#narc parents

[aspd-thoughts]

I don’t care you were abused by someone with a cluster b disorder.

I don’t. Legitimately, it is not fucking relevant to the conversation.

a teacher who abused me had anxiety. So do I now get to act like an ass to everyone I meet with anxiety? No, you fucking idiot! I don’t go online and spew bullshit about how anxiety causes abuse and they should all be killed and they’re terrible and bla bla bla, because I’m not a total asshole!

you do not project your trauma onto people trying to live their lives. I would think this was obvious.

#narc abuse #narcissism #narc parents #life of a cluster b #cluster b #ASPD #abuse #Feeling salty

[katimorton]

Did you grow up in a narcissist household with narcissistic parents? And wondering what a narcissist mom or father or parent did to you, or how they may affect you today. We may have several effects of growing up in a narcissistic home or with narcissistic parents. The truth is that growing up in dysfunctional homes can have lasting effects on our mental health. One of the comments I get a lot about is about having a narcissistic mom or dad or parent - and growing up with parents who may be a narcissist can be something that can deeply impact our relationship with self and the world around us. Narcissist parents or moms or dads specifically begins to impact our self esteem, our ability to set healthy boundaries and we can adopt some of the same unhealthy patterns of our narcissistic mom or dad. Did you grow up with a narcissistic mother or father or do you think your mom may be narcissist and not sure? Let's dive into the 8 signs that your mom or dad is a narcissist - and then make sure you stay tuned until the end of the video where I offer 5 tips to increase your relationship with your mom or 5 tips to help you deal with a mom or dad who is a narcissist - so stay tuned until the end of the video. Did you find that you grew up where both parents were narcissistic or perhaps a guardian that was a narcissist - I can make more videos on the subject of narcissism if this is of interest to you!

#narcissistic personality disorder #actually narcissistic #narcissistic abuse #recovery #mental health #kati morton #psychology #narcissism #narc parents #Youtube

[invalid-request]

I thought you were training me to be a happy, functional adult. You were just grooming me to be a good source of narcissistic supply.

#raised by narcissists #narcissistic mother #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic parents #narcissism #covert narcissism #maternal narcissism #narc parents #narcissismawareness #narcissistic abuse aftermath #surviving narcissism #narc abuse #narcissticabuseawareness #narcissistic mom #cptsd #childhood neglect

[lavender-0-menace]

when you’re worried you’re a narcissistic but the first symptom is overly inflated ego and by god is that not a problem

#the only bad gene my dad didn’t give me lol #narcissistic father #abuse recovery #mental illness #narc parents

[audrinawf]

have you noticed how narcissistic people are always the bearer of bad news? my narc mom just loves to inform everyone of every death/misfortune and making a whole cinematic performance out of it. I remember literally being 12 years old and asking my mom not to make a scene when we went to a gravesite in Turkey, mind you I don’t know why she wanted to go to a gravesite in a foreign country we didn’t know anyone that died there.

#covert narcissism #surviving narcissism #narc abuse #narcisstic personality disorder #narc parents #malignant narcissism #toxic parents #toxic relatives

[unami-anamo0y]

#parental abuse #trauma #tw trauma #trauma blog #i don’t miss them #narcissistic #narc parents #narc abuse #nar

[lifeistheebubbles]

How old do you have to be before you can respond to your parents bitching about each other with "why not get a divorce?"

Asking for a friend

#dysfunctional parents #narc parents #dysfunctional family #drama #vent #vent post #mean #funny #divorce

[h3ntaichrist]

back here to djfdsldhsldjkhf more into the void that is my blog about how im feeling because it's the only place there isn't someone who will read it and try to make me answer for it

july 15th can't get here soon enough. i'm at a point where i truly don't feel like there is anything left for me here. how the FUCK was i born into such a ridiculous fucking family? i know i'm not the only one who deals with shitty family members but jesus fucking christ, getting an immediate family member of mine to actually give a real shit about me is like pulling fucking teeth. my dad, mom, grandparents, and younger siblings all have their respective heads so far up their own asses, it's insane. i've never seen anything like it before in my life. i feel utterly abandoned by the only people you're like...predispositioned to give a shit about and feel allegiant to??? all of them. caleb and i have gotten closer and he's been a little more supportive recently but... does it make up for everything else? lol man idk. the only family member alive i can tell you i know loves me genuinely and unconditionally is chandler. i say alive because if nonna were, she'd make the list, too. my aunts and uncles, they can all fuck off into the sun. when i was a teenager and my mom was in and out of crackhouses, not a single one of them (her siblings) bothered to ever pick up the phone and call me or caleb. we shouldered that shit alone. no one fucking cares, man. they really just don't.

& i realize that for years i've been begging for everyone to just fucking care in a way that is authentic. because i quite literally cannot feel anything from your efforts when it isn't. i can't help that i can see all the ways in which you're still so wrapped up in your own bullshit. i can't help that i know there is nothing genuine about whats coming out of your mouth. i can't help that i can see the places you need to heal before you can. i'm sorry that i can't just accept what like 95% of everyone else is okay with, apparently.

if i hadn't found one singular person who understands, accepts, loves, appreciates and shares in that shit with me, i'd say i don't wanna be this way anymore. sometimes i still say i don't cause its fucking lonely.

but it won't be anymore, as of july 15th. my oh my, idk where i'd be without my georgia peach @poke-berry <3

#personal #writing #i love you best friend ('''': #disfunctional family #surviving narcissism #narc parents #tw drug mention #toxic family #alanon

[honeypleasejustkillme]

today has been the shittiest day i’ve had in a hot minute.. i hate my family, especially my mother. fuck her, manipulative ass bitch

#actually bpd #bpd problems #bpd vent #actually borderline #actually mentally ill #bpd fp #bpd #bpd shitposting #bpd favorite person #bpd mood #i’m not hating on narc ppl tho i swear #just my mother #narc parents #narcissistic family #narcissist

[everythings-whithering]

Its your voice i hear when i hate myself.

I spit hatred in the third person.

You’re so stupid. You’re annoying. You’re an idiot.

There is no wonder

why I don’t reference myself.

Because you invaded my mind

And poisoned me

From the inside

out.

#poetry #narc parents #ramblings #text

[invalid-request]

I remember when I was a kid looking at my mom thinking that if I just did the right thing, I would get attention and love, and she'd finally see me. I kind of miss having that hope. Over the years she has hurt me in countless ways. I kept giving her a chance because... she's my mom. Eventually I learned that in order for my pain to heal, I needed my mom to take accountability for her behavior and understand my emotional experience. She can't do that. So I set a boundary in order to not get hurt anymore.

To all the people that made the excruciating but healthy choice to set a boundary with your mom, I'm with you on this Mother's Day, and I hate that you didn't get the relationship you deserved.

(source: @therapyjeff on tiktok)

#no contact #toxic mom #toxic mother #mother's day #trauma #trauma tw #actually traumatized #trauma healing #toxic parents #narcissistic parents #narc parents #narcissistic mother #cptsd #mentalhealth #tw mental health #mental health #mental health tw

[celenite-and-sadness]

having a narcissistic mom who accuses you of selling her shitty baking dishes from the 80s that have no fancy or expensive brand name when you have literal cuisinart machines in the garage is so last year. I'm done with it. I think I'm going to start telling her how stupid her thoughts are when they leave her mouth.

#surviving narcissism #narc parents #narc mom #nmom #traumatize them back folks #only if youre in the position to do so ofc #financial abuse

[exceptionalfraud]

If you weren't ready I know you were not ready So why did you have me?

I know that's how they thaught you Wasn't it enough for you to know what not to do?

It got me at a young age Depression feels like living inside a cage Anxiety is still taste the same Bitter liquor that runs trough my brain

So many people trying to have babies Like it's gonna bring many changes Like it's gonna give them a reason Like we living in some kind of baby fucking season If you weren't ready To love me as I am To love without a scam To root for me And love me as I am Why you say you wanted me so much If all you did was Scream at me for going on a date With a partner that's not of your taste For smoking something that makes it easier to live This life that has gone to waste I am not what you want me to be I am not what I wanted to be Please learn to love who I am Or finally set me free

Milena Costa (exceptionalfraud)

#poetry #poetic #sad poem #sad poetry #writers on tumblr #writerscommunity #writers of tumblr #creative writing #narcissist #narc parents #narc mom #narcissistic mother #bad parenting #writer #depression #anxiety #exceptionalfraud

[xxeemerxx]

I absolutely despite the fact that my mom can be incredibly mentally abusive and reactive and when she basically lit my ass up for attempting to help her find an email she didn’t understand why I chut down and stopped talking to her. Then not even an hour later some guy I went to school who also kind of works with my mom was like “omg you’re mom is the sweetest most cool person I know” like you can keep her buddy

#narc parents