#narcissistic mother

[witchyykitten]

#why my family don't love me? #family issues #dysfunctional family #toxic family #strict mommy #toxic mom #mommy issues #mom issues #mommyissues #emotionally unstable mother #narcissistic mother #toxic mother #mother issues #childhood trauma #child abuse #dysfunctional household #dysfunctional parents #trauma #actually traumatized #emotional abuse #mental abuse #narcissistic abuse #parental abuse

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

#child abuse survivor #trauma survivor #toxic family #support #healing #recovery #self love #boundaries #narcissistic mother #abuse survivor #doodles #bad art #lousy drawings #doodle #creature #weird

[roomwithavoid]

the haters aren’t gonna like this one but i’m right!

#npd #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissist safe #npd safe #cw ableism #cw ableist language #the following tags are people who need to see this one :) #npd abuse #narcissistic abuse #narcissist #narcissistic trauma #narcissistic parents #narcissisticgaslighting #narcissism #raised by narcissists #narcissistic mother #narcissistic father #narcissistic ex #narcissistic relationship

[empath-abuse-awareness]

Narcissists are so beautiful and handsome and wonderful, they deserve to be proud for all that they have survived especially with such a distressing disorder

#narcissism positivity #narcissistic abuse #narc abuse #npd positivity #narcissist #narcissist positivity #narcissistic abuse is not real #narc abuse does not exist #npd #npdsafe #actually npd #npd things #npdawareness #narcissistic personality disorder #actually narcissistic #narcissistic mother #narcissism #narcissistic #narcissistic abuse awareness #narcissisticgaslighting #covert narcissism #narcissistic parents #narcissistic trauma #raised by narcissists #narcissistic father

[alicelilwolf]

I wrote this poem to touch on what I experienced in my childhood and teen years that led to me developing and being diagnosed with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder)

Echoes of a Lost Childhood

Damn right I'm angry,

At the ghosts of my past,

I was too young to carry

Such burdens that last.

Children should laugh,

And dance in the sun,

But I bore the weight

Of what should've been shunned.

Don't tell me it shaped me,

I know that too well,

I could've been carefree,

Instead, I was compelled.

The protectors, they faltered,

Left me to fend,

Healing can't alter

The wounds that won't mend.

Damn right I'm angry,

For youth stolen away,

No amount of solace

Can bring back those days.

#poetry #mental health #poem #writing #bpd #borderline personality disorder #dissociative identity disorder #ptsd #trauma #toxic parents #narcissistic mother #toxic childhood #c ptsd #did system

[catsanddemonssystem]

So for those of you who don't know. Personality disorders are commonly caused by a combination of childhood trauma and genetics. Many narc abuse believers would have ended up as narcissists themselves if they were genetically predisposed to it.

#narcissistic mother #narcissistic traits #narcissistic personality disorder #narc #narcissism #actually narcissistic #narc abuse believers dni #narcissistic abuse #raised by narcissists #narcissistic parents #actually npd #npd

[nothing0fnothing]

oh so narcissistic abuse isn't real?

Then explain to me why my mom's best friends when I was 13 was a group of 15 year old mean girls who would openly bully me in front of her, but she desperately needed the literal children to think she was cool so she'd bully me with them and would like, store up information about my week like how long I engaged in my special interests or what kind of stimming I was doing and then she'd turn up to youth group in her bedazzled skinny jeans, walk right past me like she didn't just drive me here and sit on the table with these teenage girls with a "you'd never guess what Cordelia got up to this week." And the other adults who ran the youth group were really confused and obviously really uncomfortable with this 40 year old woman using her role as a trusted adult in the group to bully her autistic tween daughter but also the situation was so weird nobody got involved till the girls parents did and asked why a 40 year old woman was cultivating a "special relationship" with their kids but she was convinced she was the victim in the situation and she was being punished by these parents for caring too much about the youth group and she would vent TO ME about how mean these other mom's were being to her and how unfair it was and this whole time we were showing up every week, she'd bully the fuck out of me for 2 or 3 hours then we'd go home and she'd switch up on me and tell me that I too could have a chance to sit with the girls who she was literally helping to make my life hell but I just had to start being normal and then she'd buy me a milkshake or something as if that made everything she'd done all evening OK.

Is that just regular abuse or do you think there was maybe some other factors at play there that makes that situation a bit different?

#narcissistic abuse #raised by narcissists #parental abuse #dysfunctional family #complex trauma #childhood trauma #toxic parents #vent post #toxic mom #dysfunctional household #narcissistic family structure #narcissistic mother #narcissistic parents #narcissist #actually narcissistic #childhood abuse #traumatic childhood #childhood abuse doesn't end when childhood does #narcissism #surviving narcissism #narcissism awareness #emotional abuse #emotional neglect

[lostinthelights-blog]

"You can't gaslight me because I have a narcissistic mother with a victim complex"

#narcissistic mother #poetry #deep feelings #spilled truth #childhood trauma #victim complex #i hate my mom #emotions #mom why #momwho #jealousy #hypersensitivity #mental health #mental illness #actually narcissistic

[sirius-you-know]

“my child is fine” , your child romanticises falling from a skyscraper.

#mommy issues #wolfstar #drarry #dark academism #fanfic #reader #daddy issues #trope post #parental trauma #emotional trauma #emotional triggers #mother issues #narcissistic mother

[welcometo-blackspace]

I don't believe I should be happy.

Or what I'm trying to say is that

I don't believe I was born to be happy.

I was born to mourn.

To stress about little things and subjects.

I was not born to be happy.

#personal vent #anxiety depression #depressing life #depressing shit #kinda depressing #dead inside #narcisistic personality disorder #narcissism #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic mother #bpd fp #bpd vent #actually bpd #bpd thoughts #bpd

[witchyykitten]

little miss will never be good enough for her mother

no matter how hard she tries

#strict mommy #mommy issues #mommyissues #toxic mom #mom issues #toxic mother #emotionally unstable mother #narcissistic mother #mother issues #mother #emotionally immature parents #dysfunctional parents #toxic parents #parental issues #parental abuse #narcissistic abuse #mental abuse #child abuse #emotional abuse #abuse survivor #childhood trauma #trauma #childhood #why my family don't love me? #family issues #i hate my family #dysfunctional family #toxic family

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

(hops into time machine to yell this @ my younger self)

#holiday reminder #toxic family #you don’t have to see them #boundaries #doodles #bad art #seahorse #lousy drawings #doodle #encouragement #self love #child abuse survivor #trauma recovery #cptsd #narcissistic mother #don’t go home if you don’t want to #mental health #love yourself

[laurathelemon]

Why do narcissistic mothers exits? So tired of this!!

#trauma #narcissistic mother #emotional abuse #tired

[ninepentz]

Some narcissists-

Are too easily offended by people either challenging their opinions, giving them back the same energy, any type of criticism whether it's good or bad.

For example I know a narcissist in my life who basically tries to be so intimidating all the time, argue, control everything and I noticed that whenever she's having a bad day she would take it out on me. I used to let it affect me deeply and take everything personal to where I started becoming just as bad as them. Arguing back and forth, physical/loud fights, calling each other names, being petty etc. Till I realized that is what's feeding their ego even more to see me basically taking their bait and engaging with them for some odd reason. Some narcissists get a kick out of you paying attention to them and proving them right. Bc what they do is twist your words and use your reactions to make themselves look better.

Overtime I learned that aggressively defending myself, constantly explaining my boundaries, even trying to talk things out, didn't help AT ALL. But what did work was not speaking with them, ignoring their negativity, being cordial/keeping my distance, which has done so much for my mental health. Now I let them do whatever the hell they do, it's none of my business anymore. The quieter I became, the more peaceful things got.

The thing about some narcissists is that if you offend them or mirror their behaviors back to them they get even more aggressive and defensive which brings out all their worst behaviors even more. And one thing you can never do is change the narcissist, they don't respect others unless they admire you, need something from you, and things like that. Nothing you do will make them change.

What helped me tho is just stop to responding and acknowledging them, simply agreeing to keep the peace and protecting my own energy. Idc what they say or do anymore bc I know it's just their own internal BS that they project onto everyone else.

Ever since then I haven't had not one issue regarding them that I used to deal with before, all I deal with now is my own personal issues and whatever goes on in my personal life. I'd rather have that than arguing in circles with a narcissist lol so I hope this helps anyone who's dealing with anything similar.

Stop engaging, be cordial, and don't take things personally. That's how you stay in your own lane and avoid getting poisoned by someone else's demons.

Thank you for reading 😊

✨️Nine of Pentacles✨️

#narcissists #narcissistic mother #narcissism #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic parents #narcissistic relationship

[livingtrauma]

Narcissistic abuse is real and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You deserve a space to think about what happened to you and find a way to healing.

#surviving narcissism #raised by narcissists #narcissistic mother #narcissistic trauma #narcissistic family #narcissistic abuse

[catsanddemonssystem]

Most Nazis didn't have ASPD or NPD.

Most Christian extremists didn't have ASPD or NPD.

Most child abusers don't have ASPD or NPD.

Most clansmen don't have ASPD or NPD.

Most billionaires don't have ASPD or NPD.

Most rapist don't have ASPD or NPD.

ASPD and NPD are commonly cause by child abuse. You blame childhood trauma survivors instead of society that routinely abused people.

#aspd #npd #narcissism #narcissistic personality disorder #narc abuse believers dni #narcissistic mother #narcissistic traits #narc abuse #narcissist #narcissistic parents #narcissistic abuse #raised by narcissists