#mentalhelth

[bordercreature]

mentalhelth

[magical-anime-and-jap-media]

Here are characters I used to idealize as my lover, the idealzatin come from unhealthy & insecure & bad mentalhelth stuff & a damaged & unhalthy perception of love n romanc it's hard to explain. there are a patterns here

when i thought i was a straight girl: (Zen from ANSH) -ciel phantomhive, alois trancy, mukami azusa, crona, kiria( prettycure), komaeda, ouma, shuya kano from kagero project( i had to look up his name)

-Hinata Hajime is a formative one, -Saihara Shuichi, Aihara mei, -Aroma, -Todou Yurika very much, -Kirya Aoi, -Sakuraba Rola, Ranko from Idolmaster, -Yohane, -Riko/ cure magical, Kuromi, Nishikino Maki, ayase Eli, hikami sumire, tsumiki mikan, celestia ludenberg, Marceline, mio, akemi homura is a big one, harukawa maki, raven queen, kirigiri kyoko, watanabe you, Shikyoin Hibiki surprisingly, Togami byakuya, pacifia west, fukawa touko, kurumi erika, munakata kyosuke, darling charming, goth from the poly webtoon

The ideal I had was the goth lesbian/ gay man. Because in how i imagined goths I saw stability, confidence and seriousness, beauty, dominance, sophisticat, air of mystery + aloofness. I dreamed of a dominant same-sex partner

also this isn't a case of attraction but just idealizatio of my future lover a few years ago born from insecurity. I'm not into genders. I have no sexuality or orientation or attraction and I shouldn't have to. If I'm really trans, I hate me too much to transition or live my life authentically.

when i switched from thinkin i'm straight to thinkin i'm lesbian, it was together with a slower switch from thinkin "I could fix him with my love and we'd tie each other up" to " (s)he could fix me with their love and she'd tie me up"

To follow here some characters I projected on me or were the me-role in the relationships with the ideal love interests above: mabel pines, fluffle puff, ichigo from tokyo mewmew, (shirayuki from ANSH) Elizabeth midfort, yukishiro honoka, yumehara nozomi, komaeda, ouma, Aihara yuzu, maizono sayaka, nanami chiaki, princess bubblegum

I had a bit manicpixiedreamgirl-complex. It's connected to my upbringin. I thought self-sacrifice and provin me good enough was the only love I could give someone, and someone deemin me good enough = romance, love. I got into anime with edgy sadboys and was like someone(me) needs to fix them with love and then romance happens. Like cuz I'm a girl i have to be this positive force who's never sad/angry herself but is also weak and submissive. Before that around the end of 5th grade I decided I wanted to become an ideal girl, pure good, a damsel in distress, an angel, a cheerful girly girl. unknowingly a manic pixie dream girl.

charas I relate to now: Hanekawa Tsubasa, himemiya Anthy, Iruma Miu, komaeda, suzumiya haruhi, nagisa kaworu, hoshizora miyuki, yumekawa yui, iwakuhara lain, maizono sayaka, crona. positive role models: Tenjou Utena, Naegi Makoto, "Sagishi/ Ippanjin" from Akudama Drive, yumehara nozomi

[mindsetlions]

Bill Gates entregou um cheque a uma jornalista dizendo-lhe para marcar o dinheiro que ela quisesse. Ela respondeu ofendida: ' ' Senhor Bill Gates, eu não falo disso. Perguntei qual é o segredo do seu sucesso." Ele entregou o cheque novamente, mas ela recusou-se a aceitar. Bill Gates disse-lhe: ′′ É a sua última chance, pegue-o e coloque a quantidade que quiser ". Ela não aceitou. Então ele rasgou o cheque e disse: ' ' O segredo do meu sucesso é que eu não perco nenhuma chance como você acabou de fazer. Se você tivesse a filosofia de ver situações e propostas como oportunidades, poderia ter se tornado a jornalista mais rica do mundo... A diferença entre você e eu, é que eu vejo oportunidades em tudo e você viu tudo, menos uma chance." @mindsetlions . . . . #mindsetlions #mindset #marketing #empreendedorismo #marketingdigital #mentalidadevisionaria #liderança #gratidão #desenvolvimentopessoal #business #lions #empreendedor #desenvolvimento #mentalhelth #sabedoria #inspiração #motivacão #mentalidade #marca #leidaatracao #dedicação #oportunidade #guerreiro #lifestyle #disciplina #leão #determinação #riodejaneiro #viral #mindsetdesucesso (em Rio de Janeiro, Rio de Janeiro) https://www.instagram.com/p/CUOSNddFg7O/?utm_medium=tumblr

#mindsetlions #mindset #marketing #empreendedorismo #marketingdigital #mentalidadevisionaria #liderança #gratidão #desenvolvimentopessoal #business #lions #empreendedor #desenvolvimento #mentalhelth #sabedoria #inspiração #motivacão #mentalidade #marca #leidaatracao #dedicação #oportunidade #guerreiro #lifestyle #disciplina #leão #determinação #riodejaneiro #viral #mindsetdesucesso

[theartofmusicology]

Going to an arts uni and working in the arts industry is a literal full time gig. On top of that, the workload is insane. At high school, it was so easy to just keep on pushing through; one test down, time to start the next assignment. I kept going like this for so long ad now that I'm at uni, I've found that I can't. I have learned the importance of celebrating the little things; whether it be going out for brekky for someone's birthday or having a couple glasses of wine after doing multiple assessments in one night or submitting a big portfolio or, because you're in Perth and there's beaches everywhere, going to the beach because we're almost on break and the weather is gorgeous.

I was thinking just yesterday about how we can''t always wait for the holidays to take a break; whether it be a few hours, a day or a weekend. It's impossible to keep going at 100% all the time because we get run down. So i just wanted to write this to remind everyone to take a break and celebrate the little things.

-Carolyn xo

#studyblr #breaks #celebrate #selfcare #mentalhelth #performingarts #love #happiness

[eight--below]

Does anyone else find that they don't relate to anyone else who has the same diagnosis as you? Like I have Bipolar2 but when I read posts and chats of other people with it, it basically seems like we're talking about two different things. Like yes I'm impulsive and my mood jumps all over the place but I'm not as unreasonable as some of these people. Like I read that this girl trashed her boyfriends things because she was in a mixed episode and he was late coming home? Or people having slight disagreements and suddenly they act like the world is over and no one loves them? Like I get mental health is hard to deal with but like realize that people have lives outside of you and most of the time of they're late or not responding right away is because they're busy and have their own lives. Also it's natural to disagree with people and some of y'all need to grow up and realize that people will not cater to you

#rant #bipolar2 #eatshit #mentalhelth #mentalhealth #sorrynotsorry #hadtobesaid #gototherapy #growup

[aftgficlibrary]

Any fics where one of them is chronically ill and the other takes care?

Here’s what I could find!- Aaron.

So Bless Me Anyway by crppldgaywriter (E | Incomplete | 1/?)

Andrew is dying of AIDS in 1980. Kevin leaves him because he can’t cope and Andrew falls in love with his nurse who is Neil. Its the Tony Kushner play Angels in America adopted with the characters from Nora Sakavic’s book series All for the Game.

#aftgfl ask #theme:sickfic #sickfic #theme:andreil #theme:kandrew #andreil #kandrew #kevinday #theme:kevinday #theme:andrewminyard #andrewminyard #theme:neiljosten #neiljosten #theme:mentalhealth #mentalhelth #theme:illness #illness

[mariagislart]

I just started a project. Wolfs, lunacy project. For mental health and mental health awareness . . . . . #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhelth #wolf #lunacy #whoisnormal #beyourself #selfawareness (at Reykjavík, Iceland) https://www.instagram.com/p/CUIy3k0A-8E/?utm_medium=tumblr

#mentalhealthawareness #mentalhelth #wolf #lunacy #whoisnormal #beyourself #selfawareness

[xossetrinidad]

Today is day of... World Suicide Prevention Day, Today is September 10th.

#suicide #mentalhelth

[1234mydestiny]

Defining Your Goals.

We conduct an Empowerment Coaching, Workshops, Fundraising .So click on the link to sign up for the 2 weeks of coaching that will put you on the path to the life of your dream. https://lnkd.in/gAiGKqM #problem_solved #empower #empowerment ... #coaching #fundraising #leadershipdevelopment #leadership #mentoring #success #lifecoaching #mentalhealth #coach #coach #motivation #inspiration #mindfulness #goals #mindset

#problem_solved #empower #empowerment #coaching #funderising #leadership #mentoring #success #lifecoaching #mentalhelth #coach #caoch #motivation #inspiration #mindset

[sachinkc]

"As long as i can take deep breath i just don't care ! Why should i have to ?!!" - Sachin K chandran - . . . . . . . . #Ambidextrous #ambivert #Level5photographer #SonOfNature #Selflearner #Selfmotivated #Selfconfident #Selflove #Selfopinionated  #excellenceofmothernature #perfectquotes #quotoftheday #quotestagram #motivationalquotes #inspirationalquotes #words #wordofwisdom #psychology #positivity #mentalhelth #mindset  #nstamallu #sachinkchandran https://www.instagram.com/p/CLzPao1HbgI/?igshid=1j5uatz0a1s6e

#ambidextrous #ambivert #level5photographer #sonofnature #selflearner #selfmotivated #selfconfident #selflove #selfopinionated #excellenceofmothernature #perfectquotes #quotoftheday #quotestagram #motivationalquotes #inspirationalquotes #words #wordofwisdom #psychology #positivity #mentalhelth #mindset #nstamallu #sachinkchandran

[mrneglesworth]

(Change Me)-

God don’t change my circumstances, change me to handle my circumstances. 

At 32 years old I have come to accept I kinda suck at certain things. I can do the right thing most of the time, I think. If it affects someone else I am more likely to do what I should. When it comes to myself, I am less responsible. I recognize moments in my life where I have a decision to make and for whatever reason, some I know and am aware of and some I am not, I don’t  choose what will help me towards my goals, and towards being a better person. 

So this is how I see it. I like to refer to God as the Creator. It’s just what I feel most comfortable with and what makes sense to me. God can be a symbol like a bridge that you cross to go to the “good” side. Whatever makes sense in your brain is fine by me, I just see this world from a perspective where I feel most content and life makes most sense to me through the eyes of God.

In my human form, I need God and the guidance His story gives. If for nothing else than a symbol, Jesus provides all I need to get me through in life. It won't necessarily be in a way where everything is just plopped right in front of your lap, but sometimes that is just what He does. And that is just from the symbol, what He does in the story, The example He provides, that is where I draw my courage, humility, and knowledge from. I can’t look at myself and say, “Ok Chase, What should we do here?” Sometimes I can answer that question correctly, but more times than not I need the direction and foresight from another source of wisdom. And I will always look to God as I understand Him for this wisdom first. 

God may very well be a black woman or an elf or opossum, but , all I know is that  if the concept of what Jesus is and did, how Jesus is the Creator, that He humbled Himself to not just human form, but to be a servant to show true humility, to show what being Christ like is all about, It’s these things that help me through the dark moments in life that my human brain doesn’t understand. It helps me do the right thing when otherwise I wouldn’t have, and I’m perfectly content with that. 

What’s my point? I need help. I can’t do life on my own. Reliance upon the love and knowledge of God are where I draw my strength from. No darkness is too dark, no enemy too strong, no fear too paralyzing  for the power of Jesus. And this is just how it most makes sense to me. I don’t dictate the universe or mine or your thoughts and feelings. I just have to be able to go to sleep at the end of each day and my eyes are open enough to the world to need to wonder and search. Maybe someday the Creator will be revealed to us all and everything will make sense. But until then, my mind searches for the words to explain my reality and I find them within the story of Christ. #WWJD

#HappinessFirst #ChaseWithin #HelpingPeopleHelpThemselves #inspiration #motivation #christian #believer #ChristLike #Goals #mentalhelth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthsupport #endthestigma #endthestigmatomentalhealth #selfawareness #selfadvocacy #selfadvocate #selfcare #humble #humility #obedience #servant

[mindsetlions]

As pessoas comuns pensam apenas como passar o tempo. Uma pessoa inteligente tenta usar o tempo. 🦁 @mindsetlions #mindsetlions . . . . . #mindsetlions #mindset #midsetdosucesso #mindsetdecrescimento #marketingdigital #mktdigital #mktdigitalbrasil #travel #desenvolvimentopessoal #metalidadedesucesso #lions #empreendedor #awarenesess #mentalhelth #sabedoria #motivacional #empreendedorismo #mentalidade #marca #sejaforteecorajoso #fitnnes #photography #fotografia #lifestyle #disciplina #leao #determinação #riodejaneiro #viral #pegaavisao (em Rio de Janeiro, Rio de Janeiro) https://www.instagram.com/p/CTfkhPCpmC3/?utm_medium=tumblr

#mindsetlions #mindset #midsetdosucesso #mindsetdecrescimento #marketingdigital #mktdigital #mktdigitalbrasil #travel #desenvolvimentopessoal #metalidadedesucesso #lions #empreendedor #awarenesess #mentalhelth #sabedoria #motivacional #empreendedorismo #mentalidade #marca #sejaforteecorajoso #fitnnes #photography #fotografia #lifestyle #disciplina #leao #determinação #riodejaneiro #viral #pegaavisao

[ncchristiancounselor]

Mission

My goal and passion in life is to help you feel better about yourself, your life, and your future.   I seek to provide quality, professional mental health services to all who seek them regardless of race, religion, or any other aspect of who you are.

Web : www.ncchristiancounselor.com

Mail us at : [email protected].

#ncchristiancounselor #health #mentalhelth #usa #counseling #greensboro

[adrugcalledfashion]

S4 Episode 48- "It's The Holidays "

#blackgirltherapy #christmas #coping #dating #dealing #family #gettingrown #love #mentalhelth #newandnoteworthy #nycpodcast #relationships #stress #thanksgiving #thebreakfastclub #thejoebuddenpodcast #theread #top5podcast

[frogaura-blog]

and i met loads of cows! 🐮🌱

#cows #nature #grass #photography #mentalhelth #mentalhealth #mental #health #positivity #meme #edmeme #edmemes #eatingdisorder #rexie #ana #anorexia #anarexia #skinny #thin #thinspo #dmall #small

[berserkertraining]

Social distancing sessions. ... Keeping in line with government social distancing and cleaning guidelines. I will be carrying out one to one sessions... from 2m away. ... All equipment will be cleaned between clients. There will be hand washing facilities on site as well. ... #personaltrainer #supportlocal #smallbusiness #fitness #health #squats #benchday #benchpress #welness #mentalhelth #covid (at Telford) https://www.instagram.com/p/CAIHa7LnJaw/?igshid=w0acrnm4weli

#personaltrainer #supportlocal #smallbusiness #fitness #health #squats #benchday #benchpress #welness #mentalhelth #covid