"You're so lucky! I wish I could just stay at home all day instead of going to school or working"
I have to go to school/work just as much as anyone else does, the difference is that I physically can't. Not having the same choice as abled people does not make me lucky. Staying at home because I can't go to school or work does not mean I get to do whatever I want. Staying at home every day without being able to do anything is not fun. Not being able to do anything but lay down in bed or on the couch gets boring really fast. That's not even taking the chronic pain I endure into account.
Being chronically ill is not being lazy. It's not a choice, or something anyone would choose. It's a disability.
at a certain point i think we need to acknowledge that art is very rarely created accidentally. if you can see a theme in a work than that theme was, more likely than not, at least somewhat intentional on behalf of the creator. you don't put a piece of yourself out into the world without thinking about what it means at least a little bit.
Ughh just thinking about Leona brutally rejecting the waiter who so brazenly flirts with him in front of you at a restaurant. Maybe he’s not the best at showing affection, but if you think he’s going to indulge in anything like that, to let anyone disrespect you, you’re wrong. He’s already okay with being mean, but it’s even better when people give him an actual excuse. The look on their face when he tells them to fuck off is good, but your embarrassment mixed with endearment is even better.