#emotional triggers

[silvershiningtarot]

PAC 18+ What’s The Destiny With You and Your FS In This Life?

*Take five seconds to breathe in and out, this took a lot of my energy but I hope you enjoy it and this is general reading take what resonate with you and your partner. You can pick more than one pile if you whatever resonate with your partner. Don’t look at pictures because they pretty, trust your instinct.*

Pile 1: The destiny between you and your FS in this life is that for some of you, you have a boy. Some of you are getting pregnant 🤰. You and them meant to call out the bullshit about people, most of you might have some intruders in your relationships. This old woman or this babymama or an ex might be sniffing around in your relationship with them. I heard them saying “She stressed me out”. Just be careful, it seems like this intruder will try to get your FS back to them. Or your ex will try to take you back. FIGHT BACK!!! You two will be done with people and these fake ass people. You two will start ghosting these motherfuckers. But I also feel that sometimes you or them will ghost you sometimes because space is needed. You and them are on a High Vibe Soulmate journey. You two mirror each other heavily, they will trigger you and you’ll trigger them. You two meant to be partners. This is your destiny with them. So you both are meant to start a business together for some of you. Or most of you is mostly like partnerships as a romance couple💘. BY THE WAY! I wanted to mention that you two are going to expose this intruder, or this intruder will expose you two. Boo 👻 ugly. So maybe 🤔 some of you wanna keep this relationship private but this fucking intruder will expose your relationship out to the world. Your FS might lived in Harlem or y’all might go do business over there. You’ll be riding your FS Face if you know what I mean 😋😛🤤🤤. Haha 😂 I can them say “I’m hungry for you”. So get ready ladies and gentleman. Haha 😂 I said it some of you might have so grip kitty 🐱 and most of you might have wet kitty. They’ll be into you deep, so they will always be attractive to you. I swear forbidden fruit 🍎 oh my goodness, they will take your virginity. You two are surprising each other’s with gifts 🎁. For some of you, this might be your true love ❤️ and you two will make each other happy. See!! Do you hear me calling! Do you hear them, they will send you messages even now they are. Oh yeah y’all be spoiling each other, very expensive stuff and dinners and restaurants. I feel like your FS is a nerd but in a good way they are. You two will have inside jokes and make fun of each other. Some of you might be your karmic soulmate and most of you I do believe this is your high vibe soulmate and two of you are on that journey together. This is your destiny with them. I’m hoping to take that chance with them. You or them have gotten cheated on and this ex will be an intruder. I think this ex cheated on them with a friend, both of you are impatient, don’t like to wait and vice versa. I don’t know if you or them are begging for forgiveness. Both of you need to stop covering up your feelings, be honest with each other no matter what because exes and people sense problems in a relationship especially if you lack in communication! So communicate with your partner always and vice versa. I don’t give a shit if it hurts their feelings or yours. You better be honest with them. These exes and intruders aren’t playing around; they will want your FS with them again. Your FS or you might be a celebrity for some of you, I sense that maybe 🤔 might become a famous doctor or musician or just have followers. You two will be in business together. Your destiny with your FS is that you two have a higher purpose, so this is a big mission between you and them. You two have to ascend on a higher level to become spiritually awakened. Yass!! You two are destined to get out of darkness for some of you, you’ll get your freedom back and find your way out of it. Proud of you guys. Don’t be begging forgiveness from anyone. That goes for you and your partner but I’m also getting that if you two argue that yes they will beg for your forgiveness. Vice versa. Yasss!!! This is destined to be your high vibe soulmate for some of you, oh my goodness I’m screaming 😱. You two are soul tied for life. You’ll grow old with them and they will grow old with you. I believe that’s what they want too. So yeah this is your ultimate soulmate for some of you.

Extra Information: They are quite shy ☺️. They keep to themselves, they are quiet good listeners and vice versa as well. They will be concerned about you and you’ll be concerned about them. You two are each other’s best friend. I think that you two are an aggressive couple. Yes your partner is quiet and shy but when they argue with you, they have a strong tone. This is very much an old history love story between you and your partner very much wayyy back! Some of you might have been Juliet and your partner was Romeo. I feel like your love story starts from there. Or Egyptian times. This is very much a star-crossed lovers. This is your true love ❤️. I heard them say “Don’t give up on us, don’t give up.” They would want to be your Prince Charming becoming your knight. Let them be your hero. This is destiny for the two of you. Two of you might have a quick marriage and spiritual marriage. You two will go in a new direction together. Cutting off cords with people. I feel like you or your partner is social media fronting. They are the key 🔑 to your heart, they’ll be securing your heart. They made some mistakes in the past but don’t judge them and same thing with you as well. They won’t judge you. Somebody will be low-key hating around the two of you. Oh yeah for some of you that your FS is a rapper for some of you they are. Or you can be a rapper or become one. That’s why the two of you will do music together and you’ll take over the world with them. They have sexy eyes or you have sexy eyes. The ex knows their secrets. I don’t know if you or them might be mind controlled. Because what kind of industry they are in or you are in so please be careful and patient. They got captivated 🫣 I don’t know if you or them got trapped or this ex fucking trap them. You two will join accounts together, yes this is a partnership between you and them. Sometimes you and them will be giving each other the cold shoulder, being childish and petty ugh 😣 lame 😒 but you two will solve the issue together. You two think that it’s wrong timing ⏱️ but it isn’t this destiny and you two will heal your inner child and watch cartoons together and be humble. Masculine still searching they will be finding themselves again and they had lost themselves once.

Pile 2: For this pile, I sense that you’ll be the bride to be. They will give you a promise proposal to marry you, that’s so sweet 🥲 and funny that they’ll surprise you with engagement ring 💍. So you are destined to be married to your partner in this life. This is a fated connection. I sense you and your partner are the perfect match. But here’s the thing: either you or your partner will be clout hungry. Do anything for attention, trying to get famous or being a fake gangster. I think that they will put a lot of work into your ring. You or them or the both of you have low self esteem. You two lack self-confidence and probably people pleasers. Also feel like you two will join accounts together, becoming one together. Oh yeah see this is a marriage completion for some of you this is your true partner. You meant to marry them and this is your destiny with them. Two of you will solve the issues together. You two will be dealing with a lot of childhood trauma and I’m sorry that shit sucks. For some of you this is your soulmate and it is destined in this life that you two will be married. Future spouse and future wife came out so yeah this is your future partner and you are their future wife. This isn’t a joke like fucking deadass. Some of you ladies might be fuck girls as to where playa playa, you don’t want no string attach to you. I heard some of you guys have committed phobias. Don’t hurt them because you are not ready to be in a relationship and please be honest with them. Most of you dealt with unrequited love, maybe an ex cheated on you or dismissed you like they never had like you in the first place. Don’t take it out on the person who can make you happy 😊. You two will be heavily attracted to each other and they can’t get enough of you and you can't get enough of them. I’m hearing that song by August Alsina “ I can’t get enough of your drugs”. So yeah they won’t get enough of you and vice versa. You two will argue and fight a lot about the past, they will get on your nerves and you will get on them. Space is needed for the both of you, once you two come back from that space you’ll make amends with them and vice versa. Both of you will have a mutual understanding, they’ll respect your boundaries and decisions and vice versa. This is part of the plan, this is part of your destiny with them. They’ll be so tongue tied around you, they're not gonna know what to say to you. Because the both of you are stupid in love with each other but in a good way. I feel that most of you might settle for the love you think you deserve. Bullshit!! If there's someone out there treating you like shit dump their ass, I don’t care if they are friends, family, or even just someone you are talking to. That goes for your partner as well. When I think of A-List celebrities I think that you or them or the both of you will be well known for what you do. Having a lot of followers, hosting Hollywood parties and probably Instagram famous celebrities is what I’m feeling. There’s a lot of misinformation here. I don't know if you or them or someone will get the wrong info. Don’t trust the media or gossip. They might bottle up a lot of emotions, holding it in and vice versa. Someone kept your partner silent, I felt that this might happen in past life with the two of you before. They are struggling in music careers again for some of you might be doing music or they are. But nobody is listening to their message and maybe a label shoved them to the side. This is you or them destiny to not trust your family, if you have fucked up families then that family is from your past life that hurt you, shouldn’t trust them. Vice versa. I won’t say that your partner or you are like that but there’s some sexually nasty people on social media they might be watching you so be careful. You or your partner might be desperate for attention, I don’t think your partner didn’t get much attention at home when they were younger. You two might be going through a lot of personality clashes as in were mixing up your energy with other people.

Extra Information: You two go through a lot of low self-esteem. Don’t mix up your personalities with other people and I felt that you and your FS do that a lot. You or your partner is young at heart and it’s like a teenage dream with you and them, it’s a dream come true. You two might have a sex under the moon, or you two love having sex under the moon 🌙. Oh yeah, a lot of hot sessions with each other. Deep kissing, making out a lot. Passionate couples. You two are the fast paced couples, it’s like you can’t go at a slow pace with them. You might move in with them for about six months. You two are cheerleaders blasting each other's music, or whatever career they have or you have, they will blast you out. Oh see I was right! Business soulmates you two are, meant to work together. Build a company together, sharing opinions and ideas. Both of you will respect each other’s creativity and some of you might be unstable and not confident. Your partner has a dominant energy, they’re masculine as hell. They don’t play that shit. They are fighters and so are you. Fucking fighter! You’ll beat up anyone for them and vice versa and yes act like your person is here so you two are manifesting each other come into your life and vice versa. Both of you are wounded warriors, been heartbroken 💔 and you are trying to uplifted your femininity and masculinity. That’s for the both of you. If you or them are bisexual like men and women, if your partner likes men they are cool if they aren't that cool. If you like women and men, that's cool with your partner. I feel like your partner would love to watch you have a good time. This is your soul family, you guys are soul friends. You two will be soul searching for each other, this is fate between you and them. I do feel like your partner is controlling and like things their way and that’s how they like it. Private marriage you two will be having I’m feeling. Ultrasound oh yeah you having a baby. You two will be petty to each other. Your partner is charming and they are a fuck boy, very much player. You will be having a new perspective and same thing with them. You two will love waking up next to each other and y’all souls been searching for each other and you had found them and they had found you.

Pile 3: You and your partner are going to be more than friends. I think you two are going to confess your feelings for each other. I felt that’s part of your destiny with them, you two will have private dates and I think that they’ll make a confession to you that they like you and vice versa. This pile is similar to pile 1 but some of you are having a boy, so you two will be pregnant together. 🤰🏾I think that you two will be traveling together in Harlem, you two will be arguing about your situations, the both of you have to compromise with each other. Understand each other's feelings please. I felt that the both of you will be like the black power and probably be part of a movement like black lives matters. So both of you are probably part of the black culture. I feel like you or them want someone to talk to. Because the two of you have been lonely, sad and depressed lately. Send each other sweet text messages and maybe their love language is words of affirmation. I think that most of you are twin girls. Witches that’s good. I believe these girls will be light-workers or you two are light-workers healing ❤️‍🩹 wounds. Oh by the way you two will be triggering each other. I felt that some of you are nerdy or they are nerdy. I believe that you and your partner would love making each other laugh. If you or them or the both of you are gonna have unsupportive friends, I believe that’s a part of your destiny with them to realize that you too have unsupportive friends that don't support you or them. (Which is unfair in my opinion). Anyways, I don't know if you or them were a prostitute and they did some serious stuff while they were struggling or they were gonna sign some bad deals they might go into prostitution. That can be you! Look for my advice, please always double check what deals you make. Don’t sell out!. Oh yeah two will trigger each other, because of the past mistakes and these friends will trigger you guys too. Nunya haha 😂 it won’t be nobody's business anymore what the two of you do, even in private nobody won’t know crap. If an ex friend or girlfriend or whoever is trying to text them or you, two of you will say “NUNYA”. So fuck yeah good for y’all. I sense that some of you might be your high vibe soulmate, for some of you. But most of you believe that this is your true love ❤️, in this life. You two will grow old together, this reminds me of pile 1 very similar. You two have to deal with some karmic patterns, you'll have to get out of that comfort zone, all these past life fevers, you two will overcome it. I believe that your partner is very controlling and very picky as hell and vice versa. I understand in a sense I’m picky myself, but they like things their way, only their way. Please check them on that. I feel that you two have a Disney love story, like this very much like a fairytale story. You two will have your own love story. I think that you and some of y’all partners are out of this country, they don’t live here in America. For some of you, but most of you have a different background from you, they are probably religious. You two will have a interracial marriage, again because you two come from different backgrounds. I don’t know if some of y’all parents or their parents won’t approve to this marriage, but who gives a shit, love is love. Be happy 😃 you two. I feel that you and your partner love having debates with each other, having deep talks about anything.. which I love! So hell yeah! Both of you love having playful arguments and changing up subjects, I sense that the two of you are some babblers and so what, making fun of each other and just having a good time. Both of you love talking to each other, you guys have incredible conversations and chemistry. Very much of the preachy couples is what I’m sensing. There be times that when you two have debate it can get very passionate that leads into arguments and then some make up sex… 💋💋🤤yummy! You’ll be sorry because you said some things and they will be too. Then go straight into the bedroom, start fucking your brains out each other. Which I love.

Extra Information: You two won’t let these arguments get between you guys. You’ll never give up on them and they’ll never give up on you. I don’t know if you or your partner got bipolar disorder, you two will go through a lot together, especially through the rough times, I won’t go any deeper than this but maybe you or your partner got abused as a child or adult. Either way I’m sorry but it messed up your partner's mind or you. I can hear them crying saying “Nobody cares or nobody gets it.” I’m so sorry 😢 that shit brings tears to my eyes 👀. Both of you felt unrequited love by people who never returned back to you, maybe one of you will try to make up with your family. But some of you will feel like you made a mistake by trusting your family. So again in this life you won’t be trusting your family ever again. I feel like that’s part of your mission with them. A lot of clarity will happen for the both of you, so lifted up your veil and you’ll see the truth about your family or them. It’s going to trigger the fuck out of you and them. A lot of misinformation, you two or them will have a WTF moment, what the fuck just happened here. Because someone is going to be telling lies or either you or them or someone will be bragging on social media and running off with the mouth 👄. Be careful and always be honest with your partner no matter what. Again!! Oh my gosh, you’ll be marrying your husband soon! This is part of your destiny with them in your lifetime, you’ll have a happy ending with them. This might be your Boss daddy for some of you, they wear a suit and tie, probably a CEO of their own company, which is a good thing ladies and fellas. Yes you’ll have a happy ending with them and vice versa. This why you not going to fuck with your family anymore biological family, is because you meant to make your own family with them. Have your own kids and a husband. What does family mean to you? When you start to make your own family, you’ll realize this were you belong and feel loved 🥰 no matter what by them and your kids.

Pile 4: I feel like some of you might spend time in your husband's hometown in Harlem or traveling. Spend your anniversary with them down there. But I feel like most of you will be spoiled, I mean like really bratty. Oh in a sexual way you can be Daddy’s little girl or being that Diva. I think that they are BDSM. Some of you might be detached because I don’t know if this cougar old lady is going to interrupt your relationship. Or they had bad intentions with your partner. They might have had an entanglement with this old lady. Which sucks. But I believe that you two will become more preachy about black people or delve into black culture, studying it and learning about your culture. That’s you and your partner's destiny. You’re not delusional at all. This is your FS and vice versa, I think that denying this connection makes you feel like you don’t deserve this type of connection or love. But sweetheart you do because it meant to happen for you and your partner. This is your business soulmate, maybe that’s why you or them think that oh it’s not meant to be romantic but it is. But it is destiny for you and them to work together, collaborate and build a company together. I do feel like they will fight for you, both of you gotta make the effort. See! Sacrifice love, I think that one day you two will just say fuck it! Let’s do this and so they’ll fight for you and vice versa because you two have been through hell together even as business. I feel like you or them knows some secrets about Hollywood, so basically the two of you will start up a business together, some of you are musicians or they are. Directors or actors or actresses. They will be scrolling down through your Instagram page and vice versa, they are very opinionated people and same thing with you. I won’t say the two of you are judgmental but very opinionated people. So what! You or them have sexy eyes 👀 , I heard dreamy people have dreamy eyes. I felt that you two arguing for the first time you’ll be nervous for the first time with them. So the first argument with you two will be very scary 😦 or nervous 😬 as shit. Everything is all going good and then bam 💥 disagreements. So you will shoot at your shot at them. Because you two will trigger each other. Your Destiny in this lifetime with your partner, so many people will be cock blocking you guys, even friends and family. The reason why I said family is because karmic family. Some of you have karmic with families this is part of your destiny, learn the lesson you need to learned from them and then move on. I do feel like some of you will have family interrupted your relationship with your partner, a lot of you have friends who will cock block in the relationship always stick their nose into y’all business all wanna be up in your partner. I sense that this is a codependent relationship here, you two just wanna be alone but too much inference here. Yeah! I was right friends a lot of you is friends because I see just friends, so it will be buddies maybe some exes involved, I feel that some of you are friends with your exes or that can be your partner too. Just friends with an ex, my advice to you on that, don’t do that at all that’s why they are an ex for a reason!. Yeah these buddies will be jealous of y’all relationship. Same thing for some of you these family will be jealous because you are giving your time to your partner and not to them. SMFH! 😠😤. I felt that a lot of you is having a boss daddy, very CEO partner or some of you already have a CEO partner, they wear a suit and tie and very handsome they are. Some of you might meet your partner online, or start dating them online. You two will have a happy ending with them because you meant to relocated somewhere else, end those cycles with other people and focus on marriages. This part of your destiny to make your own family with your partner. You are going to cut off all ties with them, set the boundaries, I can hear them say “They rather respect the boundaries or they can bounce that ass.” Woah 😳, I told you that this is your dominant.

Extra Information: I sense that a lot of you have anger issues, because all these wounds from family and vice versa with them. Some of you got bullied from school, I felt the same way with your partner as well. I feel like they have anger issues, especially with family with them and these exes. I believe someone stole from them, maybe an ex ex-girlfriend or a friend stole from them like their money and they have trust issues and vice versa. They dealt with flip flops ass people and in this life you two will deal with fake ass people that’s part of the destiny. They are still searching for themselves because they’re afraid of losing themselves again to these people and afraid to give up their heart ❤️. You or them have lost love or they are still in that stage of giving up on love or they feel like they don’t deserve love in their life and I feel that for a lot of you. But you do deserve it and so does your partner as well. 🤪😜I feel that both of you love pleasuring your own self. Masturbate, getting so creamy for them and they love touching themselves watching you. I felt like some of y’all partners are bisexual or that can be you too. Doesn’t take away that he ain’t dominant because they are, or I felt that a lot of you that are bisexual yourself, they don’t mind that more people in the bedroom. As long as they see you satisfied then they are happy. Yass!! Again MAKE OUR OWN FAMILY! Damn! Meant to make a family with them, this is your husband and you two are cut off these biological parents of yours. No more of those. Maybe you or them wear evil eye 🧿 around your neck or maybe wear a bracelet. You two are protected, your spirit guides telling you are on the right path, focus on you and vice versa. Both of your spirit guides are watching over you and them because this dark feminine spirit isn’t right at all, they have bad intentions and energy so be careful with this dark feminine whoever she is or family. Oh yeah forgot to mention that you or them is going to have a promotion, I feel that with you because your partner is a CEO of their company. A lot of you are going to make your own business with them, creating new opportunities for people and creating new ideas 💡. They are going to be in love with you, they will introduce you to their family, and friends. I do feel like that for some of them they are good with their family members and friends but a lot of them aren't good with their families and friends because they stole from them.

Pile 5: You’ll have an unbreakable bond with your partner, nobody can touch you two. You guys are the firecrackers 🧨 the second someone tries to touch you two, oh yeah shit is about to go down. I believe that this is your star family, you two came from the same stars ⭐️. I also believe that you two are a soul family as well. For a lot of you this is your divine soulmate, they love being around you, compliment you etc. For some of you I think that your partner is older than you, or again you might have to deal with some older man who is a manipulative ass person. I sense that your partner is gonna tell you that “I once loved her”. So you won’t be worrying about the past coming back to you guys, they’ll accept the past for what it is and vice versa. I felt that they’ll love taking bubble bathe with you, or they would do something romantic 🥰 with you and if you having a bad day they’ll draw you a bathe nice cozy bubble 🫧 bathe. So you can relax and vice versa. Again this is the past, you or them had entanglement with this old lady or they are in one with this old lady right now. I feel like you shouldn’t judge them. That’s part of their destiny as well, so they can see what type of person this lady is to them. A lot of you and your partner already dealt with this type of situation before they were probably married to an old lady once before they got divorced by them. She was manipulated and abusive to them. I ain’t going any further with that situation let them tell you about it. Or some of you might have some entanglement issues y’all self. Anyways I believe your person lived down in New Orleans or they might take you down there and show you around their hometown and neighborhood where they used to live. In the beginning stage with you two, I feel like it will be Lust at first sight as in where you’ll be attracted to them and they’ll be attracted to you off the back. You’ll love your partner's energy, you’ll love being around them and their energy. I heard they are full of light. You or them might have exposed this cougar on social media or they had already been exposed already. Or I sense that you two will come out in the public eye and say you two are in a relationship. It will be you two in this relationship together, arguments, disagreements and etc. it will be y’all two together fighting. I don’t see inference with this pile. You are going to see through their stupidity and arrogance and vice versa. I believe that they’ll try to impress you with their stupidity. I don't know why but I believe so. Once you two call out each other’s bullshit, you’ll start to see yourself maturing, accepting the reality of what you did wrong to them and vice versa. Both of you dealt with this situation before. Karmic families, who were not involved in this fight. They were some trickster for some of you and they gave you false ass promises they didn’t keep and vice versa. You felt misunderstood, not being heard or felt like an outcast with your own family and it’s a bit similar to pile 4. But you two will ride it out together, I’m also getting that karmic family on your partner's side the most. Because it seems like both of you have been tricked or they were tricked into believing that this family or person was the one for them, I told that cougar lady! She tricked them into believing that they were the one for them and they weren’t. They had lose a lot of money 💴. I feel that. Two of you just want a new beginning and move in from the past. But you can’t not until you two learn the lesson you need to learn from these friends and families in this life. That’s part of y’all destiny together. This is your past life soulmate, so if you guys wanna read about what happened in your past life with them you should check it out. Anyways for some of you I believe this is your karmic soulmate as well. I won’t sugarcoat things. You meant to marry your karmic partner. A lot of you this is your past life soulmate, maybe your twin flame 🔥 or your high vibe soulmate. Anyways it is part of your destiny to reconcile with them again in this life.

Extra Information: Give you that love, secure and safety with them. I feel that they feel misunderstood too by their family. You meant to solve this issue with them, even if you two have a disagreement about your situations, you two will solve these issues by making amends and discussing the issues right then and there. I feel that you are younger than them or they are younger than you. But I sense that you are younger than them. I was right!!! Aah-HA! If you feel like your partner is being fake or imposter then if you spot it then you got it. But I also got a sense that you two mirror the fuck out of each other, you two will trigger each other. I was right, yeah don’t trust their family. They have ill intentions, they would make them feel bad or sick because they are some drama queens. OH MY GOSH!! Haha 😂 Woah 🤯 intense, intense and intense! Yeah their family will be starting the online drama, they are some clout chasers bro! Your partner doesn’t feel smart enough at all, I think this ex or this fucking Family member made them feel very unintelligent. So they self-doubt themselves a lot, or vice versa. Maybe you don’t feel smart enough because you’ve been bullied by a teacher or a student or at a job where your boss made fun of you for your intelligence. My advice to those people who you and your partner feel that way is …. FUCK THEM! FUCK THEM ALL!! Oh yeah I’m getting it now, your partner got rob by their own family and they would smile in your partner face and then rob them for their money 💰. What a bastard they are. But if they didn’t go through with it before they went through with it right now. And vice versa with you. Not with family but with people. You two have a strong ass chemistry ⚛️. A lot of you are very passionate with your partner and same thing with them. I heard your partner they are too nice, they are sweetheart, I won’t say weak yuck 🤢 I disliked that word but I would say they have a beautiful heart ❤️. They would still take care of the people who had hurt them and include yourself as well. Y’all love for y’all families and people is deep. A lot of disloyal friends and bosses ain’t shit. You aren’t delusional about your partner, this is them right there. Confirmation whoever you guys are thinking about or feeling about this is them for you. Vice versa. You ain’t delusional at all. It’s meant to be with your person, forbidden love ❤️ I think that some of their families won’t let you guys be together but they can’t stop destiny at all. This is a prophecy between you and your partner no matter what. You’ll have a spiritual marriage with them, it’s going to be very like a dream come true, like a fairy tale. You two will retell your stories to the world and I believe they’ll make movies, books and shows about you two together. A true love story. Oh yeah again if you two dealt with con-artists before they were already gone if you aren’t then you are dealing with them now. Both of you will mature together as y’all own family. Activate each other’s spirituality. Some of you are entertainers and I mean entertainers in the bedroom too. Yass! Anyways you two will hook up in the bathrooms having quickies sex everywhere🥰😍Woo is it hot in here or is it just me. Dang! I was right !! Hahaha 🤣 a lot of you this is your high vibe soulmate but some of you this is your karmic soulmate. You two are truly connected to each other and vibrate on each other’s souls. Again I was right. You two are meant to be together even as karmic soulmates y’all meant to be together. You’ll have your happiness with them and they will have their finally! Good luck 🍀 for the two of you and y’all destiny. Remember this destiny no matter what happens it meant to happen.

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[the-healing-mindset]

Remember, it's okay if you have to distance yourself from the internet from time to time. Stuff on here can be extremely overwhelming, even the things that are meant to be good for us. If you find yourself being triggered by certain content, then it is especially important to find ways to block that content out either by unfollowing certain media sources or by using built-in features that limit what you may be exposed to. No, this does not mean that you are "weak" or that you need to "toughen up". It just means that you are looking to take better care of your mental health, and that is more important than any rude or condescending comments that you may receive.

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[enigmatic-mystery-777]

When Given Safety

You're training with Daniel on a planet in all things archaeological while your team is training with his in combat. All is going well, except for the pesky major crush you've developed for him. It takes going through a battle with five Jaffa who crash landed on the site to learn that he has a crush on you, too.

Taglist: @cuillere @stargaterevival @frostysfrenzy @riverageleis @daydreampending @geekygumiho @jgem87

#terr's fics #stargate sg1 #one-shot #technically a November challenge #but not really #stargate sg1 au #daniel jackson #daniel jackson x reader #romance #fluff #action #emotional triggers #4.9k word count

[bunniibpd]

I overthink EVERYTHING

I took a little break

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[advicebymeforyou-blog]

Those who are benefiting from your past trauma will never encourage you to heal. Heal anyway.

#healed #life coaching #life #lifelessons #healing #self awareness #self healing #brokenness #emotional triggers #trauma #christian motivation #fyp

[mbti-notes]

Anon wrote: Hi !I'm a 25 yo F INFJ. I want to ask about something that happened to me recently. In january a highschool classmate wanted to prepare a reunion. Only the thought of going made me anxious (so I didn't). I can't say that my experience was bad but I didn't really get along with them and I even accepted sillently their bad jokes about me. There were multiple groups with different types of mean behaviour.

After highschool I felt like I made progress with people and I learned how to interact better, I made a few friends in University and I felt that I changed a lot. But only the thought of going back made me feel again like my 15-18 yo self who was afraid to hear another mean thing and was trying not to make eye contact with them so she won't go home and cry.

Today another thing happened, I'm taking classes to improve my english and someone with the same name as a guy who was saying mean things to me back then appeared. I became anxious instantly, I felt weak. He had his camera turned off so I couldn't tell if it was him or not so I was very conscious about him. I felt small and I was thinking "is there anything he could make a mean joke off?". He dispised me as a person, my face, anything really. He is 100% ESXP from everything I know about him.

How can I address what I feel/this situation and how can I stay in my current mentality (not retracting to my younger self)? From what I know it's a common behaviour when it comes to past trauma, even if I don't know if I should call it like this.

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What you are describing is called regression, which generally means reverting to a less mature version of yourself. There are different kinds of regression. Your emotional regression was triggered by unresolved past pain.

The key word is "unresolved". It's easy to believe anything (e.g. that you've made great progress) as long as you ignore the counter-evidence that would prove otherwise. When people become a bit overconfident about their progress in personal growth, I usually joke that they should spend a month living in close quarters with their most disliked family members to prove it. Formative and intimate relationships are breeding grounds for unresolved pain. Why? Because they occur during a time in life when you don't yet have the tools to understand pain and cope with it well.

Don't fret, regression doesn't mean you've lost your progress or that your progress was illusory. Rather, regression means your progress is being held back by something you aren't willing to confront. Emotional triggers exist in part to remind you of things you didn't handle well in the past. You will keep getting triggered until you've learned the knowledge/skills necessary to handle that sort of situation well. To be emotionally triggered is an opportunity for you to revisit your past pain and resolve whatever issue you couldn't at the time. However, most people react to being emotionally triggered by automatically replaying or repeating the mistakes of the past, which means the emotional trigger stays in place and even increases in intensity each time.

Regression is a defense mechanism, a primitive method of coping with stress, pain, or trauma. When you get emotionally triggered, the old emotions arise and this fools your brain into thinking that you're back in the same experience, when the trigger first formed, which urges you to behave the same way as you did back then. It's basically like getting transported back in time. The less self-awareness you have, the more serious the regression tends to be, because you can't see just how immature your behavior has suddenly become.

To overcome regression:

(1) Awareness: Improve your emotional intelligence so that you are aware of being emotionally triggered. Understand the logic of your emotional triggers by noting what kind of situations trigger you and linking them back to past stress, pain, or trauma.

(2) Detection: Observe the patterns of your regressive behavior. How do they begin? What do they look like? How do they end? How often do they appear? This information should help you detect regressive behavior earlier so that you can intervene and snap back to your senses sooner.

(3) Reflection: Identify the original source of the emotional trigger. Visualize the stressful situation, not from the viewpoint of your past self, but from the viewpoint of your more mature current self. How does your perspective of the situation change when you view it from the outside rather than the inside? E.g. How does it feel to witness a child being bullied rather than being the child bullied? This should help you get a more objective view of the situation. Objectivity helps disarm negative emotions by getting a healthy distance from them.

(4) Change the Narrative: Instead of automatically reacting to the negative emotions the same way you did before (as a child), use the tools that you currently have at your disposal to cope in a more mature way. Ask yourself: How should an adult handle this situation? E.g. Can you work through the negative emotions with a healthier strategy such as: breathing, mindfulness, assertiveness, or communication? If you still haven't learned healthier methods of coping, now is the time.

(5) Work Toward Closure: Every time you get emotionally triggered, practice using your healthier coping strategy. This gradually decreases the intensity of the emotions and you won't be as easily triggered over time.

Whether the emotional trigger eventually disappears or not isn't the main point. The main point is you are applying all the useful tools you've learned throughout life. By reinforcing these positive lessons, your self-esteem and self-confidence will improve. This is how one maintains and builds upon each step of personal growth.

#infj #regression #defense mechanisms #past #closure #emotional triggers #emotional intelligence #maturity #growth #development #ask

[waitingformysandman]

Warnings: swearing, oral sex,ALWAYS PRACTICE SAFE SEX IN REAL LIFE!

MINORS DNI YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CONTENT YOU READ.

Dark!Morpheus x F/Reader

Part 4

Ok so far this is the longest chapter. Also the most sexually detailed soooooo... Hahaha. Sorry not sorry. Enjoy.

I quickly led Morpheus through the hallway to my bedroom. I was truly psychotic. Already bringing home a random stranger even though I'm not a one night stand type of girl. I'm insane. I was right though. Even just hearing him moan was worth the possibility of death.

When we got to my room he didn't even bother to look around. He picked me up by the back of my thighs and I wrapped my legs around his waist. He was hard again already. Delicious.

"This won't be quick. It's going to last a while, and you will endure every second of it and you will not come until I tell you."

Holy fuck. That was hot. I don't know if I could do this. I have terrible self control when it comes to this. I can try but...what's the worse that can happen? So I nodded my head.

"I'll do anything you want, Morpheus."

He smiled at me. There was a gleam of something in his eyes. It wasn't quite wicked but it definitely wasn't soft. He put his lips almost directly against my ear and whispered,

"I'm going to absolutely wreck you."

If I hadn't promised I wouldn't cum I swear I would have right there. I could feel myself dripping down my legs and he could feel it too.

"You're absolutely soaked for me and we haven't even started yet."

He set me on the bed and I scooted up so my head was against the pillows at the top of the bed. He crawled onto the bed and settled himself in between my open legs, nipping and licking the insides of my thighs.

When he got to my core, he told me to look at him. So I did. He licked all the way from the bottom to the top of my slit and swirled his tongue around my clit a few times without breaking eye contact once.

"Morpheus, fuck!"

He groaned, and the vibrations nearly threw me over the edge.

"Say my name again." He all but growled into me, burying his nose into my clit.

"Morpheus! Please! Fuck!"

"Please what?"

"Let me cum! Let me cum all over your face! I can't hold it anymore!"

He stopped what he was doing for a second, unfortunately. He looked like he was thinking about it. He then said,

"No. You're going to keep taking it until I'm satisfied."

And then he smirked. The mother fucker smirked!

He moved his face back down to my core and sucked hard on my clit and circled his tongue around it making me scream.

"You're making such nice noises for me. Am I making you feel good?"

I couldn't speak anymore. I was getting fucked out. I hadn't even cum yet and I was dying. I was right. He was a god in bed. Ha. I had good judgment of that at least.

Suddenly he got on his knees. He kissed up my stomach, to my nipples giving each one a small tug with his teeth making each peak more than they already were, and up to my neck when he finally reached my lips making me taste myself on his mouth.

"God. Look at this mess I've turned you into."

He pecked my lips one more time and whispered in my ear that it would only get worse.

He sat up on his knees and positioned his cock at the entrance of my aching pussy.

"Beg for it."

That snapped me out of it. At least a little bit.

"What?" I asked.

"If you want to cum, scream my name until you can't anymore and beg for my cock."

My mouth dropped open a bit. I wasn't expecting that. Nope. Nope nope. His eyes went completely black.

"Did you hear me? Beg for it or I'll take care of you like I did Alex!" He asked and semi lightly smacked my outer thigh. Not enough to hurt but enough to sting a little. But him bringing up Alex scared me. I pushed him back a bit with my foot.

"Morpheus, what did you do to Alex?"

His eyes went back to the beautiful blue that they were before.

"It doesn't matter Y/N. He won't bother you anymore."

I was pissed at that comment.

"Of course it matters Morpheus! You just threatened to do to me what you did to Alex and I don't even know what you did to him because you won't tell me! Obviously it's something really bad otherwise you wouldn't have a problem telling me!"

He looked away from me for a second. His hard on completely gone now. He sat back on his heels. Looked me dead in the eyes and there was a flash of a smile. So quick and small you wouldn't have been able to tell it was there if you weren't focused so much on his face.

"I killed him, for you. I've been watching you for awhile now."

@pinksirensong @igotanidea

#stuck in a fishbowl #the sandman netflix #the sandman #sandman netflix #sandman meme #morpheus smut #dc comics #deactivate safe mode #disable safe mode #dream of the endless #fanfictiot #fanfiction #go out from safe mode #morpheus x reader #morpheus #emotional triggers #self insert #sandman smut

[the-cosmic-faustian-starkiller]

Something that is rarely given attention when talking about healing is how deep your trust issues from traumas can be, like yeah I'm all better now and I'm ready to love and I love myself and I want to live again, I've always known I'm more than good enough and that I can give love and that I do deserve love, but I can't help but always feel like there's something going on behind my back that I don't know about that will eventually hurt me and lead me to being manipulated or abused, I want to tell myself that it's my brain warning me from a pattern out of my control, but it's never that easy, and I realise that it can get heavy on a future partner to ask them to bear with the paranoia and to always communicate with you, especially when you unconsciously start to interpret their kindness as them trying to fight their guilt, but when you've let your guard down so many times over the span of a few years only to be damaged the same you can't help but crave to know the truth and to not be treated as if you're too stupid to see what lies you've been told.

#trauma #triggers #emotional trauma #emotional triggers #trust issues #healing #trauma healing #healing from abuse #healing from trauma #abandonment #abandonment issues #hope #communication

[coffeecat1983]

Mario Bros: Thanks for Everything prequel preview.

Yes, I'm still on this idea. Our scene is after Tony collapses and tests are run, a visit to the doctor to find out the results…

The air in the office was suffocating, the walls felt as though they were closing in as Tony stared at the paper in his hands. Beside him, his twin sat with his back hunched, shoulders tight as his fists rested on his knees. "Whadda ya mean, 'you can't do anything'?" Arthur's voice was low with anger. The Oncologist had dealt with angry family members before, but none held the fury that was pouring off of the man across from him. Gathering himself, he motioned to the paper that held the test results. "As I said, it's moved incredibly fast and wrapped down the spinal column. There's no way to surgically remove it, and at this point radiation therapy would only serve to make what life Tony has left miserable. At most we can provide treatments for any pain or discomfort, but beyond that…" he motioned outward, a sign of helplessness. "There's gotta be-" "Art…" the voice was soft but pulled Arthur back instantly. Tony stuffed the paper in his jacket pocket. "I just wanna go home, please." he finished. Giving in, Arthur stood along with him and with an agreement to call the doctor should things change, the twins left. The drive home was quiet, the Lincoln rumbling its low purr as they pulled up in front of the apartment building. Turning off the ignition, Arthur didn't move. Unbuckling, Tony lightly touched his shoulder. "I'm goin' in." "Yeah. Be up in a bit." Arthur muttered. He watched his older brother go inside. Once Tony was out of sight, Arthur broke. His chest heaved as he repeatedly and violently slammed his fists into the edges of the steering wheel, hot tears burning his eyes. The tension in his body burst out as he let out an agonized scream before doubling over, hands clasped over his mouth as he shook with screaming sobs.

#fanfic #luigi #mario #mario movie #super mario bros #uncle tony #uncle arthur #cancer #emotional triggers #medical tw

[spiritualseeker777]

#spiritual awakening #spiritual awareness #spirituality #emotional triggers #emotions #self expression #wisdom

[unwelcome-ozian]

#trauma responses #emotional triggers #calming down

[wayti-blog]

Triggers are like little psychic explosions that crash through avoidance and bring the dissociated, avoided trauma suddenly, unexpectedly, back into consciousness.

Carolyn Spring

#triggers #emotional triggers #inner work #inner world #shadow work #trauma #avoidance #dissociation #personality #character #feeling #thinking #awareness #consciousness #know thyself #self mastery #psychology #carolyn spring

[wordsofwisdomandsoul]

#triggers #emotional triggers #feeling stuck #quotes #words #life lessons #wisdom #inspirational words #growth #healing #self knowledge