abusive relationships, exploitative behaviors.

Autism has to do with sensory issues and not understanding social ques, ADHD has to do with attention and focus problems, these disorders are NOT the same disorders. Pedophiliac disorder for example had to do with wanting to rape children. Some disorders CAN be dangerous and it’s not stigma to recognize that.

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#npd awareness #npd safe #actually narcissistic #actually npd #npd #cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #cluster b acceptance #what

[guiltyidealist]

Latest hobby: radical self-acceptance codependency affirmations

I like to use over-the-top edgy imagery to invoke the ~emo~ sentiments we associate with edge, juxtaposing the aggressively self-loving text. accentuates the punk nature of radical acceptance

#guiltyedits #radical self acceptance #affirmations #codependency #recovering codependent #edgy #grunge #hopepunk #dogs #wolves #cats #life necessity #favorite person #bpd fp #cluster b #personality disorder #trauma #attachment styles #people pleaser #caretaking #manipulation #unhealthy obsession #unhealthy relationships #addiction #behavioral addiction #to thine own self be true #codapunk #autonomy #consent culture #borderline personality disorder

[finedinereception]

i think simon does end up physically back to where he started, mostly because i really want to explore the idea of simon emotionally hurting himself by trying to draw a line between himself and ice king. because the thing is that even if hes physically back to normal, he still is mentally afflicted by the remains of magic insanity and all the memories of those 900 years. hes extremely forgetful. he loses his temper more easily than before, or will start crying for reasons beyond his understanding. his physical coordination isnt as good as it was before. he feels godawful when magic queen puts the daily checklist back on the wall, because hes normal now, why cant he just remember to eat every morning? why is he getting lost 2 blocks away from his own home? why is he losing his temper over incredibly mild things?

its about the internalized hatred for himself. cutting a piece of his own identity away because hes not as well as he once was. he was ice king for longer than he was simon, but he doesnt want to acknowledge that it is part of his history and identity. itd be easier if ice king was a stranger who took control of his body for a while.

and he really needs to come to terms with the fact that he IS ice king, ice king IS him, just a different phase of his life, because pushing that fact away is only hindering his recovery.

#adventure time #simon petrikov #wizard married au #to be clear im not gonna label it with a specific mental illness because it can be a sensitive subject #its a magic-based condition similar to real world mental illnesses that makes him forgetful and damages coordination and mood regulation #but i dont wanna go hyper specific since i dont have experience with such conditions #my own experiences are mostly with cluster b disorders. bipolar depression. and anxiety #and he is refusing to use the coping methods ice king and magic queen came up with together because doing so would mean accepting ice king #as himself #and doing that is going to be an important step in moving forward #betty has also got some memory restoration stuff going on but its gonna be a LOT more complex and long-term

[aspd-thoughts]

the amount of so-called “leftists” that believe that being Cluster B is evil, I just-

as someone who spends a lot of time in far-left spaces, the deep-seated ableism against Cluster B peeps is even in the most accepting spaces. They call all right-wingers psychopaths, call Trump a narcissist, say that BPD causes right wing ideology.

And one of the worst parts, I think, is that they will never see the error of their ways. If you try to correct them they double down. My mantra is literally “NCBs are really fucking protective of their insults.”

actual response I’ve gotten from saying that calling Trump a narcissistic sociopath is ableist:

“Fair enough! No need for downvoting this well thought out take on my description of who and what he represents. By definition he has displayed the signs of a sociopath and a narcissist. I don't mean it as an insult rather a matter of fact. I'm not a psychologist or psychiatrist to diagnose anyone though I can rely on the opinions who are that would agree with my assessment within this thread.”

As it stands, it’s near impossible to exist as a Cluster Ber pretty much anywhere. Stigma against us is so normalized that calling it out makes us seem like the bad guys. It’s seen as reasonable or even smart to use the S and P slur against your political enemies.

And I honestly don’t see it getting better in the near future.

This, in my opinion, is why Cluster B spaces are so important. We need at least one place where we can just be ourselves without having to be closeted or constantly insulted. We need our own spaces because the ones that exist sure don’t want us.

#cluster b #life of a cluster b #ASPD #NPD #BPD #HPD #Cluster B siblings need to stick together #it’s rough out here #Obviously right-wingers are just as bad but I don’t like excusing the left of stuff just because they’re better than the right #Don’t get me wrong I’m still a die-hard leftist #This is a post about how stigma is even in the most otherwise accepting spaces

[lesbian-honey-lemon]

this autism acceptance month I would like for everyone making posts/art to STOP using the rainbow infinity symbol to represent ONLY autism. The rainbow symbol is for ALL NEURODIVERGENTS. This includes disorders completely separate from autism such as Down Sydrome, ASPD, NPD, schizophrenia, Angelman Syndrome, and many other disabilities. It is not a symbol for autism in specific. The Autism Colors are red and gold (red for Red Instead, gold for AU)

Please use red and gold infinity symbols for when you talk about autism specifically, and save the rainbow symbol for when you talk about neurodiversity in general.

#some of these bitches talk shit about cluster b disorders and intellectual disability and then use the rainbow symbol for autism #like bitch that’s their symbol too #if your post doesn’t apply to a person with Down syndrome or a person with NPD as much as it would an autistic person #then don’t use the rainbow infinity symbol #autism #autism acceptance month #autism acceptance #actually autistic #autism spectrum disorder #asd #neurodivergence #neurodivergent #nd

[chaos-in-one]

Unsurprising note, r/fakedisordercringe is extremely ableist about npd and openly uplifts the idea that npd = being an asshole, abuser, manipulator, etc

And also promotes the idea that a *real* narcissist would never admit to having npd... as if that isn't anti recovery as fuck....

#yes it usually takes longer for people with it to accept it #myself included I was in therapy for years before I even started to question it let alone accept it #but that doesn't mean anyone who gets to the point where they can accept and admit it is faking!!! #admitting you have the disorder is a HUGE part of being able to recover! #npd #npd thoughts #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissist #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality traits #narcissistic people #r/fakedisordercringe #ableism #cluster b #cluster b stigma #npd stigma

[foolishnpd]

getting called out for my behavior is the worst. criticism is just an instant mood drop like no other

#lilyroaring #npd #actually narcissistic #cluster b vent #rejection sensitive dysphoria #narcissistic personality disorder #un-fucking-fortunately #i am not delusional enough to just ignore it #as much as i want to think it's all wrong and i'm above it and i'm perfect and FUCK THAT i don't have to care!!!! #the rational part of me knows it's right #and i would be the bigger person if i just accepted it humbly #and didn't become a giant piss baby about it #i can be Normal about criticism i prommy #(i wanna die) #worst part is when the criticism is fully true and i can't ignore it on the premise of not being a real issue 💀 #like damn i actually gotta fix this shit #can i just kill myself and/or everyone else instead about it

[profic-mafuyu]

ashley has bpd i dont make the rules /j

#❅ — yuki speaking #buttt if u disagree with me fine #she has a cluster b disorder ok don't try to deny this (/j) #hsdfjhjsfdkhjs #i accept aspd hcs too but #bpd... bpd girlies (/gn) are so cool dshfkhksfdhkahka #yall are so hot (im also calling myself hot but shush) #edit: this is abt ashley from tcoaal but that should be obvious dfsjksfdjksdf

[pyxsysboxes]

Shoutout to systems with BPD!

Shoutout to systems with NPD!

Shoutout to systems with HPD!

Shoutout to systems with ASPD!

Shoutout to systems who are able to love their disorders!

Shoutout to systems who AREN'T able to love their disorders!

I hope you all have a fantastic day!! <3<3

#Rambled earlier this morning about how we can't really love our BPD but still accept it and enjoy positivity towards BPD #It's still nice to see and even comforting or validating on bad days even if we can't actively love our disorder #mod branzy [🎲] #did osdd #cluster b positivity #bpd #hpd #npd #aspd #endos dni

[cluster-b-culture-is]

cluster b culture is unintentionally outing your cluster b disorder when giving your input on one of your colleague’s suspicion of someone having bpd and correcting your other colleague’s use of ‘narcissistic’

(they were accepting and thanked me for sharing and correcting them lol)

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#cluster b culture is #cluster b #npd #aspd #bpd #hpd #Mod Reef #anonymous #in my experience. if you're around the right people. #way more people are accepting than you'd expect so long as you're willing to educate them #i'm very picky about who i hang out with and avoid people who don't share the same/similar views #(hence why i dropped an entire friend group recently including the only person i'd been friends with for longer than 2 years) #and that's lead to most of the people i end up coming out to as cluster b being pretty accepting if a little uneducated

[subconsciousmysteries]

it pains me to announce that if you got fucked over by someone with a mental illness and now you project that mental illness onto everyone mildly strange who you come into contact with

you too are MENTALLY ILL and you need to stop scapegoating others for your problems because you are the fucking problem.

#this is directed at everyone who thought i was their BPD mother cuz im expressive #and everyone who accuses random people they dont even know who havent even done anything bad #of having NPD or BPD vibes #YOU ARE THE MENTALLY ILL ONE IF YOU TREAT PEOPLE THIS WAY #youre the paranoid narcissist bpd haver etc. because this is literally what cluster Bs do by definition #they project the emotional pain and trauma of their past onto everyone around them #thats their entire cluster b disorder and what it does #i hate the discourse around cluster bs esp. npd and aspd which dehumanizes them in this weird way #where theyre turned into like these legendary deities of evil who are no longer human bc of their disorder #no... they are weak humans who are letting their demons run them. its literally that simple. #we're all traumatized but some ppl use it as an excuse to succumb to their demons whilst others act with respect #acting like cluster b are irredeemable or cant be cured or have some ailment that is beyond the plebian understanding #is actually a way to keep them avoiding accountability. #and force people around them into a “oh theyre just like that and they cant change and we have to accept them” mentality #if you have a cluster b disorder youre not specially traumatized and incomprehensible to the normies at all #youre just weak #and a bad person #and you need to get a grip #lol reason 2352852398 i hate psychiatry #it gives people with these disorders a label to identify with and this entraps them further in their fixation #like enneagram when used as a dumb personality quiz does

[nicepersondisorder]

if people knew my real opinion on things i'd get publicly executed

#☆.txt #this is mainly about my friend and acquaintances irl. but also i would totally get a call out post on tumblr or twitter lmao #i think folks in cluster b tags and whatever tumblr side this blog resides on is generally more accepting tho #🖤

[will-pilled]

"Cringe culture is dead" people when you're autistic in a way that isn't the UwU TikTok aesthetic, mentally ill in literally way that isn't Autism or ADHD or aesthetic/hard to romanticize, fat, have body hair, AMAB, poor, have a special interest that isn't My Little Pony or popular things from 2014, or non white:

#cringe culture #cringe culture is dead #cringe #cringe culture is stupid #cringe culture is over #cringe culture is ableist #queer #autistic #cluster B #DID #furries #scene #emo #fat acceptance #racism #especially fat men lmao #they will tear fat men to SHREDS and literally over what #theyre just as big of bullies as normies lmao

[aspd-thoughts]

This is going to make me sound like a horrible person but. Was anyone else weirdly comforted by the increased suicide rate for people w/ ASPD when they first found out?

like, obviously it’s a tragedy, but… I was in the middle of a spiral of oh my god I might have ASPD my life is over I’m horrible when I found that out, and like. I was seriously considering killing myself, and something about the fact that even if I do kill myself, I won’t be the only person with this who has was just. It was honestly a lifesaver, just the reassurance that I’m not alone. Other people have felt this way. Idk.

#Look this is a vent blog so you guys are getting my less acceptable vents too #suicide TW #vent #Life of a cluster b #Sending myself the “no one thinks like this you are a broken person” reaction image as I write this

[thehealingsystem]

just got the best flag ideas. but I need someone to point out to me what the proper hpd, aspd, and general cluster b flags are

#pretty please #I don't know what the most popular/well accepted ones are #and googling does not help #cluster b #actually cluster b #hpd #aspd #I already know what the bpd and npd ones are #mogai #pride flags #idk how to tag this but just please help me on this one

[selves-acceptance]

you are entitled to a beautiful and wacky understanding of how things work best for you! you are the expert of your own experience and ✨being mentally ill does not invalidate that✨

#pro recovery; anti sanism. pro whatever works for you; anti prescriptive views of recovery #etc #mentally ill #actually mentally ill #cluster b #i promise us being pd-ridden doesn’t invalidate our right to determine what we want #mental illness recovery #recovery #mental health #self care #healing #selves-acceptance #🧿