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mattmalteseenjoyer · 13 days

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i’m a simple man if you ask me for song recs and then tell me what you think about them later i’ll be in love with you forever

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conandailyblog · 3 months

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conan gray might be the most comforting person ever. like just looking at this beautiful human, you know he would never do anything to hurt someone.

#he is unlabled btw #so dont be weird #conan gray #i love conan gray #lgbtqia #superache #conan gray superache #heather conan gray #astronomy conan gray #conan grey #gay

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the-sun-is-also-a-star · 8 months

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my favourite hc is that remus is unlabeled. he's always known that he likes boys too but he doesn't care enough to label himself. it's always been sirius for him and that's all that mattered.

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thatkidwholikesthunderbirds · 11 months

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New pfp for my main for pride month.

Featuring the Aroace Unlabeled combo flag. 🧡💛🤍💚🤍🩵💙

#ive adopted this flag #i love it so much #aroace #unlabled #unlabled gender #unlabled aroace #thunderbirds are go #thunderbirds #thunderbirds fanart #gordon tracy #thunderfam #kidthunder's art #sfw interaction only

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satanicchristiancult · 7 months

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Sexuality and labeling is weird and I want to talk about it.

This is all focused on my own experiences.

Honestly, I have no exact reason to post this, especially since I have homework that was due yesterday that I still haven’t finished, but oh well.

Back when I was really active on queer spaces (I genuinely used to be one of the moderators of a pretty large Amino. I spoke with so many people about so many things. It’s impressive that I even managed to do that), I used to really investigate as many labels as I could. I knew about so many obscure gender, romantic, and sexual identities just for the sake of helping other people find their own.

I guess that I was, in one way or another, searching for my own identity. At that point in my life, I would have described my identity as panromantic, asexual, and demiromantic. I was okay with that definition. I was someone who didn’t experience sexual attraction, and felt little romantic attraction unless it was to someone close, in which case, their gender or identity didn’t matter.

I liked finding labels for myself. Finding something in the gender department was a tad bit harder. I identified with pangender and liked it.

I drifted apart from the community and just stopped engaging in queer spaces like that all together.

I constantly debated whether or not I was more aroflux than demiromantic, so for a while I’d just use them interchangeably.

Around that time, I came out for the first and only time.

Hear me out, I consider these things important, but I’ve always had the idea that I’m just never gonna come out to anyone. I’d be fine with that. I’m me. That’s enough. I don��t own anyone any pretty words to describe my identity. (I did like the flags though).

This time I came out, I tried to do this same explanation, plus some other xenogenders and more obscure identities that I somewhat identified with, while adding the flags as well:

“I’m pangender, which means that I identify with all genders and with none of them at the same time. Between that pangender identity, there are xenogenders, which refers to genders that can’t be described in the usual “masculine”, “feminine”, and “androgynous” ways. I use neopronouns, which refers to pronouns other that “he”, “she”, and “they”. I use xe/xem pronouns and strongly resonate with them. I’m asexual, so I don’t experience sexual attraction. I’m panromantic, demiromantic, and aroflux, which means that I don’t experience romantic attraction, except for when I do, in which case it tends to be for people who I have a strong emotional bond with. This person/people could be of any gender. I don’t care about looks, identity, anything. Just personality~”

Fun fact, to this day, even after so many years of using xe/xem pronouns, not a single person has ever referred to me with them. None of my neopronouns. Not even once.

The reaction, of course, silence from the group chat.

Some questions. Other than that, nothing.

Honestly, people don’t expect you to go on and come out, identifying with microlables. People expect you to identify with the classic sexualities, all of those in the acronym. LGBT. (That’s why I like to extend that bastard as much as I can while still making it “socially acceptable” so people don’t look at me weirdly. LGBTQIA2S+).

Honestly, I don’t know what I expected. I had a similar conversation with a cousin. It’s was like 1am and we were chatting, and he said “oh, well, but we did need the “gay cousin””. I told him it was me, he told me that it was him. We just repeated those things for a while. Eventually, I genuinely asked him if he meant it. I told him I did. He told me he did. We came out to each other. I guessed his sexuality correctly, I explained each of my identities carefully.

Next time we saw each other, we talked about it. I came out, explained each label again. He hadn’t heard about a single one of them. I told him my preferred pronouns, my odd disconnect with my given name, and things like that.

He seemed to have forgotten by the next time. He referred to me with that name, which is fine, but the pronouns. Those hurt. I wasn’t gonna say anything though. It’s been years, I still haven’t.

Not so long ago, he came out to me. I accepted him, used his pronouns, addressed him by his name (which I don’t know how he spells, by the way, cause this is Latinoamérica and you can never asume how someone writes their name, we have like a thousand different ways to write each one). I came out again. I repeated my crisis with my name. My pronouns. Has he used them? I haven’t got a clue. We haven’t been able to speak one on one for a while. I miss him.

I guess that these experiences of coming out, plus an almost forced outing and an actual forced outing, neither of which I’m gonna expand upon, made myself look at my own identity differently. I started considering the identity of unlabeled.

I like labels. I liked labeling myself. It meant having a community of others like me. A space.

I started feeling disconnected from them, in a weird way, at least. Am I technically all of those things? Yes. Do those terms explain me correctly? Not really??

I’ve slowly just gone on to identify myself as me. I love love, I love everyone and everything. I want to have a relationship, marry, hell, maybe even sex. I don’t know. I like the idea of those things. I can’t picture myself as actually being in any of those, but I like to believe that they will come someday, and that I will enjoy them.

I love in a nonconventional way. For me, love is love, no matter whether or not it is sexual, romantic, platonic, or anything else.

My gender? It is yes and no. Everything and nothing. It doesn’t matter, yet it does.

I don’t understand, even after so many years of being in both the aro and ace spectrums, what the hell is “attraction”. I guess I just don’t feel those. Isn’t that the definition of both of those terms? Yes.

It’s truly been years, and until recently did I manage to open my eyes and tell myself “even without attraction, you can have a relationship. You can have sex”.

It was so contradictory to me. If I don’t have attraction, do I just not want those things? In my case, I do want them, I am attracted to the idea. Whenever it comes to people, it’s harder though. I’m terrified of people. I want a relationship. I want to have sex. I want to understand.

What even is attraction???

I identify as unlabeled, but I am in denial.

I am unlabeled, but only in my head.

Hell, not even there.

I’m not gonna come out to anyone as that. If anyone asks, I’ll make a simplified version of what I’ve always said. “Aroace and panromantic. Gender? Good question”.

Do any labels actually identify me? Yes and no. I’m disconnected from them. I want them to fit. They fit. But they don’t.

I’m me. That’s enough.

Is it enough?

I try each day to convince myself that it is.

I also don’t know.

-Mori (They/Xem)

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krashoutluv · 2 months

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dw bae we know how manly you are we just like calling people girl (I called my dad "girl" yesterday and he was like wtf did you just said to me)

it's bcause we love you

i love you too anon but im too much of a little bitch to be called manly

#boycoded

(N’ ITS COOL IM FINE WITH CALLIJG PEOPLE GIRL, I DO THE SAME SHIT TO MY DAD LOLOLO)

#tis the reason i’m unlabled #i love you anon #boy coded #krashoutluv #|| 🪼krash responds to u

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demadogs · 1 year

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I agree some much with you!

Mike is as much as a character as the rest of them, and as such he deserves to have a character arc interwined with the exploring of his sexuality rather than just being the guy who went from dating person 1 to dating person 2

mikes entire character arc revolves around him struggling with his sexuality. halfway through the show something switched and he for some reason wasnt the caring protective best friend to will that we were used to. they definitely have to acknowledge that and they wont do that just be leaving him ‘unlabeled’ and letting him get with will and live happily ever after. hes going to have to talk about the fact that hes gay.

also like… its the 80s people. hes not just gonna start holding wills hand around all the other characters and have no one question it.

#i dont like the concept of unlabled queer characters #its not woke or some shit like explicitely say theyre gay you coward #like there are some obviously queer coded characters but i wouldve preferred if there was just ONE scene where they actually address it #im thinking of eleanor from the good place #like shes def bi and i love that and they showed that in a lot of subtle ways but i wish she just straight up said one time that shes bi #or just bring up an ex girlfriend or something #thats a great show tho #byler #eden answers

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hoolay-boobs · 10 months

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Ever After High icons of the characters of the dolls I own <3

Darling, Briar, Rosabella, and Cupid

Bonus! My queer headcannons (and Darling’s canon teehee) because it’s Pride Month :)

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cowboy-ladybug · 2 years

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the NEW interpretations of the funny little unwinds. not that much has changed in terms of how i think of them its just my style that’s different

(in right to left order its lev, risa, hayden, then connor)

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haunting-hari · 3 months

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🌹 [ROSE] Does your OC believe in true love? Why?

true love is a hoax?? it’s highly unlikely for one to find a reliable partner for life. have you heard of divorce?? you can be so sure that you love each other but nothing is ever permanent. investing yourself for love will do nothing but hurt yourself and others in the end.

so tldr NO

i do have an undying love for mints and maru if it counts

#rotomblr #rotumblr #pkmn irl #pokeblogging #pokemon irl #ask #//“love is a hoax” LOUD INCORRECT BUZZER #//YOU ARE UNLABLED BUT NOT ARO 🫵🫵#//mod is aro tho. so when i say love is a hoax it’s true. when hari says it it’s not/j

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mollyollypuddingpolly · 1 year

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Bi Mike this, Gay Mike that (I'm a Bi mike truther myself) but I also think there are interesting options that I doubt the show will ever go for, mainly because it's harder to explain in the context of the 80s.

Like Demi Mike, who doesn't experience feelings for someone until he forms a really close bond. Who was always self conscious when Lucas and Dustin were talking about girls because how does he know if he likes them? Or if they were cute? He barely knew them. Demi Mike, who wasn't focused on El as a romantic interest until the others mentioned it, and he thought 'oh am I acting like I like her? Maybe I do? But then, as he got closer with her and bonded, the feelings started to come, but maybe not as strongly as they should. He isn't sure.

That is until his best friend, who he's been closest to out of the group for years, who he almost lost once, is moving away, and he feels something different flutter in his chest. And that feeling only continues to grow as the two drift apart. Maybe he isn't even sure what it is, because he's never felt these feelings so strongly before but suddenly Will is the most beautiful person he's ever seen and he doesn't know what to do about it.

And like I said, I don't expect the show to fully explain all of that. Like, I actually don't expect Mike to realize it's a part of his sexuality until he's much older, and being Demi is more known.

#bi mike wheeler #demi mike wheeler #byler #stranger things #i honestly expect him to be unlabled because i dont expect him to know exactly what it all means yet #just that hes in love with Will #also im not Demi so i hope this is accurate!#Demi Bi mike wheeler

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emily-mooon · 4 months

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Here’s a little doodle of me as a muppet!

#the hair clip and pink and green bracelet represent my two otps atm: nordegrim and jancy #the other bracelet is the unlabled flag #and yes that is a joy division unknown pleasures shirt (I don’t own it but I want to)#love the muppets love those funky guys #the muppets #muppet sona #my sona

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nicxxx5 · 1 year

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maybe one day i'll tell my dad about having a crush on someone who wasn't the opposite gender

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hoperays-song · 1 year

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Sing Pride Pictures ft. My Headcanons: The Redshore Boyfriends

Darius Andeno:

Unlabled (He/Him Pronouns)

Harry Ochieng:

Gay Intersex (He/They Pronouns)

#sing #sing 2 #sing harry the hypnotist #sing darius #sing darry #and they were roommates #omg they were roommates #they're gay your honor #and in love #unlabled #gay #intersex #these two are definitely dating #just look at them #i love them #ii swear if we have an issue with the uses of the mlm flag: remember that its creator said nonbinary and intersex people could use it

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rey-ieatedurdrywall · 9 months

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and what if i told you sirius was unlabeled. what would you do. what would you do then.

#hopefully accept it actually #yes this is me projecting #NO ONE CARES ABT THE UNLABELED BITCHES #LIKE I DONT WANT A LABEL #LIKE STOP TRYING TO GIVE ME ONE #I NEED REPRESENTATION LOVELIES #now actual tags #maraurders era #maraurders #sirius black #padfoot #unlabled gender #unlabeled #unlabled sexuality

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t4tcecilos · 2 years

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happy pride month to everyone’s favorite strexcorp employee

[ID: a pen drawing of Kevin from Welcome To Night Vale. he is standing and tilting his head to the left. he is smiling eerily, as his eyes and mouth are nonhuman. Kevin has a tail and antenna. //end]

#kevin wtdb #kevin wtnv #welcome to desert bluffs #welcome to night vale #strexcorp #wtnv #wtdb #my art #fanart #LOVE HIM!!!! <3 #kevin is my fav shes so scrunkle #hc moment: kevin is genderqueer + uses she/he/it/smile/heart pronouns #also heart identities as unlabled in my brain <3 #body horror #horror #<<< jic

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