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#multigender positivity
valcaira · 7 months
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Trans men who call themselves lesbian because they still feel connected to the community they have established their place in? I love you.
Trans women who call themselves gay because they still feel connected to the community they have established their place in? I love you.
Multigender people who call themselves transfem or female gays because that term just feels right? I love you.
Multigender people who call themselves transmasc or male lesbians because that term just feels right? I love you.
Nonbinary people with nebulous and/or convuluted genders who mix and match labels no matter how contradictory they are because that's what describes them best? I love you.
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lgbtq-userboxes · 17 days
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shoutout to multigender boys, boy+s, primaboys, etc. your multigenderness doesn’t make you any less of a dude, and your boyhood doesn’t make you any less multigender
and shoutout to multigender girls, girl+s, primagirls, etc. as well. your multigenderness will never make you any less of a woman, and your womanhood doesn’t make you any less multigender
and yk what. shoutout to every multigender person who feels they have a “main” gender, a gender they prioritize over others, are a gender “plus more!!”. we are all so swag and cool actually. nothing will ever make us any less multigender, and our multigenderness won’t make us any less of anything. let us all keep being awesome by existing, okay?
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your-rutherfurr · 4 months
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What should we call lesbian and gay attraction?!
So alot of the queer community when talking about lesbian and gay attraction we usually use the 'non-men loving non-men' or 'non-woman loving non-woman' definition which we found out that it's quite exclusionary for multigender people who also are boys and/or girls, not to mention the racist roots😬. So what could we put it as then? I mean it's kinda obvious but it's simply the queer attraction to women/men and feminine/masculine aligned ppl, anything but the hetero attraction. So let me introduce you to the more inclusive terms I came up with...
QAM and QAW!
QAM = Queer Attraction to Men/masc aligned
QAW = Queer attraction to women/fem aligned
How to pronounce these terms?
QAM - kwam or kam
QAW - kaw or even claw 🤷‍♂️
Being a part of the queer community we want to include ALL queer ppl and their wonderful experiences, I know it's nearly impossible to include every single experience out there but I'm willing to try! We don't have to know every single identity under the sun but we can be aware that there are a plethora of experiences out there and more to come.
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redtail-lol · 11 months
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Shoutout to multigender people who are primagirls and primaboys and prima-anything really. You aren't less multigender for having a primary gender and not seeing your genders as equal to each other. Shoutout to multigender people who feel like they're half of one gender and half of another or some other split and shoutout to multigender people who feel like they have multiple whole genders. Shoutout to multigender people who have one whole gender and one half gender.
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solnishka1927 · 23 days
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celebrating my multigender partner!
My partner @makarovspussy is multigender and I want to make a post about how she’s wonderful and awesome.
He’s always been very excited about my interest in fashion and sewing! I feel like I can talk to her about my projects for hours without being seen as annoying, and he loves to hang out with me while I work. I’m currently making her a fuzzy black bathrobe so he can lounge around in it (we’re talking about adding some pink accents for the cuff and belt).
She has a really, really nuanced understanding of gender and what kinds of issues are faced by the more marginalized members of the trans community. I often go to him to ask for clarification when I encounter things I don’t understand, and she’s always so patient and kind as I chip away at my ignorance.
We love writing fanfic together and being creative! I think his characters are really mutifaceted and so well-crafted, and she puts a lot of thought into the worlds he creates and builds upon. She really goes into great detail with everything and is so thoughtful, it puts my own slapdash and “eh, we’ll figure it out as we go” approach to shame.
He’s incredibly thoughtful, generous, and kind. Neither of us is in a great position financially or mental health-wise, but I know if disaster strikes I can ask for any kind of help and she will do her best.
If you and/or your partner is/are multigender, please reblog and share some positivity about your partner/yourself and how great their/your gender is!
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wut-igay · 4 months
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hey some “trans ally” was going on about how trigender isn’t real/valid because “you can’t be both sexes/ have a penis and boobs!”or something,but she still believes in genderfluidity and transness!?!
so can everyone come up with a good argument without misinformation but still simple enough for her to understand? (Also preferably easier to articulate and remember)
/nf Tags:
@deadtranny1234@five-thousand-loaves-of-bread@autisticspirit@thebigneuromess@anxietycryptidthetherian@autumnmoon-morrison@thatqueergarbagerat@genderpunks@sapphic-boy@cane-you-dig-it@blood-moon-night-coining@anti-rq-boxes@scene-royaltylolz@chthonic-pain@fixing-rq-posts@silentfoxproductions@crippled-dinosaur@the-radio-star-is-a-kookaburra@godofautism@rainbowfiedmysotiz@3v3ry0n3z-fav3-al13n-x3@mangled-wires@neopronouns@zombie-dyke
and anybody else who wants to!
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ilovemenqueerly · 6 months
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I find it so cool when there's lesbians who are also men or gays/achillieans who are women and sometimes both and even at the same time
People with "weird" or "contradictory" genders/labels are so cool you make the queer community feel more comforting by just existing ily guys 💞💗💛
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pizzacrustdisposal · 1 year
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man I’m so tired of multi-label exclusionists :​/ these words exist to make people feel comfortable in their identities. Who are we to say “be happy this way, not that way”?
“but there are better terms to use” what are you the fucking pride police fuck you fuck you one million times
If putting specific words together makes your heart do a :​) then it makes my heart do a :​) for you
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stunningmlm · 1 year
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mlm who don’t use he/him pronouns (or uses them but not exclusively), my beloved !!!
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your-rutherfurr · 5 months
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When I think of the gender spectrum I think of millions and trillions of uneven, blurry venn diagrams all overlapping eachother. Stretching out into infinity because thats what a spectrum is, an infinite amount of space with no set limit. Thats why trying to present the gender spectrum as a linear or tidy venn diagrams isn't rlly accurate in my opinion, because it usually excludes and limits sooo many other wonderful experiences out there.
The gender spectrum isn't neat and tidy but a big chaotic fire pit
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punk-dad-sharkz · 2 months
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cuz I can i'm gonna make a hyperspecific queer shout out post bc I want to appreciate all the lovely people in my life and more
shout out to men who used to be lesbians and women who used to be gay
shout out to fem bigenders
shout out to nonbinary people who don't like they/them pronouns
shout out to feminine men whose shoe collection is 90% heels & platforms
shout out to gender fluid folks who make really, really bad puns
shout out to the fem he/theys & the masc she/theys
shout out to the people who collect pronouns like a rock collection
shout out to literally every aromantic person ever
shout out to the trans drag queens & drag kings
shout out to all the gays obsessed with baldurs gate 3
shout out to the angriest and most passionate scenemo trans guy you'll ever meet in your life
shout out to the agender folks who make *gives you my gender* jokes
shout out to the most gender looking guy you'll ever meet
and shout out to you, queer person reading this. I love you
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gay-otlc · 2 years
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I love love love people who identify with their assigned gender and are also trans. You have a level of coolness that is simply incomprehensible to everyone else. I'm sorry if those who don't comprehend the cool are obnoxious but you're awesome and I love you.
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sweaty-confetti · 5 months
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it’s ok if your relationship with sexuality or gender or whatever is influenced by your mental illness, your disorder, your disability, your trauma, or anything else. whether it’s having a complicated relationship with sexuality because you have bpd, or identifying as asexual because of chronic fatigue and you don’t have the energy to engage in sex, or being agender because you’re autistic and don’t understand gender roles, or whatever the hell else. it doesn’t make you any less valid, and it doesn’t make your identity fake. your identity is as real and valid as anyone else’s.
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intersexfairy · 1 year
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you can be masculine and feminine at the same time. being masculine doesn't make you any less feminine. being feminine doesn't make you any less masculine. there is no inherent morality to any masculinity or femininity you express. you create the meaning behind it by expressing yourself - your joy, your queerness, your health. you are not a reflection of other people's harmful ideas about gender. that's their burden to carry, not yours.
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